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My iPhone, my hair, everything was bought by myself. These guys are just ridiculous

Amakababe:
not all Nigerian ladies, I work. I bought my iPhone by myself.
yes, no man bought me it

If my comments are stupid because they’re the truth and they hit a nerve then so be it. l

Jayslicky:
She never disappoint with her stupid comments.

That’s what they fail To understand. My thing is if you don’t have cash, don’t be in a relationship. ESp for the average type of woman that most of you men are attracted to, it’s inevitable. It is not better to date Amaka from the village? She will be satisfied with chin chin and palm oil. But your eye is on Debbie from Lekki and later you’ll be crying to God, it is not my problemmm ohhh

JjBankys:
Girls every where demands for these things as well,not only Nigeria girls

Absolutely

BanjiRaymond:
Does this words of yours apply to CR7 and his tags? I mean foreigners

Okay sir

InvestorO:
And how do I know if the attraction is really genuine and the chemistry is there if we do not have sex....

You need to realise this,when a guy sees a beautiful girl,what comes to his mind First is how to UnCloth her and have sex with her in a consensual way,nothing else.......not relationship or friendship,what happens after the sex determines the attraction level,if he stays or if he is going but a guy likes you and you are telling him to wait for sex after marriage.....nah,How can you even know if you are both compatible without sex,know each other's sexual desire or libido which of cause might be a problem later on in the marriage......

So if there is a genuine chemistry, why do you need sex?

Anyways lemme not go back and forth with you

InvestorO:
No it can't....when there is genuine chemistry and attraction

And who told you lust cannot be mistaken for love? In fact most of the times, you guys are in lust. Remove sex from the equation, and your eyes will truly open.

InvestorO:
You can never be sure of your feelings towards a girl until you had sex with her.

It can always be mere lust.

So within the first day and last day, is it just to prepare a countdown for the day you guys will have sex? No. Obviously you’ll get to know that persons mind, spiritual level, if its heading to a Long term relationship, family spiritual background etc. Listen, I’m not trying to sound like this morally righteous human being, but please having sex immediately is a huge risk to your physical, mental and spiritual health. Trust me.

InvestorO:
First day ooo,last day ooo....if the guy go japaa,he go still japaa

Waiting for sex is not necessarily a sign of quality, But it's always a sign of her not being physically attracted to you.

No good relationship will come from that.

But why can’t you wait? Is it so important to you?

InvestorO:
Because it is a falsehood brainwashed by religion and the society"most" guys will not wait till marriage

Why?

InvestorO:
I wouldn't say you lie but change that mentality

Can you afford her?

Aldebaran:
Marry before it's too late

I lie?

InvestorO:
Lol

You think it’s by mouth

dingbang:
Before I get married , I will ask how mad can you be.

A man cannot even pick a rice grain from the floor, you want to talk about washing underwear. Anyways let me just excuse myself lol

What do we do about this?
Thank God she’s alive sha

How can you know someone well enough on the first date? If you sleep with someone on the first date this implies that you don’t value your body, and you’ll do it with the next person and the next person hence exchanging fluids and spirits with multiple people. Sex will always be there, it just makes the excitement and build up go away too fast. It’s even better to wait till marriage

Ranchhoddas:
The spirits, "energies and fluids" are not exchanged on the say 30th date
You are saying "sleep your destiny away" but just don't do it on the first date

I’m not going back and forth with you. Goodbye little one.

spiralwedge:
[Quote author=Staff] This is what you’ll say but 99.9% of you will never respect a girl who gives it up too quick. Why? There’s no value, thrill or chase that you’ll receive, and you’ll have this assumption that she gives it up like that to most guys she meets. I wish you guys would just be honest and not say things to get what you want, jeeeez.

Children of nowadays smh.
It's either you have low IQ or you are a millennial. You don't have to force down your opinion on me.
To hell with your generalisation and assumptions, I've only posted my opinion. Keep up your awkward mentality and be keeping it till 100th date if you want. That's your business. Bye.

You don’t have the mental capacity to understand what I’m saying, so I’m not surprised.

spiralwedge:
This is the awkward mentality I'm talking about. I spoke for myself, I don't know of what 99.9‰. By the way, this your mentality which you probably caught from Nollywood would make many good things slip from your hand.

Yes

IamPlato:
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Saff!


Dont Lie To Me. So You Are Saying You Have Had Some Spiritual Experiences because Of Sexual intercourse

Yeah I have experienced it greatly in my life.

IamPlato:
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Aunty Saff! We Keep Hearing All These Spiritual Stories. Have You Experienced It? Why You Keep Believing Without Proof

And what happens when she gets older, do you exchange her for another teenager? You guys are
mentally sick and it’s when your daughter gets trapped by men like you, then you’ll understand the significance.

haladadon:
just Google sexual tourism and you'll know what I mean, the only people who hate paedo are women, they try to shame men to marry them but at the end men are naturally paedo. From the Asia to the middle East they all marry teenage girls as wives.

This is what you’ll say but 99.9% of you will never respect a girl who gives it up too quick. Why? There’s no value, thrill or chase that you’ll receive, and you’ll have this assumption that she gives it up like that to most guys she meets. I wish you guys would just be honest and not say things to get what you want, jeeeez.

spiralwedge:
Depends on the chemistry. First date does not always mean there would be a 2nd or 3rd. But if the chemistry is right on the first but you have reservations about the other person, just go for one night stand and don't see again. Have fun and relish the memories.

For me, I will cherish such a girl who knows what she wants and go get it without sentiments or awkward mentality.

Absolutely not and if you can avoid it please do.

People do not understand the significance behind sex. The spirits, energies and fluids that exchange during intercourse is not a joke, and you can’t share that with just anybody. Some men/women have slept their destinies away, but let me not get too deep before someone calls me superstitious.

Ok

Admin401:
No one talks like that in real life.



You could have only gotten this from one place. No way on earth anyone talks like this. Not even racist whites, except online.

Umm ok

Admin401:
Your post felt like someone who browses 4chan.

Not really.

Admin401:
Everything you said applies to Nigerian women also.!!!!!!!! (-_- )

But why is a 26 year old dating someone who is 18? That’s almost 10 years younger, Biko the average 18 year old still has the mentality of a child. Someone his age should at least date a woman who is 21. That goes to any man over 25.

Want to date small girls by force, but when they behave like small girls you begin to cry.

Mandrake007:
hows an 18 year old a minor? You need to mind how you throw words around...an 18 year old is a full grown adult and if she’s found guilty she’s going to jail and not juvenile delinquency

God bless you

Lucifer66:
The dullard is still quoting me

Lucifer66:
One thing i hate is when am being quoted by a woman.
The bible shows that you WHORES are lower than us!
1 Timothy 2:11-15 A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent

Ok I understand. The law of compensation is based on science. The 12 universal laws. Read it, it’s very powerful, and it really does occur in our everyday life . And clearly you believe in evil spirits as your name is Lucifer.

Lucifer66:
There's no such thing as evil spirits nor a God, So shut up and stop this bullshi't
Even if there's a God I refuse to worship one so wicked and greedy!