₦airaland Forum

MznAirA:
Honestly, houses in lugbe are overly priced. I wanted a one bedroom and the cheapest I saw is 450k. The houses with the standard are 500k and above. I had to move my choice location to Kubwa seeing the distance is almost same to wuse

Is kubwa not more expensive than lugbe?
Were u able to get standard 1 bedroom in kubwa below 500k?

Is she related to UyaiIncomparabl?

family6644:
Exactly the problem I am having, she doesn't seem to see anything sensible in my late wife values and teachings and this is making me to dislike her and she doesn't seem to know despite trying so hard to explain to her.

Less than 3 months ur wife died, u are already cohabiting with another woman? Do u even respect your late wife at all? & u want another woman to respect her? U no try at all

Iamaboonasir:
Wrong u say??
Ok na, I can't force u to believe it and still can't force u not too....the choice is yours!!!
It' might be somehow impossible to u/for u but hey fam it's the truth!!! And ntn but the truth.......

I said it is not true!!!
Stop misleading people here!
Are u responsible for your feeding??
A family of six, are u saying they spend less than 1k on feeding daily?? Do the maths yourself! Do u stay alone? How much do u spend on feeding? Let's be realistic, your analysis is not possible, not even in a movie!
Have u gone to the market recently?
Truth is, u don't know how much that guy earns, he didn't disclose everything to u!!!!!

maasoap:
Judge it yourself based on his 30k/40k salary if that was possible, they had another source(s) of income

God bless u!
I see a lot of people still stay with their parents making these comments, because if u stay alone & u are responsible for your feeding and other things, u will know 30k is nothing in this present economy. How do one run a family with that with a full time house wife?? Let's be realistic please!

Iamaboonasir:
You wrong my brother, with right planning and self contentment make God come give you your own fine join u good to go (no be all this slay girls out there)

I know of a guy with 4 kids his wife is just a full house wife,she does nothing! Just stay at home all day taking care of the house and kids,even from the little her husband drop's she still do ajo/contribution inside..... This guy salary for month I doubt if e reach 40k sef (40k kini, highest 25/30k)...this guy's is currently living in his own house, all his kids dey go school aside the last child who is just few months old,they on gen from 7-10/11pm everyday (considering the cost of fuel)..... So my brother it's possible when u with the right person, it might be tough o but then with right channel of resources it will def work..

My brother u are very wrong!!!!!
With all these things u listed, 40k will not sustain it, let alone 25/30k. Do u stay alone
Calculate 1k per day for feeding, 30 days a month is already 30k! You don't know how much that guy earns!

Notyamate:
Exactly why I don't understand people. A dip like this is healthy, I mean $Doge coin pumped from 0.06 to 0.7, this month alone many people have made a lot of money on that coin. The only people that got trapped are the greedy ones or people that FOMO.

@bold Exactly!!!

SenecaTheYonger:
I’m saying what he’s doing is not organic. Suicidal shiit like this also happened in 2017 when celebs were shilling their fav coin causing people who had no business investing to lose money and plenty of suicide.

Negative reactions like this always force govt to intervene

There is nothing suicidal about this!!!
The term organic in crypto is subjective, it increase is influenced by a lot of factors!
Funny enough, this is just a small dip, last I checked it is still around 0.55cents??
When btc rose from 10k to 25k, everyone thought it was inorganic as u would say & will fall in the early period of 2021, but see where it is now! Every coin must experience dip to consolidate!
A coin that has done more than 500% within a short period of time, were u expecting it to continue pumping without consolidation?? Many of u lamenting here about doge are just novice! Anybody buying doge now shouldn't be expecting profit by now. But if profit should come good! But if it doesn't, hold!!!!! It will certainly go up again.

deewhydoski:
How did they lost the money?, it is not that someone scam them of their money. In crypto there is what is called bearish and bullish and something that goes up must surely come down and after awhile it will go up again. In crypto u have to learn how to be patience, in the next 3 to 4 days u will see doge rising again. People that are at lose are those that enter late

God bless u my brother!
I see a lot of impatient folks here!
@bold nobody is losing if they are patient enough to hold! I still remember when btc went from 10k to 4k sometime early last year before the halving & a lot of people did panic selling, till date they are regretting it! Crypto is not for the desperate, u must be patient to get anything from crypto. If u are the type that keeps jumping from post to post, just know crypto is not for u!

