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I feel for actors and music artists in Nigeria.

No Royalties, songs and movies are downloaded for free.

Tombrown3:
And Beyonce had twins, Jenifer Lopez is 51, Nigeria women always having excuse for everything.

Look at the people you are comparing with Nigerian women.

Is the comparison even?

Women that have live in nannies, gyms at home with personal trainers, personal chefs and dieticians.

If una wives ask una for all these privileges, una fit afford am?

The time they are spos to wear latex, they won't wear.

Make I carry my big mouth dey go jare.

Trumping Trumpers are still hoping.

Jogunomi1:
11 months.


She's busy. No time for gym. I want something like drugs

See, forget drugs. It takes some women two years to bounce back. Give her time.

Her best option is gym, even dieting will make her have saggy skin after the stomach has gone down.

If you can afford to make things easy for her by getting her a house keeper that comes and goes, I'm sure there'll be time for her to go to the gym.

How old is your first child?

Pregnancy takes its toll on women and it changes their bodies in different ways.

You can learn to love her body as it is or encourage her to enroll in a gym. If she's a working woman, that maybe difficult unless you take off some responsibilities from her, e.g, help her with her morning chores so she can go to the gym or the evening cooking so she can go to two gym.

You both can enroll together and attend evening classes then eat fruits for dinner or salads.

Person that has not quenched the fire of Boko Haram burning in his trouser "North", na South South una dey reason.

Where is the source?

The People's president.

People waiting till 20th January 2021 won't like this.

Even side chic get NEPA and stand by gen.

There is nothing that can be done about a miscarriage.

In most cases, a pregnancy ends in miscarriage due to chromosomal defects from either the sperm or the egg. The body recognizes it's not viable and ends it.

Sadly, most women don't like to talk about it because of comments like the one below me.

A loss is a loss, either as miscarriage, still birth or dead child.

Let people heal whichever way they want to.

Talking about it helps, getting support groups that will encourage you psychologically also helps.

There a reason Meghan Merkle talked about her latest miscarriage in July, it is a part of her healing process.

The real men stay faithful and married.

Thank God for faithful marriages.

WhatsApp, you version Bible and my devotional.

God when?

Yes na.

The first woman you marry and divorce is the only woman God knows as your wife.

That's why in the Bible, if you divorce, you cannot remarry.

If the differences can be reconciled, it's best to go back to your spouse.

E better to sha look before you marry anyhow, especially if your goal na to make heaven.

This one has become obo o.

Reduce your salt intake.

Godoverevery:
mine buy me gift ooo..... but have dated few who never even bought me fruit or 10naria sweet.
imagine dating a lady and she comes to your house empty handed all time but when u visit her she be angry u didn't buy her anything while coming.

I totally understand.

nurain150:
E sure me say you be guy

I'm a woman o. And I'm married.

Godoverevery:
to be honest u have said it all but only few ladies reciprocate this gesture.....most just have this mind set of they just have to receive and not give.
They will say he is the man.

And I'm telling you that if a lady you're in a relationship can't buy you a gift especially if she's working or gainfully employed, that love selfish.

Na guy get this account.

The guy dey catch cruise.

Godoverevery:
what does she do back in return.... what is her own responsibilities and duties towards the man or isn't meant to be vice versa.

If you read my comment, you'll see I wasn't exactly gender specific. It goes both ways.

If you get money and you no fit see something wey go fit guy wey you love or something wey you go like him wear buy for am.

That love get K leg.

Love is an action word and it goes both ways. Na love God love humanity wey make am "GIVE" him only son.

Samakus:
. Point noted. We're saying the same thing then.

How are you? Hope you're having a good Sunday

I am o. Thank God.

Many of the wealthy people you see around failed several times.

Imagine if they gave up.

We must all keep pushing.

While you hustle, pray until your joy is full.

Samakus:
I don't gift things because I fear that another man will 'carry' her. Nah! I have never been scared of losing a lady. Not even when I was dating the winner of most beautiful girl on NYSC camp then.

I just feel that there's no loving without giving. I do it because it gives me joy to surprise her and make her feel loved. But she must not feel entitled. She must not. Immediately she does, I activate my stingy button. She can walk if she wants

You've gotten it all wrong. I'm not asking you to gift cause of fear of another man taking her.

I'm saying gifting is a way of showing love.

If you don't do it, someone else will. It's not enough to say you care or love someone. Your action can show it.

It can be taking her to have her nails done. It could be a treat to the Spa.

Little things that makes a girl gush and giggle in her spare time.

Samakus:
You made good points. I agree with you. As long as a lady doesn't pester me with demands, she go dey receive from me on a steady. I love giving at my discretion.

But you see when you feel entitled to it eh, no go see shishi

Nope, no lady should make demands of you or bill you. Unless she be Olosho.

But as a man, e good to show say you dey responsible.

Imagine to dey date woman, you no dey buy her gifts, you no dey spend one naira. Na your front another man wey Sabi go come carry her.

Godoverevery:
there no shame in it....why not come out straight and tell him.......those word responsibilities and duties always sound awkward to me ooo.

With the way Una always dey bash women, how them go come out straight?

They are afraid to tell you so you won't shame them.

Once a while, give them money to do hair, if you see a hair you like, buy it for them.

Show them that even though they earn enough to take care of themselves, they can also trust you to not be stingy.

Na one relationship teach me lesson like this o.

I no dey ask bros for money, not even 100 naira recharge card cause I dey work.


Even when bros need financial support, I dey give am steady till I discover say na scam bros dey scam me.

Brandonx:
How can a sensible lady agree to meet a client in his house? Except she's going to do runs. Someone you don't know from Adam you didn't set a meeting in a public place.

They didn't go to a guy's house. The guy picked them from the front of a police station after the girls alighted from an Uber. They entered the car of the guy, two other guys were inside the car.

The robbery took place in the car.

Take time to read.

Be an example to your kids in speech and action.

Don't be a liar and an unreliable person while you punish them for lying.

You obviously have a problem if you're unable to stay married after three tries.

Otedola's children are definitely a different breed from the children of other billionaires