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Where all those plenty children stay for this woman belle!

CalliDora1:
You're clearly not ready for responsibilites from your statement but that tiny rope between your legs is trying to help you do the thinking by pushing you to have sex with her "just to know if she's telling you the truth". And she's told you if anything happens not to leave her but you still want to go ahead knowing full well that you won't commit to her.

My sincere advice.

Op, do you have the money to cater for a family now? Use your brain, leave sex out of this relationship. Sex is overrated because after everything, your senses will come back and reality will strike you hard, by what time it is too late.
This is how you bring problems for yourselves just because of five mins madness.

U think sex is five minutes madness because u never receive better diick? I laff
Just pray make person like me no catch u for bed, u will scream like bukatyne!

Vyolet:
Whatever you think about me is inconsequential.
Wait until immature boys rubbish your wife's effort at being frugal and concort stories like she is controlling you and help you dissect your home.

But the bold is not far from the truth!
Op is afraid of his wife
I see no reason why any man will come to Nairaland for such issue, when he should have simply confronted his wife. If your wife took the ATM card with her, instead of whining on nairaland, call her to help u withdraw, simple thing!

ststyreal:
Don't transfer any money to any body, be it father, mother or siblings, cos only God can be trusted especially this one that involves money. Calculate all you will be needing for the month and collect it in lump sum from your wife. At least you are seeing your wife everyday, if you mistakenly transfer the money to any siblings, I tell you na story go end am.

So u mean any of your siblings can't put any of their funds under your care?? Are u that unreliable & untrustworthy?

Vyolet:
Keeping such numbers of dogs and spending so much on them should mean that they are bringing in more money for you that is, you use them for business, anything outside that is quite wasteful, what will you be doing with plenty dogs?

As for the money, open a new account with a different bank, ask her to transfer the money into the account or you pick her phone and do the transfer yourself, she won't object because it is your money, don't try to paint her bad.

Thank u for d bold!
I really do not understand the kind of baby men the society is breeding these days, simple issue, they won't confront their spouse, but rather run to nairaland to start whining

Kelvin30286063:
I know but wetin I for do now?

Tell her to request for another atm card!!!
If she is using verve, she should request for visa or MasterCard! I really don't know what is happening these days!!!! Why are the present day men so weak & fearful?? Instead of confronting your wife on simple issues, u people run to down to nairaland. Are u scared of your wife?? I really don't understand u men...

adeboyedefem:
Hello house, please where can I get a ledger Nano hardware wallet in Lagos?

Get it directly from ledger website & receive it via dhl. Do not buy from any second party.

MrNipplesLover:
The discussion of love me more I love u more that has come up between u and ur woman, I bet u, my brother, you've put the relationship on a shaky table.


This discussion will always trigger up some issues in the nearest future, and this might affect ur relationship.


My point:

U and ur woman should have never brought up such discussion.


I pity ur relationship.


God epp you and ur woman.

There is nothing wrong with bringing it up!!!
The lady simply have reservations about the relationship, that is it! Op already sound like a weak dude, her statement is more than enough reason to terminate that relationship. Any lady that values her man & relationship won't say such!

elantraceey:
Most ladies, I inclusive will prefer their men loving them more. It doesn't mean they don't love their men but having a feeling that they're loved more gives them a sense of security and trust.

& Any Lady that values her man & relationship will never spill it out in such manner & that makes op case worrisome!

Sulele04:
Honestly, I am just praying that Crypto, Forex should crash soon and many Nigerians should lose a lot of money to it like MMM.
I want to tell people I warned that it's a scam, "Shebi I told you".
That feeling of "Shebi I told you" .

I am Jealous and angry that people are cashing out from it .

You expressed the bold in a funny manner, but it is the true state of mind of anyone against crypto in this country. They are just not happy they miss out & seeing people cashing out makes them jealous.

Romanoff:
Do you know that being a Nigerian makes you more likely to die than this shallow deep stream can kill you?

Lol
Funny but true

Lol

Bola146:
God bless her, a good example. Not the lazy ass ones ranting here

See this one!
Which one did u buy for your boyfriend?

bukatyne:
How old is the guy? How old is your sister? What is your sister good? What is the guy doing?

Prior to now, what is the relationship of the guy with your parents?

I read in a post that your parents did not lend you money: could that be your anger and not the right/wrong of their action?

Obviously yes @bold

Dude kinda look like Bola146

ahiboilandgas:
million? Don't u study the voting pattern...few hundreds of Chadian,Nigerians abi beggars and leper and poor carrot sellers ....hausa people doing well are in Abuja and the north ....trailer no be house in 8 hr time it in kaduna....abi u want to move yoruba school from kaduna ....or resign from your white colar job in kano and sell yam in oyo..

