TRUTHISLIFEE: So I met this girl around my area and I kind of liked her. When I approached her, she was playing hard to get. After a long while, she told me that the only condition for her to date me is if I will not interfere in her relationship as she has been engaged, and that I will let her go peacefully anytime she gets married.
It was a difficult one for me but I gave her my word not to interfere in her relationship and to let her go. Even my elder brother warned me not to spoil that relationship.
We started making out and I kept my word of not interfering in her relationship. Most times we are together and the guy calls, I tell her to pick his call, if their conversation is getting longer, I will simply excuse myself from the scene to allow her talk with her guy freely.
There was a time an old acquaintance of hers showed up and asked her out, She lied to me unknowing to her I was tracing her to the guy's house. When they entered, I called her on phone to enjoy herself that I know where she is. I also let her know that I pity her man as I have nothing to loose in this whole thing/
Fast forward to today, she came to my house and asked me my plans for her, I told her I don't understand as she is engaged. She told me to forget the engagement that I should not use it as an excuse. I told her I will keep to my word and she left angrily. since she got home she has been calling me to agree to marry her.
Make UNA see me see wahala.
1) the guy has disappointed her 2.)she's desperate for marriage 3.) She's on the verge so she want you to make it full so she wl say is your child Bro DECLINE her
Ilaumoh: I and some friends visited the tallest smart building in Eastern Nigeria completed and ready for commissioning . This is not the Central Park tower in New York, neither is it the famous Duomo building in Milan, nor the Cathédrale Notre-Dame in Paris.
This is the 21 Storey smart building in Uyo, Akwa Ibom State, built by Governor Udom Emmanuel. The building is the 9th tallest building in Nigeria, it towers as high as 108.8 meters.
Akwa Ibom State is beautiful �� .
Point of correction; it was Godwill Akpabio that built it.
badboyTee: Just created this new account on nairaland so I can be able to ask for advice and post this .
Have been staying with my uncle in Lagos working for more than 10 months and living perfectly fine with him alone most times because the wife do goes to her school she still doing her N.C.E programs Each time she comes home we do relate normally.Everything seems fine though the wife school are on holiday now so she stays at home mostly and she is heavily pregnant
There is this girl my uncle wife sister ( around 16 or 17 years old) she does come to stay with my uncle wife now because my uncle wife is pregnant so she needs someone to assist her since she has come the girl relates normally with me before not until the day my uncle and his wife weren't around I thought I would be the only one to stay home that night until the girl came from church that evening and said she came from church that my uncle and the wife aren't coming that day.. ......though my uncle has called previously that he isn't coming ...I stayed indoor that evening from Around 8pm till 12 the girl I think is dating one of our streets guys because I was just peeping out from the window in the room seeing her discuss with a guy throughout that night till 1:00 in the midnight that she came in to sleep.
While she slept on a couch in the sitting room I was in the room sleeping I didn't know the devil that came into me I moved to where she slept and tried rubbing her body ,pressing her boobs I thought she was pretending to be asleep that she should have felt my hand since I was rubbing not until she shouted at me that "Are you mad? I tried second time to seduce her to no avail so she got angry and locked herself in my uncles room and slept till in the morning there......my uncle quickly came back with his wife the second day there saw her come out of their room ...........
Now if I do little mistake my uncle just behaves abnormally and says all kinds of things though he hasn't talked about the matter with me since then I feel the girl told him something for him to be behaving like that to me and the wife also changed completely to me I feel weird in the house and the girl also doesn't accord me again like before what can I do to be sure if she told him or not or any advice nairalanders ?? ?
But don't you know your uncle wife's sister is your relative also Your clothe white has been stained with unremovable substance
Flamees: I have this foreign friend We've been friends for quite some time So I decided to bill her Not illegally cause she knows my real name and that am still a student
So please what's the best way
I heard I have to create a domicile bank account
But am thinking of an app or platform where I can receive funds and just jejely move am to my Account
Its very obvious that 70% of our political leaders are comedians, Musicians & Actors Dino melaye-Actor Amachi -Musician & Those one fainted during interrogation are comedians
peeps4u: Because I expose thieves, is that enough justification for me to also steal?
