Family › Re: Wife Catches Her Husband Cheating, Throws Out His Belongings by rumenase(m): 10:18am On Sep 19, 2022 |
annisy: In this life in all your getting please have money!!! Money stops nonsense The woman was able to take the bold step because she is financially stable compared to the man and the man was kicked out because he has no money... Last last na who get money get upper say. But cheating is bad the shameless man brought it upon himself he should dance to the music. |
Politics › Re: DSS Found 24 Military Uniforms, Over ₦100 Million In Mamu's House by rumenase(m): 9:52am On Sep 18, 2022 |
Na wa o ordinary Mamu get over 109M in his possession how much Tinubu come get… God help us in this country |
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Health › Re: Benin Hospital Withholds Corpse Of 12-Year-Old Over ₦400,000 Hospital Bill by rumenase(m): 12:03am On Sep 18, 2022 |
Ogamysamo: and they'll still come and confiscate his properties cause he is already a debtor legally. for real? |
Crime › Re: EFCC Arrests 16 Suspected Internet Fraudsters In Ilorin by rumenase(m): 11:44pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: When A Lady Hardly Wears Bra And Goes Around Bra Less She Doesn't Care What You by rumenase(m): 1:30pm On Sep 17, 2022 |
Wordsfrombimpe: LMAO na you mature na
With long comment for your mind
No one ask for your opinion
Scroll and skip Timeline
Lmao na wa o only post only you dey follow who comment quarrel. |
Health › Re: Mechanic Commits Suicide After Girlfriend Conceives For Another Man by rumenase(m): 7:47am On Sep 17, 2022 |
madridguy: You know some people's heart dey very fragile. I pity the guy though. he’s a fool he deserves no pity, how can you kill yourself over possy |
Romance › Re: Lady Sets On Fire The Cheap Wig Her Boyfriend Purchased For Her (Photos, Video) by rumenase(m): 7:45am On Sep 17, 2022 |
Righteousness2: If the eyes of our ladies are opened to see what many of these things they put on their hair really is, they will distance themselves from these things. you don start |
Crime › Re: EFCC Arrests 16 Suspected Internet Fraudsters In Ilorin by rumenase(m): 7:28am On Sep 17, 2022 |
TonyBby: Lazy ass boys, they should run real niggas shit. How much are they going to collect from client?, Highest collect small $15k and you'll suffer before getting it, then boom they plus it or dive into Money rituals clean, instead go learn forex, Crypto or indixes trading be cashing out atleast $30k atleast everyday, but they are always deluded with Fraud. Punk motherfuckers. cap |
Crime › Re: EFCC Arrests 16 Suspected Internet Fraudsters In Ilorin by rumenase(m): 7:26am On Sep 17, 2022 |
Mindlog: Most are ritualists,using internet fraud as cover up. lol, person do ritual and na RX330 e dey drive, na rat e sacrifice? |
Autos › Re: Distress Toks Sales Camry Sport 2009 by rumenase(m): 3:44pm On Sep 16, 2022 |
ezebrightike: shut up you fucking cheap thief. Did anyone force u to write distress there or u no sabi waiting distress mean. Thief calling another person thief Ah Ah bros 3.5M for Toks 2009 Camry and you get mind to call OP thief…. You’ll not make heaven bro |
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Health › Re: Carter Oshodin, UNIBEN Official, Commits Suicide Over Hardship by rumenase(m): 4:15pm On Sep 11, 2022 |
Righteousness2: Suicide is straight to Hell Fire. A place of torment, pains, regrets and tears.
Hell Fire is Uncomparable to whatever situation or challenge that you are facing here in earth.
The moment you enter , there is no coming back.
Cast your cares upon JESUS Christ! He is always there for those who Depend and trust in HIM.
when he was alive and begging you did not reach out o now he’s dead you’re typing epistle |
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Family › Re: Help! My Wife Doesn't Want To See My Best Friend In Our Apartment Again by rumenase(m): 1:59am On Sep 11, 2022 |
Domipraiz: Good evening to you all. I don't know if this is the right place to drop this.
Am a married man. I lived in the same compound with my best friend sister. We Just moved into the neighborhood not too long (11 months ago). My friend's sister is also married with kids.
Let me go straight to the point, ever since we moved into the compound this woman has been disturbing my wife with gossip. She's a full house wife while my wife is running a M.sc programme but due to ASUU strike, she has being at home. This woman will come to my wife and talk bad things about everyone living in the neighborhood including those living in our compound. Most funny thing about her is that once she leave our apartment, she's moving into the next apartment.
