₦airaland Forum

Maeve7:
I thought pregnancy was the hard part before having children. It was a walk in the park for me compared to what I went through after giving birth.

The pains of the stitches from the tears and cuts you received in the theatre? Abi the contraction when pickin dey suck? Abi which one? Abi na the pushing?

Firebox123:
what about obasanjo and Jonathan

What do you achieve during their era

@Firebox123 and @Letmecum
Please you guys should stop attacking yourselves and face your leaders. What you are doing is exactly what they want so they keep using you as slaves. Please, connect with foreigners and see how they live. If possible, make efforts to visit abroad, Nigerians are living like sub-humans courtesy of their politicians. Please I beg you, no matter your political affiliations, tribe or religion, you only have a common enemy, your politicians. Even though they incite you to uphold tribal, religious, and political sentiments, they themselves don't even. Be smart, study them. The guy in APC switches to PDP tomorrow once PDP is in power, and vice versa. See your leaders talk against your own tribe once it is not favouring him. See them go to the other places of worship to campaign, or whenever it suits them. These thing don't matter to them, but they make you hold dearly to it and fight yourselves so they remain in power. They are your enemy, not the other victim.

Image123:
Nigeria would continue to have the numbers as long as we don't control population or educate the majority about family planning.
Qatar has 2.6 million people, UAE 11 million people, Nigeria has 230 million people. The simple math is that Lagos alone as small has it is, has to cater for more people than Qatar and UAE combined. These are people with attitude, entitlement and false smartness. You can be sure that the struggle will likely continue due to a faulty foundation. This is regardless of party or tribe. Religion also plays a part, because the Islamic form of evangelism and dominion in our part of the world is aggressive birth, this is aside jihad. So a society that has 30 christians and 20 muslims today will have about 100 muslims and 40 christians in about 15 years. Why? Our northern muslims need the numbers, others don't really care to have the numbers. The general remaining part of the muslims will have more wives and children legitimate and illegitimate, while the christains either divorce, do baby mama, marry late, etc. We're headed to something bad evidently except God takes the wheel.

In my opinion, population is not the issue. Rather, population should give us strength. The only issue with population is that the people who have so many children will experience a lower standard of live. China is about 6 times as populous as your country. Ditto for India. USA is about 1.5 times as populous as Nigeria. Indonesia is about 1,2 time as populous, while Pakistan is about 1.08 as populous as your country. These countries did not become indigent as sub-human like Nigeria. Instead, they are superpowers.

The problem with your country is corruption amongst the leaders and complacency amongst the citizenry. If you yourself takes over power and decide to fix only electricity and mean it, you will in 2 years or less. It is no rocket science. Even Nigeria decides to invest only on solar for every community or household, the journey to electrifying Nigeria will be completed in less than 1 year.

The president left such issues that bother Nigeria and is busy playing politics. State of emergency should have been declared in the power sector, Security, Agriculture. If he doesn't any other thing, trust me, Nigeria will be better than it was at the end of Obasanjo's regime.

But no, he is interested in Rivers state. He has to give Wike all the money he needs to secure 2027 for him. And Nigerians just sit and look.

Your national budget states that they will construct one street light with 250m, just one street light. And nobody is asking them questions. This is something you and I know you can achieve with 2m, a fully functional automated, solar-powered, plus the profit a contractor will have on top.

They quoted to use 200m or so for one borehole project and nobody is asking questions. Please ask VDM how much he spent installing borehole. Ask Peter Obi how much he spent installing boreholes in those communities he did.

Please don't blame the families who have excess children, it is their personal problems and has nothing to do with the prosperity of the nation, rather it impacts their personal pockets. Until the governed rises against the leaders in Nigeria, the downward trend will continue. It will get to a point where the average Nigeria will be living like an animal. A point where the politicians can't even control anymore.

Kobojunkie:
From the video, which I have seen, I don't think there is evidence of such.

Maybe you should watch previous episodes. Like I said, I gave you a summary of what is happening and did not want to lead anyone into spending his data.

Kobojunkie:
A woman who looks forward to having children before marriage would suddenly change her mind about them after marriage because someone talks them into it? Come on naw!

Abeg, make dis no turn to argument. The summary is that there is a club of married women where their motto is never to bear children so they maintain their beautiful shape. Simple.

