₦airaland Forum

Akuruoulo:
But u did generalize on men aspect, and on the evil side.
That's what I said earlier that women don't have men at heart.
U generalized on behalf of men on the evil side but u are stopping me from generalizing on the good side.
Don't women abuse men ?

I didn't mean it as a generalization, if I did, all women would probably be feminists.

Akuruoulo:
Hahaha u are a true woman.
Women itself is the heaviest burden a man can shoulder

I counter you on that, no woman is a burden. And if you think they are, it's best to not marry or father children with one.

mariahAngel:

Lol. See man wey woman open eyes marry.

Akuruoulo:
Yes prenups are pushed by Redpillers.
I only have to do the fatherly duty or u get me my kids.
Even in the Soo called prenuptial agreement men still have more load to shield

It's a win win if you ask me.

Davidonkonsults:
Ozuo. You no get. We go find one slowpoke for you and your imaginary dead children. Shameless hag on menostop. Jobless evening newspaper. I know you have nothing doing tonight. We de here. Greet your dead cucumber.

Shior.

Cover yourself with your wife wrapper, you need am.

Husband indeed.

Women dey marry o. Them go call husband, ozuo too go comot say e be husband.

Last post from me, hail madam for me, may God deliver her.

Akuruoulo:
Men have been fighting for women well being since the creation of the world , and the only thing men gets in return is hypes of blame.

E no easy for men

Don't generalize for all men. The men who beat their wives and abuse their daughters, are they also fighting for women's well being?

Akuruoulo:
Very selfish dear.
They don't keep quarter of those rules they set there.
If they are serious they should fit property share in divorce, bride price payment, house help payment etc let's see the true EQUALITY

That's why I said it differs from location to location.

Even in marriages, I've seen where bills and chores are shared equally.

That's what prenups are for, mostly in western countries sha.

Akuruoulo:
Now u shifted all blames on men, because women are saints ; right ?

I never called women saints. But will someone who is treated we'll see herself as being oppressed?

When we talk feminism, you'll discover there are some who the concept is even strange to.

Why?

They are so loved by their husband and comfortable in their lane that it is not even an option.

If you look at women who are feminists, there are stories or experiences that brought them where they are.

Davidonkonsults:
Na lie. You no get. Shameless hag on menostop.

Shift jor.

Dey fool yourself online.

Since you no get work, dey argue with woman online like teenager, go through my posts, you fit even stumble on my family picture.

Ozuo.

Na your type woman dey show pepper, as you no get sense.

Greet your wife for me o, tell her the Lord is her strength.

Akuruoulo:
Matured gesture there
But do you know that FEMINISM is the on putting dirt on the MARRIAGE institute.
Instead of gender equity they want gender equality that will put them at the receiving end

The reason Feminism is thriving is cause many men abuser their God given role and many men saw women as subjects, rather than partners.

Davidonkonsults:
Relax. One toy boy go reason you las las. To marry your breed I better buy ekuke.

Odenson.

I dey my husband house. And you no fit stand where my husband dey in all aspects, especially psychologically.

I pity woman wey dey call you husband.

She never see husband marry.

Sha grow up to your family man responsibility.

Dey behave like small boy for Nairaland with IQ wey no fit flash your same network.

Radarada.

Akuruoulo:
DEAR I BELIEVE MEN AND WOMEN ARE EQUAL IN THEIR OWN SEPARATE WAYS.
WOMEN ARE SUPERIOR IN MOST ASPECTS OF LIFE WHILE MEN ARE SUPERIOR SOME OTHER ASPECTS.
DO YOU KNOW WHY I SAID FEMINISTS ARE SELFISH ?

I'd sha like you to understand that feminism as I listed in my previous comment, isn't selfish.

Rubbiish:
How come u are the only one with a positive review on this hygeia? So many negative reviews about them on this thread!

Maybe it's the hospital I use sha. But I doubt if that's the only reason.

Cause their customer service is also top notch, especially if my hospital doesn't have a drug that was prescribed.

Davidonkonsults:
Ah. I'm a man with full family. You're the one crying like a bush baby for a man in old age. Menopausal hag.

So I'm the woman without a full family abi?

How family man go dey reason like 21 year old boy?

Who see you say na man you be call you husband sef?

Women dey see nonsense marry o.

