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Romance / Re: Girlfriend Working In Another State by Saff(f): 11:29am On Nov 22, 2018
She cheated on you with her “cousin” ? Well why didn’t you mention that in the first place? So on top of the fact that she cheated on you, you still want to marry her, Biko what is my own? You want to purposely give yourself headache, you’re coming online to purposely ask yourself questions that you know the answer to? You are now telling me to sit down and think, Oga why don’t you take your own advice? Good day!!!
hkidola00:
why don't u sit down and think deep b4 commenting,she cheated on me with her cousin, u never asked if she has breached any trust for me to be unsure about her
Romance / Re: Naija Guys Plz Lets Stop This!!! by Saff(f): 11:01am On Nov 22, 2018
You are depressed and miserable. I pray your condition improves, but it’s clear you’re manifesting evil spirits into your life, just by looking at the name of your moniker. Be careful what you type on the internet, don’t purposely curse yourself into a lifetime of misery. The law of compensation is something you need to read about, as I know you don’t believe in God. Just thought I would tell you that this morning, because the universe works in mysterious ways.
Lucifer66:
Why are you gay Bastards opening threads to support these useless gold digging WHORES?
You're a traitor to your fellow men and a complete disgrace as a human!

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Romance / Re: Girlfriend Working In Another State by Saff(f): 10:49am On Nov 22, 2018
A woman is by your side, always calling you and reassuring you that she loves you. Dependent on you in many ways = she’s clingy and needy

A woman who is independent, working towards improving herself. = she’s not trustworthy and a cheat.

I’m just confused.

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Romance / Re: She Gave Me Three Month Or I Should Nt Blame Her, Please Help A Brother. by Saff(f): 10:44am On Nov 22, 2018
Wait for what? If women tell you to wait for the most basic things, you’ll go to the next available thing. But when it’s your turn, we must wait for commitment, we must wait for your success, we must wait for every little fuckinng thing, what is it nowwwwww? Do you think we have a lifespan of reproductive years? It’s until you’ve wasted our youth and time, that’s when you’ll realise that you don’t want to marry again. Silly things.
Jayslicky:
Its precisely not pricesly
If she is not ready to wait for you, let her go and sell her market to the highest bidder, when are eyes are opened she'll comeback to beg you and then you can smash the pussy anyhow.

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Romance / Re: Girlfriend Working In Another State by Saff(f): 10:35am On Nov 22, 2018
You are very insecure and you’re definitely not mentally ready for marriage. You think your wife will be by your side 24/7? You should be happy and even encouraging her, this is a hardworking lady who is trying to improve her life. You should be thanking God that you have a woman who is willing to go the extra mile to fend for herself, you are here contemplating if you should end the relationship. Confused beings smh.

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Romance / Re: She Gave Me Three Month Or I Should Nt Blame Her, Please Help A Brother. by Saff(f): 10:12am On Nov 22, 2018
And do you blame her? Imagine after one year of dating, and you’re still confused about where you stand, this man is shaking just to commonly meet her parents. You know you’re dating a woman of a certain age, and you think it’s just to be meeting up and doing hanky panky till eternity? Most men of this generation are scared of responsibilities and risks, if you can’t commit let her go. After one year, you don’t know what you want, you’ve not been planning towards something more serious? Shiorrrrr boys roaming around everywhere, claiming to be men. Gross
clive2u:
she's already giving someone else green light.
she'll still keep that nigga even after u propose and marry her
be careful

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Romance / Re: The truth about Alphamales by Saff(f): 10:03am On Nov 22, 2018
You are not an alpha male if you have to say it 1 million times to deceive yourself. Alpha males are alphas from their presence, actions and confidence. They don’t Come online to rant and spill their bitterness, instead they focus on their craft and work towards improving themselves, and the success speaks for itself. Alpha males don’t have to make ridiculous efforts, and play stupid games to attract women, women are naturally drawn to their energy. I could go on and on... the point I’m trying to make is that 90% of you are in denial.

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Romance / Re: Why Are Most Nairaland Guys Disrespectful Towards The Female Folks? by Saff(f): 9:26am On Nov 22, 2018
We don’t care because in reality they’ll still cross the motorway and starve themselves to impress the girl they want.