Kobojunkie:
Seeking a solution to his childlessness by engaging women who would rather remain childless? The problem is clearly arent the women but the man going around finding himself women who don't share the same desires he does. Why paint them as belonging to a coven when the issue here is the man?

Ah ah, bro, are you talking about another subject? Or this same matter posted here?

ROK123:
She should have mention it before deceiving any man into marrying her knowing fully well that giving birth is among the major reason people get married

I guess many of you missed he gist. The intention is to deceive their husbands, knowing fully well that every man needs a child. The ladies are only concerned about looking beautiful and maintaining their shape before the public.

Kobojunkie:
No mind OP and his coven! They refuse to learn the particulars of their partners in order to spot and avoid the red flags and potential tears. Something tells me many of these womb-watchers coven members intentionally ignore the red flags, only so they can pretend themselves victims after reality hits.

Wetin OP do you jor?

Phut:
This is a skit nu?!
It even says Part 17.
Why then are so many posters commenting with such seriousness and emotion?
A lot of the nairaland populace is wierd

No skit, this is the 8th woman identified so far. It started with one man seeking solution to his childlessness. You may take your time and through.

Chucks13:
Then he should sit her down and put the 2 options before her: Give me a child and remain in the marriage or focus on your body and get deported back to your parent.

This is no time for joke can't waste my money, my resources, and my energy despite all stress of life to marry her and she is telling me about her shape or figure as reason not to have a child for me, wallahi I swear to God I will forgo all I have spend and kick herr silly a s s out of my house and tell her never to see me again.

Rubbish!!!

The worst part of all these is that the woman never mentions it to her husband. Read the post through, the men are deceived into thinking the woman is doing everything within her powers to get pregnant, but behind doors, she is doing 180 degrees of that.

Chucks13:
Oga uou have no wife.

But wait a minute didn't you date her before marrying her? Because she must have be saying this to you Iver and over but I noticed you ignore it doing love in Tokyo.

Sorry to telll you again you have just wasted your money marrying a pretending feminist who cares about her shape to pleases another man hodding in the shadow.

Young man wake up you re already on ones chance.

They are talked into it after marriage, not really before

Emmaari:
Tor left for me you will go to your father's house and maintain that body you Soo much cherished and definitely not in my house

Same here. It is the height of witchcraft. Better a witch attacks me physically

Tohsynetita1:
He is a comedian, I have been following him before this news. I knew him since VDM —GTB saga

You are right, but he presents facts as comedy, that is his unique content.

Lol. Nobody in his right senses will try to defend evil, unless he is part of the evil.

Nigerian married women have gone Haywire: This One Is Unheard Of


Caveat: You don't need to watch the video, I'll summarize and give you even more context.


This is the first time I will hear a Nigerian woman desisting from giving birth to a child in Nigeria because she wants to maintain her shape. In Nigeria of all places where childless women are called barren just after one year of marriage, where they face immense pressure from their family, the man's family, and the society at large. A society where they are shamed and looked upon as having lived filthy lives and, in most cases, nobody ever looks the husband's way, the woman is always the first to be blamed.

Now here, a cult disguised as a club where only married women are members. They are coached on how to prevent themselves from getting pregnant so they continue to look elegant and beautiful. Some, like the lady in this video, did not only rely on pregnancy-preventing pills, she did other forms of family planning just to be double sure she doesn't get pregnant.

The reason why I tag the club a coven is that these women are so wicked that they not only pretend to their husbands to be innocent , they most times initiate the moves to go with him in search of solution. The sucker in this act is that it elicits more trust from the husbands and and blinds them from even reasoning clearly. Imagine one of the women prays 3 hours every night for the fruit of the womb, the man was hooked.

One of the men, on one of their numerous visits to the hospital, was called aside by the doctor who had conducted deep tests on the wife and reliably informed the man that the woman had been consuming something that had been preventing her from taking in. Instead of the man to conduct an independent investigation to ascertain the veracity of the claim, he "subtly" confronted the wife, which of course she denied.

The tragedies is this dilemma is that most of the men are taken to white garment churches amongst other places they were taken to (hospital, churches, native doctors, herbalists, etc), where they are flogged. At least in one case, the couple were flogged mercilessly. This has not mentioned the amount of money the man is made to shell out in the search. Some have flown these women abroad in search of solution.

