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ada9ja: These are the reasons why girls cheat

1. Whatever you can do, we can do it better

2. When she doesn't come first in your life.

3. If the relationship gets abusive

4. When things start to go sour

5. Ok, sometimes it is about the SEX

6. They won't leave something for nothing

7. When he has too much baggage e.g ex girlfriends

8. They aren't getting what they want out of the relationship

9. They are bored in the relationship

10. The relationship isn't THAT serious

11. Always want to flirt

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Janoluyemi: rily make dem no rent all d house wey dey close 2 sku finish o

Agbgift: I dnt support divorce, no matter hw grievous d offenece is, it can be fogiven. If God could forgive us and still call us his children no matter our act of sin, tell me who are we men nt to forgive. I won't pass blame on any body on who is right or wrong. All I will say is both parties are acting ireactional @ dis point. No one wants to listen to d other information. They both want to justify themselfs for their act as right. This issue doesn't call for any reason for divorce as far as d act was done before deciding to get settled wift one another nd while both parties where apart. My advise is both parties should sit themslefs down wiftout any third party nd pour out their mind, anger on each other. Tell each other d sweet truth and bitter truth. And I tell u both parties will love themslef d more. Both parties should also learn this Word AM SORRY. It pays a lot!

Aafulenu: hahaha lol, monkey no fine but im mama like am.

Aafulenu: its not about being stubborn. the guy is just married two months and he is already in a fit.

let the past be the past. besides the babe might be saying the truth that nothing happened. besides y will she keep evidence if sometin realy happened?

TwitterM1: men men men men men, you cant satisfy them. yeah am a feminist!

Queendo: Hapi Bday, today is my hubby's Bday too.

Rocktation: Happy Birthday man!
I wish you all that you wish yourself...and a whole lot more!

ayobase: Happy Birthday and Happy New Year....wishing u the best this year is gonna be dishing out...LOVE U!

bennyraz: it's only an insight analysis dear and how can i make it balanced when it is the Man that would marry the woman not the other way round.. the major thing for men is, be hardworking and get a good paying Job and all other things shall be added


Now, you're talking but stop carrying those handbags with chains all over







From ADENIYI A. i dont think u're beautifully ignorant,the fact that u can't do it doesn't mean millions are not into it.
or are u just protecting your 'domain'?
shhit happens u kno...




how come you didn't talk about this

SlyIg: maybe she is Davido's big sister o. Remember,Davido's dad provided a jet for Davido to help him meet up with two concepts scheduled at the same time. Whats if he also gave this girl! *just thinking from my yash sha*

kulyie: on the contrary your stewwpeedity will never allow you to be wise. When you grow up,come and talk to me,na your type we dey talk.mshewwww.shaki na ma'n sebi ora ase kosi nkan kan lagbari e afi oro dido

kulyie: ode helping your mummy out does not make you a mummys boy or did i type that there.i'm telling you that is ur lack of discretion that will ruin you.anyway whether youre a mummys boy or not,its none of my buisness,ita in your place as a reasonable person to help out domestically instead of sitting here and typing nonesense.

kulyie: hehehehe funny how someone exposed your foolishness to you and the only help you can do for yourself is to run away (to go and read) common,run off and go and help your mum in the kitchen and sweep your house.apparently your idleness and lack of exposure plus reading has degenerated your brain so much.and yes,every human being is a higher level animal,the lower level animals are d dogs,cats fowls etc you see around so dont mix things up.i know you dont have the mental capacity to understand since its apparent you only went to primary school,thats if you even finished there sef

chaircover: You people should stop it

The thread is 2 years old. . . and you both write with no paragraphs and no spacing and so no one has the will to read your posts, so you are just wasting your time typing and typing.

