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Beadex1:
create time ? going to work by 8am and coming back by 5pm and spending the rest of the day with them wont stop ladies that want to cheat

ok

You need to create a balance my friend, is that hard for you to do?

Create time

7years:
Sis like you don't get this whole thing
like am still hopeful but am desperate to have this chic not like a kinda criminal activity stuff lol. but I can't imagine how I'll feel if this girl is not my bride

Oga please stop it.
Even if the girl decides to give you a chance eventually, she’ll take full advantage of you because she knows you’re obsessed.

Desperation is the number one killer in relationships. It’s not cute.

Error number one

You never let a lady know how much you love her when she's not familiar with you. Ever.

You've lost already. Move on

Ok

emmaodet:
Tanx saff, i du enjoy your comments and always looking up to it

lol thank you

N0favors:
yea. But I don’t have your number

im so tired though I had a long day.

N0favors:
Saff call me

wanna text?

N0favors:
Saff call me

will try

This is just ridiculous. Some women have mental issues and they don’t even know it.

mhizcassidy001:
happy birthday.

happy birthday beautiful

LLSAINT:
How can you let a guy know you like him and not reveal your vulnerability?

balance

Yambee:
So what were you trying to sale on Nairaland again?we have seen your best pictures and I know no man will be sending you pm's.

What else?deactivate your acct as the internet do not forget. Have a good day and please grow up.

If someone has been deceiving you that you are in anyway beautiful, the person is a liar.

Go and write your WAEC and make something out of your life.

Shalom.

this is not necessary. It’s her birthday for goodness sake.

ITbomb:
What most girls don't understand is that 70% of responsible men cannot just pester a girl for a serious relationship.

Pestering stops at secondary school and early university , anyone pestering a girl for love is a potential playboy.

The funny thing is that those hard to get girls come falling for useless guys with smooth talk and some blings. Those are the mumu ones that will be shouting "men are scum"

There’s a difference between playing hard to get, and creating a challenge, not making it too easy. Will you value the prize if you didn’t work hard to get it? Do you value anything that is easily accessible? If I like a guy I will definitely let him know, but completely revealing my vulnerability and not making him work to get me is something I will not do.

Earthbound:
Because he has money, your eyes are blind to the things you might detest in a random guy.

i hope you’re okay

kkins25:
Honestly saff, i really dont know where this dogma comes from. I know religion and culture have contributed immensely though. I just cant phantom why even the fuccckboys whom are not religious still think and believe in such jargons. It baffles me. The same fucck boys doing the drilling are the same ones holding strongly to that stupid dogma.

Couldnt agree more.

samysmoothfresh:
3rd gtg in a year?.................sounds like fun.



Where them party cruisers at


saff

can I ask why you’re always mentioning me?

Loool I like this girl, she’s smart. She’s messing you up psychologically and you are falling right into her trap. Have you ever realised it’s the people we can’t get, or the ones we are unsure about that we ‘love’ most? ESP with guys. It’s the chase, the thrill, your ego that’s deceiving you, you don’t love her. The minute this girl reciprocates the love back to you and wholeheartedly validates you, you will get tired of her and look elsewhere eventually. Oga, at this point it’s either you keep chasing her or you let her go. Nobody said it was going to be easy, but that’s the journey. Or you thought you were not going to miss her in the process? You are too soft ahbeg.

Make up your mind and stop being indecisive. If you want to leave, stay busy, meet new people and eventually you will move on. If you want to stay, keep chasing her, maybe when she’s finished having her fun and she pities you, then she’ll take you serious. Goodluck

TonyeBarcanista:
I wonder where you people are getting this ideology from.

You that isn't broke you are even depending on a guy to pay for your makeup and you think it's a thing of pride? Is being a leech, a liability to the highest order and a parasite something of virtue?

Anyway, makeup doesn't make a woman beautiful, it only gives the wearers a false "sense" of beauty for the moment but in reality it adds nothing to her looks. Unfortunately, the media, movies, music videos and some other stuffs have painted to brainwash ladies that men love make-up or it makes ladies attractive.

Makeup is like a short girl wearing high heel shoes to appear tall, but it doesn't make her tall neither does it make her not being short though she'll have the false sense of being tall at the moment. So a guy who find tall girls attractive will not settle for a girl with high heels show because she looks tall on it except he changes his preferences.

