₦airaland Forum

@poster.
If with two wives, you have slept with girls from every tribe in Nigeria[460 TRIBES],
I think you the most irresponsible Husband and Father in Nigeria. Shame on you! You are a serious disgrace to every man that loves honour and diginity.
On the other hand, you may be a CHRONIC bachalor who just wants popularity and controversy on Nairaland. I CAN BET THAT YOU ARE NOT A MALLAM. A mallam in Islam is a teacher and is highly revered. You talk like a Southern thug, you are fake and a BIG shame to your father!

@ POSTER.
If you really need a guy for a serious relationship, your phone number is not enough. Who are you? What are you? Where are you from? Where are you going? Why do you want the man? When? Where? What type of man?

@ Poster. If your Sisters are all happily married, ask them their past expriences with men.

@ Poster. Rav-4 is for ladies. She thought it was borrowed from Mummy or Elder Sister for a street car pose and show. Next time, hit the road with a Hummer, Escalade, Navigator or Pajero, the babe will not only enter the ride but might be comfortable inside the booth!

I don't think that kissing a smoker is healthy. It is like licking a wet ash tray

Ask any of your Sisters or daughters, they will give you honest answers.

BLOOD covenant is a ritualistic sign of relationship bondage. Keep off from it and never marry a Lady simply because of her beauty. Marriage is for men not for boys! You speak like a boy!

superboi:
rotimmy, you yan like man.you be de man

Rotimy is a 41 year old Man that have seen it all. It is so easy and cool for some Nairalanders to join the band wagons and cast stones on their targets. I am entitled to my own opinion which may be different to yours. Fortunately, I have met some ladies that are not preteders and I am happily married to one of them!

naimmy:
i strongly disagree with rotimy which kind tin u dey talk lik a storyteller do u know more dan girls in d house girls pretends in everything don't u know some pretend until dey get married even in marriage dey still pretend i pray u marry a pretender nd u will know what i mean.

Naomi My dear, I strongly hold on to my opinion that NOT ALL ladies are pretenders. Even in serious issues in life, generalisation is totally unacceptable! So do you believe all men are cheaters? Or that all Nigerians all corrupt?
So even Christian born-again ladies are all pretenders and those Muslim Sisters in NASFAT are all hypocrites?
It is a weak arguement. That there are fake jewels does not mean that gold and diamond are not real

I will not be there.
Pls tell the Pastor to rest on a holiday and also allow others to rest. Even our God needs some rest, we are choking Him with prayers and programmes in this country.

manchibabe:
been goin out with this dude but he is kind of drifting away slowly, i need tips on how to win his love back because it seems there are many people who wants to take him away from me,

please useful advise please,

TIPS TO WIN HIM BACK
1. Invite him over and cook a delicious dinner for him, the Mamas way, no Indomie pls
2.Be honest with yourself and repent of the negative attitudes of yours he often complains about
3. Send him a recharge card and challange him to text back your offences.
4. Buy gift for his elder Sister and hand deliver it. Shed real tears before her saying what losing her brether means to you.
5.Hire Christain Prayer Warriors or NASFAT Imams and tackle the problem spritually
6.Book full page advert in a national newspaper with his pic and declear your love for him. Other babes will back off

I disagree with you. Yes, SOME girls are pretenders but some are real and blunt. It depends on individuals. Life is a great teacher, with great lessons. One day, the girl matures into a lady, from a lady to MS, Miserable Spinster and finally to a Madam. In all these stages, truth and realities will help her to survive any stormy relationship.
The virgin angle is a non issue.

jennykadry:
Now that is where you're wrong,once somebody falls in love(i mean real love)that person(man or woman) is exposed to a feeling that leads to emotional hostage,emotional hostage is what makes u really know that you're inlove wt that person

Emotional hostage or bondage is a puppy love. It is a sign of a highly manipulative or domineering parter. I wonder how you say you love someone but cannot trust or believe the person. Most men melt like jelly before their so called girlfriends who hold them hostage with the emotional blackmail. I pity the poster because his type might make a good husband. Staying late in office or giving a lift to a female co worker will attract hot slaps from the almighty madam who will never believe him.

OsunAmazon:
Christians and their judgements. Before, it was catholics that worship demons(that was in the 90's when the pentecostals were looking for a foothold into the mainstream Nigerian christendom that was largely held by orthodoxy. Now, they are fighting themselves using the same bible they claim to have overt knowledge of and abundance of holy spirit looming all over them. The same bible that said that one of the fruits of the holy spirit is unity. If both parties claim they have this spirit, why the division? This sharmans are getting out of hand and they are doing anything possible to hold on to more flocks just for financial sake.

Until christians go back to basics, forget this high fly lifestyle, ignore these career pastors that paint the streets of lagos with exotic cars and love-vendor suits, they can never see the light.

Even when it was obvious that late pastor Oduyemi was a 419 and sleeps with his members wives, some sheepishly stuck with him; When Benny Hinn was defrauded by pastor Kola(can't remember his full name) to the tune of $4M thereby disgracing Nigerians in the international media, some still believed in his innocence; when it was obvious that after Idahosa's death, the church openely brought an American pastor who knows nothing about it to help them complete the act of nepotism by making his wife who's been away in America for long the presiding bishop claiming the holy spirit directed them to do so. More are yet to come, Chris oyakhilome will eventually hand over to his daughter or wife, madubuko to his wife, pastor Ezekiel to his daughter,Oyedepo to his son etc. Is this not a type of religious dynasty? I don't know why EFCC refused to arrest pator Kola for playing religious 419 on Benny Hinn.