Have you sat down to consider what the man does is also an injustice he's fighting? If he could be that abusive on camera, have you thought how harshly he will treat his crew members and domestic staff?
Did you see him barking at those who wanted to refrain him to step back? No one could near him because they knew what he could do.
The man is an abuser and deserves more severe judgent than just licence withdrawal
We're human so we all have anger system called Adrenaline. The goodness of the man are many so it can subceed his single bad deed
This country doesn't like good people, they're attacking the man because he has been exposed thoes evil doers & he has been seeking justice for commoners & helped a lot of people.
Patrioticbreed9: I can't keep it any more! each time i come across an edo lady be it on t.v and reality they always take my breath away.there beauty at time seem's non nigerian.if there is any world as over perfect,the edo ladies are.it all started with nancy isime to miriam oyakhilome to my secondary school crush precious oshesebe?? and recently liquorose of the G.G.B crew. there is just something about them i cant get over.am curently in ecstacy and emotional asylum.. edo ladies na bae..
90% of Edo girls eyes are in Abroad /Italy Sometimes they will compared you with their brothers that's making it in Italy
jayboy112233: Sorry I posted this on here. Please i need your sincere advice most especially from the married men and women here.
Can a guy who is earning 80k in Lagos marry with that income?
31yrs and family have started bringing issue of marriage. Citing the advantages of early marriage and disadvantages of late marriage, that it's not good to have your kids in secondary school @60yrs when you should be relaxing.
My dear with 80k salary if you married a good woman that's working too you can still have a wonderful family
Nigeria that cannot remove sand from their eyes how can they removed it from someone else Nonsense called Abi they're calling their terrorists brothers from sambisa to go & helped them
Some dream can makes someone go wild, I had a handshake with Burnaboy in my dream lastnight but eventhough I won't meet him soon or later I believe the dreamt is for a good omen... Have a wonderful day my people.
benjackugo: President Muhammadu Buhari, today Sunday 9th May, attended the closing of 2021 Ramadan Tafseer at the State House Mosque Abuja, IgbereTV reports.
It's still okay if you wife is doing sth too, & you can have a good family if you married a good wife that would give you "peace of mind" which is waht matters most in life . Regards to family planning; don't have more than 4kids.
Dollarseeker: To all those earning well but have all the time to themselves, please what do u do for fun. As in making too much money from home or owning a business that is runned for you by other employees, pls what do u guys do to have fun?
Staying at home all day is someone boring, without fun. Although I am not actually bored because I like quiet and less noisy environment and when alone I am still happy, however, I want to add fun to it.
So I am putting this questions to guys that makes money without stress and not going to work everyday; what do u do to keep u busy or add fun daily in ur lives.
WhiteJeans: A friend of mine based outside Nigeria is looking for a single, gentle, humble, honest, loyal, responsible, compassionate Christian man 32 to 38 for a serious relationship. He should have no anger issuebs, no previous marriage, no children.
Whizzdom: On Sunday, last two weeks my mom got a bank alert notification, someone sent her 3 million naira, she wasn't expecting money from anyone.
She was shocked, she called I and my younger sister. We couldn't believe it, so we waited for three days to see if the bank will reverse the money, they didn't, so I and my sister took our mom's ATM card to withdraw and test if the money was genuine.
We bought three phones from it. That's when we believed it was real. Then I transferred #50,000 to my bank and transferred #50k into my mom's other account which we used for foodstuffs.
On the fifth day the bank froze the remaining balance of the huge money sent. But no bank official or staff called my mom. That week passed, on the 3rd day of the second week, one lady called my mom by phone in the afternoon, she said her name is Sarah from so so bank.
