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Mondisweets: this is simply the mentality of someone who uses his geni.tal area to think rather than his brain, but i don't blame you are not the only one.
Nice girls are easily dumped or walked over because some men don't know what they want. You would rather spend 3/4 of your life chasing something that never lasts forever over one person that can make you happy and keep your satisfied most of the time, the whole time were settling for less.

You like calling yourself a relationship expert yet you have never mentioned any happy or successful relationship you have had, except for the brainless women who have been with only to satisfy your sexu.al needs. You always seem to make feeble points. Most boys are attracted to something that gradually fades away but a man goes for someone who has the right character and elegance of mind that can take him far. he sees beyond her just being a piece of meat.

You are a person!

It amazes me how fucktards like you open your stewpid gob to insult others intellect, worse still your intellectual God, only for you to moronically follow it with fucktardious statements.

person, if a person can make a man "happy" and keep him "satisfied" for the rest of his life, so how come the man is seeking happiness and satisfaction somewhere else, cretin?

person, you honestly opened your moronic gob to make claims that challenge nature? Or you think your moronic wishful thinking are facts? You think for most people one person can make them happy for the rest of their life?

person, in what era of the world has that ever happened? In your moronic fictional romantic books? Dumb C*nt!

As for the second highlighted, sell that moronic boys/men foolishness to your moronic real men, not someone like me. You can shove it right up your arsse where it came from, Dumbfck! Stop begging for men to want only you when they want to have many options.

Men surely leave ediots like you, and they could not be more sensible than to do so. I would just think they are dumb if they ever let you produce their kids. The kids would be moronic!

lawizle: Lmao...guy abeg na my pin be ds...make we become pals men..283c6f4e / 76237712.

I am not on BB, mate.

lawizle: You and Saga are needed ASAP...av been dealt with a lot by the weaker sex...I need my pound of flesh back! 283c6f4e / 76237712

Start from here, mate.

https://www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman


And recognise this when it is happening so you protect your own best interest.

https://www.nairaland.com/962850/ladies-which-these-dating-evils

orimipe: @SAGA, what happend to u?
Who broke dt special heart of Urs?
You werent lyk dis wen i left u on d aisle.

Morenike Abeni, na you be that?



By the way, don't try that "challenge his masculinity" line. I am more of an expert in psychology than you.

bettermike: I totally dislike agressive ladies: Black, white, hispanic etc. They are absolutely repulsive.

Absolutely fcking repulsive.

Can't fcking stand them.

The strangest thing is they are shocked you don't respect them and have high regards for them. They think just being female entitles them to respect.

I don't blame them, I blame the person real men. If it was not "Sagamite" that was giving them heat, if it was some other NL bloke, I can guarantee you one of the person real men would have emerged saying "A gentleman does not speak to ladies like that". The fools are the ones that make them think they qualify to be called "ladies". But the fools know they don't bring such moronic statements to Sagamite except they want to enter an intellectual abattoir where they would be cut into shreds.

tensor77: What's your own? There is need of acting desperate by playing the maid game. And certainly no need for fornication either. If he is serious he will wait until the marriage night.
Just respect yourself and respect the courtship.

Whatever you smoke, mate, just make sure I never take a puff of it.

Boss13: There is nothing as a nice girl or nice guy. We all have our shortcomings and weakness. I think it should renamed - dumb babes and smart babes.

Smart babes know how to get and keep a man, dum*b babes don't. It's so funny when a guy gets a Babe and she wants to be the center of attraction hence she watches the guy to criticize his behaviour, compares him with her ex, listen to jealous tips from gal friends and finally blames guys for her loneliness. They want a man to do all for them but contribute little or nothing to the relationship.

Gals guys don wise up. Stay there to form nice gal no go wise up

That is the average modern girl for you.

Fools!

You need me more than I need you and you want me to do all the work?

Because you are L'Oreal?

[quote author=Mz~naett]@op's,kindly pardon me 4 derailing d topic.@Sagamite,u'r a bunch of Oaf 2rate black women dx way.By d way,u quoted some1's post as an "ARTICLE OF RUBBISH"infact,i dnt want 2go in2 arguments wif u,cuz i knw u'r underage. What an appendage article u keep posting cuz its fell in2 disuse for ages..¤PEACE¤[/quote]You are a person!

You type in textspeak and your moronic arsse is calling someone else a "bunch of oaf"? I am now plural?

You are a pure cretin!

geolabious: Plss telme Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̅ kidding?

No, I am not kidding, mate.

I don't do hoodrats and I definitely would not sell myself-short to go to life imprisonment with a woman aesthetically challenged.

I repeat: She better be fcking fine and have a good personality to go with it.

Otherwise, I can go on with my rendezvous in different area codes.

