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Romance / Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by Saff(f): 7:16am On Oct 09, 2018
I know a man that left his wife, for his best friend. She was a virgin when they got married, he complained about her poor experience in bed, and later married the best friend and they are still together till this day. Imagine, that man is a pastor. Lol.

Virgins should be careful with who they trust, some men are truly and seriously evil. If you’re a virgin, it’s better to marry another virgin. That way, you’re both on the learning direction together. A man that has slept with 50 women with endless experience, marrying a virgin is a disaster waiting to happen. Most times anyways.

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Romance / Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by Saff(f): 7:11am On Oct 09, 2018
Yeah definitely.

I know many women that have, it’s just about discipline.
Earthbound:
Do you think it's possible Saff?.
Romance / Re: Dj Cuppy Caught Romancing UK Policeman At Notting Hill Festival(photo) by Saff(f): 8:22pm On Oct 07, 2018
Yes
SINZ:



Aren't you that girl Safia?
Romance / Re: Dj Cuppy Caught Romancing UK Policeman At Notting Hill Festival(photo) by Saff(f): 7:50pm On Oct 07, 2018
SINZ:



When are you even going to upload your photo?
never lol
Romance / Re: Dj Cuppy Caught Romancing UK Policeman At Notting Hill Festival(photo) by Saff(f): 4:47pm On Oct 07, 2018
Shes young, pretty and outgoing. If she doesn’t date now, by 35 you people will start calling her evening newspaper. Free the babe and let her live.
Earthbound:
How many guys has she dated in the past 5 years now?


This chic is so loose, it's ridiculous. Money no be class abeg!
Family / Re: #OPINION : Does Marriage Even Make Sense Anymore? by Saff(f): 1:54pm On Oct 07, 2018
CHoccolaTE:
Marriage is a scam to take advantage of women. I have been saying this on Nairaland for years, see this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/1265450/why-men-think-womens-lives#15355649

How can society expect women to be breadwinners like their husbands and at the same time be subjected to the husband's authority and and obey him and even bear his name as if her father that raised her his own name is useless. Big scam.
If a woman starts taking care of her husband financially then they are now equal partners but Nigerian men will never agree.
They want a housemaid and baby machine and ATM
They want a woman that will ignore their cheating and pray for them
Some sef don't lift hand to do housework at all but would go berserk if their wives decide to leave job of breadwinning to them.

Let marriage go obsolete, it's better for women.
If only men can stop shaming spinsters that are old and unmarried maybe more people will be more comfortable with the idea that marriage isn't a do or die affair
gbammmmmmmm

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Romance / Re: Men Who Marry This Type Of Women Lives Long by Saff(f): 8:22am On Oct 07, 2018
Don’t listen to their words, watch their actions grin grin
Romance / Re: Lady Who Earns N850k Complains Man Who Earns N200k Didn't Take Care Of Her by Saff(f): 7:48am On Oct 07, 2018
Date someone above her level. The guy can’t meet up to her standards, she should leave. Men won’t hesitate to ask what’s inbetween your legs, but to ask them for money they’ll be screwing their mouth. Shameee

Know your worth. As a man you’re supposed to be a provider, no matter what. If you can’t perform those duties, you’re not built for manhood yet.

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Romance / Re: Until You See A Woman's N@kedness, Till You Know How Worthless She Is! by Saff(f): 4:19pm On Oct 06, 2018
I believe they’re men available, ready for their anus to be chyked. You can opt for that to give you peace of mind.

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Celebrities / Re: Goldie Idowu Breaks Up With Dameon Cee, Her Baby Daddy by Saff(f): 3:45pm On Oct 06, 2018
Still did not answer my question. Your response is based off emotional and illogical thoughts. Talking to you is like talking to a brick wall, why waste my time?

goodbye.
olabrad:


No matter how you justify selfishness, it remains selfishness. Going into marriage with the sole aim of making financial gain is not just selfish, but wicked and blind.

Pray, what happens when the material things finish? You'll jump to the next available diick that can satisfy your quest for materialism, right?

How come your life is about what you can get and not what you can give? What can the man gain from you other than sex? Nothing?! What an empty way to live!