SenecaTheYonger:
This is the kind of nonsense that will cause the Feds to push for more regulation on crypto market. That’s why I dislike Elon Musk. Just let this market grow organically and stop the blatant shilling.

@bold Really??
U didn't dislike elon musk when doge was pumping, because of this little dip, see what u are saying?? Have u seen any coin that keeps pumping without any dip to consolidate it??
Even btc d father of all coins, experience dip from time to time to consolidate, let alone doge!
U guys just want continuous pumping without consolidation?? What type of mentality is that?
Many of u rushing into coins when it is only pumping are greedy folks & will certainly get burnt! It is not peculiar to crypto alone, but to every type of business!

Ritapearlydove:
ADA is cardano_, right sir?

Yes

Nkiruka35:
Lol....for where

Lol

Nkiruka35:
That was 2019 i offended my boyfriend i pleaded he refused so had to follow him and enter toilet and was stil begging him there

Lol hope u guys finally got married?

Iyaalakarra:
Why are men showing so much wickedness towards women

This is not true!

Ladyhippolyta88:
Be quiet and stop hyperventilating adopting a child does not mean you are stealing someone's child
If the biological father ran away and abandoned him he is deemed irresponsible and if he cannot be found there will be no need for his consent and the courts will see other reasons after all the child is with his mum the mother is marrying the would be father and the biological father did not even marry the mother legally.That said nobody is stealing anybody's child and it does not erase the biological father or stop the boy from looking for him if he wants to be found in the future

So stop being silly and crying why has the father not contacted the family over the years or gotten in touch with his son make person hear word abeg.

Do u ever think in your mind the op can adopt that child while his father is still alive without him consenting to it?? U think the court will allow that? The world has not gone that evil as u would wish!

Ladyhippolyta88:
Nature doesn't stop him from doing anything
Cc.wisewordd if the father is no where to be found consent ko consentor ni.T he man is legally marrying the mother already and that can serve as a cover since the child was abandoned they shouldn't be going to the North Pole to look for anyone's consent

His biological father is just anyone, but his father!!! That boy will grow up to look for him, even if they try to steal him now, it will only be for a while! Or is your current father not your biological dad?? Why are u supporting this evil? He can be a father figure to that boy without stealing him from his biological father!
So long the biological father is still alive, he must seek his consent to adopt that boy!
That is the right thing to do! Try to be reasonable for once!

wisewordd:
He'll need the dad's permission as long as he's alive. Again, she's evil. She'll do same to OP.

Thank you!
cc Ladyhippolyta88

Ladyhippolyta88:
Do you actually think the boy is bearing the name of the irresponsible father when he didn't even marry the said lady in the first place.Nobody actually erased the father from the child's life the father did that by himself.I don't know why we give some people pass even when they are irresponsible the man is very aware he has a child somewhere but has abandoned the child for God knows who and will later come one day to come and reap the proceeds when the child is grown.God knows that if I were the child I will regard such a man as a mere sperm donor and not my father and will even reject his name this is not new as far as I am concerned.

It is a big decision nothing stops the OP from doing this but even if he doesn't he should try to be a father figure to the boy the child will grow up to appreciate and love him more than the sperm donor.

@bold nature stops op from doing it!
The biological father is still alive & without his consent to this arrangement, it is stealing!
He can be a father figure to that boy without stealing him! Forget the legal procedures, op is simply trying to steal someone's child!

Romanoff:
No guy here will support you.

If you love the child enough to adopt him legally, seek legal counsel.

Only a lawyer can help you.

Adopting the child legally makes you his father and even puts you above his birth father and in a custody battle with the mother, if she's found unfit, you still get to keep the child.

But it's a decision you have to think hard and that's why I'm suggesting you get legal counsel.

What do u mean by the bold??
Must everything be about gender war?
The father of d child is still alive for Christ sake! Do u think it is right for op to take someone's child who is still alive?? Will u encourage your brother or son to do such? Everything shouldn't be about gender war but common sense!

NgHotGirls:
I am sorry I only offered advise as someone that has experienced what you going through, the reason they say invest what you can afford to o loose. Good evening

Your advise was very inconsiderate!

There is nothing distress about your price!

BRATISLAVA:
Give women a fair chance to do everything men do, not limiting them then claiming they want special treatment. If you knew how many women have been turned down from leadership because of their gender and underpaid, you would shut up and praise the gods that you were born with a p3nis. Blackmail indeed.

