₦airaland Forum

illicit:
Let him be

He is entitled to be himself

U will just ruin his life once u make him feel inadequate

Exactly!
That is what op is about doing

frozen70:
It's obvious you didn't get the part if exposure
At five years, there are toys that makes children Crack their brain

When they go to parks or gardens and see their mates they interact well and learn ftom each other

When they go on vacation to families that have children of their age groups, the parents of the families gives them all tasks and challenges that makes a quiet child to pick up

Let him mix up that's the summary while you still seat him down to counsel him steady

Op never said his child is dull or not brilliant!
What op is insinuating is his son is too gentle, too cool & not rude or stubborn! That got nothing to do with intelligence. You will agree most intelligent students are gentle & calm. My point is the timidity of any child below 10 years should not be questioned! Many of u when u were that age had no sense!

Fabuloski:
I think you guys are not getting it, he said the boy is timid. This is the best time to address it because it becomes a part of him. I know what I have talking about, you don't want a timid son and your son when grown don't want to be timid!

He is too young for this!

frozen70:
That child needs exposure, he needs to visit his mates and play with them and learn how to act from the way they do

But give him time, then counselling is another way to go

He is just 5 yrs please!

Youngvegetable:
Help family. I have a child, a 5 year old boy who grew up with his mum. We were much younger when we had the child.

Until recently, she brought my child to me, she traveled to Ghana and married. I don't have a problem with that tho. My problem is with my son. He is too gentlemanly for my like. I don't even know if gentlemanly is the right term.

Dude is too timid for my liking. He looks exactly like me and all that but his behaviors are just not what I was when I was his age. He is too timid, kind and lenient. Please what could I do to toughen him up apart of beating. I need a my child. Imagine one small boy was dragging the biscuit I bought for him and he still have the boy and still give him water. It was the strangest thing I have seen in a while. Where the hell did he get that leniency and kindness from? I was never like this

Are u talking about a 5 year boy in this manner?? What does a 5 year boy know?

doggedfighter:
I am not sir o

I am ma

Every Nigerian surviving daily is a doggged fighter.

Lol

doggedfighter:
But you agree that living in fear can be destabilizing?

I agree sir
Only the super intelligent among them can do it. But this ur dogged moniker resemble their slang sha

doggedfighter:
How they pull that off with their incessant hiding and watching of back?

Honestly
The very intelligent ones among them do graduate 2.1

Kagd10:
The big ethnic groups wanna form their country and that's allowed. A country should be largely monoethnic with just few other small ethnics. But in Nigeria, we have at least 3 big ethnic groups in it! Such can't exist!

If every ethnic group in Nigeria should be allowed to form their own country, that will lead to the disintegration of Nigeria contrary to section 2(1) of the 1999 constitution of Nigeria as amended. No govt of any nation in the world can sit & watch its country collapse!

Kagd10:
You're spitting trash! UK and US are not polyethnic nation like Nigeria. Btw, don't the Scotland, Wales, Ireland et al have their nation different from England? Yeye dey smell.

That even makes Nigeria case worse!
Too small for break up!
Any govt allowing any region to break away will automatically be allowing Nigeria to collapse, because Nigeria is faced with more than one region secession agitation. If govt should allow A break away, definitely B will do same, to avoid this, it will be very difficult for any govt to allow a break up. U people should start agitating for regional govt or restructuring. That look more realistic

doggedfighter:
Do cultists live long enough to graduate?

Some of them do graduate with a 2.1

Weedhustler:
If anytin happens to MNK, that will be the end of Nigeria!

It can only be the end of east, not Nigeria!

One thing I know for sure is, no government will tolerate secessionists all over the world. Including the UK and USA. If Nigeria should harbour someone here, labelling UK all sorts of names & agitating for secession, won't the UK sanction Nigeria? So forget this thing UK is doing, if they are in Nigeria Govt shoes, they would have done worse!

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doggedfighter:
Chris is cute and has a beautiful smile

FedpolyOko has guys and fine babes o


A big congratulations, Chris.

May the odds be in your favour.

Smh

Divoc19:
It's also not fun the see her in helpless situation either.
This is what has made our youth desperate for money The Pressure is always too much from loved ones.

True

Divoc19:
Hell no.
Why?
He needs a break if things are going to get better for all of them.

You can't eat an half baked cake abi na unripe corn?

The bold doesn't apply to this case!
He should give his mum the best he can give her now, even if he is still struggling, because it is very possible the poor woman may not be around to enjoy his wealth tomorrow when he becomes dangote! So whatever he can do for her, let him do it, if he becomes very wealthy tomorrow, he will still continue. Helping his mum is of top priority at this stage of her life.

