₦airaland Forum

It's safe to say all the guys on front page are females.

Una no dey fit comot mouth for posts wey them direct to women.

Kennedy97:
Daily contraceptive

Do you need to take it daily to avoid p
Or just when you want f?

The days of the week marked on the tablet makes me think so.

Looks like a daily contraceptive to me.

The problem with women who use this is that they are at risk for STDs including HIV.

Is it worth all the stress?

Boniwhite:
says who? E be like say u think naija na america abi? When you marry go dey pick fight with your husband family anyhow&see what happens.talking trash like you got a GOLD Or platiumn vagina,

Go Marriage Registry go argue with them.

Fiscus105:
Nothing wrong for u abi, but it wrong for tuface.

Why can she leaves tuface house nah

What stop her to make her own money and stingy with it?

She is not a liability. She started out as am actress and I'm sure she has businesses that she's doing.

Now, of the marriage can't be salvaged, it's a good reason to leave.

Marriage should be between a man and his wife, anyone who can't take this housing marry abeg. Stay married to your family and have multiple children out of wedlock.

Fiscus105:
Several of her post on her Instagram handle. Update urself on it, you will under the type of wife she is

I hardly support man wenever issue of marriage problem crop up and still not supporting tuface on this too, but this woman with kind of posts since the issue came out show, she is type of me and my husband.

There's nothing wrong with being a "me and my husband woman". The marriage is between two people, not a community.

However, wisdom is needed to deal with family so they don't intrude or exert themselves on your union.

Fiscus105:
If they bcom leech is it right of wife to start fight every body even to the extent of other children his husband has with other women?

Go and read about tuface and his wife and comment on that and not on experience that happens to u

Better to comment on post rather than bringing ur ugly experience to post.

Meanwhile, wen God raise ur hands, its ur duty to help others.

I didn't see anywhere in her rant that she's fighting his other children. The way I understood her rant, she is defending the children. She only seemed to be against her husband sharing a roof with the woman he has kids with, and I believe she's within her right to be against it.

I am commenting based on the post and relating it with my experiences.

How is that wrong?

Fiscus105:
Hope you know ur own case is different from whats happening in tuface

A wife that his own blood brother disown wen having issue with her husband says alot about such wife


Try to follow every posts of those concerned on this issue and conclude logically

Them plenty like that. Once one sibling is successful, the rest will become a leech to the successful person.

In most cases, the successful person will try to establish his siblings, to no avail.

They just want to keep taking and taking and once the person no get again or e die, they will abandoned him and his family.

See, I done see things for this life.

As for the brother that denied his sister, check well, he is probably also a leech

FirmTR:
Law, even over his entire family?
Clap for yourself
Take it or leave it
She can never be Idibia than Tuface's brother

Go Marriage registry go talk this thing.

FirmTR:
And what do you mean by 'right' here?

The law recognises her over his brother when it comes to things that partain to him.

FirmTR:
That can never be true.

She can cease to his wife, but he can't cease to be his brother.

As long as she is his wife, she has more right over him than his brother. Know this and know peace.

sharpwriter:
Actually, we human beings like cliché and what works in our favor.

The correct quote is: "the blood of covenant is thicker than the water of the womb".

Lol.

This is a reason to avoid people who have children out of wedlock for your peace of mind.

According to this post and Okafor's law.

Nemesis0147:
and when/who will you run when issues pops out between you and your spouse or his family ?(not wishing you that,just saying).
Family first!

Issue that we can't settle on our own?

What are counsellors for?

You think your family won't be bias?

Humanoid01:
Technically, this means that the new bond sort of weakens the old bond and all attention goes to the new stronger bond. I think this is reasonable, but most people see it as an act of turning your back against your family.

Thank you for understanding this.

mrsteel:
U misconstrued my post seriously!!!!
A sibling can never be closer than spouse, because u build your life with spouse & not siblings. Blood is thicker than water was in the regard that Annie brother will come around when things cool of & these are just mere words said out of the heat of the moment. At a point in life u & siblings will leave each other, but u & your spouse will live together forever, how can your siblings be important than such a person? You seriously misconstrued my post!

My apologies then.

Humanoid01:
Why? Just a friendly question. I want to learn!

My husband and I are one the moment we said I do. No body else matters and family should now their place. The moment they gave me to him, they gave up the right over me to him.

So, let them go and live their lives and build their own family. We will communicate through calls, family meetings and visits.

That's all.

mrsteel:
Where did u get this putting siblings above your spouse from??
Who said u should put your siblings above your spouse?? How does that even relate with this? I quoted u saying blood is thicker than water is no shiit & never said u should put your siblings above your spouse! I never said that & would never say such, because u & your spouse are one! So putting your siblings above your spouse is like putting your siblings above u. Please learn to address discuss within its content.

That is what most of you do now. With the "blood is thicker than water" mantra, you out your siblings above your spouse.

