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Romance / Re: Why Is It Too Hard To Find A Virgin Girl In Nigeria? by Saff(f): 6:12pm On Nov 17, 2018
Shut up. Cow!
samysmoothfresh:


try me then


create a thread on broke guys and see if i'll "be quick to divert the topic back to women"
Romance / Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Poor Man And Try To Be Rich Together? by Saff(f): 6:04pm On Nov 17, 2018
pryme:


Yeah, there is a standard alright, a standard of being a broke ass and looking for a man that will lift your liability ass from its worthless nature.
If you are rich then money will not be the criteria you seek in a man.
But since you don't know what it's like to be rich you put that as a standard, clueless women like you think money brings happiness.

Being a shallow human being is one of the ills todays society, something you have worked so hard to become.

Your worthless standard will only appeal your worthless lot.
And why would a rich man marry the likes of you? Are you rich?

I look forward to your condescending reply.
who told you it’s only poor women that look for financially standard men? Please I don’t have the strength to argue Biko. Please think what you want to believe. Have a lovely evening.
Romance / Re: Why Are Women Objectifying Themselves More And More? (Graphic Pics) by Saff(f): 1:53pm On Nov 17, 2018
Think of what
BluntBoy:


Saff Saff.

Whenever I see your moniker, I think of something.
Romance / Re: Why Is It Too Hard To Find A Virgin Girl In Nigeria? by Saff(f): 1:53pm On Nov 17, 2018
But when the topic is broke men, you’re quick to divert the topic back to women. Hypocrite
samysmoothfresh:


for now, the topic is on "virgin girls"


when its time to discuss "community dicks", we will call you and listen to what ever you want to say


so in the meantime, contribute to the topic or stfu and gtfo of here!!!

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Romance / Re: Why Is It Too Hard To Find A Virgin Girl In Nigeria? by Saff(f): 12:25pm On Nov 17, 2018
Okay and the countless of community dicks populating this country means what?

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Romance / Re: Why Are Women Objectifying Themselves More And More? (Graphic Pics) by Saff(f): 12:23pm On Nov 17, 2018
Ahh some men will be with any lady with a hole
Seeker17:

This one no join abeg.. it's far from sexy, it's hideous.
Any man caught philandering with this type should be hanged. Nonsense!

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Romance / Re: Why Are Women Objectifying Themselves More And More? (Graphic Pics) by Saff(f): 12:10pm On Nov 17, 2018
A tool to get what they want from men. Regardless it’s wrong.
Romance / Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Poor Man And Try To Be Rich Together? by Saff(f): 12:06pm On Nov 17, 2018
And who told you poor or below average men don’t cheat? You think it’s just men with money that cheat, you are funny. It’s clear that most of you men want women to feel guilty for setting a standard that they stand by. Just stop it.
pryme:


No they don't.
More often than not the marriage will be based on material things.
if the man buys her a car, but have girls all over the place, she will still be the same person to complain, I mean why complain, you wanted a rich man and you had him.
Romance / Re: The Hottest And Baddest Birthday Picture Ever? by Saff(f): 11:58am On Nov 17, 2018
I just hope she’s wearing underwear
Romance / Re: 7 Reasons Your Guy Doesn't Invite You For A Sleepover Again by Saff(f): 10:20am On Nov 17, 2018
Okay. I hope you’re not a hypocrite, and you’re one of those guys who can provide and pay bills and different expenses to prove that you’re husband material in the first 3 moths of a relationship? Or how can a man who is matured, ready for marriage not take care of his woman’s expenses?

Did you ever sit down to communicate with her that you don’t like her behaviour? Or Tell her that you want her to help you around the house? Or maybe she just sees herself as a guest in your house, after all you guys were not even dating for up to 5 months. Or you think every woman that will be doing maid in your house is wifey material? Women are the queen of pretenders, esp when in comes to marriage. Don’t judge someone’s total character based on senseless things like cleaning, try to evaluate all aspects of their character and weigh it out. The way you handled that situation was wrong, communication is key in any kind of relationship. You seem to be one of those guys that will fall for these queen of pretenders, once marriage comes you’ll be crying for help. Do better!
WarriFirstBorn:

Listen, I was taught at a very early age in life how to take care of my own business. I wasn't pampered at all. I grew up with a no-nonsense grandmum who made sure I knew how to cook at a very tender age. I don't wait for a lady before doing my laundry or cooking my food. I take care of my house myself. I see cooking as a very interesting thing. I don't see it as a difficult task. I enjoy cooking.