Divoc19:
Just think...

What if you die today?
Them go die follow you?

They are calling you because you are telling them everything.

Man up bro.

Think about what?
Are u suggesting he shouldn't help his mum? I never knew u were this wicked!

chatinent:
Where these people dey see this money?

He is a senator nau
Do u know how many constituency projects worth billions these guys are entitled to?

[quote author=Chikispilot post=103217908][/quote]U are ready to war?? Lol
On nairaland abi? Lol

Chikispilot:
u toking to them? lv them nnamdi k. death will only bring nothng bt war! war!

Shut up please!
Who will fight the war??
Or u think war is all about commenting on nairaland? If Ojukwu a well trained soldier, made governor of eastern region, with all the experience and control was crushed, who is helpless nnamdi KANU? The only way u people will go about this is through peaceful approach gaining world support, no through violence at all, u people will just die for nothing!

nairavsdollars:
If you kneel on this one's neck till he can't breathe, I will even give you double promotion

Lol
Quite funny

Rozcol:
Who should we blame?

Zzor

mariahAngel:
Op, your wife loves you very much.
No woman who loves her husband will go to sleep while her husband is still out so late at night.
So, however your wife reacted, it was out of love. She was being protective of you.

The moment you came home late to her, she was no longer your wife, but your mother.
If she hadn't scolded you, she wouldn't have been calm, so don't take it to heart.
She loves you very much. And was probably a bit jealous that you chose to stay out so late to hang with friends instead of her, while she missed you.
Did you at least get her something on your way back to pacify her?

cc destiny4luv
The bold is what happened
95% of women will act the way your wife did, unless the feeling is no longer there! she acted out of jealousy & needed your assurance she is still the number one in your life, nothing more! So no think am...

Jman06:
I'm one of those who'll give that girl a second chance. Not justifying what she did but I believe she did that in self defense.

This should serve as a lesson to other married men to keep their prickks at home for their wives.

Does the self defence also include withdrawing from the man's account? Had it been she didn't withdraw from the man's account, see how u people would have twisted this story to self defence! There is no lesson here, the man was just unlucky, there is no law restricting married men from having affairs!

Laeroy:
This is actually very deep..
But I actually agree with you.
Nobody is actually good.
But what happens to self control?

Not having self control is not enough reason to get killed! There is no justification to what the lady did! The man was just unlucky!

kelmicheal:
Both the victim and the suspect are all guilty.

A married man with beautiful wife and kids going after sidechick

A young girl whose parent sent to the university to study and have a brighter future going out with somebody husband putting her father and mother to shame at the end.

The day of reckoning is coming

Only the suspect is guilty here!
The victim was just unlucky which can happen to anyone in every aspect of life! You can be unlucky to get killed buying a land by the seller, that was what happen to the victim here! There is no law that prohibit a married man from having a side chick, but our laws are against killings!

Jbleenk:
The withdrawal could be an afterthought, don’t u think? She withdrew the money to pay her school fees according to her. She need a good lawyer to prove her case. She’s just a victim of circumstance. We’ve all been there done that. Nobody holy pass.

Nobody holy pass are not for crime as grievous as this! Why did she have to kill the man?? What happens to the man kids? Do u think any of them go don pass 15 years? Why didn't she drug the man & withdraw his money without taking his life? This is no case of nobody holy pass, but pure evil! She didn't even poison the man, but had to stab him multiple times?? Come on!

Moviesplug:
A must see oo

Do u have link to Apocalypto movie?
Thanks

SenecaTheYonger:
Every morning when I wake up, my prick wakes up before me. I can’t go outside for like 5 minutes because of how madly erect it is. I fvcking love it.

The good part is that I’m not even thinking of anything sex related. When I think about sex? 15 minutes and I’m still erect.


Feels good to be a man.

Cc mariahAngel

Jbleenk:
The withdrawal could be an afterthought, don’t u think? She withdrew the money to pay her school fees according to her. She need a good lawyer to prove her case. She’s just a victim of circumstance. We’ve all been there done that. Nobody holy pass.

Oga shut up abeg??
Did u read what u just wrote or u have mental issues?? Because she wants to pay her school fees she can steal?? What happens to reporting at a police station? There is no lawyer in the world that can defend this case! The withdrawal she made immediately after the man's death has negate every self defence approach to this issue! No lawyer can defend that!

mrsage:
From the little information available. She has a good case of self defense.

So far it's difficult to establish a motive for murder

There is no case of self defence here because of the withdrawal she made from the dead man's account!