One wise woman, once her dear husband suggested taking a second wife who will bear them children, she covertly got pregnant immediately and tricked her club members. Disappeared for a while, and after delivery, hired a nanny to take care of the child. Five years later, she took in again, hoping to pull off the same stunt. Mind you, the first child was born 10 long years after their marriage.

Advice to men:
If medicine has proven that both of you are ok and fit to have a child, and you are still childless, do the following:
1. Be observant to see that your wife does not take anything immediately after sex.
2, If there be any medication both of you should be taking for fertility, make sure she takes her own (they are able to deceive the man that they have taken it. If it is tablet, they hide it in their mouth and shift to dispose of it in the toilet. Another said she consumes another substance that looks similar to the concoction they are given. Like when they are given animal urine, she arranges lucozade or wine, or some soda to drink in his presence.)
3. If you are rich. Arrange for abroad treatment. Find a way to make her accidentally lose her luggage (including her handbag), then while abroad guard her like a toddler to ensure she doesn't visit a pharmacy, then make sure you knack her everyday.
4. If you can, also arrange with a good doctor to ascertain that she is not undergoing any form of family planning (especially the one they implant).
5. If you notice your wife belongs to any association, pry in as know exactly what is going on there.
6. Discuss having a second wife. Many of them rely on the fact that the man may get tired and seek to adopt a child, which they will gladly accept. Honestly, the foolishness of these women beat me.
7. Some of the women said they gave in to the invitation because their husband had emphasised on their shape while they were dating and they feared he may leave them if they lose the shape. To this, I advise men to be subtle about this and help their wife stay fit, WOMEN ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO LOOK EXACTLY THE WAY THEY DID AFTER CHILDBIRTH AND BREASTFEEDING, IF YOU GET IT EXACTLY THE SAME BEFORE AND AFTER, NA LUCK.

Advice to Women.
1. If you need to maintain your shape, you know what to do.
2. If you must form a club of married women to war against losing shape, it should be teaching them how to maintain shape after childbirth, don't be foolish and evil. to even think that this club goes about recruiting newly married women is not only self-destructive, it is a crime against the institution called marriage.

Although many things could lead to childlessness, including witches and wizards, village people, God's timing, medical conditions, etc. But this self-inflicted childlessness from women is one thing I do not understand and may never understand. If this is happening in western countries, I won't bat an eyelid. But in Nigeria? Something is definitely wrong. E be many things for these days. These women are worse than the devil. Imagine your wife causing her childlessness, causing you shame, making you spend money unnecessarily, causing you bodily harm, wasting your time, and causing you financial strain. I simply spit.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3mMNQltOr2s

Putindbutt:
This is why opposition will continue to lose in Nigeria, they know they have a bunch of dullards as followers, hence they keep feeding them with junks which they will gulp down their throats in excitement. This one that call himself Paul ibe will also claim he went to school too?. What a shame, bunch of low IQ suckers called opposition. Listen to the President's speech one more time, no where did he refer to Mr Alex as his classmate but rather as a close neighbor and schoolmate. No wonder, Atiku continue to fail on his Presidential bid since 1993, if these are people he surrounds himself with.

In which school were they mate sir?

One day, when the man is finally brought down, he will say "I was just doing business, I didn't force anybody to buy". And the court will just hit his gavel and pronounce "discharged and acquitted!"

Dpsychologist:
💬 Let’s talk — Are you still building flats in this economy, or have you switched gears?

Drop your thoughts. Let’s learn from each other. 👇🏽

Any real estate that has ROI more than max 12 years is not worth investing in. The average ROI is 10 years.

It sounds somehow that some people say Israel is making noise because of USA. I want to ask, was Iran not shouting because of Russia and China and NK? Now all those countries seem to stand aloof, but USA stuck out it's neck. We know that no man is an island. And we know that human asset is better than cash. A child is emboldened by the kind of father or big brother he has. So, let's stop this assertion that Israel is nothing without USA. Ok, so they are something because of USA, then that makes them powerful, simple!

I hope USA helped them win the 6 day war too. I hope USA was there when they got liberated from Egypt. I hope USA was there and Nebuchadnezzar sacked them. I hope USA was the one who killed Herman for them. I hope USA was the one who made that katapult David used. USA USA USA, abegi!

