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UyaiIncomparabl:
Oh. I actually thought you loved just girls? Never knew you had a passion for men and marriage.

Nevertheless, do you, girl.

As long as it makes me happy, I love whoever I choose to. Thanks though.

LordKO:
A humane and/or sane woman will definitely marry her ethically ideal man who earns 30k, provided that he's a roof over his head - irrespective of her own financial standing (of course, better if she's of good financial standing) - just as sane men have always done (towards women) right from time immemorial. A woman of this caliber knows that two people in marriage/going into marriage are different from two people in a business partnership or competition, or two enemies living together/intending to live together forever. There're things a sane person shouldn't expect a typical small-minded (insane and/or inhumane and expedient) person to understand, irrespective of how brilliant he/she is.

As recent as two years ago, a man who temporarily handled a particular project for me, prior to meeting me, didn't have a steady job that could bring in an equivalent of the present day 30k for him monthly and he didn't have any savings or tangible assets anywhere - he was an American deportee - yet, a humane woman (she's a Nairalander), a silent multimillionaire and successful woman by all standard agreed and married him. Today, he's a "flag holder" and vied for house of representatives seat in the last election, albeit unsuccessfully, and over the last two years in review, he has legally acquired properties all the pseudo/wannabee successful (and too clever by half) noise-making women and men on this particular thread and their generations have not acquired or can only dream of. Of course, he adores the wife like every sane man would do towards a gold of a woman.

Money is good, but never allow it to define you and don't allow anyone to define you based on it. As hard as it is/seems to acquire, it remains one of the easiest material things to acquire - all things being equal.

There's no shame in being humane - only humane/sane people will understand that goodness (love and submissiveness) isn't a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength, and that toxicity in any guise isn't an option. The most irritating thing being that this small-minded elements who wouldn't either respect or consider those below them in economic status/social status would want those above them in same status to respect and consider them - talk about chauvinism, hypocrisy, disingenuousness and greed - social climbers. Materialism is as bad as parasitism.

A virtuous/strong-minded/independent (financial emancipation doesn't automatically make anyone independent) woman is a gold (not gold digger). I doff my hat for anyone of this caliber.

Your third paragraph sums up my stand. I have dated a guy that earned above 100k, and one that earns far below it. I now know better

bukit05:
Bear it in mind that no condition is permanent. I got married in 2017, and hubby was earning 30k, he has another side hustle which was 23k, but it wasn't regular. But we were happy with the little we had and hope for better days ahead. To the glory of God he got another job few months after the birth of our baby, and we are doing well by God's grace.
Hadn't been I judged him by his income then I would have lost a good man. Caring, loving, responsible every good thing you can think of.
#modified#
I was also earning 30k.

My point.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol. Good girl. All for the clout.

Now, guys, here is the real wife material.

I know some people were born poor, but vowed never to die poor. But you see, the single most important personal finance decision you make is your career. When you develop yourself to a certain extent, what he earns dosen't matter to you. You just need love, happiness, and a man you can truly call yours.

If I love him so much, what he earns is immaterial. I'll do all to get him a better job and an extra source of income. Money isn't everything.

Nickisindigo:
programming is the act

coding is the language

Really?

He wanted to get his babe jealous, so he used my phone to send her some funny nessages (as if I sent them). Naso fight take start.

backbone503:
Virtual sport betting puts you at great risk. How?
1. Increases your stress level, leading to an elevated body cortisol concentration. This accelerates ageing, increases BP, reduces immunity, and has huge negative effects on ALL body metabolic processes.
2. Thermal paper (used in printing the bets) is coated with Bisphenol A (PBA), a chemical considered to be an endocrine disruptor. It also greatly influences growth, cell repair, fetal development (in pregnant women), hormonal balance and reproduction.
3. Psychologically, it can make you lie, steal, depressed, emotionally imbalanced, go terribly broke, erode people's trust in you... the list is just endless!

So, all those lazy youths I see in sport betting shops are liable to die young?

backbone503:
So much bad energy in you. You really must have a very pitiable and miserable life. Ti'e baje o kan mi.

Hey, so you understand yoruba. I thought your from Cross river

backbone503:
They wanted it, and they had it. Whats ungodly about that?

Is it then an act to behold?

backbone503:
Tribe dosen't in anyway matter. But if for any reason I have to choose, Hausa or Ibibio it will be. Reason: hard to explain.

