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Civilian marrying a police woman = high court

@ Poster let them be. Maybe they can handle each other

dollypi:
Cheating is not only limited to the s.exual act itself.

If a man doesn't sleep around, but has an emotional connection with another woman, would a wife be ok with that, since the man is not "cheating"?

If a man finds an intellectual connection with another woman that his wife can't provide, is the man cheating? will the wife accept that?

If you look at it that way, everyone who has ever fantasized about another woman or man, has cheated. I believe Jesus Christ said if you look lustfully at a woman, you have already committed f.ornication,or adultery (cheated) as the case may be.

If there are texts on your phone from another woman or another man that you would be afraid to allow your spouse see because of what the content implies about your relationship with that person, then you're already cheating.

Everyone saying they have been faithful to their spouses can only claim so if they do not

1.  Deliberately dwell on s.exual fantasies with other people in their minds.

2.  Maintain emotional outlets in other people apart from their spouse.

On Point

Ify kedu ka imere?

Ana ahu aka oru gi na family section jisie ike ina agbali

@Youngies doro were kwam *waves* mu. Kedu ka imere?

Ilu koro m this days badly

If You can afford it ride on. Looking good is good anytime anyday
You come to this world/life only but once

The way you dress is the way you will be addressed

His mum looks well taken care of. Kudos to Jim on this one

Don't tell her when they make up after quarelling you will be their greatest enemy.
I don't want to get involve in another persons family havoc. Women can be funny sometimes when you reveal to them such a secret and the way they will handle the issue might backfire against you

Anaghi ezi nwanne ezi kama ana ezi mmadu ezi ya

Why haven't you noticed my multiple ID?

Yes a lady can marry a jobless man if only she will be the BOSS while the man remains the husband u understand what I mean. I spoke in parable

Why is your question always too long?

An average Africana man is not an African man until he swallow something on daily basis ( Garri, Amala etc)

wait4me:
All my life I have been a christian but most of the girls that have loved me are not the type of christians i will like to date and marry.I have missed alot of girls just because I'm not willing to compromise my values.The irony of the whole thing is that while I was in naija I always fall in love with the wrong christian girl( they are either engage or have a serious relationship) therefore I left without any serious relationship.Alas! now I'm in yankee and I hardly meet a girl who does not drink goes to wild party and sex is just a normal way of life. I'm under pressure to compromise and lower my standard , I'm scared It may be impossible to find a wife if I keep on with this belief. what should I do? do you think its wise for me to adopt the yankee way of life?

If you remove every manner of Godly principle b/c you want a wife or girl friend you will be the one to reap the detriment at the end of the game. Declare you stand from the onset ladies will respect you for that

Some unmarried friends are good but don't discuss marital issue with them b/c they have no experience and advice to give. Keep them strictly on friendship level for old time sake

Any Friend who decides to go, quietly release them maybe they have finish their mission in your life after love insult follows

The next phase might be disaster

This might sound strange but the bible says that david encouraged himself in the lord. Tell your self that the beautiful ones are not yet born

Isi akwu dara na ala ede Tula aja

Maybe u r not giving her much attention so she uses that to make herself happy. If it hurts u more develop a tough skin and pretend u did not notice what she is doing also engage urself in more productive work u will think less about what she is doing

Both of u should enroll in anger management class

Mgbe ara okpo ko abughi mgbe o na aru afo
When you are sick is not really when it started. It has been piled up for decade in ones body

It could be translated in different ways

Igbo kwenu!!!!!!!!!!!!
weekend oma

simplymee:
I remember very much the times when i used to read chike and the river, little snake and little frog( this book nearly make many of us begin suspect our friends and their papa/mama). So much for knowledge.
UNA REMEMBER SUBJECTS LIKE MORAL INSTRUCTION?

In my school it is every Thursday morning I remember but we cannot change the hand of the clock

@ Poster I felt the same way like you before but recently I decide to ponder and pay close attension to his statements he is one person that tells the truth undiluted and without blinking his eyes although sometimes with a smile/joke but he is never intimidated by anyone they never born the same.

Everyone can't play the same character in a movie that is why it is a movie combination of different characters to play a role in a movie

Remember he is more on the comedian movies so to bring out a smile/laugh on viewers face they stretch themselves to much when talking

tpsolomons:
It’s no longer secret as the billionaire boyfriend being hidden by controversial Nollywood actress, Tonto Dike, has been revealed as Osita Promise Offormezie.

Osita, who recently bought Tonto a set of Swarvosky diamonds, is said to be [b]building a multi-million naira Lekki home for the actress.[/b]Full News Here : http://www.yollaronline.com/2011/05/tonto-dikes-secret-billionaire.html

Is the boyfriend building that house with clear eye or with black assurance.

Sounds unreal to me.

She can quit acting if that will save her marriage and that is what she personally wants not because of pressure from anyone. The only counsel is the one one counsels himself/herself

On the other hand she can choose a role that is a conservative if she still has passion for acting after marriage

baby.me:
[i]Som[/i]e adults need these more than the kids

Tell them.

@ Poster you can't find all the qualities you are looking for in a man sometimes you compromise if u find the basic ones that can make you happy. Most times handsome guys are full of themselves vise versa you might end up being a hero worshipper

It depends on what you mean by old and at what age. The older the more knowledgable/ matured and wise although they say age is a number

Don,t give anyone upper hand to intimidate and insult you simple!!!!!!!!!!!

O bu oke no n'ulo gwara oke no n'uzo na azu di n' mkpo
It is a family member that reveals to the stranger the family secrets

I like her write up and one thing I admire is she accepts her mistake also take full responsibility of it instead of rationalizing it and blame it on someone else that was very matured and brave of her