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Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Ladies Act The Way They Do by ronald4lif(m): 10:31pm On Dec 28, 2015
Deejavuu:
grin kiss kiss
You know say you don dey do bad things tey tey, see as Emusmith thread set trap for you. Repent o or this new year we go put leg for one trouser. grin kiss
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Ladies Act The Way They Do by ronald4lif(m):
emusmith:
Yea. Every "mature guy" that not only knows this, but also possess the wisdom to relate with a lady will just smile... It's not worth asking, 'Why did you do this?'
In some cases it's worth asking but for others not so much. Let's say you've a girlfriend/boyfriend who just wakes up one morning and start uploading random pictures of a particular opposite sex with a loving note to go with it.

Not like it's their birthday, convocation or no personal convivial of his/her or any such thing. To rush in asking the person who's that is poor calculation so one have to first ensure they assimilate the objective and read in-between the lines before reacting.

Some could be a well designed plan to make one jealous and to fall for the bait is foolish and capable of being used to manipulate one when ever the person feels like it. But if you don't ask them who's that person there won't be more subsequent foxy prank to get you jealous.
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Ladies Act The Way They Do by ronald4lif(m):
emusmith:
Really, only 'children' who can't handle the dynamics of keeping a simple relationship fail
to meet up in such situations. Don't they have good advisors?
Well, I think every lady loves to make their men feel jealous once in a while. It provides some sense of contentment and appreciation from their partner. The only difference is that the tactic being referred to is usually employed by the ones deficient of emotional stability.

As their brainpower and experience develops they adapt to more brainy ideas to make a man jealous.
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Ladies Act The Way They Do by ronald4lif(m): 9:54pm On Dec 28, 2015
Deejavuu:
Hmmm. I concur with your points 1-3. 4&5 is mostly done be confused girls. A girl who knows what she wants goes for it, no need of acting up.My opinion!!

6 thats plain childish! Who does that? Teenagers maybe or adults in baby skin...

7 don't generalize angry
Congrats. You just exposed yourself, we go see for area na. undecided
Romance › Re: 7 Reasons Ladies Act The Way They Do by ronald4lif(m):
emusmith:
No.6: For the Jamiu and the James. It happens tho.

Haha...no. 7. So, you won't say that?
Yes, 6 does happen but like she said it's usually done by unfledged and callow ladies. I think insecurity could also be a factor. They do it to make a guy jealous but only an equally callow fellow will fall for it.

Once had an experience years back where a lady was to respond to an 'I love you' text I sent her and wrote a name I can't recall which isn't mine nor related to me. I wanted to react but I paused a bit and my mind told me it must be a mischievous attempt to make me jealous. I never responded to it. It took some days later for her to ask me if I didn't see the 'mistake' in the message and I didn't even grant her the audience. So yes it happens, but from adolescent brains.
Family › Re: My Friend Doesn't Believe In Marriage .counsel Needed Please by ronald4lif(m): 9:39pm On Dec 28, 2015
I don't agree with her reason for not wanting to get married but let her be. Marriage isn't a mandatory exercise and not everyone is meant to get married. Use your time for more productive things.
Romance › Re: thread closed by ronald4lif(m): 9:09pm On Dec 28, 2015
I'll be back when you get to Mr. Z. Following. undecided
Romance › Re: 15 Lessons 2015 Taught Me About Dating by ronald4lif(m): 9:02pm On Dec 28, 2015
Nothing can be more accurate and veridical than number one. You can't love someone who isn't happy and contented with themselves. A wasteful exercise.

When you hear someone say they feel unhappy and miserable cause they can't afford a subsisting relationship, then run.

That's a red flag and should let you know that they intend to make you their only source of happiness. If he/she isn't happy while single they may find it hard to find fulfilment even when dating.

No one is responsible to make anyone happy but themselves. Happiness resonates within and internal not an external thing. I stand to be corrected.
Romance › Re: Xmas Heart Break by ronald4lif(m): 8:52pm On Dec 28, 2015
nKay448:
This is coming from a heart broken girl. Pls I need ur advice, I ve a boy friend who only has my time when he wants sex. Every other time he spends with his male friends and only remembers me when he is Hot, yet he tells me he loves me. I do love him but ve dis feeling am being used.
What exactly do you love about him. His personality, his utter disregard and non-challant attitude towards you or the mind blowing sex?
Romance › Re: When Ur Village Witches Try To Sabotage Ur Job Interview With A Flood(photo) by ronald4lif(m): 8:32pm On Dec 28, 2015
Phikom:
due to recent engagements...u guys must be enjoying ur marital union wit Rafa...compliments!
Forget Rafa, he's a goner. Jose is coming next month and you know what that means right? Nightmare for our noisy adversary. grin

Compliments of the season bruv.
Romance › Re: Why Are Some Guys Begging Ladies On Social Media For Their Unclad Pix? by ronald4lif(m): 8:24pm On Dec 28, 2015
clevvermind:
i have many beautiful girlfriends who have told me how many guys harass them on social media for their unclad pix and many ladies status on facebook etc also shows that ok.
Fair retort. But soliciting for unclad pics isn't straitjacket to guys alone, some ladies are complicit too. And some of your female friends on Facebook etc might just be saying it to greese their worth even as their action is puerile.

