Martinez19:
Have you seen some men who got married when they didn't have enough money but they still were poor?
Have you seen some rich men that got married as rich and later were still poor? You seem to forget these cases because they don't fit your narrative.
If you like have the greatest moral compass, character, attitude and integrity, it still wouldn't change the fact that girls consider money above these. If you like don't go and make money. Girls are smart enough to know that integrity, good character and moral uprightness won't pay the bills. I know there are gold diggers but no sensible and good lady would want to bring a child into the world to suffer all in the name of foolishness love. If you are broke as fvck but have good character and moral uprightness, forget it.

Cc. babyfaceafrica, saff

signed and sealed.

gentlegenius:

Pathetic...
I used to see you as a responsible person on Nairaland, but you just proved me wrong with this insult.
So, because we had differing opinions here you had to resort to insults just because I didn't subscribe to your opinion... What do you take yourself for? 'Madam know it all'?
You forgot that this is a public forum, and other people are observing what we do here.
Anyway, thanks for proving to us who you really are. Forgive me for making the mistake of debating issues with someone like you. It will never happen again.
If you still have time to continue insulting me, then go ahead, but you won't get my attention anymore.

oya sorry. Take a kiss

Factfinder1:
Women of this generation no get shame at all

You didn't know he was a dead beat when you opened your legs for him

She didn’t know this. She didn’t know that. See your mouth like spaghetti, will you kindly shut up your mouth! You cows are always defending your kind, for once behave like a human and have some empathy. Jeez

Why the hell would you, as a man, want a woman to chase you? You men are becoming more and more feminine as the days and generations go by.

NNAMDIII:
Ok, i don't know if you remember this?


I just love reading your posts

why did you save that screenshot btw? Lol

gentlegenius:

Like I said earlier....








































Goodbye!

e pain am. Go and sleep my friend, oponu.

NNAMDIII:
Ok, i don't know if you remember this?


I just love reading your posts

I don’t remember. But thanks anyways,

NNAMDIII:
Please are you safiaa?

Yes I am.

gentlegenius:

You simply don't understand what I mean by potentials... There are guys who may not have money today, but have what it takes to become rich tomorrow. In fact, most of the rich guys you see today, if you had seen them about 5 years ago, you wouldn't believe they'll ever become rich.
Anyway, I don't think there's anything I'll say that will change this mentality of yours. So there's no point wasting more time with you. Pls stick to your own belief and let me stick to mine...
The end shall justify...
Good bye also!

listen most men make it in their late 30s/40s. If they married in their 20s when they had “ potential”, they’ll leave their wife or cheat on her significantly with the women they truly desire. This is not rocket science and that’s why I don’t rely on potential.

If you love yourself go and improve your life. Unless your gf is extremely understanding. Most women hide their true colours until they get the ring, so be careful. Marriage ain’t no joke.

dairykidd:

My bad.. But i disagree. A lot of women also orgasm & still get paid & get gifts before fûcking or to continue fûcking them.. And material things or cash gifts doesn't truly compensate for orgasm for the woman.. Rather a real man will work to improve his sex game, make her orgasm & still spoil her with gifts/cash.. Its the way of the world. The average lady's pûssy is business. You hoard it, kill ur sexual desires, dress provocatively so we can't stay too focused for too long while on dates.. Its all a ploy to keep us on our toes with the promise of fûcking while we spend on dates, and also help u keep up ur lavish lifestyle.. Ladies trades sex (or more often the promise of sex) for gifts and entertainment and a lifestyle.

A woman's body is simply a tool to get what she wants from men. Women want to achieve their goals with as little effort as possible. You know in ur heart that its true that's why u are not ready to argue.

Gone are the days when girls want plain old romance.. Y'all fake orgasms & fake feelings only men are capable of true feelings not women..
You go on dates she wants to know where u work, what u do, what kind of car u drive, where u live all the while calculating selfishly & faking feelings like ur fake hairs, fake nails, fake eyes etc..
Lemme just stop here make i no talk too much

Everything you’re saying is 100 percent true. If we really want to talk about lying and manipulating, then we can bring your gender into this as well. Or what happened to men lying, deceiving and making failed promises to get what they want? What happened to men toying with the emotions of women to slide them legs open? We all know the weak point of a woman is her emotions and the weak point of a man is sex. So both genders use that to their advantage to get what they want. It’s fair play to me, so what’s the issue?

Elder001:


Okay.. He should be responsible towards both of them? Because I'm not understanding you.

Child support -not mother support.

Are you currently/ on the verge of paying a woman child support? Because I don’t understand all this bitterness from your comments.

gentlegenius:

Have you ever seen some men who got married when they didn't have enough money but later became very rich?
Have you also seen some men who got married as rich men but later become very poor?
This world we are living is very unpredictable, so I can't understand why money, and not potentials should be the most important thing that draws you to a man.

Potential, potential and more POORtential. If I had POTENTIAL to be beautiful, a good cook, motherly, educated, wouldn’t you opt for the next best thing that has those traits right now? I’m not sticking with a man that has potential, why? Once he reaches his potiential, he will potentially look for a women who values herself and accepts more than potiential. Goodbye.

Elder001:


She has no rights whatsoever to demand for a car from him as he's responsible only to his child not her.

Someone said on this thread that she was born into riches, how come she can't afford to rent a crib by herself?



You're very dangerous.

Why are you so defensive like this? Did you actually read what I said? Heck we as humans are not entitled to a lot of things in this life, but we still feel we deserve it. My thing is , wizkid should take on the responsibility to be the best possible father to his son, regardless. I know You’re just trying to defend your kind by force, but try to look at it from a bigger picture. You’re a human being with emotions, be more emphatic, especially as there’s a child involved.

