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mutter:
@ Poster this questions cannot be answered generally. You need to look at the circumstances.
The girl in question is still a student and has to face her studies and also make her own life. What you are doing is strictly speaking morally not okay and why do you want your mother not to stand to the truth.
Before my son informed me that his girlfriend spends the weekend at his place [b]he had introduced her to us forma[/b]lly and we questioned them both on their intentions. In this case the girl is through with her studies. It is also at the stage that they are getting ready to be married. Even at that, I would never spend one night in his house with her there if they are not married.
I have also made it clear to my girls that I have no problem with them spending a night at their BF home, provided he is branching at the marriage registry first.
Your gf should understand that your mother is also protecting her.

Besides did your mother not tell you her opinion before she walked the girl out of the house?
Yes you are a man and have your own home but you still have the benefit of the wise guidance of your mother, heed it wisely it will not lead you astray.
I also want to give you sincere advise. Make it clear before marriage how important your mother is to you. If you start now, with your gf castigating your mother,the day will come when you see it differently. There are many decisions my parents took that I never understood till I had my own kids. What happens if later your gf then wife still has a negative attitude to your mum? Do you know how much that can affect the family?
Please just talk to your gf in a mature way and explain to her that your mum is actually doing the right thing in both your interest.
You may think that you are now in a modern age and things are different, but these are issues that have never changed much. The world keeps going round in a circle.
Please sit down and try to remember what a mother is. How she held you in her arms and loved you so much since your very first breath.
The one person on earth who would here, now on the sport forfeit her life to save you.
This is the way of the world once she was strong and you were weak. Now the picture is turning . She grows weaker, you grow stronger. Do not be cruel or vain when dealing with her, but show her love and compassion. That way she keeps praying for Gods blessing for you and believe me God listens to the voice of a mother.
Sorry if this is getting intense but you asked the question and I am giving you the answer I would give my child.

The highlighted is my red flag in their relationship

If your wife is lazy then be her strenght. If you are doing what you are suppose to do by helping her she will have time to do your rules and regulations

Women respect men more when they ignore their wives money. Women are easily manipulated if only the man knows the right botton to click maybe b/c of their nature.

The more a man don't ask a woman her income the more she pours her heart into the family

Prove yourself a hero then the rest will be ofe nlacha

kokoye:
money.

True talk. Lack of money leads to stress and stress is a disaster

I don't think you've ever mentioned to your mum that there is a girl in your life whom you intend to marry maybe
she wouldn't have reacted to that extent.

Maybe she had another impression about you and saw otherwise

Congrats Keep droppping. keep us update when the 3 one arrives. _{Take am easy oooo economy hard well well}

Poverty and anger management contributed too

Agadi nwanyi anaghi abu agadi n'egwu o mara agba

There is juju no doubt but as a xtain I believe when power meets with power
the lesser power juju will bow to the greater power Jesus Christ

The story has been discussed in this forum times without number

Anyway, If trust is built in marriage on a high esteem there will be no cause for alarm

I will advice you to save yourself first before saving her. If you don't work work in life and fail yourself she will be the one that will laugh at you at the end

She will not die, she will not commit suicide they are all manipulation

I will advice you to save yourself first before saving her. If you don't work work in life and fail yourself she will be the one that will laugh at you at the end

She will not die, she will not commit suicide they are all manipulation

Tendon do no know who is your blood relation
Akwara amaghi nwanne

Your b/f should flee from any appearance of evil before they fall neck deep
and start blaming it on the devil.

There is nothing wrong in quarelling but the constant one is no no. These are some of the red flag in relationship

people ignore being verbally abusive, intimidating during dating and sweep it under the carpet which will re-surface during marriage if not dealt with very well

Make her your second wife at least she is above 18yrs. Abortion is ruled out

Never a bored moment but be meticulous in words and dealing with people

Naturally I have some comedian triats in me and like to laugh

Onye buru chi ya uzo o gbagbue onwe ya n'oso
He who walks before his godly guardian does the race of his life with struggle
(Gods time is the best)

It's a shame/annoying when neighbors/people don't know their boundaries

@Topic Business has to be done with no sentiment attached. Your father driving you might bring sour to a happy relationship you guys have built for years.

Giving him money to start a business will be a good idea.

slap1:
Nwanne m nwanyi, where is your sense of humour, ehn? Kedu ebe akpa ochi gi di? Egwuruegwu ka m na egwukwa o, anaghikwa m e geti personal. Daalu.

Iwe Nwanne anaghi eru n'okpukpu. Abu kwam anye egwuruegwu. Kama the tone and the choice of your words were somehow very harsh

Izu ka nma na Nne ji

Nice thread I have been laughing in the office

Will be right back to post

slap1:
^Lol, nyochakwa onwe gi ofuma o, ka I mara ma onwere ótù isi si eme gi o.

Ilu Ka m turu. we can get along without getting personal

metalGo0g:
Nsogbu di kwa . . . lol

Ilu ka m turu. Nsogbu adighi

beebop:
he has the mentality of a modern man. cite

"Why does she need to go out at all? The idea of her going out is for the family to get enough funds to look after the children, to look after the family together. If the husband earns enough, he would have been able to convince his wife to stay at home or to stay as close to home as possible but obviously he doesn’t. So, if she has to come in, she is earning something and whatever she is earning is helping the family. So, if that’s the case, you expect her to get home at 9:00pm and go straight into the kitchen and the husband who is coming home around the same time, what right has he got to expect that? She has probably worked more than the man at work."

GBAM.

Una don hear am no be woman talk am na real man

Ubochi m n'acho di ka ndi ara n' acho Nwanyi ha ga alu

slap1:
Emenyere nwa ogwugwu, emenyere nwa anosike.( what's good for the goose is good for the gander).

Emeyere kwara daa Nnedi ya no n'ulo

ifyalways:
Rubi,anya gi.
Nwata gbere egbere bia taa okenye aru,okenye egbere egbere ga tagwara ya.
when a child crawls to come bite an adult,the adult wud crawl and go bite back

Ano m ya

E chem n'uzo ozo esi ede/ekwu ya bu
Ma madu asoghi nsi taa m n'ike agaghim aso ntutu taa ya n'isi

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
she wants you to know what kind of stunts she wants you to do in order to compete with these guy and possibly have any chance to impress her (in other words: how much her toto cost).
she is also making it clear that she has no interest in you (as a person) but only to get free meals/gifts because if she did, she would never tell you such damaging info.

she should be dropped like a bad rash.

Your contributions are always valid but it is vice versa

^^^^^
I keep asking is there any negative effect to fixing fake eyelashes

I remember asking my grand mother the same question years back about gaining weight she adviced me not to

worry that I will gain weight naturally when the time comes and it is true. Now that I am married and have kids I am size 14 now b/c of my hip

Just relax and appreciate yourself. when things comes to you naturall is better than when you force it through medication.

Some women gain weight as they get more matured in life

It enhances ones face features. Very outstanding

I hate unripe plantain with passion. My Dad use to encourage us to eat it b/c of the Iron.

Mbe si na olu oha dimma mana oriri oha na-ara ahu
Tortoise said that many hand s at work is enjoyable but many mouth to feed can be embarrassing