₦airaland Forum

mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.

My brother get a girlfriend or get a wife

That's a stray cat looking for who to adopt a feed it well..
Nothing more bro

My brother some girls are temptation.i have this girl that have I broke up with but she refused and keep calling me and disturbing me,I sometimes I do pick her call and invite her over not because I want her but because she is making me pity her,not that I was with her for long before I broke up we were together for just 4months and I was not seeing what I expected in her.

WoundedLamb:
Lol... how can the person refuse? It takes two to tango. Once one person is done, there's no relationship anymore.

I buy this for a news paper...with my hard earned money

colorsofrainbow:
OP it's his newspaper..Its his business.he wants to use it to distract us from the congratulatory message he planned to publish on Ize-Iyamu's victory at the polls which turned sour.
I'm still weeping on behalf of zombies since Saturday,no one to console me...

I hate to see people do this..is English your native language?
Do you think it's English language that made him the billions he have today??

Filly3:
Elder brother you mean?

The priest is just angry that the woman stole "church money"
Wrong move by the priest flogging her...he would have counseled her and tried to know what her problem was not this.

SmartProf:
Persons who won't dare to steal in a shrine will attempt to steal in church since they know that God is merciful. The priest just demonstrated that he can also preach to her by flogging the demon of theft out of her...stealing cannot be the best way out of poverty, cos she could have accessed the church for help and they would have obliged. For critics who will question why she wasn't rather counselled by the priest..I believe that the counselling will make more sense during & after the beatings.

Onitsha owerri road is very bad now when last did you play that route

Beremx:
All federal roads in the southeast are bad except for Onitsha-Owerri road which was built by Obasanjo. Are those Anambra Monarchs high on expired paracetamol?

What does Arthur Eze want to achieve by licking Buhari’s balls? I don’t understand

Chai..the good ol'days...

Poor cat

Those force men need to move...they usually cause traffic on that bridge and like he pointed out it's really shaking and I sieze my breath when I'm on that bridge....it should be looked into asap.

Oga..you have not really said what's paining you.
You are just happy for their downfall,
I still maintain my stand these boys are not the problem of Nigeria.
I blamed our leaders both present and past.
SHM

tesseract:
Instead of these f00ls to applaud the FBI, they are making silly noises. The actions of these bad eggs affect every decent person from the country. Smh

I am with one now...she hides her what's app and Facebook messenger app in her phone,I tried to go through her massages there but couldn't find it.

But fraud isn't the only crime committed by Nigerians..
Many things have already dented our image in eyes of the foreigner.
For me I start blaming the government before I even think of blaming someone that is trying to survive out of nothing.

hisgrace090:
The shameless one's have really dealt with our collective image as a nation.

People all over the world are labouring day and night to produce things that will benefits mankind while we are busy devising variouse means of defrauding others.

With all these bills being forced down the throat of the comom man without any accompanying means of income where do they expect us to get the funds.
See eh I don't blame anyone in Nigeria that chose to go into Yahoo fraud.Ionly blame this nations government.
They don't care

What he's trying to say here is that he didn't really get any healing from going to the church...he was just being a growing kid doing his mum's wish.
In other words he would not think of going there for anything if he were on his own as a man.

Exxoonty:
I don't understand why he's defending himself

A country that can't give it's citizens 20hr power supply per day is busy supplying other countries with 24hr supply

Why not let it out to the poor masses on a lower prices

You just spoke my mind right now...me thats planing to settle down soon...
Oh God help us o

Obingene:
Hian!!

Cold shivers ran down my spines as I read this.

I'm so not enthusiastic about marriage anymore.

Bro you are your own problem...
Mastubation have done nothing to you...
Try and work on your self esteem first...
Have confidence on your self...
Therr is really nothing wrong with ur penis...
Its all in your head...
And please try and relax in the other room

Pics...and price?

adioolayi:
I am so sorry guys....but is Xiaomi Redmi 7A still available Asking for friends

He saw a solution good...but its bad when he wants to force it on people.
Every body have a right to choice u know

Iamundisputed:
Ignorant lot...

Just because Bill Gates saw the solution to the Covid-19 crisis, they're demonizing him. This is the difference between ordinary people and great people.

I taught they said she tested positive to corona virus

Good one from the neihbours....always be ur brothers keeper,for they just saved a life.


Rip to dead

Yes please reduce the amount of alchohol u take...

yanabasee:
Reduce your alcohol and sugar intake..... And stop thinking!!

okomile:
He is a scam!

Cos he didn't die of whatever his problem was?

Please it should go 50 50
Unless one of them do not deserve it.... maybe didn't show love for the family while u were growing up.

I am just coming bk from Asaba airport on enquiry on how to get a slot as an airport taxi driver there,the union there good me I have to pay a huge sum of 255k to get myself registered

This made me to wonder why uber,taxify and the rest have not started operations this parts.

How do you expect someone to pay that much just to be a taxi driver

I am not the type of person that put my money anywhere outside the bank..please if any one knows how I can keep getting good interests within the bank should do well to share.
I gust hope this fixed deposit comes up soon enough

....I know about this and it's not a good deal for me.
Please does it mean fixed deposits is not bouncing bk anytime soon

fados4sure:
There is a package in Zenith Bank called Life Assurance where you will be depositing certain amount in your account every month and Zenith Bank will be deducting the money from your account at a date specify by you. The minimum investment is #5000 and you will be getting 6% of the money. The disadvantage is that you can only access your money and percentage after 2 years

I was surprised last week when my bank's customer care told me that the current rate for fixed deposit is 0.5%.
Please bankers in the house,is there any explanations to this development?
And please apart from fixed deposit is there other better investments available?.
Thanks in advance.