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Celebrities / Re: Thunder Will Fire You If You Sell Cream In Nigeria - Burna Boy To Blac Chyna by Saff(f): 10:35pm On Nov 21, 2018
Darling You’re missing the point. White women are not getting lip injections and fillers to be accepted or because their natural lips or skin colour are discriminated. Theyre not oppressed, They’re doing it because its the trend and it’s fashionable. Black women bleach their skin and wear weave because they’re oppressed and condemned for the natural features that God gave to them. You see the difference? So by you wearing weaves and bleaching your skin you are allowing the oppressors to oppress you more. We have to fight against it. You can’t cannot compare the two. Stop victimising yourself and crying wolf later. Do what is right, and you’ll see results. Most of you like to use this ‘protective styling’ as a cover up for your self hate. If you wear Brazilian weave-on 365 days out of the year and barely show your natural hair, what exactly are you protecting? Accept your natural skin tone, stop focusing on this person and that person who is selling bleaching creams, or this person or organisation who discriminates against your skin tone. You’re focused on the wrong thing my dear. If we embrace our natural hair, our natural skin and the beautiful features that God gave to us, we’ll see a huge transformation in society.

But as long as we wear weave 24/7, wear light makeup, bleach our skin, and do everything to conform to westernised standard of beauty, we’ll continue to be oppressed, as it is evident that we don’t even love ourselves enough to take action.
safarigirl:
this sentiment works around the world.


White women are getting lip injections and fillers to have fuller lips, they are getting tans to look darker and more 'exotic', they are getting butt lifts and ass jobs to have curvier behinds so that their bodies can fit the look of black women.... They are doing box braids and such and copying 'black culture'

Go to Asia and you have a similar situation. Asia actually has the biggest market for bleaching cream, contrary to what some are propagating. Even in Korea, they still bleach to look whiter. 90% of the Korean population do nose jobs to make their noses thinner. I am talking both men and women, not just the women.


So, when you say black women are doing things, know that it is not restricted to the black race.... But since the black race is basically at the bottom of the totem pole as far as races go, theirs is most noticed.


The make-up point is moot because every race uses make-up and it makes everybody's face brighter.


Self love is personal. Every race has elements that do all these and more because the standards of beauty vary from society to society. In some parts of the world, skinny is the trend, in other parts, curvy or thick is the trend. There was a time when natural hair was bad, but do you see how many people have embraced the natural hair gang in the last two years? Do you know how many people have done away with relaxers?


If not for hair texture, weather and other factors, some people would never have to fix, but the fixing and attachments are called protective hairstyles for a reason.


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Celebrities / Re: Thunder Will Fire You If You Sell Cream In Nigeria - Burna Boy To Blac Chyna by Saff(f): 9:24pm On Nov 21, 2018
safarigirl:
i mean, there are job vacancies that state that the women must be light skinned

The high paying ushering jobs require light-skinned women.....these are the small things that affect peopoe and push them to bleach.

I am outraged that our celebrities have said nothing about colorism and the bleaching rave all this time and Blac Chyna is the reason why some of these men want to talk.


Where were they when Toke spoke about her bleaching? Where was their outrage when Tonto spoke about hers? Where was their disgust when Bobrisky and Toyin Lawani were talking about their own bleaching cream?

What have they said or done to make dark women feel loved and wanted? How many dark-skinned beauties have they appreciated on their IG pages?

Sometime last year, a black American male model got blasted because he stated that he preferred dark and brown skinned girls. White women and light women came for him, but he stood his ground and stated "All women are beautiful, but I love my women dark".....Do you know how many dark skinned women got that boost from him? Do you know how many were ecstatic that an attractive black man found them attractive?


These are the things I expect from our celebs.....not that they want to express some fake outrage because Blac Chyna is coming to sell cream in Lagos.
To me blac chyna is not the problem. She has the mindset of a business woman, she is making profit from the consumer. The problem starts with you and I, and all the other black/dark women in the world. You complain about discrimination against your skin colour, you complain about bleaching creams, yet day after day you alter your appearance to conform to the westernised standard of beauty. What is the difference? What is the difference between bleaching your skin, and wearing Brazilian silky weave-on, contouring your nose to look pointy, wearing make up to look 5 shades lighter than your complexion? You are still trying to look more European, bleaching is more extreme whilst the others are more temporary, however it’s still the same motive behind it. Most black/dark women are ashamed of embracing the natural features that God gave to them, yet in the same breath will still complain about discrimination against them? Once black women begin to accept themselves, and fight against oppression, the better. We need to stop focusing on the wrong things, and take control over our self esteem, because it’s very low, and blac chyna is only profiting from it.

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Romance / Re: Guys If You Haven't Gotten Yourself A Foreign Chic You Are Missing by Saff(f): 9:10pm On Nov 21, 2018
This is from somebody who lives in the u.k, you are completely free to make a stupid decision based off negative thoughts, feel free. But the grass is not always greener on the other side. I have so many naija male friends here, who had the same mentality like you, and are regretting every part of their life. Take note.

Be prepared to take emotional abuse, most “foreign” women believe they’re superior to Nigerian men.

You shall be reported to the police and threatened to go back to you country, if you make any wrong move.

