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cut your coat according to your size simple!!!!!!!!

ifyalways:
As much as she can afford to bring out.

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Outstrip:
If your child wants to be held then hold him. He is a baby for Christ's sake. In NIgeria, you see women carry their babies on their back all day long. While they cook, pound yam, clean the house and those children are well adjusted. Research has shown that if you ignore them they will end up being more emotionally needy. This is just normal. Hold that child. If he was sixteen years old I would say slap his head but this is a baby we are talking about.

I gatt what you are trying to explain but you see in America it does not work like that. In Nigeria most families have maid and neighbors that helps them out in house chores so there is more time to spend on the baby but here no maid, no family member, no neighbor to ask you may I help you? I don't think it is the intension of any parents/mum to ignore the child to cry like that a woman is trying to catch up with sleep go to work take care of the baby before dropping the baby at the day care center or before the babysitter comes you see if it becomes a habit the parents is going to be frustrated at the end of the day. In a nutshell if a baby is conditioned in a certain way that is the way that child will follow.

@Poster you can buy rocking bouncer that has music and put him/her there this one will help too before you know it the child is asleep

Dowry should not be abolish please oooooo that is the only symbol/respect and our little pride that we women have it shows we are traditionally and culturally married before the man will say aluru gi alu also let it not look as if we just pack our boxes and run to his house but the cyfolding part of traditional marriage is what I don't like

If you want a good wife first of all be good yourself. vice versa If everyone keep saying I want a good this a good that and no one is working on his/her ways marriage will not work. The idea should be what I am bringing to this marriage to make it work. Good wife plenty it depends on your definition of good.

When you love your wife and treats her very well she will welcome the extended family you. It is the treatment you gave her that she will potray outside

Why did you accept pressure from anythird party will they be there for you when that pressure will start igniting fire. Besides few men have succeeded from that journey

Kids are like that just be patient with the baby but don't give in to carrying him since he can has started walking especially around the house but when going outside use stroller babies can manipulate their parents and you are not going to be with him 24/7 so the earlier he gets use to being on his own a little bit the better for him the babysitter might have the same patient you have for your baby. Concerning his cries don't worry too much about that one. A crying child is a healthy child

ifyalways:

@Topic,Ibe ama onye ukwu
[color=#990000]a prophet is not recognized at his hometown

Onye amuma anghi abu eze na ala nke aka ya

@ify o di m ka o nwere ihe mere recently na ndu gi ekele diri chineke ama kwam na mmuo mu n'agbaram ezi ama
ole ihe ahu isi na iga akoro m korom ka obi di m nma nti mu ma agba kitikiti inu ya I wish you the best in life

Three people went to make international call the first person is from Nigerian the second person is American and the third person is from second Europe They all stayed too long during the long distance call so after the call they now ask

for their bills the person from America was told that his bill was three thousand he gladly payed the other person who is from Europe was told that his bill is two thousand five hundred pounds he gladly payed the other person who is from

Nigeria was billed only one naira he was very curious and asked why upon he stayed too long over the phone more than the rest he was told that his bill is small because his call is considered local calls why because Nigeria is very close to hell fire ( because of nigeria present situation )

Money cannot buy love

Very interesting at least your wife understands the game and joined too

Hannibal:
Women are too smart for this theory of yours.
They would do anything under the sun before the wedding ring. . . .
As soon as she tricks her way into wearing that ring, she changes overnight.

I don't agree with you at least for someone that is smart and intelligent should know

Where is the girls parents and where is the mans wife?

Hannibal:
I would rather be called a wife beater than a wuss!!!
Give a woman an inch and she would take the whole nine yards.
If she slaps u and u don't throw the book at her, she would do something worse after 24 hours.

Partner's temperament. . . . . . .You will never know with women.
Even women cannot understand other women which is why many prefer male friends than female friends.
Women are too complex to read so leave that side alone. . . .
All the men that married and later divorced thunk n believed they knew their partners' temperament.
WOMEN are the biggest pretenders in the universe.

You don't have to know someone/partner 100% to know whom she is but at least during dating there are basic things that describes one

@ Poster because no one wants any distraction

Hannibal:
I disagree with you.

When a woman decides to raise up her arm and strike a man across the face, she should be ready for the consequences.
The golden rule of any relationship. . . . NEVER DARE A MAN!!!
Oprah Winfrey would tell u that anytime anyday.

I know ways of women but any form of SLAPPING won't be TOLERATED.
Slap me? Ma parents never did and a sissy thinks she would get away with that?
She would get slapped at least THRICE.