Elder001:


Nigerian judges aren't fools okay. That'll happen if Wizkid decides to give her more money.

Despite the fact that sharing of properties is inscribed in our constitution, it's rare to see judges sharing properties for divorcees.

When I mean getting more than 150k, I meant outside the court. Extra money from his family, friends, and I’m pretty sure wizkid might still give her money outside the legal agreement. I don’t have any doubts that wizkid loves his son, he just despises the mother. I just hope they sort out their issues.

Elder001:


I've not even taken my time to read the whole episode since because I was attending to something more important.

Please can you tell me why she wants wizkid to get her a car? Rent a crib and also support her business?

Does he owe her anything? He has responsibility towards his son only not her.

I understand what you’re saying. But honestly, indirectly when the mother of your child is secure you’ll have no worries about your child, after all she’s the one taking care of your child. You would want the caretaker of your child to be in the best condition mentally, physically and financially. Not saying it’s right, but this is the logic that a lot of people go by. It’s like an act of protection as a man, after all she’s part of your family whether you like it or not. Most celebrities in america do this, even regular people. My dad always took care of my mum financially, even though they weren’t together, she’s the mother of your child and that’s a very important and daunting role to play. So I can see where her sense of entitlement comes from, but I’m not justifying or saying it’s right. I just understand it.

gentlegenius:

Abeg say something. We really need ladies opinion on this matter. The other ladies that commented here all disappointed me including the almighty Saff.

how am i disappointing? Or you want to say that money is not important? You can be everything, if I see that you are broke, and my children will suffer the consequences of my stupid actions for settling with you, then you don’t have a chance. Don’t you understand the feeling of lovey Dovey is temporary? After 10 years I want to be proud of myself and my children to be grateful. Men are providers, I don’t know how many times I will say that on this forum.

[quote author=gentlegenius post=71363402][/quote] You're fine sha, but too young.

dairykidd:

Wait a minute... Are u saying if we spend u reach orgasm.. I thought orgasm was from sex an cunnilingus. Though someone ones told me lots of money make girls cum & soak their pants.. Abeg tell me more make i learn something new today

i don’t think you understand what I wrote. Read it again

Elder001:


She still won't benefit from it.. The only lady that may benefit from a court case on child support is the one living in America.
No Nigerian man has been ordered to pay a child support higher than 200k -those who pay more than that actually wish to do so just like IBB's son(i've forgotten his name.. The one who married billionaire indimi 's(bubari's in-law) daughter)
Wizkid won't be asked to pay more than 150k monthly and that won't more than 2.2m yearly.

If he’s paying 150k per month, is she not benefiting? How many people in Nigeria even make that in a year? I’m sure she’ll be getting more than that, if we’re going to be realistic. The problem is that she wants unnecessary attachments to wizkid, which is not happening hence why she’s upset. If I were her, I’ll collect the cheque, level up and find someone else. She’ll be financially good regardless.

Every single time a man has sex, or let's say 98% of the time, he reaches a heavenly point of pleasure, and explodes. For women that’s not the case, in fact some women have never experienced that in their life. That’s why men are willing to spend, because their pleasure is guaranteed. It’s a simple exchange.

So women do enjoy it, but men enjoy it way more. There’s no if, buts or maybes about that. Pleasure derived from sex is mostly mental when it comes to women, so let’s stop debating about this.

Elder001:


Child support and sharing of properties are actually inscribed in the matrimonial causes act section 69-75 but it is only available for legally married couples who opt for divorce.

As a man who has dined with lawyers of honour, I can boastfully tell you that for a babymama to get child support she has to meet a SAN or a Don lawyer who can twist that section to the presiding Judge's description.

I don’t know about all of this, but I’m telling you if Shola went to court, she’ll be able to get child support from this man. The law can be twisted to her favour, and women always have the advantage in the court system. Even if it’s not up to what she desires, it’s better than forcing this manchild to be a father. It’s very embarrassing, I had to hold my breath reading those screenshots. No woman should put herself through that shame for any man, I’m so sorry.

This girl is not even smart at alll. Imagine me chasing behind a man who wants nothing to do with me. My pride rejects it. Go to the court, get your monthly cheque. Level up, throw your baby daddy in the trash and find someone else who will define what being a real man is. Who’s got time for all this back and forth? Some ladies shaaaaaaaa. I think she still secretly loves him. This girl needs some inspiration from ciara.

gentlegenius:

Madam Saff... Here's a question for you:
If you have a guy in your neighborhood who might have approached you for a relationship and you turn him down, or maybe hasn't approached you, but you know you can't date him because you don't like him... But all of a sudden this guy becomes super rich, will that make you change your mind and wish to date him? I mean will his money make you find him attractive?

If your answer is YES, then don't you think the suitable word for you is GOAL DIGGER?

You guys should answer the above question.

Yex I will consider him after he fits into my spec.

Lies

School is not a do or die. Once you get the degree you’ll
realise it’s just a piece of paper. It’s value has decreased drastically over the years. Reality will hit you soon, go and learn a skill.

sodiqapril:
buts its a crime for a guy to have small pocket or small dick?

Despite most of you falling into at least one of these categories, you still manage to find babes that’s will accept you for who you are. I think that’s the general message here.

Linda got a good one. Dark, rich and handsome! Kudos!

By fire by force they want to turn men into women and women into men. This generation is pitiful

How can you allow a man to make you sweat like this.! Sweetly stop embarrassing yourself.

She as she big, just saying nonsense lol. Some women shaaaa

I dated a guy I was 15 he was 24. For four years and we were very happy and good. It was only the distance that separated us So I won’t judge.