They are not going to cook, clean and cater to you like the average Nigerian woman.

Most of them are subconsciously racist and will only test you out for your bbc. You are only a fetish and something to show off to their friends

Not to mention that they age terribly.

My thing is, don’t purposely disregard and disrespect your own, for another race. You will face the consequences. Good day!

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Music/Radio / Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by Saff(f): 8:49pm On Nov 21, 2018
Fingers- zayn

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Celebrities / Re: Thunder Will Fire You If You Sell Cream In Nigeria - Burna Boy To Blac Chyna by Saff(f): 8:38pm On Nov 21, 2018
The guy is always trying too hard to make sense. He needs to Bleep off, just a human being full of negativity. His energy is just off, he needs serious help.
BetWinners:

Don't you ever get tired of your negative bile?

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Family / Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by Saff(f): 9:47am On Nov 21, 2018
So that is why the marriage will end because of a common name? I don’t understand this generation

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Travel / Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Saff(f): 10:01pm On Nov 19, 2018
The level of entitlement on this thread is alarming.

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Romance / Re: Nigerian Girls Take Care Of Your Virgina by Saff(f): 9:45am On Nov 19, 2018
You didn’t answer my question so therefore you are stupid. Good day!
Rextizzle:
Shut up my friend, you should be the one to sit down. who knows if you have smelling Virgina.
Romance / Re: Man Embarrasses Girlfriend Over 'Smelly Private Part'. Nigerians Say He's Rude by Saff(f): 9:25am On Nov 19, 2018
Well if it’s worked for you that’s great. I guess we’re all different smiley
lyntiffany:
stick to your own health ways have been on this for donkey years. Don't use tubes or whatever you call it. I use my honey and I add it to my water every morning to drink. Always go for a vagina swab test. It has helped me alot so leave me to it. Informations are meant to be assmiliated or discarded. That's why you can reasearch thanks.
Romance / Re: Man Embarrasses Girlfriend Over 'Smelly Private Part'. Nigerians Say He's Rude by Saff(f): 9:15am On Nov 19, 2018
Listen, you don’t put anything around your vagina, especially something as sticky, sweet and thick as honey. The vagina is very sensitive and even if a drop of the honey enters, it will mess up the ph balance. Why do you need to put honey on your vagina to keep it fresh? Why do you have to go thy extreme? Water is enough to maintain a good level of hygiene around the vagina, keep it shaved and wear loose underwear. Stop spreading false information which could result to infections and complications pleeeaseee.
lyntiffany:
oga around your vagina not inside your vagina before you haste to rush for quotes do yourself a favour by digesting the write up properly. In the absence of drugs ask your self what our great grand mother's used. Biko this is morning don't have your strength. You can source for this Info your self . Honey has so many health benefits. If you've not been using one I advice you to go get one for yourself. You will thank me later. Remember I said original honey not cramel. Thanks.
Romance / Re: Nigerian Girls Take Care Of Your Virgina by Saff(f): 9:09am On Nov 19, 2018
When men think they know more about the female anatomy than us, it makes me laugh. Multiple sex partner causes smelly vagina lol, In what world? You men are completely clueless. Can you locate the clitoris and urethra in a vagina? You are typing rubbish this morning to deceive yourself. Go and sit down please.
skywalker240:
The average Nigerian girl are always careful when it comes to matters of their private parts. they are hygenic concious, they wash down even when they pee, the average Nigerian girl changes her panties 3 or 6 hours, TBH Nigerian girls are good in washing and taking good care of their vagina from a basic point of view. But i can boldly tell you that, Smelly pussy of the average Nigerian girl, (am talking about majority of them with a smelly VJ) is as a result of having multiple sexual partners. Thats the simple truth. You can do a research online.

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Romance / Re: Man Embarrasses Girlfriend Over 'Smelly Private Part'. Nigerians Say He's Rude by Saff(f): 8:59am On Nov 19, 2018
Who puts honey on their vagina? Madam stop giving false information to sound intelligent. You don’t need to do all of that to have a fresh vagina, that’s what causes all these bacteria infections and thrush because girls will be putting different kinds of soaps and ingredients down there, from what they’ve read online. All your vagina needs is water,. WATER! And drink plenty water, that will maintain the ph balance and keep it odour free. Stop deceiving these young girls please
lyntiffany:
original honey will solve all this, dont know why they keep disgracing them selves. How do I mean? It's simple, after thoroughly washing your vagina with water. Dry properly with a wet towel then apply honey around your vagina to nourish it and give it a fresh and soft succulent feel. Not just that honey is known to have properties that removes odour from the body.