Now, just because I can do all of that doesn't mean a lady I am in a relationship with should therefore see it as a yardstick to therefore feel she shouldn't do any of that when she visits, especially when she is passing the night.
How can a lady who is matured enough for marriage be visiting her fiance and has never for once taken a broom to sweep his apartment? Has never cooked a meal for him.. You think marriage is all about making love and having babies? Any girl that does all that isn't ready for marriage at all.
Even if she thought I am one of those guys who enjoys doing those things as you said, what stops her from suggesting that she should prepare the meal or come over to the kitchen to assist?
Who marries a lady when he is not sure of what she can do domestically? So that's how I will marry such a lady and then discover I married someone that can't even prepare indomie for my kids.

To your other question, when I told her I would be traveling, I already had it in mind that would be her last time at my place. Her case with the guy was just the final straw. I knew for real the type of person she was.


So dude, I am not after a lady that will come and be helping me with my domestic chores. That's not a problem to me. But I should also know that the lady I am getting married to is capable of doing those things.

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Romance / Re: 7 Reasons Your Guy Doesn't Invite You For A Sleepover Again by Saff(f): 1:10am On Nov 17, 2018
Why would any lady be doing sleepover at any mans house who is not your husband. Ladies please respect yourselves because these men clearly don’t respect you.

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Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Of Eight Years Is Getting Married This Saturday by Saff(f): 7:32pm On Nov 15, 2018
Thank god you live in Nigeria. Because if you live in my part of the world, honestly you will suffer. You will live the rest of your life in jail, and I know how I’ll do it. Shior
ChopBellefull:
Chai.. My babe will bring ds kinda topic few months frm nw. For her mind nw i go marry her grin

Me da m looking for virgin.. Hahaha
Family / Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Saff(f): 11:02pm On Nov 14, 2018
That’s good to hear. I think there’s just this unrealistic expectation in marriage. Sometimes the presence of your wife/husband alone will just irritate you. Space is so important, esp if you’re introverted.
humandroid:


It is the best, I live that way mostly. For sanity, married partners need to give each other space, a lot.

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Family / Re: Lady Reveals Why She And Her Husband Live In Separate Houses by Saff(f): 10:53pm On Nov 14, 2018
I completely understand this and if I could do this I would be extremely unhappy

I’m introverted I love my own space and I can’t just imagine waking up to someone everyday and that person being in my presence constantly. Would just die of frustration

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Romance / Re: Your Boyfriend You Are Dating For The Past 5 Months Hasn’t Proposed? Ladies Only by Saff(f): 5:58pm On Nov 14, 2018
This will do the absolute opposite ahbeg, this is so stupid. I’m a believer of playing mind tricks and using psychology, but this just dumb and most men will lose trust instantly for you. They’re other ways to go about it.

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Romance / Re: My Recent Breakup Experience: I Messed Up By Initiating The Breakup by Saff(f): 2:47pm On Nov 14, 2018
charliboy654:

Am sure yahoo boy have bought ur pant for 200k, else u for get sense.
There's no single connection between what u wrote and the topic, what if he op had already married the bîtch b4 he got broke, so na so u go advice married woman to do prostitution because her husband got broke.
Anyways people have different mentality, people like u see relationship as business opportunity where the highest bidder wins.
To some relationship is about been a team, if the girl had advice him to invest am sure he won't have gone broke.
And don't think everyone has broke mentality like u, in the so called develop countries, women pay bills, so don't come here saying trash u don't know.
U can't defend stupidity, if u are stupid u are stupid.
well most women will not marry a man who is poor, probably only out of desperation. And he if does get broke throughout the marriage, there’s only so much supporting a woman can do before she gets frustrated and tired. Although I believe everyone deserves a chance for love, I’m just speaking on what I see. This is the reality. I like in the United Kingdom, ive lived in Nigeria and France, please believe me when I say most women around the globe are the same.

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Romance / Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Saff(f): 12:27pm On Nov 14, 2018
Yup. A proud one smiley

Have a good day smiley
daben1:
you've said it all; "we are all prostitutes", the rest of the statements are gibberish
Romance / Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Saff(f): 11:59am On Nov 14, 2018
If she is a prostitute then let it be soo. WE ARE ALL PROSTITUTES! Do you marry a bride for free? Do you court your girl for free? You think your grandpa impressed your grandma by doing nothing? Is it not from plucking fruits from the trees and working hard to impress her that got him what he wanted. Stop trying to shame women for having standards, oponuuu!
daben1:
what's this girl saying? since it's not free, that makes you a prostitute na, an ashawo! we're all saying the same thing!

