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meobizy:
A mongrel is going to type something which'll expose that Sango Ota still remains in the 12th century.

illicit:
So what's the similarity...

jesusjnr2020:
Baltasar Ebang: Why Relapses Shouldn't Break Your Resolve To Quit Masturbation

I opened a recent thread advising people against rushing to view leaked sex videos, and I saw several persons admitting how watching the leaked sex videos of the recent sex scandal, resulted in relapses after going several months without masturbation, and I wasn't surprised.

That's actually the concept.

It's a prepared script that's playing out, and the intended targets are those who otherwise won't view such pornographic content.

Who else do you think the videos were being made for, and how do you think they were leaked if they were in the custody of the police who were said to have raided his house and discovered the sex videos?

That's how they also deliberately leaked the nude and sex videos of celebrities who stored such videos and photos on icloud.

They want to get to those who ordinarily wouldn't watch pornographic videos, using the massive appeal and popularity of those celebrities involved as a bait.

They know that once such ones were drawn to those leaked sex videos and photos, their resistance against sexual sins, including masturbation, would be broken.

That's the only way they could gain access into their lives and do them whatever damage they intended - through sin.

I have been there myself before, where after I had managed to stay away from masturbation for several weeks, even months, all it took to break my resistance was a pornographic video or photo or anything that could arouse my sexual urges via my eyes.

That's how all my efforts to quit masturbation would usually come crashing down and I would have to start afresh from ground zero, and that's how it continued for many years. It seemed I would never be able to achieve that goal.

But today that's no longer the case as I have been able to overcome by the help and power of God, so matter what temptations that is brought my way, whether it be on social media, where I preach the Gospel, that they were constantly bringing half naked photos of girls, in the name of "people you may know', it never worked on me until they gave up, and this has been the case for many years now.

That's why I urge those who suffered setbacks in their determination to quit masturbation and other sexual sins, not to quit but to keep striving, because I have been in their shoes before so I know what it feels like, but if I gave up, I don't think I will be here testifying today.

Even though it's been a very long time since i won that battle over the flesh, It still remain very fresh on my mind how tough the battle was and the mighty great work that God did for me that I will continue to remain ever grateful to Him.

If He did it for me, He can also do it for you.

Hence I urge you not to give up regardless but continue to strive and pray earnestly to God to give you the ability to overcome such temptations, and I believe He would do it for you just as He did for me.

God bless.

EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,


I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.

It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.

I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.


Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.

I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.

It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.

From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.


This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.

I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.

Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.

I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.

Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.


Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.

Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.

Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.

Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.

Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.

I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.

This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.


It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.


Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……

Please nairalanders, help me.

mankan2k7:
Where is this place?

Only Lalasticklala can near the serpent because they are both allie in progress.

RevenuesBoost:
So creepy



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Korectmann:
A potential murderer.

MyExpression:
For this hard time?

This one na mumu former Dean of Student affairs.

Him no reason the Student affairs well.

And see the reason in their letter...70% has paid, over 2000 still on the QUEUE TO REGISTER...he acknowledged that over 2000 were in waiting, yet the exams still went ahead.
Will they write while still on the queue?

fergie001:
Extremely wrong....

iwaeda:
It will favour me and my family.

ecolime:
She quickly upped her game. So many Judys out there.

Make her story no be like May own.

EreluRoz:
Not all women enjoys cooking, which means a woman might love you and still struggle to cook for you because she doesn't enjoy doing it

Urheadmaster:


This is the real definition of sucker punch 👊



Bola Ahmed Tinubu deserves this kind of punch on his forehead if Nigerians are wise like this club president

Blackfire:
Igbo people eeeh

BItt:
I had this girl I met in year 2020 during the covid period. It was hard to get her. She was much younger and had more attention.

During that period I was out of jobs and was struggling. I hardly had enough to take care of myself but she did not trouble me much. She was in the habit of buying things for me no matter how little it was. I was also reasonable enough to buy her more.

At a point in 2021 I got a job in another state. It took a while before I could save up and asked her to come.

She's asking us to get married but I am trying to explain to her what I am earning is not enough to start a home yet. Apart from that what she has is an olevel and some business she does online. She is still dependent on me for alot.

Yesterday, I took her out to an eatry and when we got back home, she suggested we took a Blood oath. Blood oath that neither of us will leave each other.
How do girls get to know and believe all these stuff?

She said we will pierce each other's left thumb, press it against each others thumb and say the oath. I don't know if it works but I feel strange about doing it.

BlaqScarface:
I want to pursue a masters abroad as a means of escaping this country. I’m jobless at the moment but I’ve been saving from my former job for two years and also got a couple millions from sport betting and inheritance.

I’m confused about this while japa thing as I don’t want to go abroad and start doing useless jobs or start suffering or get depressed in another man’s land. I want stability and peace in a country with a reasonable economy.

Also, I have a first degree in English language, I’m 24. I’m confused on the path of my life to take please advise me.

madridguy:
I hope the whole world witnessed how Alhaji Apapa was beaten, drag on the ground and almost lynch to death for going to the court to do his job as the recognized party chairman.

The man was embarrassed for trying his best to protect their party against impostors. Alhaji Apapa needs to go for medical attention to ascertain his health.

History will be kind to him for saving democracy.

Zonefree:

A girl and her wretched family are using you to play ludo and you're trying everything possible to forgive her

I love that you're losing weight and falling sick day by day. It's a good sign for others to learn not to be like you. You're a disgrace to humanity and a waste of space.

A bandit is valuable than you! Tueh!

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

Pauldollars:
Simon Ekpa Like FFK, Reno Omokri, Deji Adeyanju and others

They remain Keyboard warriors but chickens when confronted by their actions

ijustdey:
https://dailypost.ng/2023/02/08/2023-what-well-do-if-thugs-snatch-bvas-inec/

ahnie:
Last night I was craving something peppery because I was sick and took meds,so I settled for barbeque fish.

The way the fish was wrapped,one would think it's a big fish.
Not until I got home and realise I have bn tricked and the fish was wrapped with 3 foil paper.

To me,it was like buying sandwich with cornflakes inside.
The chips was nothing to write home about,they were looking like gazelle gararaga.
Honestly I felt cheated.

yarimo:
The same state OBI claim he made everyone as millionaire and billionaire

waploger:
Hello.. is the phone still available

ire803386:
Awon eyan makalele
Defender of the universe

Blessedmercy8:
I've been under a few other men of God but none stood out for me like pastor Adeboye. As in the power of God I've experienced from him, his humility and genuine walk and spiritual exercises just makes him outstanding among his fellow GOs.

Yesterdays holy ghost service was one of a kind. The power of God truly came down and I felt it. When he was doing the 360 turn, the power of God was just moving so heavily I felt I was going to throw up my spirit from within me. My spirit was literally trying to jump out of my body. Hmmm.... God is truly with Adeboye..

May God keep him for us. Amen.

I am blessed.

oyebanji44:
If obi cannot come out publicly and condemn this .l see no reason why any other non ibos should do so either


Let the ipob shelling continue to persist in whole region..who cares ?.

after all ,south east is a forgone region.