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[quote author=na2day? link=topic=504697.msg6689508#msg6689508 date=1283493180]and here was i thinking that at least u will have some common sense to rethink your choice of words, geez! i must learn to lower my expectations when it comes to NL [/quote]What else do I expect rather than insult ^{when an adult chat with boys that is what happens}. I think I have given you so much attension.

Both are my cute guys

But I love mike most that his facial expression/smile is contagious

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=504697.msg6683426#msg6683426 date=1283405457]so parents that are strict are psychologically abusive or intimidating, wetin english go do my ppl no man can tell sha[/quote]The topic is not about parenting rather about relationship b/w babes and guys re-read the topic very well

If you want tips on parenting open another thread

@Ify agaram n' thread ahu agbagwo jurum anya

Gini tinyere ya n'udi omume di out ahu. People are very fake in this forum
Well all is fun sha!!!!!!!!

Mkpuru nmadu kuru ka o ga ahoro

acho4444:
My online dating partner is madly in love, though i have a wife and 2 kids, my online partner living in canada wants to come visit me in nija.
This is risky and could lead to breaking a home i took years to build on solid ground.
Please i need advice on what to do, i love my wife so much.,

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If you are not attention seeker then the lighlighted part is what will happen to you. Reveal yourself to her that you are married maybe it is time to pay for all those dollars she has been secretly sending to you

There is a big difference b/w a man who is firm and a man who is strict women gets confused easily and needs a man who is firm

When  a man is firm he appears more like a leader
but when he is strict he appears more like he is psychological abusive or intimidating

[quote author=HOTLIL@sa link=topic=505663.msg6665614#msg6665614 date=1283172719]Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e, don't want him hanging with his friends and family).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.

Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.

Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.       

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and smile. [/quote]Nice write up

lovingsoul:
1------ Endeavour to always look as simple and presentable as possible, don't be caught in a shabby or untidy dress, be as clean as possible, like we know a dirty place repels,so don't be a repelant,

2----- Always wear an infectious and genuine smile, try to lighten up in public, don't look to serious , angry, annoyed or irritated.

3------ When meeting someone for the first time, try to look into the persons eyes, in a very polite and formal way.

4----- Don't get too informal at the first meeting, because you could say something that can be misconstrued and seen as been rude or indecent.

5------ Be sincere with your comments and compliments, never sound sarcastic, and never mock anyone you meet.

6---- Never try to impress anyone, be yourself and be as comfortable as possible.

7----Its better to stay quiet than talk when you know nothing about what you've just said.

8----Be respectful, courteous, be ready to listen, try not to lie, don't exhibit arrogance, it reples a hand of friendship, don't settle for less, stand on what you believe in, don't look or appear lost in your own thought and work on your confidence,

9------ Always adhere to basic social/ public etiquette, which are,
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, Don't chew gum in a formal gathering
----Avoiding hissing/ sighing in public
----Never fart in public
----When you cough/ sneeze excuse yourself and cover your mouth/ nose with a clean handkerchief.
----Try not to shake someone with your left hand
----As a lady learn to sit properly in public.
----Don't be a snub.
----Learn to use these words as often as possible (EXCUSE ME &PLEASE)
----Don't appear to be too argumentative or contentious, this could leave a damaging 1st impression.
----Give your opinion when talking don't impose it, that could be very irritating.

Nice write up

Throtter na ify nke a bu eye unu?

He who forgets the language of gratitude will never be in good terms with happiness

Igbo kwenu!!!!!!!

Let her take it easy

Some people are like that. I think on of the causes might be wrong association
I still believe in old proverb "iron sharpneth iron" and birds of the same feather flocks together                                 

he might not even know that he can be stable and focus until he moves with the right people
that will inspire and direct him

Nice thread thump up to the poster!!!

Nice thread thanks to the poster

Continuation of his story. For those who do not know what transpired between both couple


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=464771.msg6235988#msg6235988

I hope/pray you will find love and peace again in your home. I suggest both of you to go for counseling

In as much as I love the idea of you moving out just do it in a subtle and diplomatic way not moving out b/c of your new catch (boy friend). Remember you are not married to him yet.

I think you aunty has a strong personality. I can't stand such people

Yes I believe in love at first sight the first time my husband set his eyes
on me we fell in love he told me I will marry you. I thought he was kidding/joking

Till present apart from salvation he is the greatest gift that God gave me

confession is the end of that marital bliss. Confessiong is a sign of honesty and repentance but what happens to the rest of the marriage

Anu gba ajo oso agba nyere ya ajo egbe

It is hard for me to believe this story. This publishers can frame any story just to sell their papers

My son asked me this one.

I my hubby and our kids were watching our wedding video one day when the video finished my son asked me mummy I didn't see myself in that video why didn't you and daddy take me to the wedding ceremony? it is not fair

that you left me behind. I was like what an intelligent question. I answered him that he went to school and the wedding was done in the morning during school period. And remember I told you it is not good to be

absent from school he said yes mummy I remembered.

Have an open mind towards the innocent child I know it might be difficult b/c it is not the fault of the child to be born in that family. You never know the finger that will feed you tommorrow.

As for the lady don't be her friend and don't be her enemy. Be diplomatic when dealing with her
Let your husband be the leader in advocating the situation then you can give your own support

Don't let it stress you too much. Be brave

I almost shed tears for her courage, inspiration, motivation and hard working. God has restored the years she sowed in tears

A woman becomes a role model and well respected when her children sees her work hard

It is good to brush the mouth, shower very well then breakfast

If one is working the above is applicable

If one is staying home I think it is applicable too b/c one can get cut up with the domestic work and forget brushing mouth or even taking shower when it is time to do so

since you said the baby father is a nice man I have the feeling that she will yeild to the man in a short while
By the time he will start showing so much affection/attension towards her during her pregnancy period she might withdraw from you

Remember you and her are in a long distance relationship and don't be too enquisitive when communicating with her let her do the talking more
she will tell you what you want to hear with her mouth and do something else with her heart

You can give without loving but you can't love without giving.

so NL is this boring

It is not mandatory

but it is good for to kids know that they came from a happy wedlock rather than a product of just good romance outside of wedlock

Remenber two heads are better than one

Only few men can handle successful women and I do respect men who do so. It takes a lot of diplomacy to do that.

They compliment each other more when the man is successful too at least they can be on the same page.

Pregnancy does not come by ones strength only through God who showeth mercy but why should another man do his job for him?

1 watched the movie her articulation, carriage and the way she interpretes her role was amazing she was different from other actress. Now I know where the root is from

michelin89:
Quite predictable.

Although different from the usual as it was the man doing the juju this time.

But certain parts were useless.

All those sex scenes.

This is why I hate ghollywood movie most of their scenes are all about sex sex