USA is simply tapping into a blessing. They know what they stand to benefit for supporting Israel, and even openly. You guys should always look at the size of Israel and compare it to Iran. That is why shame is really catching me. How many of Israel's military installation has Iran been able to take out compared to what has hit them? See how all their military leaders were wasted. They should bury their heads in shame.


I join the people of Iran to await the return of the Crown Prince. These terrorists deceived the people of Iran and overthrew a kingdom that projected Iran in good light. A kingdom that had existed for thousands of years.

Make dem dey play. Na today? The street light budget amount nko? The borehole budget nko? Before you know it now we won't hear shii on this again. The people only discovered it because dem no follow thief am. Just watch. Is this the first time NNPC is being audited?

APCheat:
It's in us Africans. That's why Paul Biya is also seeking another five year term at about 93 years and after spending about 40 years as president.

African leaders know the people they are leading are not in any way smart. They know. That is why they act the way they do, keep the people poor, during election give them one cup of rice, they are excited and hail you, then vote for you, and you despise them until next election.

If you come to an average African, no matter how much he knows about your good character and good intentions and past clean records, if you don't give him any substance (that is what they are used to), they will simply vote the devil who spits on their mothers' faces - simply because he gave them a sachet of noodle.
They will say "at least dis one even gave us something, the other man just came here to talk, him think say na talk we go chop". Even though they know that they need to buy an onion to eat that noodle, and that it will only serve a meal. It exasperates me sometimes.

Goo0dHardDick:
Meanwhile she's so old and still setting standard. Aunt has passed menopause already

Is she? I thought she is even under 30. She looks young, abi na make-up?

Iran is winning, they have taken out Israel's eye and nose. By the time they finish with Israel, nothing like Israel will exist again. Now they have shut down Tel-Aviv with their ak304465 ballistic missile, they levelled the whole of Israel. Israel is in trouble. Mad people everywhere.

Slimani:
Yes. But most investors with large risk appetite always require startups to have an element of social change in their product.

That is, they'll be more willing to provide angel capital if the startup product has the potential to bring large scale change to a local community, cultural group, or country.

So, ask yourself if your startup idea focuses on community impact and if your business mission is strong enough to inspire angel investors to rally around your company.

Some social startup focus areas:
- climate change
- regenerative medicine
- policy making
- social / economic equality

The idea bothers on eco-friendliness and economic stabilization. Yeah, it is nouvell, somewhat.

Getaway there! Who have you protected in your country where you bribed your way to power?

Slimani:
That's why I said what you may need is a grant rather than an investment.

You are right. But also, one can get investment from an investor with very large risk apetite.

Slimani:
No serious investor will invest in a startup idea that has not been validated. Just try and build the simplest version of the product (even if it's on wordpress or WhatsApp) and market it to target customers. If you can get at least 1000 people to pay you, then you'll have an investable business.

Otherwise, what you may need is a grant not a startup investment.

Some ideas need money to take off bro. If the founder cannot bootstrap, then he needs some sort of support. It may be in the form of early co-founder who has no interest in the product. But, there still exist some agencies that give founders pre-funding financial support to build MVPs, either government or NGOs, they exist.

Alaigbo:
Iran was never out to win any war before aisreal went to attack it. Use your head this Europe do not want others to have access to nuclear power there must ve a reason why.

Their reason for not letting Iran arm their nuclear warheads is simple. A country that is the highest and officially open terrorist sponsors, who repeatedly for about 45 years, declared that they will annihilate the state of Israel. Imagine what such a country will do if they have nuclear capabilities. Imagine nuclear warheads in the hands of terrorists- Hezbollah and co. Just imagine it.

The cowardly leader Khameni has surrendered power to the new military leader.

Musrataman:
https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1EcoNoNEFj/

Isreal that is begging America and NATO for aid or Isreal that Hamas defeated

You will see which one in a couple of weeks or months, let's see how strong Iran remains in the hands of Israel. Let's see how many terrorist group they will continue to fud.

Zonefree:
OP's wife is below 23 years with 7 children. Ask OP when he started sleeping with wife, you'll be surprised.

Oga, no vex, how did you get this information? Abi you know the guy personally?