Pimine:
Aswearugaaad

What she did was egregious, romanoff. It's unforgivable! By the way, there's no proof he had sex with said woman; he only spent the night. Baba may have been too tired to crash someplace else hence the need to stay the night.

Ask yourself can this matter be resolved online bayi? Tempers are now flaring and everything's spiraling out of control. Anyway, I'm not 2baba's advocate so...

It certainly can't be solved online but I've realized when people come online like this, na copy wey done over full dey cause am.

Bottled up unresolved issues.

They don't do it to get solution but to let out some steam

mrsteel:
Whether blood do u strong thing or not, family is life. The world is nothing without family.
U & your spouse are coming together to build a family, your kids will be blood.
Who is saying u should disrespect your spouse over your blood Everyone got a place in our lives, your parents has their place, that doesn't mean u should place your parents above your spouse, but u should give them the position they rightly deserve in your life! For u to make that kind of statement tells a lot about where u place your siblings!

I won't put my siblings above my spouse. There, I said it.

bukatyne:

Rotfl.

Promzy99:
I assume u r truly a female nd lemme drop dis piece wit u. D very day u say "yes I Do" to him, u r nt jst sayin it to him alone bt to everybdy who's part of his family. Take it or leave it. And if u eventually turn a man against his people, dat marriage wil neva knw peace. And if d man eventualy dies leavin u behind, hmm Dats d end

She didn't need to turn the man against his people, I guess he just needed his immediate peace of mind.

She was always taking the insults and curses from her husband's mum without saying a word to her husband, till he walked in on his mum cursing his wife and her family.

The man chose the peace of mind he'd love with for the rest of his life. Shey na una dey say family will never leave you?

Her story is that which I never wish on anyone.

Fiscus105:
So u leave the husband and back to ur father house

Reap where you never sow

Don't worry, experience go teach you say marriage no be like that.

Fiscus105:
If God design husband to be unbrella for his people and a self wife wants stop him.

Umbrella for the rest of his life?

My dad set up his two brothers on several occasions.

He brought one to Abuja, rented a shop for him for two years in UTC, Abuja, also rented an apartment for him for two years so he could stand on his own.

This uncle of mine would sit in the house and wouldn't do anything till the rents expired. My dad's still gave him money for another shop, he squandered it.

When my dad died, as he was crying this man was saying "his life was over, how will he survive"?

There's a limit to what you can do for who no wan useful to himself.

mrsteel:
This means u have no regard for your brothers & sisters for saying this! Blood is thicker than water is no shiiit! Do u know if they seriously warned her not to bring this on social media & she still went ahead to do it? His brother reacting this way only shows they are not happy with something she did & it is just a temporary thing!

Na because "blood" never do you strong thing before.

I value my siblings but I won't out then above my spouse. I won't disrespect my spouse over them.

Fiscus105:
I guess u also read that idibia brother has also disown her. That tells you the type of wife she is

I repeat ,she is "me and my husband type".

There is nothing wrong with being "me and my husband type" to a family who doesn't like you.
How long will you keep forcing relationship with people wey no like you?

Connected1:
It is.

Na so.

Fiscus105:
Money is depleting? And remind him for cos of his brother and even not to spend for his own kids from another mother, but she refuses to remind him from his money that is going from him to her own family members.

Can't his brothers stand on their own?
Abi na him born them?

How long will he need to keep supporting able bodied men?

Let me tell you something, I cut my sisters off financially cause after finishing school, they became relaxed. They refused to learn a skill to find something to do cause at the end of the month, money go enter their account.

I knew long term, I couldn't sustain that nonsense so I read them the riot act.

gnykelly:
Marriage paper don't mean much in Africa.

Rotfl.

Go Marriage registry go talk this thing.

Connected1:
Go and sit down.

There are upright people not people who support you whether you are doing evil or not.

I thought blood is thicker than water na.

Promzy99:
Thats exactly my point. How bahd is she, dat every family is against her? Lets be unbias nd analyse dis issue. If I shud read meanin 4rm her recent post whr shes accusin d broda for tryin 2 suck her husband dry, it means Annie is either being too proctective, jealous or greedy on her husbands wealth. Thats why she's havin problem with d husband's relationship with d baby mamas. She wants to be all alone with 2face. But hw possible cn dt be?

Bros, I pray you don't experience something like that or that none of your sister goes through it. It is very possible.

I have a friend whose husband's family hates her so much, they show it at every chance they get cause their son didn't marry who they like.

The day her husband heard his mother cursing his wife when she came for Omugwo, the next day, the husband sent his mum back to Lagos.

The next child they had, he didn't even call his mum to come, it was his wife's mum he called to come for Omugwo.

That my friend dey see shege for her inlaws hand. Even the youngest sister in law wey no old pass her own sister.

tamdun:
This isn't about money,for ur own blood to go against you...

Blood will go against you if it protects their own interests. We need to wake up from this blood is thicker than water shit.

Blood is usually shitty these days.