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unibenstudent1:The open apology even makes it worse, if anything it's a display of poor judgment on your part. The most appropriate channel to apologise, of which is not even necessary is to have tag them on an open thread like the derailers paradise. That way the public won't know of what transpired in confidentiality. What you have succeeded in doing is letting everyone know they once exchanged private correspondence with you and a sound mind should have known such exposition is unwarranted and ought to have been classified. |
glimpse33:I don't think it has anything to do with age or maturity. It's just the way some of them tend to behave when they like someone, they think by antagonising you would spur your interest towards them and make you strike an affair. The lady prolly likes the guy and he shouldn't grant her audience at all anytime soon, she should be completely ignored except he's interested in her. Even so, he must turn the table on her by not giving her any attention at all until she start making obvious 'green light' signs then he can make moves. That way there won't be any episode of gragra. |
unibenstudent1:Not until you start behaving like a grown adult, mate. |
Don't know if to blame him coz I know I would have stab her back too if I were him. You stab me I stab back. ![]() |
Good man. Can't she use her own phone? Be looking for an excuse to snoop? ![]() |
I can't believe that with the puerile, stuporous and utter display of profound mental lethargy by this character these supposedly smart-witted ladies found him worthy of exchanging private correspondence with him and having him on their private chat apps. And hitherto, disappointed in them. |
What do you do for a living and do you have the financial wherewithal to carter for her and the baby? Are you ready to marry her anytime soon, like before she put to birth? How about her own future and education. At 19 she has no business keeping a baby especially from someone she isn't married to. Having that baby is capable of putting her future in jeopardy. |
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faith551:Oh really? That's really some interesting thing to know. Akpabio did great stuff for Akwa Ibomites if that's the case. I usually dismiss all his alleged innovations as media propaganda. |
Hahaha, naso craze dey start o. Make una chain am before hin begin start pick komkom. ![]() |
ILIDEFI:That shouldn't bother you even in the slightest. Just be focused and keep developing your set goals, the age is not an issue at all. It's 13years and although slightly high doesn't mean anything. Except you haven't been to weddings in the last decade or having been keeping tab ladies of 20 marries men of your age and even more. At 20 she's a grown adult and if ladies of 22-23 get married to men of 35 and above every Saturday's why should that be a problem. Let all the sanctimonious people who have been chastising you deny the fact that they don't know or have never heard of couples who had up to 15years age difference get married before. Just be focus and improve on yourself. I can tell you that if I were 35 today I can marry a girl of 20 without her parents making any objection. |
At 17 you guys have an age variance of 13years which isn't obnoxious and unsuitable but her present age which stands as a barricade. I'm unsure what Nigeria legitimate consenting relationship age is but I'm guessing it's 18, and in a years time she would mark her 18th birthday. I'd advice you to keep her on a friendship level and don't wholly back down then when reaches 18 you can strike up a romance with her. In my opinion, the age gap isn't an issue to contend with as it's appropriate but her juvenescence. By age 33 she'd be 20 and perfectly okay to match you at that time for marriage. I don't see why her parents will be unwilling to give their consent and/or repudiate your marriage proposal. The only issue here is that you might become to attach to her before she clocks 18 and might be tempted to get intimate but having affirmed to be a virgin at your age I think you can scale through the temptation. Don't bother about the myopic and pharisaical submission of previous annotators, they have no short comings and too judgmental. |
MzPecs:Lol. Ka chi fo, omalicha. |
Do they have a history of madness in her family? That's my only guess for now until the question is addressed. |
Cutehector:OP here is what you need do. Look no further. |
MzPecs:Yes, some initiate it but hardly in a first-time encounter and not the pretentious ones sha. They'd behave as if sex is the best thing after slice bread and the more you ask for it the more they misbehave so guys should let ladies make moves too. I don't have a problem with making the first sex move but it ends at that before her head starts swelling. Subsequent moves must be evenly calculated as I usually don't care anymore. It's a reverse psychological bait. |
MzPecs:No one is actually doing any one a favour, sex is mutually beneficial to everyone. However, guys do ladies a favor for initiating sex, if we don't you guys will weep in your bedrooms and have sleepless night fantasising about it. Conji will torment you all and just maybe you'd start wooing guys too. Our predating role will be swapped. Oh I wish guys can stop making sex entries ka anyi negodu ndi o ga nwute karia. ![]() |
Hahaha, he must be kidding me. Epic depiction of the length ladies can go to identify with money and riches. ![]() |
MzPecs:Be appreciative oma, don't make much noise before guys go on sex strike. Na una go suffer pass o. Forget the gragra. ![]() |
falconey:Hahaha I don laugh die. We're responsible for their ravenous and pompous attitude towards us sha and have to deal with it. Over time guys pandered a lot for sex which led to their erroneous believe that we can't do without it and think that they are being gratifying when they mate with us. When we show so much interest in something it become hugely scarce, valuable and highly expensive. Until Nigerian men stop quantifying sex and making it appear as though it's a privilege this mentality among our ladies will persist. The reason cocaine is over-priced today isn't coz of it value nor cost of production but coz of the global prohibition of the substance which resulted to it scarcity. When you place unmerited value on something they become scarce and expensive. Relationship and sex is free, no one should part ways with money just to sustain a relationship. |
MzPecs:Those ones are sick. I'm talking of the sane guys. Even at that ladies rape guys more nowadays, but we don't talk about it coz people won't believe our ordeal due to stereotype. ![]() |
falconey:Hahaha. No be small thing. I pity una small sha. So no free gbenshing for our guys anymore. ![]() |
MzPecs:Men don't like sex. We only indulge to help you lots from conji. ![]() |
Omo see vexing. Chai ![]() Falconey them don empty you before? ![]() |
Refreshing read, best piece I've read in a long while. Respect! |
Cokacoola, I think they have been shagging each other. Ntor gi. You no sabi fvck so your bro took over. ![]() |
In most cases it's impractical to abstain from lies in a relationship. Some lies are necessary, some are bland and outright silly. I can highlight some scenarios where lying is warranted but no point. |
handsomeclouds:Smiles. ![]() Compliment of the season too, bro. Hope I'm right with the gender. |
Can't be real. Sounds fictitious and manuscripted to me. How can anyone say she enjoys sex with her father and even went further to say she gets wet on sighting him alone. Might not even be her biological dad. I don't want to even mention her depressing claim of him having the biggest manhood she has ever seen and other absurdity she talk talked about. I wish I never read this crap. ![]() Well, she should confide in someone and see if they can blackmail him. She has to put an end to this incestuous abominable affair asap. She can also secretly filmed them while having sex and edit the video to mask her face then blackmail him with it. Or arrange with a close trusted friend who won't expose her in a way she would bust them in the act. The man is completely sick. |
handsomeclouds:I don't think madam classy has been inactive, she may have just resurrected with a new handle and assume a different personality which we're yet to figure. She was too attached here to just leave expeditiously. Or perhaps she has found other past-time activities. |
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