That is too harsh Bro and that is why you must know your partners temperament before marrying them

onyinye2:
When a woman slaps a MAN, she deserves not to be slapped back.
What a woman can do to man, aint nothing compared to what a man can do to a woman.

Because women are fragile

Hannibal:
So receiving slaps from a woman is the pre-requisite of living with a woman??
Don't me laugh, it's too early.

Re read my post I do not support a woman slapping a man but a amn must know ways of women and how to live with the if a relationship must work and the sam too with women

onyinye2:
He is lying, he knows he would never do such a thing.
Hey, I gotta speak the truth. Cause I know if that were to happen to me. . . .

Chugga Chugga, Chugga Chugga, Choo Choo!!! All aboard on the S. S. Train of Guilt. Once you hop in, don't think about hopping off.

I have the same feeling

Hannibal:
I would never slap a woman because a woman is yet to slap me.
The day anyone tries it, she gets double dose.

That means you are not ready/learn yet to live with a woman in the same roof but that does not mean I support a woman slapping a man

onyinye2:
Hell yeah!!! Shoot. . . . i will ride that guilt train for LIFE.

That is what very good and wonderful

nina1:
turn around and walk away

At point

@ Poster If I am a man I will not slap her back I will be quiet and walk away the knid of guilt you have heaped on her she will never ever get over throughout her life span

Apart from salvation the greatess gift that God gave me is my hubby

I must know the person's personality and principle but the reason must be beyond my control before I can let someone else train my child there is nothing like bonding with your child both in the good times and in the bad times

Kashif:
Ifymgbenile,

Chineke kere elu igwe na ala
Ma ihe anya na-ahu, ma ihe anya n'adighi ahu
O nwere otutu ihe O nyere anyi dika onyinye
Mana ufodu oge, anyi adighi eweda anya n'ala

Anyi adighi ahuta iberibe agbam ume;
Agbam ume puru iche n'etiti anyi
Bu nke nwere ike i me ka obi anyi lota.
Mmanu ndu di oke onu ahia ma I nweghi ya

Ufodu ihe itu n'anya na-agbagwoju anya
Ufodu n'eme ka anyi juo si "nke a/ onye a si ebe?"
Otutu ihe di nke ego n'apughi izuta;
I gaghikwa ahu ha ebe a kposara ha n'ahia

Ify bu omuma atu ihe m na-acho ikwu maka ya
Oburu na o nwere ihe m na-achosi ike,
Oburukwa na o nwere ihe m ga-acho ka e mee,
Obu ka anyi dum na-ahuta tredia dika Ify,

Odi onye obula choro ntapi?

Igbo bu Igbo, Kashif na-ekele unu nile, Kachaaaaaaaa nu!

Okwu agwula Ify di toooooooo much ya gazie

@ Ndi Igbo si oburu na analu nwa nne alu eje mu mba eje ime ole
If it is possible to marry your siblings what I am going to a foreign country to do

Don't settle for canoe when God says build an ark

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears
The figure that she carries or the way she combs her hair

The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes,
beacuse that is the door way to her heart, the place where
love resides.

The beuaty of a woman is not in a facial mole but true
beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring
that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows and the
beauty of woman with passing years only grows.

You don't stop laughing because you grow old; you grow old because
you stop laughing

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jemima2007:
thanks you all 4 your advice

it all for the best

it was a game to him from the beginning

life goes on

I am glad to hear you say this words to yourself I have been following this thread from the beginning I have some words of advice/encouragement first of all I don't know how strong/balance you are phychologically/mentally but nothing has

spoiled yet what matters is not what he has stolen but what are you doing with what is left all though according to you he left nothing for you pick up your broken pieces and move on yes" the road will be very tough for you now but don't

be discourage. I don't know whether you have papers in Canada or not but if you do try and enroll in school, I don't know your level of education if you are not a graduate aspire to be one. Alot of people have become graduate without

papers. Look at the mirror and tell yourself I will face the world. Find government agencies I think they can help in paying for your kids day care while you go to school you can also get a little job to help support yourself a long the

way. One million bussines is something and at the same time is nothing if at all the business is worth that depending on how you view it. I have seen people's wealth crash in a twinkle of an eye which nobody prays for money is like a

wind that comes and goes. People have started from the scratch now they made it. Don't be discourage rather encouraged yourself. The Egyptians you see today you shall see them no more. believe in your self Good luck

tRoOE:
[size=13pt]I hate saying word "Goodbye"
especially to those i love the most
we all have to let some people go, at one point in life
it doesn't matter if they are lovers,friends,family members e.t.c

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I agree with all that you've mentioned but not on family members it depends on the inolvement

Una don see why I always say openness in a relationship is very very important no matter how bad it may look like let your partner know whom you are