Don Oms: I don't boast of a PhD in a Psychology field of 'Womantology' but I know for sure that in psychology of human behavioral pattern studies, you DO NOT generalise. I know you know that too as you have not generalised in your earlier post, but you just weren't cautious enough to consider that lady (sweet-tease) may be an exception.

If you read closely, you would realise I never said she is not the exception.

I just made it clear that I do not necessarily believe she was because I have heard many claim it before to the point it appears it does not exist or is negligible.

She may be, she may not be.

Baby mama: You are perhaps the most vile creature on this website,what did that lady do to get you barking like a rabid dog?
Your attitude stinks like watery poo
Don't ever mistake stoopidity,lack of proper upbringing or downright agbero street boy gangster motor park tout behaviors and personality disorder for intelligence ,bravery and assertiveness
Most people reading you can differentiate between the two divide.
What a sorry excuse of a man

You are a pure person!

In your moronic world that is a "lady", no wonder most black women of nowadays have miasmic personalities and then think they are a gem that nobody wants because people are scared of "strong women".

Cretin, in your moronic life, you and all the useless jailbirds and agberos that bone you can NEVER, I repeat, NEVER in your life be half as smart as I am when I am fcking sleeping and my brain is recharging. You can take that to the bank and bank it, person!

Baby mama: If you are that black man then the black women and unborn children are doomed
Eligible black man is what the ladies want not a man with a chronic personality disorder manifesting as narcism and misogynistic tendencies
I wouldn't wish you on my worst enemy. That black woman is better off single and the children are better off by a single mother than be stuck with somebody like you.
You are that man no parents would wish on a daughter they love.

You are a person!

Eligible black men is what they want and eligible black men and eligible non-black men avoid them like a plague because it is skanks like you that call themselves "ladies" in the black society?

Rude, loud and classless piece of shyt. Yes, you are better of single. We would leave you single.

Your type would NEVER have a black man like me. I don't do GBWA skanks. Yes, single motherhood and being strong raising another generation of moronic black men awaits your useless life. Neither would I want your daughter, I don't do hoodrats.

Monstertrucks: Lol! what did this boy eat today carry a geh with obj lookalike to ur mother.then u will know the difference btwn embarassment nd disgrace.

You don crase.

druid06: @Sagamite,

You're just like my evil twin.

I awed in the way you explained in your own terms about Nice girls and girls with physical attractive qualities.. I totally am in accordance with your statements.

I loved the rebuttal with your argument with that lady too. This is the most irritating quality about the black woman, her total aggressiveness and attitude and as your finely put it, the hoodrat syndrome. They do think they got life and everything figured out and it's most times very annoying.

I hope you continue to school these biitches and put them to their places.

Also, nice one with the don't piss down my back and tell me it's raining phrase. I think I'm going to adopt that euphemism/analogy.

And when we have serious cases of single motherhood in black society and majority of successful and eligible black men choosing to marry outside the race, they wonder why.

They start saying they are "strong".

Where "strong" means unbearable and miasmic personalities.

I can't stand them.

geolabious: Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.

If I want to smile, I would watch Chris Rock.

Don't go for looks me arsse.

She better be fcking fine and have a good personality to go with it.

Carsonv: The only trait asides BEAUTY that attracts me to a girl is CONFIDENCE!

If you're a nice gurl, don't choke your partner with 'niceness'. Have CONFIDENCE enough to allow him long for your niceties!

Note: Real men want to chase/fight/search/work for what they want!

Most nice girls remove the chase(fun) by giving the full package from the word GO!

You are on your own, nigga!

Fcking hate it with a passion.

If I have to chase you, trust me, you would think slavery was never abolished the way you would work to keep me.

I like it smooth, easy and respectful.

I DON'T chase!

Yoore: People view "being nice" from different angles. A lady I consider to be nice may be viewed differently by my friends. So who's right?! But being good is definite

FACT: If your friends don't see her as nice, trust me, she is only being nice because she likes you.

The first on my list.

Monstertrucks: that is Why those that are different nd exciting, gegets married every Saturday. even when it's clear she's ugly.

You are madt!

This got me cracking up.

Na so?

Ahhh! Maybe I need to get myself some butters, fugulinging Naija girl and maybe I will finally find one that is a genius in bed. I just need some mind disorientating medication to cloud out the looks. No more fine Naija girls.

Monstertrucks: 2.she will most probably be boring in bed.always wanting you to do every thing or initiate sex.

How is this different from majority of Naija girls?

dnacrystal: But this sagamite creature sha lol! What exactly is making you rant and rave this much. Are you pained at something? Did someone hurt you? Talk to someone if you're depressed, it helps.

You are a person!

That is your best line?

Skanky hoodrat!

dnacrystal: Dear Mr. Sagamite, I wonder why you are attacking me. Its not like I quoted you or anything so...? duh. Well if you do need to assault someone to make you happy, go right ahead. But I'm not interested in you or whatever you have in that link. Meanwhile, a little wisdom doesn't always hurt.

