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Romance / Re: Why Is It Too Hard To Find A Virgin Girl In Nigeria? by Saff(f): 6:12pm On Nov 17, 2018 |
Shut up. Cow! samysmoothfresh: |
Romance / Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Poor Man And Try To Be Rich Together? by Saff(f): 6:04pm On Nov 17, 2018 |
pryme:who told you it’s only poor women that look for financially standard men? Please I don’t have the strength to argue Biko. Please think what you want to believe. Have a lovely evening. |
Romance / Re: Why Are Women Objectifying Themselves More And More? (Graphic Pics) by Saff(f): 1:53pm On Nov 17, 2018 |
Think of what BluntBoy: |
Romance / Re: Why Is It Too Hard To Find A Virgin Girl In Nigeria? by Saff(f): 1:53pm On Nov 17, 2018 |
But when the topic is broke men, you’re quick to divert the topic back to women. Hypocrite samysmoothfresh: 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Is It Too Hard To Find A Virgin Girl In Nigeria? by Saff(f): 12:25pm On Nov 17, 2018 |
Okay and the countless of community dicks populating this country means what? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Why Are Women Objectifying Themselves More And More? (Graphic Pics) by Saff(f): 12:23pm On Nov 17, 2018 |
Ahh some men will be with any lady with a hole Seeker17: 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Are Women Objectifying Themselves More And More? (Graphic Pics) by Saff(f): 12:10pm On Nov 17, 2018 |
A tool to get what they want from men. Regardless it’s wrong. |
Romance / Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Poor Man And Try To Be Rich Together? by Saff(f): 12:06pm On Nov 17, 2018 |
And who told you poor or below average men don’t cheat? You think it’s just men with money that cheat, you are funny. It’s clear that most of you men want women to feel guilty for setting a standard that they stand by. Just stop it. pryme: |
Romance / Re: The Hottest And Baddest Birthday Picture Ever? by Saff(f): 11:58am On Nov 17, 2018 |
I just hope she’s wearing underwear |
Romance / Re: 7 Reasons Your Guy Doesn't Invite You For A Sleepover Again by Saff(f): 10:20am On Nov 17, 2018 |
Okay. I hope you’re not a hypocrite, and you’re one of those guys who can provide and pay bills and different expenses to prove that you’re husband material in the first 3 moths of a relationship? Or how can a man who is matured, ready for marriage not take care of his woman’s expenses? Did you ever sit down to communicate with her that you don’t like her behaviour? Or Tell her that you want her to help you around the house? Or maybe she just sees herself as a guest in your house, after all you guys were not even dating for up to 5 months. Or you think every woman that will be doing maid in your house is wifey material? Women are the queen of pretenders, esp when in comes to marriage. Don’t judge someone’s total character based on senseless things like cleaning, try to evaluate all aspects of their character and weigh it out. The way you handled that situation was wrong, communication is key in any kind of relationship. You seem to be one of those guys that will fall for these queen of pretenders, once marriage comes you’ll be crying for help. Do better! WarriFirstBorn: 1 Like |
Romance / Re: 7 Reasons Your Guy Doesn't Invite You For A Sleepover Again by Saff(f): 1:10am On Nov 17, 2018 |
Why would any lady be doing sleepover at any mans house who is not your husband. Ladies please respect yourselves because these men clearly don’t respect you. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by Saff(f): 7:32pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
Thank god you live in Nigeria. Because if you live in my part of the world, honestly you will suffer. You will live the rest of your life in jail, and I know how I’ll do it. Shior ChopBellefull: |
Family / Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Saff(f): 11:02pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
That’s good to hear. I think there’s just this unrealistic expectation in marriage. Sometimes the presence of your wife/husband alone will just irritate you. Space is so important, esp if you’re introverted. humandroid: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Saff(f): 10:53pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
I completely understand this and if I could do this I would be extremely unhappy I’m introverted I love my own space and I can’t just imagine waking up to someone everyday and that person being in my presence constantly. Would just die of frustration 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Your Boyfriend You Are Dating For The Past 5 Months Hasn’t Proposed? Ladies Only by Saff(f): 5:58pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
This will do the absolute opposite ahbeg, this is so stupid. I’m a believer of playing mind tricks and using psychology, but this just dumb and most men will lose trust instantly for you. They’re other ways to go about it. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Recent Breakup Experience: I Messed Up By Initiating The Breakup by Saff(f): 2:47pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
charliboy654:well most women will not marry a man who is poor, probably only out of desperation. And he if does get broke throughout the marriage, there’s only so much supporting a woman can do before she gets frustrated and tired. Although I believe everyone deserves a chance for love, I’m just speaking on what I see. This is the reality. I like in the United Kingdom, ive lived in Nigeria and France, please believe me when I say most women around the globe are the same. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Saff(f): 12:27pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Yup. A proud one Have a good day daben1: |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Saff(f): 11:59am On Nov 14, 2018 |
If she is a prostitute then let it be soo. WE ARE ALL PROSTITUTES! Do you marry a bride for free? Do you court your girl for free? You think your grandpa impressed your grandma by doing nothing? Is it not from plucking fruits from the trees and working hard to impress her that got him what he wanted. Stop trying to shame women for having standards, oponuuu! daben1: 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Dear Guys!! by Saff(f): 11:49am On Nov 14, 2018 |