. . . besides when Tgirl gets out of bed, she is going to hide all your posts anyway so why dont you both agree to drop it and spend your time and energy on something more constructive

kulyie: it is not by force to comment.keep yor disgraceful comments to yourself.mo,ron

baby_mama: Just like I said when the Toyin Hamzat was killed in front of his mistress' house supposedly by her jealous husband,Mr Onyike here must be lacking somewhere.
The woman went for a one year course and turned it into two,even severing communication with " her man"
does Onyike need okija_juju to tell him that a better tenant has moved into the apartment
To make matters worse,he carried himself and came to London and on citing him,anger wielded up in the wife's heart sotay,she threw him into the cold rainy streets of London rather than endure him for a season
Oya she came back to Abuja o to continue the marriage so that tongues won't wag but the situation got worse ,,frustration upon frustration
My heart goes out to the innocent woman who managed a non performing man and almost turned violent in the process
Let us thank God she didn't have a gun ,we would have been reading an obituary

kulyie: you are the one who needs serious refinement because u still lack wisdom and sound judgement in all ramifications and from the way you talk its obvious you lack manners probably due to the death of any of your parents.you are so uncivil,uncouth,unwise and so pitiable.3rdly from your lack of education you didn't take biology in school for you to know that millions of sp,erm was released into my moms system by my dad and it was only one sperm that broke her egg and that was me,lol,admit it,you are not wise.just say it.its either you were not opportuned to go to secondary school much more the 4 walls of a university because there's no how you will pass through a secondary school and you will not take biology.i will not reduce myself to your level because the elders say when a wise person is exchanging words with an unwise person,she becomes unwise.i can still send money to you to pay your school fees and go back to school,so that you will learn some manners,decency,decorum,wisdom and other things that make someone refer to another person as a normal human being who can fit into the society.low life..

