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@Pickabeau1, the thread has gone beyond its original aim.
It stays closed.

Lolllz @ YPP.

Me just dey okay like that...not so fine like that joor...don't let cdamsel kidnap me o!


Got your pm, Dami & YPP.

Please spare a thought for Chenny in the coming week.

All will be well with us all. Amen.

Seanord: i wonder why its so difficult to read private msg on nairaland....anyways i wud need to get ur numbr...nairaland is not making me read ur msg

PM's are sorted into the Spam mail most times.
Check ur spam mail, u should find ur pm there.

bebe2: I know its wrong, its one of my prayer points, I just pray for the spirit of forgiveness. Am not like dat with friends o, just my poor hubby.

But am alot better now, compared to 10yrs ago dnt know why he stayed wit me.

Learn every day

Good One.

You will get there.

Cheers

D.O.A

slimyem: I don't understand codes o...
I nor dey.

Mod tinz

@Slimyem, I guess u are right in a way.

But by the way, I see someone following you around this early morning o.

His name is C****R

Is he your new Obowumi gateman?

slimyem: Royal Roy, congratulations on your mod appointment.
Can we get closer please? I wouldn't mind juicy gists,links and hidden posts only mods are privy to.

Buhahahahahahahahahah

Who told u of juicy & hidden posts & links?

Heheheheheheheh

You must be close to the power source

Oya what else do u know?

@jidegirl you are back on.
Spambot is in love with u tonight

slimyem: https://25.media.tumblr.com/99864369546f78b55664225ece75a8fa/tumblr_mr6bdw45Ws1qhub34o3_r1_250.gif

Share some pomo and baileys with this lady too!

Cheers to we night crawlers!

vivianc: I also don't understand how someone would say he loves me today, and that same loving heart would say hurtful things towards me tomorrow.

@the bolded...
Hmmm....I believe that too.

Seems you are the female version of me!!!

vivianc: What if this happens when I get married? The sentence; "Its over between us!" comes out so freely from my mouth. I'm so scared of myself and the things I can do.

I don't know if the problem is from me or not cos we always think we have no flaws. So if there is any role I play in this I would love to start working on myself. But since I can't see it, I pray someone here can. Please help me ..................


Sorry Op for maybe hijacking your thread. Just that I have been struggling with this for sometime now and i'm too shy to create a thread for it. So please forgive me..........

Vivianc,

Words are like eggs, when spoken it can't be taken back, hence u hold on to words more seriously than others....just like me. I don't believe people say things out of anger or unknowingly.....nope....its what they had always wanted to say to me & didn't have the courage until they reached a boiling point.

So, if you love that man dearly, and u believe two of you can work together to be one, sit him down & talk to him.
Let him know how hurtful his words are.
Let him realise you are getting to a point where u are considering saying goodbye to him for his hurtful outbursts.

A man who wants u for you will do something about it.

Its better for u than just saying Its Over after every yelling incidence.

Even after resolving the issue, Some words you say might be used against you later in the relationship.

Cheers!

bebe2: hahaha, na wa o, some men have it cud,

and me go keep malice for 3days all the please and petting will go on deaf ears.

i fit try ur system o, but i bet my hubby will think its a trap

You sound like someone I know.

Not so cool behaviour.

Begging & yet ur apology is not accepted, big turn off.
I will just tell you off after a whole day.

@Jaidoski



Na two of us dey last sleep for this room!

Maybe we should get some Suya & Baileys for the cold evening

emmysharp: Marriage is about 4 things

http://www.lifestyle.aabnigeria.com/ls/love-life/marriage-is-about-4-things

What is your complaint sir?

@emmysharp, hope u are doing great?

What can we do for you on that topic?

slimyem: Ask her what she'd want as gifts. It'll save you these brain racking.

Ahhhh...that doesn't bring any effect to it again now!

Mai pride: I would have said you should get her a hollandaise (vlisco) but its quite expensive.... but there are cheap ones too... Any GTP (Ghana textiles)Ankara will do... good luck!

Hmmm....Mai Pride, maybe you can supply him the not too expensive one.
Hope Ghana is kool tonight?

yellowpawpaw: Those GTP can be very xpensive!
Don't know what made them so special. Even if u buy from Ghana.

Maybe because of their durability.
Got some(thanks to someone here ) that hasn't faded up till now no matter the detergent I used on them.


@Op....maybe you get her a new set of cooking pots since u said she loves to cook!
Towers Product are good & okay.

Or you can take out of your 8k and get her some ankara like Missy suggested!

jidegirl12: Thanks RR, even tho you forgot to write my own name in bold

@[size=26pt]Jidegirl [/size], you are appreciated.

I see say na so so laugh you dey donate on all the threads now.

God no go take laugh away from you & yours o! Amen.

@Tunapa , nice of you keeping the house going. Like YPP said, sometimes life catches up with us & it becomes a survival of the fittest in the real world out there.
Got ur pm...u are indeed appreciated.


@Yellowpawpaw , u are so right!
The family section has been quite hot in the past days...keeping me busy trying to clean up the war zone.
Some people really do have a nack for war in every thread, they never drop their opinion & move on until it turns to a verbal war.

A moderator is supposed to be neutral on issues so he can be balanced with decisions. Not easy but we are getting better by the day.

@Damiso , u are appreciated too.


@Tayour , mama fine boy, hope u are getting stronger by the day? More blessings for u & family o!


@All , no Matter what life is throwing at you, stay lifted & keep it real.
Some others have it worse than you.
Never give up on ur dreams, make a foothpath when the road ends.



@Royal Roy ....hmmm....dude....seems being a moderator has made you watch from sidelines o while others debate.
Hopefully u will realise that your comments will be judged because u are the moderator but then remember, the worst thing that can happen to a free spirit like you is not to be heared.....
You will be fine!

Mescopaul: That onnet scuffle is uncalled for, remember "follow peace with all men.."

Hahaha...I thought you were a matured debater, so you are Ray Blue?

Very obvious with this post of yours.
You create another username to lend support to your myopic view!

Dissapointed in you Mescopaul.

Shame on You.

cdamsel: would ve appreciated a Good 9t kiss from u

Gud am y'all,dis house dey dry this days ooo,wetin dey happen na

Good morning cdamsel, hope u are feeling much better? Wishing you quick recovery.


For all who want to spread some love in the house for [size=26pt]Chenny [/size] please send me a pm.

She really needs our help to stay afloat.
People are already responding, please do something too.

I know we can do it....and we will do it.

Thanks y'all.

yellowpawpaw: Chei! Life is not easy o!
Hellooooooooooo!!!!!!

Good evening everibari!

I can c somebari is already catching fun.

RR, why una no put bank account for here naw?

Cos I just wan copy and send to my banker to help me pay in my widows whatever. I no de pm for nairaland o!

Meanwhile thaaaank u wellu well.
U r just a darling.
If not for God and my good heart, I would have colonised u.
Just don't want somebari to cry.

Lolllz at you YPP....always cracking me up.
May god continue to lift your spirit too.

You will however need to send me a pm as even TEHN don't have a registered account yet. Please bear with us.
Don't worry, pm me, I won't bombard you with my "new toasting skills".

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Chillisauce: Roy, the abused wives thread has been derailed.
You should clean it up.
Let abused men creat their own thread.
Abi u no no?

On it.

Engine Type Please!

V6 or V4?

U90 IN DIVERSIT: Come, are u writing in English or pidgin cos am still struggling to read your post....smh

Obviously you are the only one having problem reading the Op.

Go back to school sir!

slimyem: This just means that women have to be paranoid at all times...doesn't it?

Better to be paranoid than dead!