Why would anyone take to their status to post about guys asking for explicit images if not for cheap attention. Yes, guys are usually the perpetrators but it isn't a gender thing.
Romance › Re: Why Is This Man Doing This To This Little Girl? by ronald4lif(m):
This doesn't seem right but I don't want to be presumptuous and just take it that there was no evil intent.
Romance › Re: Why Are Some Guys Begging Ladies On Social Media For Their Unclad Pix? by ronald4lif(m): 8:02pm On Dec 28, 2015
You mean you have access to people's private chatting app to know they beg for unclad pictures or just assuming? sad
Romance › Re: When Ur Village Witches Try To Sabotage Ur Job Interview With A Flood(photo) by ronald4lif(m): 7:58pm On Dec 28, 2015
Phikom:
k
This yeye Barca club man, how far nau? E don tey wey I see your break light here o. grin
Romance › Re: My Opinion On Why White Women Date Black Men by ronald4lif(m): 7:37pm On Dec 28, 2015
kaziblake:
Op thank you
The only white women I have seen with our black guys are the overweight ones and grandma's.
Good you just admitted that it's only the seemingly 'rejects' and 'unattractive' ones that dates your men. What does that tell you? That the average attractive 'white' doesn't find most 'blacks' attractive like the otiose writer is implying.

Perhaps you don't know why our men go for the overweight and grandmas or you're just being mischievous but I would be kind to tell you. It's because they're unattractive and have low self-esteem who are gullible and for this reason your men go for them coz they're easier to manipulate. These men can't ensnare the average 'white' and they mostly do it for papers and to regularise their stay.

I know some of you would have orgasm reading this bile of racial hate thinking you're better off than others but it's all a phantasm.
Romance › Re: My Opinion On Why White Women Date Black Men by ronald4lif(m): 7:29pm On Dec 28, 2015
What a piece of twaddle. Never seen a rubbish piece like this devoid of any fact. Complete nonsense.
Romance › Re: Does It Bother You If Your Babe Checks Out Another Guy On The Street? by ronald4lif(m): 7:19pm On Dec 28, 2015
I haven't really experience it or might have but didn't take notice.

But should it happen I would pretend as though it's nothing but I won't be happy all the same.

Knowing some ladies and mischief making, if one openly display their exasperation it might become a routine. So I'd better not give her the liberty to pull those jealousy stunts on me.
Romance › Re: Is It Proper To Pay School Fees And House Rent For A Girl Am Dating? by ronald4lif(m): 6:31pm On Dec 28, 2015
Hilarious comments. cheesy grin
Family › Re: Pastor Marries Corpse Of Church Member He Impregnated In Akwa Ibom by ronald4lif(m): 6:09pm On Dec 28, 2015
MPVGoddess:
Acts 17:11 as contained in the New International Version reads: "Now the Berean Jews were of more noble character than those in Thessalonica, for they received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true."

instead of questioning, they are worshiped

God even allowed Abraham to question him on account of his nephew Lot over the destruction of Sodom

If God allowed himself to be question what of mere man? Just because he carries the tag Man of God, he can no longer be questioned? All he said should be swallowed without scrutiny. Errant nonsense!

So sad, God never intended it that way!

But you need to see how these MoGs behave if you attempt to ask questions, that is even a sign that there not in fact MoGs!
Well said. Anyone who doesn't entertain questioning doesn't worth emulation and lacks credibility.

Their gullible sheeple crowd are to blame for not standing up to them and challenge their ways whenever they feel they're misbehaving.
Romance › Re: Joking by ronald4lif(m): 4:15pm On Dec 28, 2015
YourMain:
Pfffffft.

We don't want men that stereotype or generalise either.
Good retort and exactly what I intend to say just from the caption and paraphrase. Couldn't bother reading the contents.

I think the average Yoruba lady would never want to date a stuporous and bigoted ninny either. They know better.
Romance › Re: Should Men Give Their Wives/girlfriends A Financial Allowance Monthly? - Discuss by ronald4lif(m): 4:03pm On Dec 28, 2015
For a wife it's absolutely right but for a girlfriend it can't be monthly, only when it's relevant. Although some unmarried relationship could be an exception if it's definitive and likely to lead to marriage.