Again, my question is, why are most mega churches in Nigeria centered in lagos? Does it mean that it's only lagos residents that needs salvation? Why are these pastors afraid of going to a typical village in Ekiti or Gombe to start evangelism just like the white missionaries did centuries ago in Africa? Don't we have enough churches already in lagos? we even have gay churches and gay pastors that are ready to preach, deliver,hook up and marry gay people. Why build more churches in lagos?

As for TB Joshua, he's also a sharman in another form. The truth is that christianity displaced the jobs of babalawos and prospective babalawos decided to wear love-vendor suits and carry bibles to deceive the feeble minded. The real pastors/priests of God shall prevail.

THIS IS THE CONCLUSION OF THE MATTER. GOD BLESS YOU FOR BEING AN AMAZON FOR CHRIST!
ONLY TRUTH WILL SET US FREE

lucabrasi:
im not a member of pastor tb joshua's church,but i challenge anyone to show me which church in nigeria is doing more for the less priviledged, for people saying we should go back to the old way of the church,go to an anglican church and count how many people go to church,same with catholic e.t.c im born and bred anglican but each time im in nigeria and i attend our family church,even though its in the middle of d city near sheraton hotel(as in centrally located)you ll be lucky to see 200 people in the service,the old churches are too rigid and the pentecostal church has brought the flexibility to christian worship, its not easy for a young person go by diffrent values and form of worship our fathers and grand fathers were used to

ANGLICAN in NIGERIA is a light to other Angicals in the world. 200 people are even more than enough. Jesus only wanted two or three to gather in His name, not multitude that are being mislead in the broadway. I am not an Anglican but pls never compare them again with what you call Pentecoastals! It is like apple being compared to a rotten orange

I AM NOT BOTHERED WEATHER PASTOR JOSHUA IS ON TBN,CNN,BBC OR AL JEZERA. HE HAS NOT CLEARED THE AIR ABOUT HIS CALL INTO THE CHRISTIAN MINISTERY

1. As a former Isalamic Iman or disciple, When and where did he became a born again?
2. Who discipled or mentored him?
3. Who are the elders in the Christian ministry that are his accountability partners?
4. Did he attend any Bible School or Seminary for training or did he just start of from Islam to Christianity?

There is this fellow who called himself Rev Dr. Pastor Saka Shamudeen that was preaching and performing miracles on our local T.V before. married to four wives, unknown to people, the preacher who founded a Pentecostal Church in Lagos is also the promoter of CHRISLAMHERB, a deadly occultic and syncretistic society.
One can not truly talk of Pastor T.B Joshua without dealing with a theological term SYNCRETISM.
If you pay the right fee, you can put anyone with Bible, preaching and working miracles at TBN

Only God in heaven will help us out of this mess. I blame the people that give without asking questions. My joy is that there is a judgement day when every Priest, Pastor, Mullah, Iman, Guru and others that are milking the poor and the gullible will stand and give account of their activites to the MOST HIGH GOD

It is wrong for her to police you. if she refuses to take your explanation. Delete her from your life. Love is build on trust and never allow a woman to hold you on an emotional hostage.

Face your studies my dear cos soon you will be 37 years too and nothing to show for it. You deserve first class not an almost 40 year old lady

I am shocked that the poster expected a Nigerian Mother Theresa or a naive virgin to be his internet love. The poster must watch his emotions. He gets emotionally attached easily. The frequent phone calls is a sign of infatuation. Maybe he saw the pic of a black female model on the internet love site.
Honestly, Nigeria women are not as bad as you are painting them. No romance without finance! If you want a pretty less expensive Nigerian babe, tell us your village here and leave the rest to us. By the way, you would have played along and allow the film INTERNET LOVE part 1 to finish before complaining.

I will not watch the movie when released. Not because I have anything against them but because I am working hard to earn my own living. Please posters, stop fuming for or against them. It is their means of earning some bucks. Work hard and your own star will shine. Both women are hard working and must be encouraged, even if you refuse to watch the movie, wish them well.

Bassie:
Rotimi, don't you think Nigeria can be a paradise?

Nigeria can still be a paradise but now life without eletricity for a month makes hell a holiday destination.

Go back to my sweet sleep!

Pounded yam with bitter leaf soup!

Philippians 3:2
Beware of dogs, beware of evil workers, beware of the concision

Nigerians are already seeing hell in the hands of PDP thugs. For a bit of paradise, take a holiday to Dubai or Singapore. I have been to the two countries and waoooooooooo,
talk of paradise on earth!

Good dream my brother. BUT wake up to see the realities of a Christian witness on earth.
Never spend all your time in this world worrying of the rapture and the anti Christ and what the other Church is doing. God wants you to represent Him here on earth in your family, office or school. Be the gospel other people should read. Be a bread to the hungry.
Be an unbroken mirror that will reflect the true image of Christ in whatever you say or do,
then you will worry less about the time of rapture or the antics of the anti christ.

I ENJOYED THE COMMENTS. THE GOOD, THE BAD AND THE UGLY. BUT NONE WILL EVER CHANGE MY LIFE because I AM HERE FOR CYBER FUN.
THE RELIGION SECTION IS AN EYE OPENER HOW EDUCATED PEOPLE CAN BE BRAIN WASHED BY PASTORS AND MULLAHS

vivaladiva:
i f u are ofende by my heritage then u can lick my cunt

VIVA, pls take it easy. To lick your cunt?[i][/i] Will it with bluetooth or infra red? As you're far, will you text, email or scan the cunt to the cunt lickers over here?
Nigeria men must be true sons of their fathers. If you can't stand their cultural heritages, then try the French men! At least, they can always take you out for the lunch and dinner, light the cigar for you, open the car door for you,  pay for a house cleaner and lick your cunt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!