I can't but pity the unfortunate fellow that will be manipulated into marrying you. I see his sadness in full swing already.
Celebrities / Re: Goldie Idowu Breaks Up With Dameon Cee, Her Baby Daddy by Saff(f): 11:47am On Oct 06, 2018
olabrad:


When you hear: "he or she isn't the same person I married, " then it means he/she had never been that supposed person before. Whatever the partner thought he/she found in him initially (before marriage) was just a cover up and not the real person.
That is a lie and you know it. People change, the only constant thing in life is change. Some extroverted people grow to be introverted. Some gentle people grow to be assertive. Some generous people grow to be stingy. It’s called life.

In the end, you will not love someone’s personality trait, if it’s not benefitting yourself in anyway. If you love someone because they’re kind, it’s because their kindness is helping your life one way or the other. It’s subconscious and you don’t realise this, but this is the truth. So don’t shame me, for wanting to gain materialistic from a man. It may seem more shallow, but we all are selfish humans by default. We want to gain one way or the other from our partners, and if we’re not, we look outside.
Celebrities / Re: Goldie Idowu Breaks Up With Dameon Cee, Her Baby Daddy by Saff(f): 11:32am On Oct 06, 2018
Personality rarely changes, are you serious? Do you realise you’re not the same person at 20 that you are at 30 or 50?

Do you understand that environmental factors and life experiences can change the person that you are drastically. A specific personality trait that a human being has at a time will offer benefits to your life one way or the other. If you marry someone based off their humility, nurturing capabilities or generosity, that will in some way translate to the betterment of your life. People always fall out love with individuals, why? We hear phrases like ‘he/she is not the same man/woman that I married’.

So whether you marry for personality traits or materialistic gain, you are still looking for conditions that will benefit you in some way or the other. Although materialistic gain is more substantial and advantageous for not only yourself but your children and future generations, it is more ideal to opt for that as a woman. So Oga, everything you’re saying is justifying my argument, just admit that I’m right.
olabrad:


And what are the benefits you mean? Material benefits? No, that can only attract fake love. When you don't love someone because of personality, maturity and such reasons, but love based on beauty, handsomeness, good sex, etc, then such loves never last. And marrying based on such is synonymous with living in a fool's paradise.

Personality, maturity etc are part of the person and rarely change. If you can't love someone for those, then you don't love the person.

If you marry someone based on money, then you only married the money and not the person. Then the person can go to blazes, die or perish so long as that won't restrict your access to his money. That's a bad reason to enter into a marriage.
Celebrities / Re: Goldie Idowu Breaks Up With Dameon Cee, Her Baby Daddy by Saff(f): 11:11am On Oct 06, 2018
olabrad:


Your understanding of love is wacky and fake. You fall out of love because you loved for the wrong reasons, like good sex, handsome appearance and other mundane things that can take you nowhere.

And for your information, there is no condition in love. It comes naturally, not determined by empty hollow conditions that will only make discontented slaves out of both parties.

And your last paragraph confirms my fear that you are one of those empty headed idiots that have their brains between their legs.

Please don't marry; you will only be a source of sadness to the unfortunate man that marries you.
How do you love someone for the wrong reasons ? Is that love? Listen if a woman is not benefitting your life in any way, will you love her for who she is? Are you not the same guy that just asked what else am I offering apart from sex? Can you see that subconsciously you are looking for a gain/condition to love a woman ? There’s nothing like true love, your “love” is based on benefits, so stop contradicting yourself.

It’s just bothering you that I’m being very direct and real about it. I cannot love a man who cannot benefit me in any way especially financially. You are deceiving yourself. Wake up and stop living in la la land.
Celebrities / Re: Goldie Idowu Breaks Up With Dameon Cee, Her Baby Daddy by Saff(f): 10:27am On Oct 06, 2018
olabrad:


So, you'll marry someone you don't love and marry for money? You may think you are making sense, but you've lost it.

It's clear that any man that makes the mistake of marrying you with this your upside down mentality will live a sad life throughout his life. You don't seem like you have anything to offer in a marriage; you are only coming to to find out if there is anything for you.