BTW I don't know what you mean by insecurity but I'll tell you something about guys;

Guys approach girl for 2 reasons,

1. To enjoy short term benefits and quit

2. To cultivate long term relationship that leads to marriage.

So if guys approach you when you are at your best "heavy makeup", it doesn't mean he finds you so angelic (despite his sweet words), it could be a pointer to reason number 1.

God Bless

All this talk on top of makeup that can be removed in one wipe. It’s not that deep please go and sit down.

Hormonal imbalance, genetics and skin type.

PUSSYHOE:
It is fine when you deceive him by applying paint but it is wrong if he does the same when he claims to possess what he doesn't have like riches or sexual prowess.

Ladies' mentality: Only I can lie and can fake things, he isn't suppose to do the same.

If you want to be a woman, put on a wig and transform yourself into the transgender world. I see no reason why you’re comparing the two that have no correlation whatsoever. It’s makeup, you take it off at the end of the night, you can’t remove ‘brokeness’ at the end of the night. It’s a living condition, you understand? Goodbye.

QueenSekxy:
Lol, you spoke nothing but the truth.
I think it stems down to insecurity and finances.
@ emboldene, so true!!!

Exactly!! If a guy tells you he doesn’t like makeup he’s either 1) broke or 2) Insecure. As long as your makeup looks good and compliments your face, what is the problem? Ahbeg jare

QueenSekxy:
why do most men hate make up?

Because it requires high maintenance which they don’t like. It attracts other guys to you, which they can’t handle. Have you ever noticed that you get the most male attention when you are glammed up with makeup? Yet guys supposedly “hate” makeup. Shiorr

This hurts

LuciferKristi:
Spoken like a true olosho.

You just had to drop the hint incase a potential client is reading.

Okay lucifer

Timekeeper:
Saff


I will cut off since she is not interested... Thanks

100%. Dont stalk her on social media, keep yourself busy. Block her if possible. Do this for at least 2 months and you’ll get over her completely. She may come back to you and beg, but don’t give in.

If you go back to her, don’t come back here to ask us for advice again. Thanks

I think common sense will tell the average woman that her ass and boobs will not get her a ring from a guy. But it can definitely attract her prey

Hanseel1:
Lol... You are mature enough to code what's happening from that my post.

hoookkaaay sir

Timekeeper:
Advise me as a guy, shud I just cut
communication with her totally and move on or I shud
still call her and talk Sha...
Seriously to me, I don't Wana be friend zone Cox I
truly wanna court her..... But she on the other side,
is damn too free with guys and I don't think I can
take it...... BEFORE I told her how I feel, I use to call
her to meet outside her hostel and we talk for some
hours.
But now that she is not ready, do u think I shud still
be doing all wat I use to do to her or I shud just cut
her off and move one....?

Now, what do you want to do? Have you decided to let her go or keep her? If you have decided to let her go, and you know that staying in contact will keep some emotions there, I suggest you go cold turkey. Cut her off completely because you’ll be playing emotional tricks on your mind. You’ll only end up digging a deeper hole for yourself. Be truthful to yourself. If you can stay in contact and cut off your emotional connection with her, you can do so, but I doubt it. Especially after reading this thread.

So please cut her off and stop delaying the process. Unless you want to give yourself emotional instability, do what is right. Think with your head and not your heart. Be a man and take control of yourself and don’t allow yourself to be manipulated abeg. Life is too short and you’re bound to meet so many women in this life, you’ll look back at this and laugh. Goodluck.

Hanseel1:
The question is why weren't they complaining when he hasn't gotten a third child with his manager? They started complaining in December (one month after Jada p or whatever gave birth) .

Well maybe that’s when he stopped paying the school fees

Hanseel1:
Something isn't right.
Who else noticed that last year before Wizkid's manager got pregnant and gave birth to his 3rd kid, these two babymamas never complained about Wizkid not caring for their own kids?

They suddenly started complaining 1month after Wizkid's manage gave birth.


I'm sure Wizkid is taking care of the kids but he's not giving them extra money to spend on themselves, that's why they're ranting.

Assumptions. Wizkid is a grown boy, seems very immature. I don’t see a reason why a woman would lie about the father not paying their child’s school fees, because it’s very specific. If she said he’s not supporting her financially then that’s a different story that could be questioned.

Jam jam so cutteeee