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Romance / Re: Dear Guys!! by Saff(f): 11:49am On Nov 14, 2018
I like you. I like this, but let me tell you this. The pressure that men receive compared to women is not even up to a forth, and that’s just me being realistic. Society will always over look a man who is not married compared to a woman who is even single above 25. How can we even compare the two?

Despite a woman making money and being successful in her own right, she will still be “incomplete” without a man. Yet a man can have money, yes he might receive pressure but not nearly as much as his female counterparts.

Don’t bring my parents into this, this has nothing to do with anything I’ve said. That’s all I have to say to you.
truthsayer009:


I've been trying so hard not to respond to you, but your Ignorance is just over board. All of you inclusive, funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz and I can see why It surprises you that MissRaine69: responds in a particular way.

I hope you know that as a Man at the Age of 40, You are expected to be married, Financially Stable, at least have a child or one in the way.

I hope you know that Men are getting married as early as 25 - 29 now. The societal pressure for Men comes at the later age of 40 - 45. You need to have all your chips settled & nothing on your table.

The shame on a man who is 40 & does not even have his Life put together is even enough to hide from his friends & family when he sees them because everyone else is prosperous except him. Haven't you seen Men who hide from their class mates, the shame is too much to bear.

There are so many issues tied to gender & it did not start today, There are so many advantages of being a woman/man. If you choose to ignore them, that is up to you.
Men do not have time limits to have kids, Yes.

Finally, The issue is you are trying to compare your life & that of your parents to everyone on here. You seem to assume everything around you is how everyone is, some Fathers are doing fine providing for their Families & it doesn’t take away what the mothers are doing.

I’m not worried about funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz when ever they talk about money this, money that because very soon, they will start earning a living & understand how it's hard to make money. They are still students. So they have a PASS. Oyindidi who lost 250k knows how hard she sweats before she made that money & now someone else can entrust 1M to her because I'm sure she will utilise it properly.

But you are always speaking from a place of Pain & travail when it comes to marriage, obviously because you are either judging from your experience & your mothers experience.

I hope lefulefu, IamD18 is reading, I rest my case. Drops pen.

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Health / Re: "It Can Never Be Well With Drunkards" - Man Says After Getting Drunk In Osun. by Saff(f): 11:38am On Nov 14, 2018
How do people get so drunk that they start behaving like possessed animals?

I’ve never understood sha, what kind of drink are they drinking lol

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Romance / Re: My Recent Breakup Experience: I Messed Up By Initiating The Breakup by Saff(f): 11:36am On Nov 14, 2018
Good boy. At least you know when to shut up. smiley
Alepa:

K
Romance / Re: My Recent Breakup Experience: I Messed Up By Initiating The Breakup by Saff(f): 11:27am On Nov 14, 2018
What he said is nothing but the truth. Better accept it, I don’t know why guys are so selfish like this. You want the finest babe with the biggest ass and boobs, educated and someone who you can brag about to your friends, the list is endless. But a woman wants a man with money and you’ll be crying like dogs. Go and sit down ahbeg. Women do not complain when men list out their standards, in fact they go to the extreme to attract more men, some even risking their lives. Yet you men want to sit down on your ass all day and expect the best quality of women. Ahbeg go and sit down
Alepa:

Why are you wailing all over the thread ?
Are you a prostitute?
Romance / Re: Dear Guys!! by Saff(f): 10:13am On Nov 14, 2018
Lol trust me that they won’t answer your question, Only one has, and his list was full of nonsense.
funmisticqueen:
Darling dont be too harsh on him. he has nothing to offer after all. just ignore him
Romance / Re: Dear Guys!! by Saff(f): 10:03am On Nov 14, 2018
Do men get shamed for being over a certain age and not having a wife?

Do men get called ‘ evening newspaper’? like how you brats litter this forum with that phrase up and down

Do men have a time limit when it comes to having kids?

If men decide to have kids outside marriage, will they be
called derogatory names and black balled in society?

Do men face the severe scrutiny, the stigma, and constant questioning when they decide to stay single?

Trust me if we had a choice, and if society stopped pressuring us to get married, we wouldnt give a damn. After all, all you offer us is a life of slavery, kids, trauma and debts. Most of you can’t even provide financially, without your wife helping you significantly, yet you’ll be forming man of the house. Women suffer more when it comes to marriage, but because idiots like you will not give us peace of mind, someday somehow we succumb to the pressure. So have a tall glass of shut the fuckkk up pleeaseee
IamD18:
We don't have anything to offer. Absolutely nothing.

That's why I keep wondering why unmarried ladies in their thirties keep getting faustrated, crying, sowing seeds, bothering and getting desperate to marry men that can offer them anything.