Have you ever dated a Hausa lady? And why ibibio. Is it because they are good in bed or can cook?

backbone503:
“Well first of all…I bought a car for my mum,
that was the first purchase that I made from
the money that I got”. Nice one broe. Na mum still sure pass!

Are you the last born?

backbone503:
Mr. Ekpo Nta, Justice Walter Onnoghen, Chief Okoi Obono-Obla, and now madam Winifred Oyo Ita. These are worthy Cross Riverians whose faces, we know, have not been loved by the powers that be at the center. They were not on the table, hence inadvertently found themselves on the menu.

Having in mind that one can't dip his/her finger in the anus and not expect a stench, we know that the greater sins of these ones have been not being northerners.

Your people, right?

Mynd44:
This is the 2012 quote that helped FBI Agents arrest suspected scammer Obinwanne Okeke. He posted the reply September 26, 2012 in the hope that it will link him with some Nigerians in Melbone, Australia where he was susposedly studying.

The post was also quoted

https://www.nairaland.com/search?q=obinwannem%40gmail.com&search=Search

There are still many scammers on NL pretending to be what they are not. Ladies nd gentlemen, shine your eyes.

backbone503:
your side of the story. But if its the true story, then you took a bold step. Next is to go for the jugular by disconnecting totally from her (delete her nos, msgs, pics and unfollow her) and assuming she dosen't exist.

If your work paths cross, don't dodge her, rather, relate with her just the way you do with other colleagues.

Finally and most importantly, love yourself and fill yourself with it. She wasn't worth it, one that does will find her way into your life. But if she was truly yours, she'll come to her senses.

Dude, this won't work on me. I love mind games.

backbone503:
She probably went for the money, but got what she never bargained for. All that glitters, they say isn't gold.

Our girls should be orientated not to hope on making it in life just by meeting an already made guy. No guy with bar respects any girl in his arms that never helped him make it.

So true. We sometimes put ourselves in a very disadvantaged position.

Ladies, plz lets be very security conscious particularly with men you dont know too well

backbone503:
Multichoice, Stanbic IBTC, MTN and all other SA owned businesses in Nigeria should be shutdown.

That is not the solution to xenophobia

backbone503:
Uyai is someone I can't categorically say is this or that to me. But I can safely say she is one person thats so dear to me, one I wish never to forget. whether she has a million followers, admirers or friends, she is still what she is to me. Its that simple.

You've been stalking her. why?

I haven't

backbone503:
I have my fair share of inadequacy, and my girl is/would be that girl that wouldn't find complementing me an ardous task.

If we can believe absolutely in ourselves and place no other person at par or above eachother, then we are good to go.

Is uyaincomparabl your type of girl?

backbone503:
Love transcends all.

who is your kindof girl?

backbone503:
you funny sha. Anyway:
#1. Early 30s
#2. Largely NO
#3. One of the things I don't discuss online. Sorry.

what if you only got to know she had a child after you have gone far with the rtionship with her?

backbone503:
you funny sha. Anyway:
#1. Early 30s
#2. Largely NO
#3. One of the things I don't discuss online. Sorry.

you have refused to reply my e-mails so tell me: of all the 2m+ people on NL, you chose to follow just one, and this person is following scores and not just you. Why? who is she to you? And do you know her personally?

"Never trust or get 100% committed to a girl that keeps and enjoys the company of her ex(es) or other guys or one that places you at par or below anyother guy".

Someone said this. Is it true?

backbone503:
you funny sha. Anyway:
#1. Early 30s
#2. Largely NO
#3. One of the things I don't discuss online. Sorry.

hmmm. owk

prostitution never pays

Always women. I just sometimes feel ashamed

backbone503:
The easiest way to her heart is definitely through her kids. Develop this genuine love for them. Play, talk to and mingle with them. It works like magic!

Three questions for you:
1. How old are you?
2. Can you date/marry a single mama/widow?
3. Are you single/free?

Fourwinds:
meeeennhh .....Okokobioko

smh

chijokz:
Babe..i think I remember me and boys from ISL Unilag coming to pick you and friends from QC to a party where we all did.. "you know what I mean"

I have never been that cheap

Do you have a boyfriend/fiance? If you do, I hope he isnt on NL or have ears nd eyes here. Your posts on the type of guyz you want could affect your rtionship. I am single so I mingle not minding anyfin.

I pity the poor girl. some men are just heartless