@bold I honestly don't get the bold?
Who is limiting women?
Are u saying everyman that has contested elections have won? When u want something, u fight for it & accept responsibility for once!

Favourchris:
Power is not given, power is taken. Let women come and take the power If they can.

Is not by being aggressive on social media or begging people to give you power.

Come and take it...

Thank you!
cc BRATISLAVA

BRATISLAVA:
Utter rubbish rubbiish that I didn't read.

You are irrational to think a person cannot lead because they are a woman. Sentimental toxic male.

Misogyny is dangerous stupidity.

U keep shouting misogyny??
Can't u argue with clear facts?
U mentioned some names, I asked u to list how these women impacted Nigeria positively?? I gave u a snippet of the things men have achieved! Naturally, things are done judging by antecedent, the female antecedent doesn't bespeaks of they have much to offer in leadership! The records are there!

These women u mentioned discharge their duties even below capacity! U people should stop exaggerating mediocrity! Moreover no one is stopping women from contesting political positions, if u want something go for it, don't come here to blackmail anyone with gender card, because that is the only thing u women are good at!

AfroKnight:
Nonsense talk. Earn your position. Don’t try to sneak in by playing the gender card.

Thank you!
Cc RuudVanNisteroy

BRATISLAVA:
Why don't you list the impact they made for yourself, if not that you've made yourself blind to it because it came from women?

Your male leaders, much like yourself, have destroyed everything and even shoot you lot for sport as SARS officers, and yet, you don't want women anywhere near leadership.

In your mind, only people with p3nises could have done anything you will take note of.

Misogyny is dangerous stupidity.

Let me tell u today, if not for men, the world would have been long inexistent! U keep mentioning Dora, okonja, etc, tell me one thing they did that is currently impacting Nigeria positively till date? You people should stop exaggerating mediocrity. Men fought for Nigeria independence, men built this nation, all the wars this nation has fought were fought by men! Stop being sentimental!

BRATISLAVA:
What makes you think women are incompetent except stupid misogyny? Women have bettered your life and your still moaning and hating everything they do.

Oh, so now ministers suddenly work under their bosses, because you can't stand the thought of a woman in leadership. Shift.

All your Nigerian male ministers and politicians are a disgrace and ruin to your country. But you will see nothing wrong with it, because you don't want women at any cost.

Carry your toxic masculinity/misogyny and assumptions about competence based on sexual organs to a cave. Leadership is suddenly determined by having a p3nis.

If it were your daughter who wanted leadership, you wouldn't be talking so much garbage.

Leadership by gender indeed.

Rubbish.

U are the daft one here!
How many women are leading soldiers in war front?? U think leadership is all about comfort?
All the wars going on around the world, how of the groups are led by women??
Give the leadership of the world to a woman and watch d world crumble within minutes! U think u are wiser than God?

BRATISLAVA:
Nigerian women cannot handle power, yet Nigerian men benefited immensely from the changes Akunyili, Okonjo Iweala, Ezekwesili and other top performers made to previous destruction by men.

Misogyny is a dangerous form of stupidity, and leads to murder and evil.

List the noticeable impact these people u mentioned made??
Why do u people make it seem women are restricted from contesting?
Is anyone stopping women from contesting political positions?
If u want something, u go for it, it shouldn't be given to u on a platter of gold because u are a woman! Such is a bad start for leadership!

SEGLIZ:
you are right but truth is who is stopping them from competing and contesting during elections?
the way and manner at which they about this their campaign confirms your question 'Wetin nigerian women wan introduce if they rule this country.'
they they present it like someone is somewhere holding them back from contesting for office.

Thank you!
cc RuudVanNisteroy

Elijahrona:
See why you are the way you are in life...

Men have been ruling our country for ages and see where we are today.

Why can't you accept something new and see where it goes?

Toxic masculinity

Is anyone stopping women from contesting?

blacknoir:
Power is not given it is taken. If you want power u have to take it

Thank you!
Cc RuudVanNisteroy

advanceDNA:
Let women rule..?? Who is stopping you from contesting??
As usual they want men to hand over the position to them so they don’t have to contest... cry babies

Honestly!
cc RuudVanNisteroy

A gender that is use to free offer without fighting for it because they are female, how can such gender make good leadership? Leadership comes with huge responsibility and sacrifice!