Can't you see ladies are bothering themselves over nothing?

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Romance / Re: Dear Guys!! by Saff(f): 9:49am On Nov 14, 2018
Xaos:
Sex

Money - Oh we’re talking about the chicken change that you men forcefully give to women, and later complain that women are leeches. Men of this generation are terrible providers, and if they had the choice, they’ll split all finanicial responsibilities 50/50

Affection - which affection? Most of you men have this fragile masculinity, to show any sign of emotional na problem for you. You don’t seem to care about anything that’s not surrounded around football, business and sex.

Friendship - Most of you lie about every little thing. Is that what friendships are about?

Protection - what protection? To walk up to a fine babe, most of you will be shaking like chickens. Most of you hide behind your phones, acting like internet gangsters. You use all types of drugs and alcohol to give you some kind of confidence that you don’t naturally have, Who are you protecting?

Companionship- Again, another lie.

Emotional support - can you even emotional support yourselves? Stop it.

And most importantly, SENSE.

Disclaimer : Both sexes are capable for all things listed above. In the long run, we need each other because our desires are mutual while obligations can be reciprocal.
Romance / Re: My Recent Breakup Experience: I Messed Up By Initiating The Breakup by Saff(f): 9:32am On Nov 14, 2018
All these men trying to pity themselves, I will tell you the truth. All women in the world whether Nigeria, U.K. France value men with something in their pockets. That’s just the reality, you’re desirability is based on your bank account. You may get a woman when you’re broke, but she will not be the woman you truly want it or she will only suffer with you for so long before her eyes open. I do believe that how she handled the situation was a little wrong, but you better go and hustle. Don’t think you can upgrade and find a woman who can love you “for you” because you won’t. ALL women want a man with substance, a man who can provide, some just hide it better than others. No matter how financially independent a woman is, she’s not going to be with a man who can’t add financial abundance to her life, unless she’s looking for a sugar boy. We all go into relationships subconsciously measuring the things that we can benefit from it. We are all selfish in one way or the other, it’s human nature, This is the reality pill that you men need to swallow.

So mr man, my advice to you is to Work hard and focus on yourself for now. Once you improve yourself, you will find someone hopefully who doesn’t love you STRICTLY for your money. You’ll be with someone who loves you for your money and ALSO for your loving character. So understand the difference and dont go looking for something that is not real. I’m just being real with you, Goodluck

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Romance / Re: Blame Men For All The Sluts And And Money Hungry Girls In Society by Saff(f): 11:10pm On Nov 13, 2018
1. Me and capslocks have had many arguments on this site, what are we talking about? Fear for who? Guy please go and sleep

2. I don’t see where the guy caps insulted me personally, so if you don’t want me to start on you, you deranged cow, you better be careful. You’re lucky I don’t have energy this night A
Chukapage:
funny how you didn't have enough balls to take on Capslocked but you feel you can lick this man dry lol ...las las your levels no touch by one bit , spreading hate against men changes nothing its just gonna make you a bitter insignificant cunt
Romance / Re: Giving Ur Body 2 A Guy Makes U Less Reputable Before Him. by Saff(f): 7:19pm On Nov 13, 2018
Something of 2008, 10 years later you now what to give advice. Somebody that has already probably married her own husband, loool you’re funny oh
praisejoshua:



Well, if you really want to protect yourself, go on and do just that!!!

The truth is he only wants your body.
Music/Radio / Re: Grammy Awards Considering Yemi Alade, Burna Boy, Seun Kuti, Adekunle Gold by Saff(f): 2:53pm On Nov 13, 2018
wwwtortoise:
Burnaboy deserves it.
Behind those thick dreads and gangster personality you will find reasoning in his lyrics.

Adekunle is also a worthy mention.
burna boy is definitely the most talented young artist out right now. No comparison, that man is a musical genius. I love him.

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Crime / Re: Outrage After Girl’s Panties Was Used As Evidence To Clear Man Of Rape by Saff(f): 2:46pm On Nov 13, 2018
AllforJesus7:

Stop being egocentric. You do your job. Allow the lawyer to do his and get paid. Who says you may not need one tomorrow?
I know that lawyers have to do their jobs, well I don’t agree with the nature of their jobs especially when it’s deceitful and defending criminals. But such is life, man must eat.

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Crime / Re: Outrage After Girl’s Panties Was Used As Evidence To Clear Man Of Rape by Saff(f): 2:00pm On Nov 13, 2018
Really? I really do not understand the mindsets of some lawyers. They are crooks and devils in disguise. Disgusting.

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