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What r d implications of accepting a condition 4rm ur partner or ur inlaws -mother in law? Does it make u less than who u r or endangers d rlship? I need ur opinions 2 realy take a decision.

Be ursf. B simple! Dnt accept cöndition 4rm gals else they take u 4 a ride.

@kuyle,tnx na so God go dey take catch with u! Otondo. @satinva, Na u go go fake HIV carrier,no b me.

We r into it- boko haran, nig terrorist attack on US plane,our president nowhere 2b found, d president signs our bill 4rm desert, america orders evacuation of americans 4rm Northern Nig, America stops Nigerian students visa, AIT office sets ablaze! Who knows d next one?

2 get attention!

@r231, no date yet bt if she does as she said i will let u no. @sweetpie23, u dnt need 2insult me my dear. Im no fool n tout! 4 ur digest,i m a graduate of engineering in one of d reputable fed universities. I just needed u 2share ur candid opinion with me and not 2 abuse me! Tnx anyway.

R u jealous of them? Lol

Pls dn't get me wrong, d gal is not pregnant. D case is that i that i put her in d ways of women! 4rm ur points, im begining 2c it 4rm another dimemsiön, am i really going 2b charge 4 rape or what? Im begining 2 , God, into ur hands, i commit myself! Lawyers, pls ur legal advise.?

Its unsafe 4d chick 2even allow herself 2fall in love let alone going ahead 2date him! Not 2learn that d guy is still begging her and now u its his bro, mayb 2mrw, their popsy! Weigh ur acts! It could b desastrous if d bomb explodes. Quit now, if u want 2say no 2his bro,say it 2evry body arnd him, bro, cousin,frnd etc unless if u have a hidden agenda 2revenge or on suicide missi6n! I wish u well shaa.

I v said before that vp made a mistake by giving out such orders when he knows he has not got d cönstitutional backing 2 follow suit d outcome! People should learn 2 act safely.

Good talk my dear,bt it came a bit late! D issue d parents said i must marry am 4 dflowering her. What do u tink?

She deflowered me too but i dnt want again. Na by force. I need a legal counsellor pls 4d battle ahead!

Depends on how u c it shaa. U can make nice frnds if u want! Mayb u gv me ur no so that we can talk mayb dis nyt. Or cal
08064356890,mayb we wil start 4rm there.

Thats a point, i can as well 2b virgin b4 den. What do u think? 1-1 = 0 ?

Lol, cal me instead. R u hooked?

Hey, wahala dey. Blood is thicker than water, no matter what might have caused d separation, both of u can still tangle,beware! Jelousness might come up even though both r no longer 2gether! Beware! Think safety,act safely and stay safe!

As a follow up for quiting my rlship, after i caught her with a sugar daddy,d parents have threatened that i must marry their daughter 4 deflowering her! According 2them,every member of d family retain their virginity until ön d eve of wedding day! D mumsy is a lawyer and has threatened 2take 2 any length! Pls what do i do? Lawyers,ur suggestions are highly appreciated,likewise every1.

@Ndewonu, i think hbabe has answered that question! Wat else do u need? @mama-gee, i v learnt that every thread seems 2b funny 2u? Pls lets i 4get, d parents were here 2day with my gal, No be small palava oh! I acted according 2ur advises bt d parents said i got her into womanhood and now i want 2drop her! They their family dönt give out half baked 2their spouse. D case has 2b adjourned 4 futher hearing. Pls i dnt no what i v gotten mysf into. What do u suggest?

Going by d write up,d parents should not be blame at all! They did what their part very well,both in sending their ward 2 school and in ensuring that they provide 4him and still keep in touch! How many parents will do that? D highest they will do is 2send their ward and allow him fend 4himself,whatever he does 2survive is out of d question. Now,dis same parents having noticed a change in his attitude went 2give a report 2some security agencies demanding dboy's deportation! If its u, would u do it 2ur child after spending so much on him? Left 4me, i will allow him and give him more time,hoping that things will turn out 2b better. Delay,they say is dangerous! D family needs 2b applauded, joo!

Pls what verdit did d supreme court give? It seems im lagging beyond!

For me i think i wl prefer 2use it 2 draw every member of NLanders 2my house 4 a xtmas party so that i wll get 2no u facially. Its been full of funs here! So whats urs?

Being 2over nice 2gals makes them think that without them u cannot breath again so they want to start messing up! My advise is that we should try as much as possible 2subdue our love 4them. Make ur love no pass her own! Act safely dudes.

4 now, i go hbabe! She has been matured in her comments. Very constructive,intelligent and mannered! She has been exhibiting a high degree of brilliancy and she speaks well too. Though she could be harsh if stepped on her toes. Thats human shaa. Give it 2her, she trips me, ,dorin

Thanks hbabe 4ur comment so far, d issue here is that judging 4rm her background,d parents r just good 2go so im finding it difficult 2 take a decision. Now i guess some1 is seriously knocking their door, i think mayb it could b one of d reason behind their coming 2really ascertain my stand. If i say yes and at d end of d day it work out again,they might say i prevented their child 4rm getting married,u no? As a gal,u know there r thousands of gals out there but when it comes 2marriage,it seems as if there is no gal! Pls babe, feel me and give me ur constructive advise. As a persön who has been traumatised, im not able 2 reason so well.

Thanks 2every1, i v acqually called it a quit but dis morning d parents want 2come over 2my house mayb 4 futher explanation! How do i say it? My parents said d ball is in my court!

The girl that i v been proposing 2 settle down with has disappointed me! I wish dis xtmas never came, just dis morning 27th dec. I walked in into a fast food joint only 2 c my girl in a close contact with a man old enough 2b her grand father. Thank God i didnt slumb as it was a great shocker 2me. D worst is that she didnt even notice my presence as she was excited n engrosed in d topic of their discursion! When asked later, she said d man has been asking her out but she declined and that it was her first outing and that her friend was there too with her, though i never saw any other person with her. To cut d story short, im begining 2wonder wat else could d man give her that i v not given her? Pls to clear my doubts, (1)is there any better way 2measure or even know if another toto has gone inside there? (2) what would v been ur reaction 2d man at d fast food if u r in my shoes? (3) should i end d relationship? (4) why wouldnt old men respect their old age and stick to their wives rather than making things difficult 4 us? Pls i hönestly need ur cönstructive advice.

I bet u that next week,it wil be another story all together.

I could arrest for treason. Be ware!

My dear, it is very much unsafe 4u 2walk up 2him 2ask him out! Ur reputatiön will be astake. It might seem good at d beginning bt later on when he has gotten d stuff he might not be so much caring as before. I advse u make him ur frnd n let him notice that u care.u no we like food, let him c u as som1 who prefer meal prepared at home than fast food. Dönt gve in ur body at 1st,2nd or 3rd date! If u do anything less than dis,he wil c u as a hawk! I need ur testimonies. Think safe,act safely n stay safe.

Hi folks, have u come 2realise that d way u spent ur xtmas every year differs! Mayb b/c of the fact that 'Obi no dey be boy every year' in terms of wat? Now tell us where u are and how u are spending ur xtmas and reasön.

Whr r u and wat exactly do u want 4rm us? I might be available shaa.

Vp may not be able 2do anything,he is an acting president. It would have been stupid 4him 2give out orders when he nos he is a bit handicarp 2 exercise full powers over them. Act safely 4ur life and d people around u dis xtmas.