I like you. I like this, but let me tell you this. The pressure that men receive compared to women is not even up to a forth, and that’s just me being realistic. Society will always over look a man who is not married compared to a woman who is even single above 25. How can we even compare the two? Despite a woman making money and being successful in her own right, she will still be “incomplete” without a man. Yet a man can have money, yes he might receive pressure but not nearly as much as his female counterparts. Don’t bring my parents into this, this has nothing to do with anything I’ve said. That’s all I have to say to you. truthsayer009: 2 Likes |
Health / Re: "It Can Never Be Well With Drunkards" - Man Says After Getting Drunk In Osun. by Saff(f): 11:38am On Nov 14, 2018 |
How do people get so drunk that they start behaving like possessed animals? I’ve never understood sha, what kind of drink are they drinking lol 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Recent Breakup Experience: I Messed Up By Initiating The Breakup by Saff(f): 11:36am On Nov 14, 2018 |
Good boy. At least you know when to shut up. Alepa: |
Romance / Re: My Recent Breakup Experience: I Messed Up By Initiating The Breakup by Saff(f): 11:27am On Nov 14, 2018 |
What he said is nothing but the truth. Better accept it, I don’t know why guys are so selfish like this. You want the finest babe with the biggest ass and boobs, educated and someone who you can brag about to your friends, the list is endless. But a woman wants a man with money and you’ll be crying like dogs. Go and sit down ahbeg. Women do not complain when men list out their standards, in fact they go to the extreme to attract more men, some even risking their lives. Yet you men want to sit down on your ass all day and expect the best quality of women. Ahbeg go and sit down Alepa: |
Romance / Re: Dear Guys!! by Saff(f): 10:13am On Nov 14, 2018 |
Lol trust me that they won’t answer your question, Only one has, and his list was full of nonsense. funmisticqueen: |
Romance / Re: Dear Guys!! by Saff(f): 10:03am On Nov 14, 2018 |
Do men get shamed for being over a certain age and not having a wife? Do men get called ‘ evening newspaper’? like how you brats litter this forum with that phrase up and down Do men have a time limit when it comes to having kids? If men decide to have kids outside marriage, will they be called derogatory names and black balled in society? Do men face the severe scrutiny, the stigma, and constant questioning when they decide to stay single? Trust me if we had a choice, and if society stopped pressuring us to get married, we wouldnt give a damn. After all, all you offer us is a life of slavery, kids, trauma and debts. Most of you can’t even provide financially, without your wife helping you significantly, yet you’ll be forming man of the house. Women suffer more when it comes to marriage, but because idiots like you will not give us peace of mind, someday somehow we succumb to the pressure. So have a tall glass of shut the fuckkk up pleeaseee IamD18: 15 Likes |
Romance / Re: Dear Guys!! by Saff(f): 9:49am On Nov 14, 2018 |
Xaos: |
Romance / Re: My Recent Breakup Experience: I Messed Up By Initiating The Breakup by Saff(f): 9:32am On Nov 14, 2018 |
All these men trying to pity themselves, I will tell you the truth. All women in the world whether Nigeria, U.K. France value men with something in their pockets. That’s just the reality, you’re desirability is based on your bank account. You may get a woman when you’re broke, but she will not be the woman you truly want it or she will only suffer with you for so long before her eyes open. I do believe that how she handled the situation was a little wrong, but you better go and hustle. Don’t think you can upgrade and find a woman who can love you “for you” because you won’t. ALL women want a man with substance, a man who can provide, some just hide it better than others. No matter how financially independent a woman is, she’s not going to be with a man who can’t add financial abundance to her life, unless she’s looking for a sugar boy. We all go into relationships subconsciously measuring the things that we can benefit from it. We are all selfish in one way or the other, it’s human nature, This is the reality pill that you men need to swallow. So mr man, my advice to you is to Work hard and focus on yourself for now. Once you improve yourself, you will find someone hopefully who doesn’t love you STRICTLY for your money. You’ll be with someone who loves you for your money and ALSO for your loving character. So understand the difference and dont go looking for something that is not real. I’m just being real with you, Goodluck 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Blame Men For All The Sluts And And Money Hungry Girls In Society by Saff(f): 11:10pm On Nov 13, 2018 |
1. Me and capslocks have had many arguments on this site, what are we talking about? Fear for who? Guy please go and sleep 2. I don’t see where the guy caps insulted me personally, so if you don’t want me to start on you, you deranged cow, you better be careful. You’re lucky I don’t have energy this night A Chukapage: |
Romance / Re: Giving Ur Body 2 A Guy Makes U Less Reputable Before Him. by Saff(f): 7:19pm On Nov 13, 2018 |
Something of 2008, 10 years later you now what to give advice. Somebody that has already probably married her own husband, loool you’re funny oh praisejoshua: |
Music/Radio / Re: Grammy Awards Considering Yemi Alade, Burna Boy, Seun Kuti, Adekunle Gold by Saff(f): 2:53pm On Nov 13, 2018 |
wwwtortoise:burna boy is definitely the most talented young artist out right now. No comparison, that man is a musical genius. I love him. 5 Likes |
Crime / Re: Outrage After Girl’s Panties Was Used As Evidence To Clear Man Of Rape by Saff(f): 2:46pm On Nov 13, 2018 |
AllforJesus7:I know that lawyers have to do their jobs, well I don’t agree with the nature of their jobs especially when it’s deceitful and defending criminals. But such is life, man must eat. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Outrage After Girl’s Panties Was Used As Evidence To Clear Man Of Rape by Saff(f): 2:00pm On Nov 13, 2018 |
Really? I really do not understand the mindsets of some lawyers. They are crooks and devils in disguise. Disgusting. |
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