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Mine is "The power of love" By Celiene Dion

There is something about our Igbo women that is attractive. I don't know exactly what it is. only God can explain that one

Give him time everything will fall into place. Don't push or rush him to trust you.

They will tell their cousin to come and act like their sweetheart or wife to be so that she will get upset and leave

Ify kedu Igba kwara weekend gi ofuma?

Okwu di nro na eme ka onuma la azu
Soft words turneth away anger

Chineke na puta kwa threadia!!!!

@Topic udele si kedu ihe jiko tara ya na barba?

Obu na dibia amaghi akpu isi ka obu na aguba adighi nko?
Is it that a Barba does not know how to cut hair or that razor is not sharp?
Onwe kwara nko wa ozo ma na obughi rubi ga ede nke ahu

JJYOU:
do you know anyone in love with trouble like you? chill and get your attention onto something bigger than this. there is more to life than arguments on nairaland. by the way you don't have to win every argument. learn how to be a team player because you will always need to work with people.

I am always impressed with your post on NL keep it up. You sound like ujujoan

@Tatooboy I think your attention/mind is divided
Are you an xtain? if not try and draw closer to God he will help you take off the scale from your eyes so that you can see clearly the virtue in your wife

There is no place like home

kokoye:
How do you expect a father to feel comfortable leaving the child with the mother who can gossip away on the phone and forget she ever had a kid?

It is not true the brain of a mother at home moves like calculator/computer she's alert more than her hubby when it comes to handling kids

kokoye:
or when Italy scored a last minute goal against Nigeria during the 2004 World Cup.

My nerves can't handle such things anymore

I taught it is only me that have that kind of shock.

I think I said that to you in your other thread

A men

Seun please we are waiting when I logged in and wanted to click on post it wasn't there I got confused whether this is the same NL I am a member

kokoye:
You better ask somebody

I did not marry until I was sure I was ready to be a loving and devoted husband and father.

You will reap the fruit of your labor

Outstrip:
Ruby Pearl is there no other day care in your town that your nieces and nephews have to go to one that they do not change diapers or feed children. Have you said anything about it to them.

I have come to the conclusion after several experiences from different day care centers/househelp that they are all the same no one is better that the other and you can't get 100% satisfaction from anyone taking care of you baby. I know exactly what ruby is saying. At the same time kids need public interaction with other kids, it helps them in their developmental stages research have proved that. What I do I just compromise and tell myself it is a matter of time they will out grow it. I know it is a challenging period

kokoye:
well, I wasnt talking about ignorant fathers or those who have created horrid experiences , because I aint guility of any of those.

I believe that's how mothers are like sexyLeamon mentioned.

Even when you talk to them about it, they still stylishly try to find out what's been going on. and it makes me laugh all the time.

I did not change a diaper for the first 5months of my son's life because his grandmas were around so everyone thought I could not do it. But c'mon, it aint rocket science - I watched them do it once or twice and it was all I needed.

Before they all woke up one morning, I had given my boy a shower, fed him and dressed him up real good - they three of them (grandmas and wifey) woke up to meet us playing in the living room and their jaws dropped. First thing they did was make sure a diaper was on him and it wasnt leaking!

I just smiled wickedly and whistled as I went into my room.

We can do this but we give you the feeling of control - because we love you!

Are you sure? if you are that is great

kokoye:
Why do you mothers leave the kids at home with their dads but call every 5 minutes to see what's going on? have they eaten? what did they eat? how much food did they eat? did you change the diapers yet? did they get any sleep I wonder how the babysitters / day care centers would feel if you bugged them this much - they'll propably tell you to come and take ur kids!

Even when you ask us to help out with the kids, you already have a mindset we'll never get it right, so why bother then?

The kids belong to us so we love them as much as you do.

Stop being paranoid and have little trust in the fathers!

#$@%#$%@%!!

It is natural I do that too. The honest truth is that 99.9% of day care centers/baby sitters are run by women ( mothers) so the mother knew exactly that the person their child is with knows exactly what to do even if she is not there but men it is hard to leave your child with your hubby without monitoring the kids especially when they are on the internet forget it that one is another story.

JJYOU:
if there is one medicine i would like to give nigerians it is one that would make us leave young couples alone without crowding their houses and relationships.
we now have phones so don't need to be in peoples lives as before. let alone go and stay

You nailed it!!!!!!!!

onye uwa ya patara mmanya gbara uka/mmanya tin kana oga nu ipa gara ya onye?
If the challenges of this life overwhelmes you who can you take it to?

I love this thread

onye aturu Ilu ko wara ya ego e jiri luo nne ya furu ohia God forbid bad thing!!

Obi bu akpa onye o bula nya nke ya
Heart is like a bag everyone carries his/her own
Ify kedu?

ke eme si a nu echi di ime
Tomorrow is pregnant and will give birth to Ify, mortiple, echelon, youngies, chika, na ndi ozo n'eme ka threadia ga n'iru

The same reason a man date more than one woman that is the same reason women date more than one man

Mpele:
How to spot a Nigerian!

1. Very loud and attention seeking

2. Argumantive

3. Dark, tall and well build and also the ladies are dark, well build with too much make up.

4. Guys with fake diesel jeans.

5. Fake American accent

You nailed it

action man

@ Mortiple ezi n'ulom na anya oyi ugbu a nke a akaria la uguru

Na mu ahau la nwanne m Ify mu na acho ke mgbe
Ube rubi eruela onweghi onye mu n' enye tu

A bia gha chi te la m hei I di too smart!!!!!
Onye ube ruru ya ra cha

A no m n'oru agam abiagha chi soon

E meta lam ya

A ma ghim kam ga esi me ya ana m agba li go zi m biko

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