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harakiri:
In between, i have reached a stage of my life where i'm focused on my well being,self development and of course, investing for my future years ahead of me.The last thing that bothers me right now is who's sleeping with who or who's cheating on who and all that. That was in the past.I have transcended beyond that stage.All the same, i'm in a healthy relationship but i will never lose sleep with jealous thoughts if things go side ways. . .catch my drift?

This is maturity

Nwata rie ihe ona amuru anya ya ura aturu ya

@ Mutter, I agree with you but not when you are psychologically,emotionally and mentally tormented in your own

marital home and your life is in danger by a stranger who has a home somewhere, just to come b/w you and your hubby and give you sleepless night that one is hard. Anyway everyone has different temperament in life.

If the story is true I will say forgive your mother as God commanded us but there won't be any atom of relationship until death itself do both of you part. If you mother can win your husband-to-be heart then she is free to have him.

Na Waaaaaah!!!!!!! for some contributions here I miss almondjoy and few others in family section.

@Poster give your MIL a red flag before you commit murder out of stress.

A chuo aja ma a hughi udele amara na ihe mere be ndi ndimmuo

If the vulture fails to hover at the end of a sacrifice, then you know that something happened in the land of the spirit.

Men are polygamous by nature. When a man have money he will tear eye but when he is as poor as church rat he will be as subtle as snake and as gentle as dove. I don't blame women who insist in marrying a multimillionaire at the

end of the game they have nothing to loose. Money and power has a way of making people arrogant and proud if not well managed.

1moment:
I married my wife knowing quite well she's not a fantastic cook but i thought when we get married and she does the cooking more often she will improve but i was wrong as it becomes worsefrom bad everyday. its of either the soupy is tasteless or watery or the semo is like pap sweetended with plenty sugar, rice mostly saltless, beans- dnt even go there. Any time i make complains she takes offence and say i dnt appreciate her effort but the most painfully aspect is that i hadly want to eat outside the home, so whatever she serves me as dinner when i get home from work happens to be the only meal i have in a day which ends up being pathetic most times, though am already toying with the idea of having me fill before going home but i dnt really want to do that for the sake of jeopardizing my home and my pocket. pls what do i do.

If you can cook teach her, then if you can't cook employ a professional cook to teach her with time she will learn and everything will fall into place

Some people are highly favoured maybe menek is one of them good luck. For him to still receive funds after 3 months from faceless poeple he don't even know from Adam

I will say give him time six months is still a short notice to study each other. Marriage is a lifetime

I advice and encourage people to study their partners very well before marriage at least
that will help in knowing how to handle the person

@Poster I think you have a soft center to single girls which your wife do not like
Try and reduce the way you express some expressions that might reduce some wahala b/w you and her

jennykadry:
Advice to single ladies
Don't get too desperate for marriage no matter the situation you find yourself because it can make men take you for granted. You don't even have to make it prominent on your prayer points because the more you do so, the more desperate you become and this can put men off. Just be calm and always make yourself attractive to men in terms of character, physical appearance and your general conducts. It is better for a man to get desperate than for a woman to get desperate.

http://news2.onlinenigeria.com/news/top-stories/72043-Church-abandoned-when-mariage-failed---Kenny-Brown.html

@Poster
I got this advice form another thread very inspiring. Just want to share it with you

@Poster not only in Igboland but also in Nigeria and AFrica as a whole blame it on culture

jennykadry:
Advice to single ladies
Don't get too desperate for marriage no matter the situation you find yourself because it can make men take you for granted. You don't even have to make it prominent on your prayer points because the more you do so, the more desperate you become and this can put men off. Just be calm and always make yourself attractive to men in terms of character, physical appearance and your general conducts. It is better for a man to get desperate than for a woman to get desperate.

http://news2.onlinenigeria.com/news/top-stories/72043-Church-abandoned-when-mariage-failed---Kenny-Brown.html

It takes maturity and experience for her to give this advice. Men value what they struggle to get

invisible!:
Yeah! Why do women feel bad when their husband go ahead and spread their generosity to other single women? Shouldnt love go round? Why do women love to box their men into a tight corner, brandishing religion and morality to curtail a natural urge that had always been there?

Leave the men alone to enjoy life jooo!

Only a fool call sin enjoyment. There are so many pleasure in life and this is not one of them.

There are somethings the bible said it should not be heard among us(xtains) and the topic of this thread is one of them.

How can a man spank his own body(his wife) and still say we are one.

Agba nsi nkiti ya n'esi
If you leave feces it will keep smelling
If a problem is not addressed/solved properly it will keep escalating

Igbo kwenu kwe zuo nu!!!!!!

slap1:
Eche m ma o bu ". . . nopia nkpuru amu ya?"

Abughi m nwoke so amachaghi nke bu nkpuru n' akpa ya

mmadu nwe kwara ike ikwu nke o bula di ya nma ha nile bu asusu igbo

holydante:
ve not been happy but i just popped onto this thread and ve been hahahahahaha all day with such ilu and adage joined together, Nwanyi Oma transalte if you can,

rubi:
If a man should continue sitting down in his house he will shred his scrotum by sitting on it

Meaning A man will always have power over his house/wealth[b] or [/b] b/c a man has many wives that does not mean he will not have peace anymore in his own house

Ako walam ilu an' mbu

I think the son is under black assurance by his mother. His eyes will clear one day

rubi:
Nwoke anaghi ano n'ulo ya nopia akpa amu ya

youngies:
Nne biko tugharia ilu gi a na asusu Igbo

If a man should continue sitting down in his house he will shred his scrotum by sitting on it

Meaning A man will always have power over his house/wealth[b] or [/b] b/c a man has many wives that does not mean he will not have peace anymore in his own house

Ify a mma daa?

Idu kwa nma?

@Poster your friend will continue to be a hero worshipper. Men know women they can toys with and the ones they cannot toy with.

Apology my foot nonsense!!!!

Achowa mma ekwe agba ama ihe eriri

Apart from beauty she is also humane in spirit

^^^ Do you present yourself as a born again and now she sees otherwise?

Apple it is very good for the stomach and helps in digestion

Banana, water melon and orange

What is the difference b/w oji igbo and oji gworo?

lately she is loosing those weight

Nwoke anaghi ano n'ulo ya nopia akpa amu ya