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Back in those days in Queen's College. May God forgive us. plz no one should quote me on this.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I dunno. I'm just scared for my life. You pose to be a threat to me.

How? Have I hurt you or someone you love? I don't even know you. How then can I hurt you?

backbone503:
I'm sure you wished you were in her shoes. Anyway, quit wishing cos you never will

You idiot, what is interesting about her shoes?

backbone503:
I relate. Just let her know (from your actions, not just words) that your love for her has nothing to do with her wealth. Avoid demanding from her, and don't let her always do the spending. Finally, try not to see/perceive her as a rich girl. Asin, talk and relate with her as if she is way below you.

you are trying to tell us that you once dated a rich lady. Aturu!

nonsense. does muscles pay bills? lazy youths everwhere

Love can't last without money. guyz, go make money

I hate lazy guys. I'll try get him a job

UyaiIncomparabl:
It seems you both know each other offline.

lolz. yeah we do, infact he lives in our boys quaters

UyaiIncomparabl:
Why do you follow my threads around like a plague?

There is nothing special about you. why then should I stalk you?

backbone503:
Lol. Charlie, the babe don laf you scata.

Yea, she is blunt and down-to-earth, but she is one of the most principled, decent, sweetest and lovely girls you can ever know. Don't mess with her though, except you're ready to findout if truly there is life after death.

Attention seeker. Is this all you can say to make her like you?

Newbreed2018:
Asslickers like u are the problem with men. Keep on sniffing asss.

To me, you sound more like an asslicker though. Anyway, I hate that cultist. you guys can just go ahead and clash. we are watching.

Get a job, and later a girl friend

Automatic3444:
Dear,
Who provoke you?

This tout that calls himself backbone503

backbone503:
I don't insult people's dad. Don't make me do it.

A fool you are.

backbone503:
What breed is he?

who, asshole?

backbone503:
could be true, though. Some females are really that cheap.

just like most men are dogs

When: just last month
Where: my apartment
How: I have really been crushing on him, gave him all the green lights yet the dude didnt just do the needful. He is a friend to my friend, so she came with him to my apartment to get her phone which she left to charge. I signalled my friend, and the rest is history.

Sex is quite cool though!

I really need to ask this question because I get somehow confused when these terms are used.

I understand Rape to be "having a forceful non consented sexual intercourse with another". For Sexual abuse, I understand it to be "taking undue sexual advantage of another person". While for Sexual assault, I feel its a violent form of sexual abuse.

This is my understanding. whats yours?

Nigeria

backbone503:
Is the Chief Security Officer of River State an APC person?

savage

backbone503:
Your story rings a bell. Yes, its possible. But it demands a great deal of maturity and understanding from all involved, and you need be on guards.

I'll advice you make the girl your very good friend. Your friendship with her will tell you alot about them.

Thankz.

ibkayee:
You'll probably piss the friend off and your boyfriend will probably think you're crazy, especially if you're going behind their backs to do so. Her boyfriend is going to tell her

I guess speak to your boyfriend about how you feel, he shouldn't necessarily cut ties with her but tone their relationship down a notch since it's making you feel uncomfortable, tell him to put himself in your shoes. If he continues (which would be pretty inconsiderate of him in my opinion), only option I can think of is to break up with him since its obviously making you very upset. But going to her boyfriend is a no-no in my opinion, it will likely do more harm than good

He is not yet (officially) my boyfriend
I just like him

ibkayee:
If I liked him but we weren't in an official relationship I'd be jealous and just seethe in silence lol, there wouldn't be much I could do since that's his friend and I have nothing to do with their business

If I were in an official relationship with him, I wouldn't do anything either since it's none of my business, especially if they were friends before I came into the picture. Only time I'd say something would be if they both engaged in something that blatantly crossed 'friendship' boundaries. I wouldn't go to see her boyfriend though, for what exactly? Lol

But that's just me

I want to meet him to findout if he knows about her gf's best friend. Also, to see how she will feel knowing that I and her guy are friends too. wouldnt that be cool?

ibkayee:
It's possible to be in a relationship and keep a close friendship with someone of the opposite gender and not ACT on any feelings/attraction you have towards them. You can find them physically attractive or have feelings without having motives for example

Can a guy and girl be in a platonic relationship and at least one not find the other physically attractive at the very least (since feelings are different to physical attraction)? Also yes, but just thought to point out the differences

If you were in my shoes, what would you do and not do?

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Oluwasaeon:
A great man once said ...

that?

jackslow:
Yes they can be,without anything happening,don't trouble your mind provided you don't have any solid evidence against him,you may look stupid at the end,take it slowly until you establish good evidence,if he is seriously into her he will not present her to you but who know,

can you date a gurl that has a guy as his best friend?

I like him but he has a "friend" that makes me so uncomfortable. Her pixs are all over his phone, his fb page, they chat often, and worst of all, they seem to trust themselves and she visits. I was shocked when I saw a 50k (and other amounts) alert in his phone which she gave him and I feel he gives her too.

He said she has a guy, and introduced my to her as his girl. I am planing to meet her bf because there are things I need to know.

But friends, is it possible for people in relationship to keep close friendship with the opposite sex and "nothing" goes on?

UyaiIncomparabl:
I could have easily debunked your reply, but I'm in no mood for petty arguments which wouldn't fetch me cash.

cash tinz right? Don't worry. you go dey okay