Akuruoulo:
BECAUSE feminists forgot they were feminists and started leeching on their equals wealth.
I catch u there. Na why u no wan put hand

My dear, na Christian I be, and I fear God.

Feminism is a human concept but you see Marriage, na God institute am. I no dey argue am o.

Make I leave am for people wey know pass me or I keep quiet.

Akuruoulo:
Still meaning we have no real feminists here because all of them here don't do any of these mentioned in a relationship.
I said it ?

Do real FEMINISTS also leech on husband's wealth when divorce sets in ?

That's why I said I don't know what is practiced here.

When it comes to the marriage contract, I draw a line.

I'm not going to put mouth into an institution that was ordained by God.

Abeg. My hand no dey.

JohnSin97:
Lola is a woman who added value to her husband she wasn't really an evening newspaper, there are some women today that even at 50 they won't have issues landing a responsible man, because they have a combination of brains, good looks and will add value to a man.....issue is that most women both young and old today are entitled liabilities, only good at being consumers.

So it is not to say older single women aren't marriageable, abi?

Akuruoulo:
I respect ur wish but I can't do all that unless u promise to do the same on Redpillers.
Game ?

Is the Redpill a known and recognized concept like Feminism?

Akuruoulo:
Let me just put it this way.
Selfishness is what bond all FEMINISTS together.
They might have DIFFERENT concept as u said

I very much doubt it.

Because a feminist is a self sufficient and self assured woman, especially when it comes to things that were previously thought of as responsibilities of men.

A real feminist pays her bills, even in relationships.

A real feminist will do stuff herself and not wait for a man to do it for her.

A real feminist is not a leech. Living off a man and claiming feminism.

A real Feminist sees a man as her equal, walking shoulder to shoulder,making decisions together as equals.

These are some characteristics I've seen in people who practice true feminism.

If a man offers to pay a bill, they'll politely decline.

Akuruoulo:
U are very funny.
Location and those listed can't give a firm prove

Okay, for instance, I'd like you to say Some Nigerian women" then list their age bracket and their belief of what feminism is.

Akuruoulo:
Do u believe Redpillers mean no harm to women?

No.

I think they are full of hate for women as well. The vile things they have to say about women is sickening.

Akuruoulo:
I want me to give you counts ?

Not counts, just location, demographic. Something like that.

Akuruoulo:
I have gone wild and home to know about them to the extent I go banned on quota.
If FEMINISM is good u would have been one of them

Well, I don't think Feminism is bad, like I said, it differs from region to region. Black people, especially Africans, believe the western feminism is too extreme for our part of the world, so they practice a kind of feminism known as "Womanism".

So Feminism differs from region to region but it's ideology is not based on hatred for menfolk.

Akuruoulo:
I understood ur point dear.
The really reason feminists was created isn't the same as they are practicing

Who are the "they"?

Akuruoulo:
There's is no way I will shift this goal post to make FEMINISM look good.
Mostly our own here
FEMINISTS are all selfish

Read about it first to educate yourself about what it is. I am not a feminist, but I understand the concept.

When you're done, holla let's discuss your findings.

Akuruoulo:
We rate based on practice and not mere reading.
I judge based on what I see

Nah. What we have here is probably adulterated and toxic but feminism at it is, is not a man hating concept.

Like I said, take your time to read on it, maybe in your leisure.

Akuruoulo:
WOW MAYBE THOSE CLAIMING FEMINISTS HERE IN NIGERIA ARE SIMPLY FOOLS BECAUSE THEY GO CONTRARY WITH WHAT U JUST SAID.
THANKS FOR ENLIGHTENING ME MORE

You should read about feminism. I don't know what they practice here in Nigeria but but my understanding of feminism from my study in undergrad is totally different from what most of you think it is.

There's even a type of feminism suited for Africans and Black people.

Akuruoulo:
But na FEMINISTS wan live long?

Let's discuss Feminism.

Please, what do you understand by feminism?

Cause I've researched feminism and there's no where it says to hate on men.

So maybe my understanding of the concept is different from yours, so please, kindly enlighten me.

Alexa, play "Do me I do you" by Psquare.

Egein:
Lol. This one don old finish.

You sef for old finish, say amen.

Davidonkonsults:
One spotted.

Looking at your profile, you even old pass me.

Rotfl.

Davidonkonsults:
One spotted.

More like one spotted.