Shut the fck up!

You are a person.

Who was your moronic statement directed at?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4e8iAofnrw

I have already stated it clearly, I do not tolerate Ghetto Black Woman Aggression (GBWA). Later your moronic arsse will be wondering why men don't want to be with you. I am already very intolerant of black women and when you bring such skanky attitude to me, I don't hesitate in knocking your arsse right back into line.

Later, your dumb arsse would even claim you are a nice girl like every black girl likes to claim but yet your hoodrat personalities is the evidence on the ground for the majority.

You can try your rude shyt with dumb "real men", this man would fcking put you in your place asap (without the rocky).

dnacrystal: A learned fool is more a fool than an ignorant fool.
The greatest fools are oftentimes more clever than the men who laugh at them.

Did you pull this moronic statements out of your arsse?

I guess this is more of the moronic adages that products of a failed education call wisdom?

https://www.nairaland.com/658179/sagamites-analysis-state-governors/10#8300542

person!

alutacontinua: Humility is not a gender thing!
Heck, the pride in some guys is irritating! even here on Nairaland, u know dem by their posts!

Both guys nd ladies should learn to be humble and courteous!

If you realise that most men don't want to commit to a relationship with a woman, you would realise it is women that mostly need to have humility as a bargaining tool.

Don't ever think you can bargain on the same grounds with a 2nd party that has more bargaining power than you.

dnacrystal: Any unwise person can condemn, critize, vaunt- and most do, with so much temper and emotion.

I hope you realise a product of a failed education is not equipped to make judgements?

deols: huh?

She is ugly and fat, and they are a crook, reetarded family.

Nothing to admire about them.

Simples!

jay bee: Oga Saga

Please leave my sweet tease alone oh. No suya meat for you today

No be suya meat as long as she is not rude and exposing any ghetto black woman aggression. I don't tolerate GBWA.

All I would just give her is my PhD dissertation on Womantology so she can see that this is a man with his eyes open, not a mugu real man!

[quote author=sweet-tease]The only rubbish i see here is your post! How does dat feel? You don't call people's idea rubbish cos you can't relate to it! I don't tink your post is rubbish cos its your opinion but i just wantd to proove a point.[/quote]No, my post is never rubbish because I actually engage my brain before I talk. More so, I am the smartest person you are likely to be ever privileged to talk to directly.


[quote author=sweet-tease]FACT 1 i have always been nice and its not cos of your given reasons plus i know a whole lot of gals like me (i know how to pick my friends). Some crazy gals aren't as beautiful as we are but i used to think we are just unfortunate until i realized most of us have 'being nice' in common.[/quote]This is an irrelevant statement if you bothered to check what I wrote.

I even highlighted it in red and you still wrote this?

That said, a vast majority of girls would make claims similar to yours but yet the evidence on the ground is different especially for black girls. No wonder men of all races around the world avoid them and are wary of them.

[quote author=sweet-tease]FACT 2 in case you don't know, the nice attitude that makes nice guys vulnerable does the same to nice gals, they experiment with a whole lot of rubbish cos you are too nice to do anything.... Don't ask me how i know.[/quote]This also is almost another irrelevant point because you don't compare apples to oranges.

First of all, by and large, men work for relationship, women choose from options. The nice fine girls are the ones that pick arseholes on purpose. If they get rubbish, it is likely mainly because of their attraction to rubbish. Most hot girls tend to like challenges and a project because they love drama and they know there is a queue of men to fall back to if things go awry.

Men tend to be naturally more attracted to looks, so if a bad personality comes with it, you can understand their dilemma. Women tend to be naturally more attracted to personality, if the personality is bad and they are the choosers, not the workers, na them wahala.

Secondly, I have already said it, nice girls tend to be mediocre/ugly/insecure girls. These type of girls would struggle to attract and hold on to a man. His eyes are likely to wonder for better options.

[quote author=sweet-tease]FACT 3 you fail to understand dat he wasn't speaking literarily, he was talking about a case where a nice gal has the normal attracting traits YET *you know the rest*[/quote]You fail to understand that I don't give a shyt whether he is speaking literarily or lateraliry or lotterily. The fact is a girl that can win or be voted the hottest girl in a university would not struggle to have a man that is willing to commit to her.

The men would queue up in droves like Somali refugees waiting for UNICEF food aid. She just has to pick her choice and would only pass if none meets her high standard and her perception of her market value. That does not mean she does not have enough decent choices, she can just afford to be choosy.

Yours sincerely,

Sagamite
A world-class philosopher, studying women since 1846.

joe4christ: It simply means you aint got the other five qualities huh
Well, cap it up with the sixth, i understand!

Which of the qualities do YOU have?

Are you not the same person that started threatening a girl on NL because she refused to take up your offer of communication off NL?