My mom is not literate so they spoken in pidgin, she told my mom that she knows that my mom received a #3mil last two weeks and she has spent out of it. That the money was government money. Sarah told my mom to go to any nearest ........bank and write a mandate letter authorizing the bank to unfreeze the remaining #2mil in her acct and the bank will give us the beneficiary account which she will send the money back to. And we should return the money we spent out of it immediately.
When we got to my mom's bank, we went to customer agent area, instead of writing the mandate letter, we told the agent everything that happened leaving nothing untouched. the agent said we should give him the number of the staff that called us, when he called the Sarah with his phone, Sarah gave him another name, instead of introducing herself as Sarah, she said her name is Evelyn. She now told the agent to hold my mom down till she (Evelyn) gets to that bank to arrest my mom or whatever.
The agent said on what basis would he hold my mom down. The agent checked the description when the money was sent and he couldn't understand the description. He was saying how could this be government money. He told my mom to try and return the money spent and he told us to go.
The description on the transfer when it came in on Sunday was: "National Procurement of Scanners" #3million.
Is this truly a government money?
Nairalanders what are your opinions? Because my mom is scared, Sarah or Evelyn bullied her on the phone with jail time.
I don't know what to do.
my brother even the covi 19 money they supposed to share for us thats how they are doing it. They're splitting the money to different account for their own used.
Maybe the person they wanted to sent his/her own share to didn't respond to called so they quickly used ur mum's account temporary.
22brains: A friend of mine is seriously facing depression as a result of how old he's grown.
He disclosed his intentions to me that he wants to commit suicide because of the stigma of not able to do what his mates does that include age limit in the society.
With the love he has for the Nigeria military, he has applied to become a soldier severally but got disqualified on the basis of age. He applied for so many others with the same result.
His age mates who doesn't know much about his situation call him daddy, papa, old man which further worsen his state of mind.
He got fed up when his bank management denied him access to his account with the BVN he presented to make some accounting correction. They said his age on the BVN difer from his looks. They accused him of age falsification.
He was born on 1st of September 1996 but he actually look 30yrs older than his real age.
The question is, what could be the cause of him growing old everyday and how do I make him see positive reasons not to kill himself?
let him change his dressing pattern maybe get fine tshirt with fine pattern & also be wearing floral designed shirts to make him look younger, they must people that will admire him
Davindal: Hi Good People On Nairaland. My name is Davindal. I am a 29 years old ex Nigerian soldier but now an IT Expert. I got married on September 2019 to my beautiful wife.
It all started on March 2019, 6 months after I voluntarily discharged from the Nigerian Army due to serious injuries - though I am well and currently fit.
One evening around 9:10 PM, I was strolling home from a bar not too far from my street; when suddenly, A very pretty tall and well shaped chocolate complexioned lady accosted me. The moment I noticed that someone was fast advancing on my position from the rare, I had to quickly sway my body indefensive stance. Lol and behold, it was this very beautiful lady. No longer I was amazed at her. She equally noticed I was terrified and at the same time curious about her intention in bouncing on me from behind. Then she said, "Brother, please, I am sorry in the manner in which I approached you. My name is Ruth, and I have a problem and I need your help now".
Hmm... I contemplated inwardly what the problem was...how could this fine girl be needing help from an ex-soldier that equally needs help so as to fix thing up. These thoughts and more roamed aggressively on my mind.
Then, I asked her what the problem was, and she told me that she is a first year student of UNN. that she lost her ATM card and hard nothing on her to buy anything basically food. She pleaded that I should just buy her food for the night.
I searched my wallet, and found only N150. Guy man don spend all the N35000 (money) wey him carry commit around 6:00 PM to go flex some bottles and also buying drinks for a few homies. Whereas, in my area 2019 a plate of food was from N300 to N400 then.
I asked her not to worry, that despite the fact I had no enough money on me that I would still buy her food. She was all smiles.
As an area, I took her to a restaurant at a distance of a pole away from where we were standing and bought her a plate of food worth N400 due to the two pieces of meat in it, and a bottle of malt. I met the madam who runs the restaurant who happens know me quite well, and promised to come pay them tomorrow.