My wife and I have studied her very well that most time we try to avoid, ignore or resist her from coming to our house but to no avail. Not that I can't warn her to stop coming but am trying to avoid issues that will arise between me and my friend and also her husband.
She was keeping malice with another woman (Mrs Adelaku) in our compound because the woman ignored her totally as a result of her gossip.
Last two weeks Mrs Adelaku came to our apartment to invite my wife to her brother's wedding and as a result of that she thinks my wife is getting closer to that woman.
Yesterday she came to our house and confronted my wife of gossiping with the other woman (Mrs Adelaku) about her. That when neighbors are trying to settle issues between her and Mrs Adelaku that she quoted my wife. She accused my wife of telling Mrs Adelaku everything she has being telling her. And also tell my wife not to confront Mrs Adelaku.
But my wife went to Mrs Adelaku that same day to confront her but she swear with the bible and everything she has that she never tell her anything related to that. That perphers she and my wife are not a gist partner if not for the wedding invitation that she brought.
With anger, my wife went back to this woman (my friend sister) and tell her what the woman said. She later apologies to my wife that it was a trick. That she just wants to know their discussing that when she came with the wedding I.V she discovered that the woman (Mrs Adelaku) stayed a little bit longer in our apartment.
Ever since my wife has developed so much hatred for her/ her husband and even my friend that she doesn't want to see anyone of them again in our apartment.
Am so sorry for the long story, am not to good in this. Kindly bear with me.
What can I do in this situation? Matured mind please, thanks. OP something is wrong with you o so your wife will tell you who to come to your house or not.. hian |
Travel › Re: Nigerians Arriving Dubai Are Detained And Their Passports Seized (Video) by rumenase(m): 9:56am On Sep 02, 2022 |
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Pets › Re: A Year Old Siberian Husky For Sale by rumenase(m): 2:42am On Aug 30, 2022 |
etrange: While they prefer the cold, caucasian shepherds do well in extreme temperatures as well. Enough shade and water are usually sufficient. This is because of two primary factors: it originated from a region that hardly goes below 0°C and, the main reason, the thick coat is waterproof/insulated. Huskies don't have these thick coat and they're far more likely to get dehydrated. Besides, yours was not born here. It was imported from the north pole. That's another factor. I'm not saying they'll die off (dogs are generally very adaptive). I'm saying they wouldn't be very comfortable, especially in Nigeria where many dog owners don't keep thier pets indoors or don't even have AC. A dog is more likely to acclimate to cold weather than hot weather. Again, like I said, s. husky owners must have ways to deplete thier energy regularly (outdoor activities) or they could get really destructive as they grow up. They tend to require more training to contained thier excesses. Unlike other dog breeds, an s. husky is likely to run down the street non-stop once it's off leash and the gate is open.
I'm not trying to spoil your market, sir. And I certainly mean no offense. I've had a few dog breeds myself, and I can say for sure that huskies are very entertaining and one of the most elegant dog breeds. I'm only trying to let potential buyers stay prepared or look for another breed if they can't meet up with the requirements. I'm sure you don't just want to sell, you also want to rest assured the dog is comfortable in its new home.
If you feel my comments are bad for your market, let me know and I'd gladly delete them asap. im sure you don’t have a husky. |
Crime › Re: Four Nigerians Arrested For Fighting Police Officers In Lagos (Photos, Video) by rumenase(m): 8:04pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
slawomir: Damnnn niggar
Without listening to both side I already know say na those police officers dey at fault
I know it is going to be about searching phone ...
Same shit almost happened to me in lagos around may this year
The idiot police nor know say I be Real Bini boy
I hold my ground say never he can never search my phone how u dey do Benin police pass? |
Family › Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by rumenase(m): 8:01pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
newold: I decided to create a new account to make these post.
To make the long story short.
I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.
Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.
I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.
Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.
i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.
since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.
on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.
even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.
I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.
I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.
PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.
ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.
IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME Mehn I can feel your pain but you can stop gambling. I was a chronic bettor from 2013 - 2018 but I stopped. You can do it you just need discipline. |
Music/Radio › Re: Favourite Rap Lines By Nigerian Rappers by rumenase(m): 7:52pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
LtCZAR: Temper hot temper Hot e no Fit boil Yam name of this song please |
Car Talk › Re: Is It Illegal To Repaint My Fading Vehicle Number Plates? by rumenase(m): 11:23am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Saynoomore: That job na scam! Extremely shoddy painting. It's totally unacceptable. We are talking of another 25k here for buying a pig in a poke! Then after 2 years again, you pay another 25k!!!!! in another 2yrs it will be 35k |
Politics › Re: We Now Farm For Bandits; They Rape Our Wives, Daughters At Will: Katsina Elder by rumenase(m): 1:04am On Aug 27, 2022 |
Let them suffer so they will vote wisely next time |
Crime › Re: Fetish Items Discovered In Lady's Room In Uyo by rumenase(m): 12:32am On Aug 25, 2022 |
johnmartus: This evidence is telling us there is no way to be rich except through God blessing upon all the juju she couldn't pay rent. the suffer reach everybody side even christians |
Romance › Re: 11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. by rumenase(m): 5:28pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
dingbang: women will always and when i mean always, i mean always be testing you to see grounds that you are soft on, and remember that anything you allow, becomes a norm. So if she becomes manipulative and you sense it, chastise her so that she doesn't try it again. I did chastised her; anyway I’ve kicked the b!tch out! |
Politics › Re: Why FG Cannot Review Salaries For Civil Servants – Buhari by rumenase(m): 3:13pm On Aug 20, 2022 |
Buhari government always laying blames. |
Family › Re: Am I Responsible For The Pregnancy Or It Is A Setup? by rumenase(m): 9:21am On Aug 20, 2022 |
JudgeNotHi: I need help. Could she be saying the truth or she's trying to hook.
I'm in a very stable relationship and as a matter fact, I'll be getting married to the love of my world, the one whom my heart continuously long for daily in next month.
Nevertheless, there's this lady whom happened to be an old friend for about 2 years now. We've been very close chat buddies and virtually could discuss anything online to each other (I mean anything). On one occasion, she suggested we meet up at my place to watch a movie Twilight together. Well, since I wasn't doing anything in particular for the weekend and my fiance wasn't in town, why not? (Trust me, my intents was pure and genuine).
The Saturday came, and we did have a lovely time together until the devil struck. One thing led to another and we both ended up kissing and eventually had sex. I wasn't careless not to have not used a protection but I could remember the condom coming off at a Point and was quickly replaced with another new one. Trust me guyz, we both felt bad immediately after the incident and both apologized to one another and that was it.
Fast forward to the present, I got a call from her for the first time after that incident (I had to cut off all communication with her after what happened) and she broke the news to me that she was feeling a little different which prompted her to go do a test, and to my greatest shock, she said it came out positive, SHE IS PREGNANT!!!
How is this even possible? We made our precisely on the 30th of July and the test results shows she's about 2weeks pregnant (Note: the test results shows it was carried out on the 12th of August. Moreover, I never even released when the condom came off into her and we had to remove it. How is it possible?
Now, the mother called and even asked to see me in person that, the daughter already explained all that ensued between us, and I should come and let's discuss our next move, that no daughter of hers gives birth outside wedlock.
In all these, I am so confused. The honest truth is, I never told the lady in particular I was getting married in the month of September. My wife to be does know her as just a friend and that's all but kept my wedding plans away from the lady despite how opened we were to each other.
Nairalanders, I am so confused. I have cried, begged her, pleaded with her to come clean with me, but she insists I was the only one she meet within that time frame. Even in the presence of her mother, she kept asking her, are you sure? She kept insisting I was the only one she had sex with last month.
My world is presently on pause mode as I don't know what to thing anymore. But I am 99.9% sure I am not responsible for the pregnancy. I even requested she used my hospital for a second test and it still came out positive.
I am currently, planning on telling my wife to be the whole truth and before then, involve our counselling pastor. I can't bring myself to tell my family despite the fact her mother keep insisting she comes to see my mother.
My inner most being tells me I am been set up, because I remember vividly on that night, she kept insisting I remove the condom that it was hurting her but I insisted.
Could the pregnancy be truly mine? Do I come clean to my babe? Do I just runaway? So many questions and I am deeply depressed and sad on how I got myself into the terrible mess. At this moment, I deserve whatever insults is thrown at me. I truly deserve them, BUT I NEVER FOR ONCE DOUBT my love for my wife to be, I truly love her... request for DNA test don’t just accept any pregnancy. |
Family › Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by rumenase(m): 7:53pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Soulflai: I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.
I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.
Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.
On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!
I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.
This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.
Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.
If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.
Right now I am just not happy with life afterall. Stop forcing yourself on her Mr Man look for a woman that loves you. |
Romance › Re: What Did You Learn From Your Last Relationship? by rumenase(m): 7:34pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Man eye see things o but we ain’t story tellers |