Secondly some girls when they ease their selves , most persons don't wipe or dry their pussy and this gives pussy a pungent smell cos urine is a waste product it's not allowed to be touched or spill on any part of your body mostly your private part which has a cover (pant ) to it. When your at home it's advised as a girl that when you pee you clean your vagina with water then dry with a clean white soft towel that is specifically designed for this, but while outside a babies diaper is recomended. Cos it helps to keep the p.p fresh and odourless .

Then if you put all these into practise and you still have some killer odour oozing out of your pool then you need a doctor.

Last but not the list is the thinline that leads to our anus which is located at the buttocks region. Many people do not consider this place. It's very good and critical to give that part a 100% attention given to the vagina. Reason beign that the place is a region by which fecal substances are passed out. It's tight, it hardly recieves air there by making the region a dead smelly zone. But washing and drying it properly Will reduce or eliminate the kind of toxic odour that emanates from that region.

It doesn't cost anything to maintain your honey pot. Be wise today.
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Just Put To Bed, Congrats To Me. by Saff(f): 1:18am On Nov 19, 2018
I was just thinking about you today in my room, I was like “ I’ve not seen airforce in a long time” I’m glad you’re doing well.

Congratsss, so happy for you! Welcome to fatherhood and I hope it treats you well.
Airforce01:
Hello everyone, something just happened right now.

My girlfriend has put to bed .

It's a new chapter of my life and I thank My God that my baby is here safetly and in good health .

I am so excited right now .

Pictures coming soon.


Airforce1

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Just Put To Bed, Congrats To Me. by Saff(f): 1:16am On Nov 19, 2018
The idiot is frustrated with his life
Earthquake2:


Hey hey don't transfer your hate for Airforce1 to an innocent baby

Stop it

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Romance / Re: I'm In Love With An Older Woman by Saff(f): 4:19pm On Nov 18, 2018
If you want to have kids, this is not a good idea

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Secretly Dating Married Men by Saff(f): 4:15pm On Nov 18, 2018
Okay but aren’t men supposed to be polygamous in nature. If the a man cheats on a woman, they’ll be questioning the woman as if she’s the problem. Now that some men are getting a taste of their own medicine, we won’t hear word. Please free me ahbeg
zicoraads:

The thing is, it is quite obvious you would have gone all 'voltron' if this was a man who was under discussion. Now that it is a lady, you are all gentle and meek. Beats me.
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Secretly Dating Married Men by Saff(f): 3:29pm On Nov 18, 2018
zicoraads:

Really?!

No going all mad about how ladies are scum and whatnot? I can only imagine what you would have typed if this was the other way.
the thing is, it’s quite obvious what the man should do. I don’t agree with the lady’s actions at all
Health / Re: 10 Health Benefits Of Cucumber You Should Know by Saff(f): 12:44pm On Nov 18, 2018
The mods knew what they were doing when they put this on the front page. But I will just keep quiet lipsrsealed

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Secretly Dating Married Men by Saff(f): 10:05am On Nov 18, 2018
Earthbound:

Not bad. I hope you're okay, fine madam. I'd like to stay and quote you till the next page but I'd hate to derail.
smiley

Have a nice day kiss

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Secretly Dating Married Men by Saff(f): 9:56am On Nov 18, 2018
How are you? smiley
Earthbound:


kiss
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Secretly Dating Married Men by Saff(f): 9:33am On Nov 18, 2018
What do you want us to tell you again?

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Romance / Re: Why Are Women Objectifying Themselves More And More? (Graphic Pics) by Saff(f): 12:11am On Nov 18, 2018
smiley
BluntBoy:


I thought you were angry with me ni grin

Sweet dreams.

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Romance / Re: Why Are Women Objectifying Themselves More And More? (Graphic Pics) by Saff(f): 8:50pm On Nov 17, 2018
Na wa oh
BluntBoy:


Whenever I come across your moniker, the initial thing I see is straff cheesy

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Romance / Re: How To Ask Or Initiate Sex With Your Girlfriend by Saff(f): 6:15pm On Nov 17, 2018
ayobamiJR:
Firstly Make sure the first place you sit when you enter into the room is your bed (You enter first)

Talk about things that excite her and Lil by Lil, Make body contacts. Laugh with Her, Some ladies will freak out if they discover that It's only sex you want and you're boring.

Touch her in sensitive parts like hair,neck,head and hold her hands very close.

Tell her she's looking Sexy and everything that's on your mind now is feeling that lips, She will try to avoid you like being shy.

Go for her lips, If she pushes you away with a bad look, Please stop
If she says NO, You're up man. Go for it
NO in that case is Yes

Sorry for the long story
hey hey, don’t go and put this man inside trouble. What do you mean no means yes? Not in all cases oh, better be careful.

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