She obliged and was even hailing me "Awua! the Awua rugged!!" maybe because of the fine babe. However, we left that restaurant around 10:15 PM.
When we got out of the restaurant she said, the gate keeper to her lodge might have locked the entrance gate. That she would need to talk to a few of her lodge mate to inform them that she was locked outside so the could call come beckon on the gatekeeper to come open the gate but the problem was zero airtime.
I said no qualms, I transferred N200 airtime to her mobile phone from my GTB account. Before me, she placed a call to a close lodge mate who then rushed to her request. We exchanged contact and she left.
Thereafter, we keep talking over the phone periodically, but I noticed she was becoming more attached, and was calling me endearing names. Contrary to her advances, I was in a relationship with another lady (who is currently my wife) before that encounter, and I didn't want to cheat.
However, I lost my phone on June 2019 hence all the contact on it. When I bought a new phone 2 days later and welcomed back my sim I have to copy a few numbers from my diary into my new phone, hence lost her number.
I moved on, even though I was not eying her for a relationship but she called one day again and we started talking again. On September 2019, I married my wife traditionally without telling this babe about it.
Shockingly, I bumped into this babe in PortHarcourt, on 15 December, 2019... didn't quite know she was the one for the only time I met her was in the night, and it was around my area at Nsukka.
That day In PH, I was going about my business when suddenly she bumped into me on the door way in a super market/shopping mall. I passed her by, and she called me by my name "Davindal!". I turned but couldn't recognized her easily. The style of her hair made her confusing in appearance.
She was looking extremely gorgeous. Guys around us where admiring her and also watching us in awe. Then she said, " It is me...Ruth". I was excited so was she too, we embraced each other. Drove in her car to a cool place to chill. NB: I was surprise seeing her in such a big car but I held my calm.
After which she told me her dad sent her for a business deal with a firm that she was in that shopping mall to pick a few things. Surprisingly, sas we were gisting she informed me that something in her tells her that I just married few months ago. I kept mute...couldn't say a word. She said anyway no problems.
When I came back, to my hotel room, I was confused for I remembered, I never told her my name, not even in the night I met her, not to talk about getting married. I Couldn't phatom how she new about these things.
Please note: I have a one year 5 months old son now, and my wife is currently pregnant.
Fast forward to this year 2021, though ever since I bumped into her in PortHarcourt on Dec. 2019 we have been talking over the phone and via WhatsApp media.
In one of my conversations with her she jokingly told me that she has a key to my stars, and that she loves me dearly and would do anything for my sake even though I am married.
Then I summoned courage to ask her how she came to that conclusion, and she said she would tell me when we meet. She asked to see me privately, I told her that I am on a contract job in Abuja, that I would be back to Enugu State in a month's time.
I later came on April 2, 2021, sneakingly met and slept with her on 15th of April in a hotel. We had a nice time. She confessed how she loves me genuinely. In that hotel, though I paid for the room before I hinted her of the location.
During our intimacy time, she ordered and paid for all we ate and drank. When she was freshening up in the bathroom, as a security conscious person I checked her bag, and discovered stash of 500 naira notes, almost up to #45000. Other items are combs, eye pencils, brow powder, lipstick, tiny perfume can, and nothing more. I can say, this babe has wow b**bs, hip, huge thighs and *ss. Above all, with tight pu**y. I really enjoyed her.
The problem now is that she is becoming too attached to me. I even opened up to her that I am married, she cared less and said no problems. I traveled for another IT contract job to Lagos, and she was like, I should come back to Enugu and come and have her that she has grown so madly in love with me after that first sexu*all encounter. I kept on postponing the time I would be coming back until I promised her that I would come on 1st of May 2021 after which I couldn't make it.
Finally, I made it to Enugu where I am based alone. She wanted to come see me yesterday 5th, 2021 from UNN but I threw up an excuse because people know my wife very well. My wife is also a student of UNN, Economics Dept., and she visits weekends from Nsukka. I didn't want to insult her absence.