Within just three years of his massive win, he
would be broke and murdered by a conwoman who
buried him in her garden.
When kind-hearted Abraham Shakespeare won 30
million dollars on the lottery only his friends
noticed how afraid he looked as he collected the
giant cheque. The 6ft 5in labourer who could barely
read a word was known as a “soft touch” and
simply did not know how to deal with being so rich
so suddenly. He could not say no to people who
bombarded him with sob stories and requests for
cash.
Within just three years, he would be broke and
murdered by a conwoman who buried him in her
garden. Dorice Moore, 43, was this month jailed for
life for Abraham’s killing after convincing the
gentle giant she was writing a book about his woes.
Moore was described by Judge Emmett Battles as
“cold and calculating” and her own lawyer refused
to help her appeal because he felt “too sad for the
victim”.
Abraham, a former juvenile delinquent who had
been to prison twice for petty offences, announced
his win in Florida on November 17, 2006. It was the ­
equivalent of £18million.
Until then the 40-year-old lived with his mum in a
rough area of Lakeland and would get up at 4am to
compete for casual work. He scraped by doing odd
jobs for £4.90 an hour and did not have enough
cash to pay child support for his 10-year-old son
from a previous relationship.
He soon
moved to a
new
£600,000
home in a
gated
community and splashed out on three cars – a Ford
F-150 pickup, a BMW 750i and a Nissan Altima. But
he spent little more of his cash, preferring to live
the simple life he knew. A newspaper article
published two months after his win revealed he still
ate £4 dinners at the same down-market
restaurant.
“I’m not a material person,” he said. “I don’t let
material things ruin me. I’m on a tight budget.” He
did spend to set up a trust fund for his son and
gave £600,000 to his stepdad and £150,000 to
each of his three stepsisters. But it wasn’t long
before strangers began taking advantage of his
well-known goodwill. A former girlfriend, Sentorria
Butler, revealed how people would spot Abraham
on the street and tell him of their supposed
hardships, and how he would dish out his cash
without questioning.
Sentorria remembered one note from an inmate in
a state prison who asked for a thousand dollars.
She said: “We just laughed, what is he going to do
with a thousand dollars?
"But he ended up sending the man $50. He
thought with his heart, not with his head.”
AP
Abraham’s
brother,
Jeremee Reed,
told how
during one 30-
minute stretch when he was in Abraham’s house,
the lottery winner’s mobile rang eight times, each
with a stranger asking him for financial help.
He said: “We lived in a small town, and having all
that money was like being constantly in the
limelight.” Abraham also paid off a friend’s
£114,000 mortgage and even another £40,000
mortgage of a man whose last name he did not
know. He wrote numerous cheques for friends,
gave his brother’s son’s best friend £25,000 and
paid for funerals when people asked.
He told another newspaper: “I’ve buried people,
kept houses out of foreclosures, bought groceries
and paid rents”. Sheriff Grady Judd told a reporter
it was “common knowledge” around town that
people were “tugging on him”. It wasn’t just
strangers who got stuck into him. Work colleague,
Michael Ford, who had been with him when he had
bought the winning ticket, demanded a $1million
share of his jackpot. When he refused Ford took
him to court, claiming he had bought the tickets
and Abraham had stolen them from his wallet.
Abraham, who won the case, told a newspaper:
“That guy used to be a real good friend of mine. If
he only waited I could’ve given him $250,000.” He
also had a succession of girlfriends but Abraham
would soon realise that they were only interested in
his bank account.
AP
By 2008
Abraham had
spent or given
away much of
his winnings.
That was when another swindler came into his life,
Dorice Moore, known as Dee Dee. She claimed she
was writing a book “about how people were taking
advantage of him” and won his trust. She soon
became his financial adviser, helping him open a
company and giving herself the ability to sign for
his money. After withdrawing £600,000, which she
later claimed he had given her as a gift, Moore
bought herself a Hummer, a Corvette and a truck,
and went on expensive holidays.
Before long she controlled all Abraham’s assets
including about £2.1million, his mansion and the
debts owed to him. When he went missing in
November 2009, devious Moore claimed he had run
away to the Caribbean because he had become
exasperated with people pestering him for money.
AP
She said: “He planned on not coming back. He
intentionally did not want to be found. He didn’t
care what it took.” What had really happened was
that Moore had lured the lottery winner to her
home, shot him twice then buried his body under a
concrete slab in her yard. She was a highly-
experienced con artist who once staged her own
kidnap to fraudulently keep a car which was about
to be repossessed. For months Moore tried to
convince people Abraham was alive but hiding.
She used his mobile phone to send relatives text
messages saying he was OK and wrote letters to
his friends pretending to be him – even though he
was barely literate. When suspicious friends texted
back with questions Moore could not answer, the
messages fell silent. As the finger began to be
pointed at the woman who was now living in
Abraham’s house, driving his car and collecting his
debts, Moore became even more brazen in her
cover-up attempts.
She reportedly offered the mother of Abraham’s
young son a £125,000 house if she would lie and
say that he had dropped by one night. And she also
paid one of the missing man’s relatives £3,000 to
hand deliver a birthday card to his mother.
AP
While police continued to treat her as a murder
suspect she carried on giving interviews, playing
the innocent. She told a local newspaper: “The
money was like a curse to him.
“And now it’s become a curse to me. God knows I
would never take another human being’s life.”
Moore was finally unmasked as Abraham’s killer
after asking a man to help find someone willing to
take the blame for murdering him for £30,000. He
was in fact a sheriff’s informant working with
detectives to get close to her and gather
information.
In January 2010, investigators searched Moore’s
home in Plant City and they found Abraham’s body.
Following the gruesome discovery, Abraham’s
mother Elizabeth Walker said her son was too kind
and trusting to suddenly find himself with so much
money. She said: “Abraham was good-hearted, and
if he was here today, I would let him know. "I would
have to tell him how much I appreciate him for who
he was. “It’s too late now.”
A jury took just three hours to convict Moore of
murder. She was later jailed for life, finally
concluding the most tragic lottery story of them all.
Culled from Mirror.
Chido Onumah at 01:42
The lottery death sentence: How $30 million lotto
winner ended up broke and murdered
Abraham Shakespeare
Good-hearted: Victim Abraham Shakespeare
Big win: With family at presentation
Grief: His mum Elizabeth
Killer: Dorice Moore
Disguise: Dorice "DeeDee" Moore as a blonde
Trial: Judge Emmet Lamar Battles listens to
evidence