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for some of u whom were not sent mails go and check your name in abuja.some people were not sent mails and their name is there

i wish we could turn back the hands of time .the worst government since the history of nigeria.

i have three angels.everyday i tell God to help me not to push them away unknowingly.i am going to follow this up.thank you

nothing is happening for now.stop ur speculations.let go of nis for now and focus on other things.

na wa o.our leaders are so wicked.the other day na lipton and indomie.northnern leaders are something else .u cnt try this in d south

Aquariann:
What an elder sees sitting...... Op let no one blackmail you or say shít about your mom because she's right.

Women are generally more fertile in their twenties and have more healthy children at that ages.

As a hard working young man, who intends to get married and possibly have children, you shouldn't even be seen with a 39 years old woman who misused her most fertile years chasing God knows what. Riding the cel probably and finally hitting the wall, she looking for a soft landing.

Op, go and look for a young lady (18-25) that you can pair bond with and can pair bond with your future children. This has nothing to do with your religion but common sense.

not all ladies of these age lived a rough life.
some are spiritualproblems..
some are long term relationship.
Marriage is what will give u peace of mind;open doors.and so many goodies.
he knows what he has seen in her.
age is a not a barrier in marriage.peace of mind is what money cant buy.
what if he looks at her age and few years down the line they get divorced or death happens or something worse.
marriage is a life time thing.
peace at home is number one thing...

in all of this i blame you.first when u know ur kind of home u should not ve have allowed them know her true age.why did ur mom wait till her intro day befre calling a meeting.as a man why did you not stand your ground.to the extent of ur mom calling ur fiancee.u dnt know d fire u are allowing to ignite.due to desperation ur girl will dance to ur mom's tune.but d minute she will marry she will give ur mom a long rope becos of what ur mom is doing to her now.she will treat ur family like a plague.and u will not know when u will unconsiously dance to her tune.then any decision u make to side ur family she will say u re not man enough.man up and drop sentiments or mommy's boy.and stand by ur wife.God is d giver of kids.nor b people they marry cripple.except u dnt belive in ur union.ur mom should not dictate for u

how will what we say change anything

ur friend is talking based on whom he is married to.dont base the foundation of ur marriage based on someone's marriage.men who even rake outside their homes are the ones whom their wives are controlling inside

Mariangeles:
on her knees for what exactly...?

to pray

i asked my first daughter whom is 4 to go and arrange the sitting room.she was playing on the bed.as soon as i said that she fell on the ground and said she could not walk becos her leg just got broken.her dad told her to go and do d errand.she said daddy see let me show u how my leg got broken.she stood up with the legs she said was broken o nd walked on the bed and came down from the bed and fell on the ground again and said daddy u see now that is how my leg got broken so i can not do any work today.we laughed so hard

he does not love u.most marriages ve seen like this:the man married the woman due to pregnancy though that is not a yard stick .just get urself busy and acquinted with something then go on ur knees.he is in love with someone else and sees u as a baggage.

u want to become baby mama 2.u lack self control and that is the truth.how can u allow such discussions in the first place.u re just sex starved and what u guys have is lust.betterbstop this rubbish talk and cut him off.u re like a senior sis to him

i kno d ice cream man

madridguy:
You mean having his siblings around will crash his marriage?

then u not understand what she is going tru.the minute u say i do.ur wife becomes ur primary responsibility.even the bible says it they will leave their parents and become one.if u want ur marriage to last long u dnt carry ur family to live and dwell with u esp if ur wife is not api about t.it will get to a stage u both will become strangers and no longer couples.is that what u want.nobody says cut ur family off.but u use wisdom.they can live away and u help d lil way u can.why will a woman of that age be living wih the younger bro.she lacks self respect and the wife would ve really suffered whilst she stayed.then a married man wants to come in.they have too much control on the hubby that is d truth. and the wife was trying to please them but in a wrong way.how can a home like that function properly?.

madridguy:
I understand the fact that women so much cherish privacy but first you must address this issue with your husband amicably with low voice and not threatening to move out of your matrimonial home. If possible, you can invite your religious leader or your husband's friend to talk to him about it.

Remember, blood is thicker than water so handle the matter at hand with caution.

re u married?

stand your ground no matter what maybe.it is the foundation u allowed that is a affecting u.dnt start what u can not finish.do not allow him.ur hubby is weak in his family decisions.last born is not an excuse,that can be very discouraging.stand ur ground.i
dont know why some people can not use wisdom.u too u decided to be happy and u were crying on the inside and forming good wife.marriage is to be enjoyed and not endured.ur huby need to step up o cos he is the head.

how many times will u write this

OrangeDream:
hehehehehee......Just passing by..Una doh o



Who dey mark script? Abeg how many una don marK? Nairaland sha

very funny.when i saw it i really laughed

when i had my first child.i delivered the same time with a lady.when we were taken to the ward from the labour room.the woman had nobody with her.her mom kept calling to ask her where she was and she said she was at the market.when she dropped i asked her y she lied.she said her mom is never understanding.they are 6girls and they do not tell their mom any challenge they encounter.she kept trying to reach her mil and she said she wished her mil was her mom.after a while her mom came to the hospital without a pin.that she heard her daughter had given birth.where is the man.never on time.she kept shouting ooo.shaking evrywhere and embarassing the daughter,the woman is well to do.the daughter started crying .she did not know who told the mom.the mil too got wind of the news and ran down with so many goodies .while the mom nver touched the baby.the mil carried the baby and prayed.gve her food.then the mom left without touching d child.the mil even kept trying to speak to d woman's mom to be calm.she stayed till evening the man came that was when i knew he worked in another state.the lady told me alot about her mil and her mom.some mil could be nice.not all are bad

very funny.dnt go and drive ur future hubby cos u alrdy have a static mindset that any mil u ve mighy gve u stress.that is not true.some re nice.remeber she is ur hubby's mom and went tru alot to bring him to the man u see and got attracted to.

op u ve sorted it.make her ur friend.mayb u guys lack communication.ur attitude and cos of peace to rain made her to start hiding things from u

if anybody follow this a to z.50years he never marry.

utenwuson:
by the grace of God, I have quitely park her stuffs and she has headed to her mum while we perfect the divorce issue in court..... prevention is better than cure/grief cos I can't loose my only brother.

This maybe how Mariam started before eventually killing her husband. men are becoming endangered species and one must take caution.

we will make sure the kid is fine, I can't even type all what my brother has pass through in the name of enduringthe union but pouring oil on him and locking him out of the house he built is way tooooooo much.
thanks all for ur advice

u and ur family are d problem.ur brother is not a man

LoveMatchmaker:
Loooooool

You really have not studied Prince Philip - He is not submissive rather he is the Queen's strength. Being your wife's steel spine is not being submissive. Do not be fooled he is a King.

re u in their home?study ni for marriage.dnt say what u dnt know

must u use a sex pic

pcguru1:
I won't be asking what the wife did, when she gets stabbed, all I know is if there's a threat like that, they need to separate to cool off first, it seems you know the guy personally in question, please advice him not to be violent anymore.

i dont ve your time mr stabber ok.all marriage must ba stabbing abi.did u see him lay a fault on d bro?.pls go and sit down jor

pcguru1:
And we ask how come people getting stabbed didn't leave.

with this biased story.what did his bro do for them getting to this stage.i ve been married 5years.marriage involves alot.who told u d bro aint voilent?

mind ur business abeg.try to reconcile them not break them.they may divorce now and come back later on o.a kid is involved then u will b an enemy and their kids will hear d part u played.see d way u talked about d woman.na so ur bro perfect?