Why I am Scared
Yesterday, Ruth called me from UNN raging in anger that I don't know whom she is. That in case I don't know that she is a Goddess of wealth in the spiritual realm, and she posses supernatural power to ease of my life that I should know it now.
The moment I heard 'Goddess' cold shiver ran down my spine. Then I asked her to explain what she meant by calling herself a Goddess. She said that as a child long before she came in contact with me that she new me, that the injury I sustained in the military was pre-planned by my God to save me from untimely death. (I never told her I was in the military)
She went on to say, that although I seem successful in the myopic eyes of people. In furtherance, that I am suppose to be balling in higher level of wealth and money than I am currently balling because I am using only 1 star out of the seven higher stars I came into this world with. She said that she would be revealing her parents' identities to me later on.
I told her that she never answered my question on being a Goddess, and she said she is a Goddess of wealth. That she has a gift which makes it possible that anyone she loved and blesses automatically see a brighter future, and fortune. That in my own case that she was assigned to me spiritually to make me stupendously rich such that I can help the less privileged in the world for I am kind hearted young man would doesn't abuse privileges particularly when in the military.
This babe, 22 years old, equally reminded me that she had more than #10000 in her purse that night she came for me...that it was a trap to get in contact with my destiny.
Then, I became even more scared even through I was sounding firm and assertive. How she knew I was afraid got me scarier. She beckoned on me not to be afraid that she is a beautiful soul but also a supernatural person, and a Goddess who has been sent by almighty God to open my way properly. That she would bless me whenever I am ready to see her.
She reminded me to observe how things have been changing for good in my life ever since I met her, and Even more after our intimacy.
I reminded her that it would be some how to marry her a second wife, but she said she doesn't care that all she wants is to be with me that she would easily get along with her supposed co wife. She said she has her on money which is equally mine for an even more happy home. My wife is 23.
She is 22 and in 300 level, sparkling pretty, and gorgeous.
Please, who has experienced this for I don't know if she is a ghost or human?
Should I still be seeing her? Pls I need an advice for truly, I have been getting contracts steadily.
Oga you're weak both physically & spiritually how can you be scared of human being She said that to you bc she knew you are weak spiritually, she can't try such with somebody like me bc am spiritually rugged, brutal & radical
[quote author=CountVersailles post=101392256]Maybe "confront" is the wrong word to use here, but let me explain.
My brother and I had been sharing an apartment for a few months before he got married. He recently left to take a separate place with his new wife, who I'm friends with. No issues between us. Since my brother left I have been staying in the old apartment alone and paying the rent all my myself. Now, my brother's wife who is quite sensitive about their finances thinks that my brother is still paying for the apartment. This is because he was the one paying before, since he had been staying there for months before I moved in.
Now, I can understand her concerns. The reason she is thinking this is because, 1. I am not working, and she knows. So, she cannot believe I can pay for the apartment which is quite expensive 2. she knows my brother was the only paying before I moved in.
She doesn't realize I have taken over the payment since last two months, and has been nagging my brother to stop paying for the apartment even after he insists he is no longer paying. Maybe, she thinks he's lying to him.
I hate that this is going on. Maybe it's my ego, but I feel like talking to her directly and telling her that her husband is no longer paying for the apartment. Is this something I should do?[/quote just ignore her there's a kind of life you can live she will be scare to reason your matter
unamamatoto: I met this girl (seyi) on Easter day in ShopRite Lagos and we exchanged phone numbers o and after 2days, she came visiting and when it was time for action film.. She said I should bring my cap and wear it before WE MOVE but, I didn't have any because I wasn't planning on straffing.. I insisted on RAWmaterial cause babe set and fine... She sternly warned me o but, I was like "I get coconut head, I no dey hear word"... Its been 2weeks now and ive got this growing on myself... Doctors in the house, what's the name of this infection and please, what's the cure
bro that thing isn't STD it's from infected clipper
Romance › Re: She Told Me She Was Engaged, Now She Wants Me To Marry Her by Rrchrd(m): 4:19pm On Jun 01, 2021
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