So Hausa people don't have investment in Lagos? Dangote building the largest refinery in west, is he not a northerner? Don't pray for trouble, because it won't favour anyone!

pretydiva:
Another meaningless song about to be released

Shut up!!!!
Which one have u released?
Small girl with big mouth!

Klass99:
Rubbiish, it is okay!

There's no need to bust a vein over my personal experience with the matter or comment at all.

Why are you even so worked up over a stranger's real life experience and her account of it?

Be calming down o!

I am not worked up!
Just tying to correct a specious impression!
That's all

Klass99:
Oh well being a Sunday, here goes...........

But a woman was able to manipulate you into eating the fruit you were expressly told not to eat, long before she ever arrived.

How was she able to manipulate you like that? And please where was your logical reasoning ability then?

If only you employed the use of it, you would have saved us all from the stress and predicaments of this world today

It is interesting how you mostly fail to use that logic of yours, at times when it matters most! But continue to shout it from the roof tops like a noisy gong.

Your analogy doesn't tally with the discuss!
Eve deceiving the first man is different from mothers manipulating their sons! Eve deceived Adam because he was emotionally weak, Adam is just one man out of many! Not all men are emotionally weak & can be manipulated by women!!! Generalizing sons are easily manipulated by mothers is lame! The girl child is more emotional than d male child & will always pitch tent with the mother because of the gender factor! Unless u choose to deceive yourself!

justosee:
how many young men will buy val gift for their father tomorrow?

And how many young men will buy for their mothers Do our young men buy val gifts for parents in this part of the world?? Where are u from??

justosee:
You don't know anything

Next time speak for yourself & stop generalizing please!

Mindlog:
Your children will certainly cease sending you money once they get the hint that it from it that you are maintaining a mistress.

Make sure you have a cool stash of your own money because it is less likely a young lady will be in a relationship with an aged you, if she is not seeing the money because that will be her motivation and make sure that doesn't finish o!

Speak for yourself @bold

Klass99:
Oh yes, we do. I guess opposite poles attract.

My own mother tried this with me too, if you see the mental walls and defences I put up to guard myself against it ehn?

In my mind I was like, there's nothing you will tell me about this man that will make me turn on him, because I grew up seeing him pay the bills, handle his responsibilities and do right by all of us, wetin you wan come tell me?

This is a very big lie!
So ur mother couldn't manipulate u a woman with emotional reasoning against your dad, it is your brothers who are men with logical reasoning she could manipulate? Lol I laff

justosee:
I don't have a too close relationship with both parents in my own case. not that they don't reach out to me, but I love having my own space. My only sister is the one closer to my father.



We guys are very weak emotionally so it is easier for mothers to manipulate us.
once a man's heart start yearning for love and he does not get love, his ability to reason properly is affected.

with girls, I don't think it is easy to manipulate them. you can only brainwash her into believing you.

@bold oga speak for yourself!
It is far easier for mothers to manipulate female children than male against their fathers! Don't even try to argue this! Every male child we always stand by his dad because it will be easier to put himself in his dad position as man.

etrouble:
Go over what you posted one more time, then do a self assessment of your life. The way you are going, will you ever make it in life?

A young graduate called Mr Macaroni could not get a descent job, he decided to create one for himself at least to be able to feed himself but you are mocking him because he is not begging family and friends for food like you have been doing.

Now, government is oppressing everyone including you, Mr Macaroni decided to protest even on your own behalf and here is the rubbish you've got to say.

If you and other lazy youths and internet miscreants continue like this, then it will be difficult for you to make it in life and impossible for you to make Heaven.

Honestly sir!
The guy's post is irritating!
At times I begin to wonder if a robot is behind that moniker. I can't believe a human being would say such things. How can u mock someone hustling legitimately to fend for himself

thebosstrevor1:
Good for him.

Someone who spends all his day creating so boring comedy videos about freaky freaky and promoting SIMPHOOD is a leader of a protest group.

What is his job? Internet comedian or activist.

He has fallen into a deep trap.

Dont be moved by comedians or celebrities who suddenly turn activists, they are all sponsored and most are courted because of the followings they have on social media.

Is this what u do for a living??
Commenting on every thread on nairaland defending this government?? I used to think u are a normal user, never knew u are a paid jobless government supporter!

This ride is clean

CalliDora1:
It's not fabricated. It's true.

I have a very close married friend that still told me three days ago how she wishes to leave her marriage because she misses her single life and freedom. She said she wishes to do things at her own pace and will again.

She said marriage has made her lose herself and she needs to build herself back to that person she wanted to be.

Men don't know that marriage is a huge sacrifice the women make for them to achieve somethings in life yet they won't value the woman

@bold So only women make sacrifice for men by getting married to them? Lol The family u come from, only your mother cared for u?