Why would a man say all those flimsy stuff about giving their wives money. The reasons they gave are negligible and a subterfuge to abandon their responsibility. Absolute nonsense.
Romance › Re: Disadvantage Of A Beautiful Girlfriend by ronald4lif(m): 3:54pm On Dec 28, 2015
oldtopics:
since i m a lesbian...my partner aint worried bout the boyz

Family › Re: Pastor Marries Corpse Of Church Member He Impregnated In Akwa Ibom by ronald4lif(m):
With the existing religious over-zealousness in Nigeria becoming a pastor and designating oneself a man of God seems to be the easiest way to attract gullible ladies.

The sustained untold hardship caused by visionless and callous leaders has over the years had it toll on the mental proficiency of a lot of Nigerians so much that they know longer think and have a deep assessment of whatever any pastor say but would briskly oblige them.

As a pastor in Nigeria, I can just wake up and tell a gullible follower that his/her poor uncle in the village is responsible for their life predicament and without thinking they would make enmity with the poor man.

I can tell that your best friend is responsible for your inability to make significant progress in life and viola best friends becomes enemies.

These bandits who parade themselves as men of God are the number one problem in the country, even ahead of the larceny politicians. For a better and productive society Nigerian Christians must learn not to absolve whatever these thieves in the pulpit say and make an independent assessment of their deceptive sermon.
Politics › Re: PMB Should Forget The 5000 Payment by ronald4lif(m): 3:08pm On Dec 28, 2015
He's got a point. The 5k will be diverted using ghost names by government officials. And how do they even intend to capture the database of Nigerians when there are no proper identification system? How can they ensure the most penurious and hapless Nigerians who need this money get it?

Knowing the average Nigerian and our ingrained greediness even the most affluent in the society will want to cheat the system and collect the monthly stipend. Any foreigner in Nigeria can claim to be a Nigerian thereby benefitting from the dole.

I think the money should be channel into better profiting programs like healthcare, roads and their likes. But then, it will still be looted by government officials. Nigeria's quagmire is just too much.
Romance › Re: Please Advice by ronald4lif(m): 3:04pm On Dec 28, 2015
Let her stop telling you, it won't stop her from cheating. She would only tell you the ones she want you to know and not the one she thinks might break you.
Romance › Re: Advice Needed by ronald4lif(m): 2:13pm On Dec 28, 2015
I'm surprised as to why your parents have never confronted him with the copious number of female friends that comes to visit him. They ought to have firmly cautioned him from bringing him female guest and taking them into his room. What do they think they do inside if not fvcking?

You have to call him to order before he completely corrupt the minds of your little ones. Let them go to a hotel and misbehave as they want but not in a family house.

He's got no manners and it seems he attract his kind, the ladies are equally reprobating as him. You're too tolerant, wouldn't have led it reach to this level where my younger ones would notice.
Romance › Re: Dear Ladies!!! A Must Read by ronald4lif(m): 1:23pm On Dec 28, 2015
angry
Romance › Re: Girlfriend Problem by ronald4lif(m): 1:17pm On Dec 28, 2015
Provide more details if you want advice. You mean you have been dating someone for two years and haven't ever met her? How did you meet and what are her reasons for refusing to meet you?
Romance › Re: Some Nairalanders I Must Apologise To Before I Enter 2016 by ronald4lif(m): 12:55pm On Dec 28, 2015
dechandel:
Eziokwum.
Onye ahu bu ezigbo onye ara grin

If I have him on my contact and convos go south, he will dedicate a thread to me with my contact as the thread topic!! lipsrsealed
As his fingers take dey leak so grin grin
grin cheesy

Very apt. Iberibe enyim à kariri madu. Afutu bem udidi ifa. Nwa okorobia na gba agwa ka nwata amulu nya.
Romance › Re: WHY I HATE NIGERIAN GIRLS. (True life story) by ronald4lif(m): 12:30pm On Dec 28, 2015
Yawns.
Romance › Re: Some Nairalanders I Must Apologise To Before I Enter 2016 by ronald4lif(m): 12:15pm On Dec 28, 2015
dechandel:
Uncle, on behalf of myself and myself alone grin

I have never exchanged offline conversations with him.
Heck!! I hardly ever induldge him here on NL.
He alone knows where he got my contact from. Or maybe there is another Dechandel I know not of!!!
Hian. Eziokwu? It must have been in his dream then. grin
Family › Re: Woman Attacks Husband For Farting by ronald4lif(m): 12:09pm On Dec 28, 2015
cheesy grin

Unless one is indispose there's no point to fart in each other's presence. They can excuse themselves and use convenient places like toilets. I don't want to inhale toxic air coz we're a couple and I won't commit either. undecided

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