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Ogbuefienubiaka:
Na afonja house bros.

decatalyst:
Not hating, but the design of this house looks somehow.

BuhariIsBURIED:
Point of correction he is not my vice president! Rubb1sh puppet vice president

BuhariIsBURIED:
Mgbati mgbati community, see their faces.. mtcheww!

Truefaith:
Who knows which of us will be here tomorrow?


What happens if the owner of your breath asks for his property tonight?


YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN.



https://www.thetruechristianfaith.com/what-does-it-mean-to-be-born-again/

N2B2:
Umar-Sadiq

I wonder when our western brothers will realize that they have been played.

Next level.

DesChyko:
Don't be discreet please. I won't so much as give you the pleasure of reporting the post. I believe the mods are paid and I need not do their jobs for them. Translating SS/SE to mean Igbos gave you out.
But like I earlier maintained, take your ethnic bigotry elsewhere. The elections are done and dusted and every sane person has moved on.

DesChyko:
In exploring my naivety you exposed your naivety. I said SE/SS, you said Igbos.
Please, carry your hate-inspired analysis elsewhere.

The election is done and dusted. Not interested in any ethnic banters again, so you can try next door.

DesChyko:
Congratulations to Sanwo Olu, Governor elect of Lagos.

It's obvious the SE/SS decided to sit this one out en masse.

A simple glance at the margin of the Presidential elections which was quite maligned in Lagos will attest to this

ModelX:
I thought it was you - evegran aka amaaskia. Are you ever going to seek therapy for your bipolar disorder?
Now because of you, I've sent him 50k.

GnD.

kenbee:
truth be told, Northerners participate in voting system than the southerners but the federal government is to be blamed for the vote apathy in the south. Here in River State, it was heavily militarized as if we are about to go to war

Chi59:
There's no woman, with a functional brain, that doesn't prefer the truth.
Sure, she'll get hurt, angry even, but with time, she'll come around.
I notice that half the time guys want out of a relationship, it's for flimsy or insincere reasons, which is why they are not straight-forward.
I mean how can you leave a relationship of 5 years and a couple of abortions for a younger, virgin lady and you don't expect your ex to be raging?
Many guys are heartless. That's why they frustrate some ladies till they just break up. The truth hurts but it's better.

otipoju:
Na that strategy na him sure pass oo.
I used to call it tactical withdrawal in those days.

The highest pattern na say if you know sey the lady like sex well well. You go dey reduce your rounds until you begin do one one minute....complain by yourself sey you no know wetin dey wrong with you. Maybe na stress or your heart no pump blood wella.

Na she break up with you sharp sharp. Once she believe sey she don dump you. And all is clear,
You take agbo for two weeks and recover...back to balling. And una go still be friends.

Na today.

Chi59:
When will some women just accept this simple truth?
It's only a man who wants to stay that will stay. You can't keep an unwilling man. He'll just frustrate you.

One painful thing most guys do is that the moment they're tired of the relationship, instead of them to just say "I can't continue", they'll just be frustrating someone till you get tired and end it.

Well you can force a horse to the stream but can't force it to drink water.

OneCorner:
Campaigning for his fellow afonja.
Since we igbos are not voting him, watch how he will lose

paq1:
So? SW will have SGF and handle restructuring. Ultimately good governance is all the SW need.


What has NW benefited from Buhari's presidency.

Chriswazo:
Applied for urgent. just 2 days

Chriswazo:
30k at Owerri

Chriswazo:
E come be now I just received my passport, mtcheew

Denton027:
Afonja everybody knows you guys as skilled experts in the art and craft of skull mining, una wey don open academy for surgical removal of the head with headquarters in Ogun state? . If Igbos started it, then Afonja head hunters have definitely take the art to a different level. The fear of losing one's head in the South West is so morbid, anybody coming to your region definitely pleads the blood of Jesus for a safe cranial return

all this long epistle. What I typed must have really hurt you for you to write this long agitated passage. Your screen must be soaked with tears.

Anyway, that's your personal problem. I'm done with you sliding tackler. Byeeee omo irankiran

Denton027:
Go tell that to your useless father.
Chukwu kpo g'oku, anumanu mmadu.

Denton027:
I'll rather wake up my parents with "sliding tackles" and apologize the next day by buying them cars and building a mansion for them, than to prostate to greet them today... And use their heads for skull mining ritual experiment/research in some thick jungle in Osun the next day.

Legacy100:
Useless afonjas
Fools and hypocrites
Thieves under the camouflage of traditional ruler

Kelamma:
Hungry kings

Iwillbegreat:
The most useless king I've ever seen, he went there to kneel and beg for funds from the fraudster.

seunmohmoh:
stupidity

EfemenaXY:
Divorce. Divorce. Divorce.

Divorce isn’t always the answer to marital problems and should never be taken lightly especially when there are children involved.

This should only ever be the last resort if all else has failed.

Besides, there’s always three sides to every story:

~ His side
~ Her side
~ The truth

Based purely on your side of the story, you need to do some serious soul searching and ask yourself why your wife changed overnight.

The first few years of marriage are the honeymoon stage. You courted this woman for 11 months. That’s quite a while to have studied her. There is no way a person can keep up the pretence for 11 long months (unless yours was a long distance relationship?). There must have been red flags. You just chose to ignore them.

Nonetheless, there HAS to be a reason why she’s suddenly turned 360^os on you. Obviously there appears to be:

1. An emotional black hole in your relationship. The ex turning up is a symptom of the underlying issues with your marriage. A woman would only turn to an ex or another man if her emotional needs aren’t being met. For example when discussing with your wife, do you seek her opinion / input or do you wave aside her views? Do you say “Thank you” to make her feel appreciated when she gives / does something you are a recipient of? What is your sex life like with her? Do you take the time to satisfy her needs? Or is it all about you, you, and you? Is life with you one endless boring routine? Or do you make efforts to spice it up?

2. Trust Issues. When a wife starts stashing away huge sums of cash in secret, it means she’s preparing a nest egg for herself and her kids without you in the picture. Most times this action arises from betrayal or if she perceives you to have betrayed her. Have you ever cheated on her? Or done something to make her feel insecure in your union?

3. Immaturity. A refusal to acknowledge one’s fault / mistake and apologise accordingly is usually down to misplaced pride and immaturity. Wisdom comes with age. How old is your wife?

For a marriage to work, both parties have to roll up their sleeves and get stuck in. You have to ask yourself if there’s any part of you that wants to salvage the marriage. If you do, then you need to ask your wife if she’s still interested in the marriage too.

If the answer is “yes” from both of you, then both of you need to make the effort to save it. Start by seeking help from a neutral third party such as a marriage counsellor. Book a couple of sessions with them so you and wifey can talk through your issues.

Your problems didn’t start today. They’ve festered for over four years so you need to be patient and not expect everything to be miraculously resolved in one day. A lot of patience, perseverance, and constant communication will be needed to get your relationship back to a healthy state.

It is well.