What's the use of a woman that offers nothing but sex in a marriage? She is 100% useless
I’m not your average typical woman. People grow in and out of love all the time. Some people marry the person they love and fall out of love 5 years later due to failed expectations. Love is based on the conditions that come with someone. I don’t want to go too deep, but I’ll rather fall in love with someone who I can elevate from. Love to me is such a fragile emotion, marrying someone for love is so pointless to me, I’m so sorry.

And for the the woman only offering sex, I think this is such an immature and myopic way of thinking. Men who say this are honestly one way or the other mentally deformed. I honestly think you need to grow up, and I can vouch that you’re under 30, so I won’t be entertaining this conversation any longer. Bye.
Celebrities / Re: Goldie Idowu Breaks Up With Dameon Cee, Her Baby Daddy by Saff(f): 10:05am On Oct 06, 2018
olabrad:


You aren't looking for a marriage partner; you are only looking for poverty alleviation program. Girl, marriage isn't poverty alleviation program. Expecting a man to invest on you as if you are a business is a very wrong view about marriage. And this is where most of you get it wrong and get your fingers burnt
Where most women get their fingers burnt is going into marriage for love. Companionship and money is more realistic for entering a marriage. Building an empire for your kids and future generations is the smart thing to do. This is why the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. Poor people marry for love, breeding up and down, producing children they cannot take care of, suffering till they die. It’s a generational curse. Yet the rich marry for status, wealth and generational success. They use logic and not “love”, things always work out better for them. You grow to love somebody who you’ve built and empire with overtime. You better wake up and smell the coffee , you spend more years averagely with your life partner than you do with your own parents. If more women can think logically , break the generational curse from their family, the gap between the rich and poor will not be so distinctive.

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Celebrities / Re: Goldie Idowu Breaks Up With Dameon Cee, Her Baby Daddy by Saff(f): 9:22am On Oct 06, 2018
like I said, I don’t care. As long as my son is a good provider to his wife, and puts his children before any woman, he will be fine.
olabrad:


If you plan to use men for your purpose, your sons can't escape from being used by other girls for their selfish purposes too. It's tit for tat, ma'am
Celebrities / Re: Goldie Idowu Breaks Up With Dameon Cee, Her Baby Daddy by Saff(f): 9:20am On Oct 06, 2018
olabrad:


Use him for your purpose and he'll use you for his purpose......until you become useless to him and he moves on to another available girl.

2 can play, girl.
I don’t care. It’s a win a win, because if he leaves I still leave with all the benefits I gained from him and more. A man that has spent years and years of investments on me, will leave me to start afresh, that’s his loss not mine.
Celebrities / Re: Tboss: Father’s Curse Takes Effect As Sister Ends Engagement With Baby Daddy by Saff(f): 8:32pm On Oct 05, 2018
Those who are not spiritually sound will think we are crazy or superstitious. This universe is evil and if your parents curse you, that is the end. No matter what culture or ethnicity you are.
Celebrities / Re: Goldie Idowu Breaks Up With Dameon Cee, Her Baby Daddy by Saff(f): 8:26pm On Oct 05, 2018
iamsea:

there are but i don't know in what quantity... I cant be sharing my personal experiences to buttress my point on net.. But there truly are loyal men..
But as for ur wish of marrying a good man.. May God grant u ur heart desire.. Stay blessed sis..
thank you

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Celebrities / Re: Goldie Idowu Breaks Up With Dameon Cee, Her Baby Daddy by Saff(f): 8:08pm On Oct 05, 2018
If men like you truly exist, I hope to marry one. But I believe you only exist on the internet, sorry, words are cheap
iamsea:

hi sis, i bet to disagree on your first sentence that "no man is loyal"... There are several loyal men out there just like we have the disloyal ones.. Like myself, i will never stoop so low to the level of dating 2 ladies in a relationship talkless of having a side chick after marriage.. Morally its wrong, biblically its wrong too.. So, its a no-no..

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Romance / Re: Girls, Stop Falling For Bleep Boys! Facebook User Cries Out by Saff(f): 7:25pm On Oct 05, 2018
I offer myself. My presence alone is beneficial to your status, pride and manhood. Thanks wink
Mikolion87:


What about you? What do you have to offer in a relationship.. Is it just sex? If yes, then you're no better than a prostitute
Business / Re: What's The One Thing You Still Manage To Buy When You're Broke? by Saff(f): 7:09pm On Oct 05, 2018
GrabHisBalls:
SMH, could you please point out where I based my facts on number of men a lady sleeps with? Secondly, you've not still given me enough reason why I should believe that a dick can't expand the vagina with all you've said so far. That said, I wouldn't return that favour by saying you're confused, but simply dogmatic. You're talking about scientific proves that are subject to flaws while I'm talking about experience. Which should be taken more seriously? Young woman, protect your vagina. Hooke's law was also proven to be true by scientists and the vagina should also be a classical example since it's elastic...going about with this mindset that a dick can't destroy it is why some ladies don't mind sleeping with anything that comes their way. And you didn't answer my questions other than saying I don't know my body. Bye! grin
You’re going by experience with how many people miss? Experience in what way? Experience is a Coded word for hearsay love. What experience are you talking about, do you have a dick? Is it not based off what these men are deluding your brain with? My scientific facts are more reliable. It has been studied, researched and practiced by professionals across the world with MILLIONS of women involved. Compared to your ‘experience’, which one seems more flawed? Majority wins for me. Are you one of those people who believe saggy breasts are caused by pressing, based off ‘experience’ loooll? The dick cannot expand the vagina to the point where it cannot retract back. The penis does not have the kind of pressure nor weight to do so. I don’t know how else to explain that to you. The whole human anatomy that you learnt in biology, do you want to debunk those facts with experience? Its only vagina ‘wideness’ that you’ve experienced lol, baby girl go and sit down. You are simply dumb.

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Celebrities / Re: Checkout Jay-z’s Car Collection Worth N5.5billion (photos) by Saff(f): 6:36pm On Oct 05, 2018
That’s an oxymoron. Not possible.
HsLBroker:
Money with rest of mind is very good, blessing follow me

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Celebrities / Re: Goldie Idowu Breaks Up With Dameon Cee, Her Baby Daddy by Saff(f): 6:33pm On Oct 05, 2018
I agree. That’s why I live to please myself and future kids. I don’t belive in love. I believe in how someone can benfit my life.
VULCAN:
The women who are quick to shout "No man is loyal" are very rarely loyal themselves

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Business / Re: What's The One Thing You Still Manage To Buy When You're Broke? by Saff(f): 6:27pm On Oct 05, 2018
GrabHisBalls:
First off, I am a lady. This is Kimbra... Holding a contrary view to yours shouldn't make me a guy.

From what you've written, you don't have facts yourself other than what you read on google. I know body types are different and that some vagina muscles are weaker than the others, on the contrary, you've not been able to prove that a dick can't widen a vagina.

See...a lady that has given birth can't have her vagina go back to its original size but could achieve something close to that with kegel and some foods.

Let me even ask you another practical question, not scientific. If after the hymen have been broken, a lady gets her normal vagina size; would you tell me that that size would remain intact no matter the number of dicks she gets per day or months? If yes, why is it that some guys suddenly start complaining of noticing their gf's pussy is wider when it's meant to contract and contrast after sexual intercourse? Don't give me the age factor; let's assume she's 20. Again, why is it that the first time you have sex with a guy with a bigger dick, you're almost like a virgin but on the long run, you get comfortable with the dick size and if a man with a smaller dick sleeps with you, he goes in freely? Whereas if that guy with a small dick were to meet a virgin, they become very compatible? Shouldn't that tell you there's something wrong?
Listen if your basing your facts on hearsay, what guys have said, that is complete bullocks. I base my opinions on scientific facts that have been proved right by the majority. Based off what you’re saying, I’ve heard guys complain about ladies who have slept with one guy.

Or using your logic, do we say the lady that has slept with one huge guy 500 times has a wider vagina than the lady who has slept with 10 guys, 10 times? But the more guys you sleep with the wider your vagina right? Or is it the amount of times you’ve had sex? So how do we measure a ladies level of ‘promiscuity’ and it’s relation to the size of her vagina? You people are not making sense and you’re confused. The vagina is a muscle and its strength varies in EVERY single woman. Being relaxed, aroused and wet can also help loosen tensed muscles.

What I’m trying to say is that they’re ladies who have slept with multiple men, multiple times and their vaginas are still very tight, vice versa. I can’t belive you’re a woman and you know nothing about your body. Using hearsay based off minor instances should not be used as factual information.

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Celebrities / Re: Goldie Idowu Breaks Up With Dameon Cee, Her Baby Daddy by Saff(f): 5:58pm On Oct 05, 2018
Well I pray so, I wouldn’t want my son to give any woman a heart attack. So as long as both parties can gain from the relationship, I don’t give a damn.
Flickzvill:
don't worry your son or sons will eventually marry such woman I pray you still be alive to witness it. smiley

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Celebrities / Re: Juliet Ibrahim Slays in Blue Outfit by Saff(f): 5:54pm On Oct 05, 2018
Oponu. When they say that is the only thing a girl can offer, yet they salivate for it like it’s their daily bread. Shior
MyVILLAGEpeople:
I must smash this girl puuna and big yansh one day.

I must bang this girl with doggy style.

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Celebrities / Re: Goldie Idowu Breaks Up With Dameon Cee, Her Baby Daddy by Saff(f): 5:48pm On Oct 05, 2018
No man is loyal

Use them for your own benefit, whether a child, marriage status or money and live your life happily. When will women learn. Love yourself and your children and let that man do whatever the hell he likes. I cannot give myself high blood pressure, I love myself too much.

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Business / Re: What's The One Thing You Still Manage To Buy When You're Broke? by Saff(f): 5:30pm On Oct 05, 2018
Okay.

Before the hymen in broken the vagina is extremely tight. Once a woman loses her virginity, the vagina permanently expands to its normal size. Some ladies naturally have weaker vagina muscles than others, that’s why they’re exercises like kegels to strengthen it. You thinkkk properly, if a woman can give birth to a child and her vagina can snap back to its original size that shows you that it’s all in the strength of the woman’s muscles, and it varies. I don’t expect you to understand anyways , you are the same guys that say sagging breasts are caused by “pressing”. Most of you guys can not locate the clitoris nor the gspot. So I have no business arguing with men who know nothing about the female body. Goodbye.
GrabHisBalls:
I am quoting you on the stand point that I don't and will never believe that a dick doesn't have the capacity to widen the vagina. I think you need to quit being dogmatic and quit taking whatever scientific proves gives you hook, line, and sinker. You have a brain sis! Think!

If the vagina is said to be the most elastic part of the woman's body, what then made you and your proves think it can't be overstretched by a dick that it'll eventually loose elasticity? Read hooke's law of elasticity.

I read you say some vagina are naturally wide; were they wide before or after hymen have been broken or on the long run?

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Business / Re: What's The One Thing You Still Manage To Buy When You're Broke? by Saff(f): 5:10pm On Oct 05, 2018
cheesy
IamPlato:
...


You Dont Need To Push Hard To Prove Anything. Not Every One Can Understand Your View To Things...


Just Ignore The Most Annoying Mentions

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Business / Re: What's The One Thing You Still Manage To Buy When You're Broke? by Saff(f): 4:56pm On Oct 05, 2018
LukeSkywalker78:

Take a deep breath.

Breath in, breath out

Breath in, breath out

Is that okay?

Lemme go and get aspirin(pain killer) for you

It seems the pain is giving you a heart attack
I hope you have learnt something today small boy. Go and write this in your exercise book. At least you’re only 18 so I understand your brainlessness smiley

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Business / Re: What's The One Thing You Still Manage To Buy When You're Broke? by Saff(f): 4:49pm On Oct 05, 2018
Hizzy:

plz sisi take amm easy okay but Dick is not ordinary how come Unmarried woman who has never given birth hav wild puuuusy if Dick can not expand Pusssy
Because that is the natural size of their vagina. Also they may not naturally have toned vagina muscles like some other ladies. The difference between a tight and looser vagina is the strength of the muscles. A dick can not weaken the muscles only multiple childbirth and aging can. They’re natural remedies to fix it. Dick size has nothing to do with this. Naija men know nothing about the female anatomy, yet they will splatter their foolishness all over the internet believing they’re wise. Cows!

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