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BoboYekini: @op, you forgot Yme.
I know Sagamite will agree with me on that.

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She's intelligent, beautiful, rich, slain logicboy with just one sentence.
I love tgirl.

DailyNews: 7. Carefreewannabe

Nashville: When I read posts like this, it just sends a very wrong signal about marriage. Next month, my parents will celebrate 40 years of marriage. My grandparents were married for 62 years before my grandfather passed on and I am almost 8 years in marriage and I do not regret getting married. My wife as well has no regrets. My brother and sister are also very happily married. There are lots of people out there enjoying their marriages and may be you need to learn one or two things from them if this is truly your view.

No marriage is perfect just like no one is perfect but I dare say the scenarios you paint are far from the norm. I am a Christian and I know I can only have something I believe in. I can only have a happy marriage if I believe it is possible and if I can see it. This is not about men vs women. I have a friend whose wife is dating an ED in her bank, and she is threagthening him with divorce etc. There are bad men and women out there and there are good men too. Your responsibility is to marry a good man. This is just a cheap way of absolving oneself from blame.

If you sincerely ask people in bad marriage how they got themselves into the mess they are in, they themselves would tell you where they made mistakes. Most mistakes were made before marriage and what I am preaching is that divorce should not be seen as an easy escape route. Someone commented earlier that people that are no longer connecting should get a divorce. I actually laughed, like seriously, is that what marriage has turned into? Most people marry for the wrong reasons. Some women will marry guys who abused and beat them up even before marriage, some will still marry guys that cheated on them 10 times before marriage. Some will marry a guy over the internet? Some will marry guys they dont even know what he does for a living.

Marriage can be lovely but you must first believe it can be!

Jarus: Saga baba,

Pls shoot me an email: jarushub@gmail.com

Sophyrocks: Are u stupid or something?? Scare tactics wetin?? Did u say scare tactics?? hahahaha. Its already happening right under your nose. U guys dnt wanna admit it. Real Self denial u are swimming in!! Even some of your fellow married men are finding married women more attractive and safer to cheat with because they feel married women know how to keep secrets to their graves. have u talked with married men that have opened up about this?? I guess NO. check out work places. everywhere u go. But well, it has to remain that way so it remains underground. #wickedlaughs# Women, make una Ride on biko. After all, we've got the PHD in Pretence and we've got to keep making the men look bad while the women look Good right?. buhahahhaha. All in all, Cheating is wrong irrespective of the sex. Once u start it, be ready for the consequences. What goes around comes around.

seanet01: Jonathan will never do such.
He rings the fat a.z.z of the woman every day

Jarus: Saga baba, give me permission to publish this on my blog.

Johnpaul88: Yeah i'll definitely agree he's a genius. A Child has zero capacity of consent but my guy is almost my age & we love ourselves so very much.

Sophyrocks: Hehehehehe. Im absolutely sure that this woman is getting her freak on somewhere else. Nigerian Men are sooooooooo gullible to think their ever loving submissive wives are not cheating on them. hahahahahahahaha. So stupid. 'When he cheats, just keep quiet, pray for him, he will change'. Lol. Who told u she is doing that?? U men are soooooooo gullible . chai! If u know the rate at which married women cheat these days ehn. This culture of telling women to bear and endure has caused a lot of chaos and cheating all over the place. is it because they are not showing it all to your faces Make una dey there dey deceive una selves o.k. I bet if u follow your wives every move, u will see something u dnt like oooooo. Nigerian women have found a new way to cope with una cheating ways o. No dulling!! Just check out the high demand for sugar mummies. This is the 21st century. Keep deceiving yourselves o.k. maybe that will keep women cheating ways more secret. So Ride On!

beryl04: Don't worry dear, we already know who's got a hi IQ and who's got 1 one that's akin to that of an ape

beryl04: This foooool ,ur still running around on this thread brandishing ur ignorance and misplaced hate that is at best comical.btw,Xmas is here and ur still typing from London,u are such a huge joke and it's a good thing every right thinking mind on this forum has got to know u for what are >:

Henry120: My friend shut up that your filthy dirty mouth. The fact that you and your family live on a dollar a day and in abject poverty, doesn't mean the rest of the population do.

People make this silly claim that 90% of nigerians live on 1 dollar a day, yet the number of L.G and samsung show rooms keep increasing in my neighbourhood. How are these one dollar population able to afford them?


I see you are redundant, however it would be foolhardy to drag in the rest of the population into your pathetic state of redundancy.

Johnpaul88: Do you really mind that hypocrite that calls himself sagamite? This is how he's always running around all gay titled threads here in nairaland, claiming to hate it like a plague, but he never fails to go back to them. People who hate gays does not even go to their threads and if by chance they do, they never go back.

mink505: If people decide that they want to go naked in the streets and they challenge the law, they will win. esp if that law is strictly moral.
here for example in NY after a woman took the police to court, it is now legal to go topless in public. police are ordered not to arrest any woman who goes topless. men are allowed to do so afterall.
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/05/16/nyregion/a-police-roll-call-reminder-women-may-go-topless.html?_r=0
ex. if we see repeated offenses of people going naked in public, this will pass the message that people are serious about it. esp since USA favors human rights. it would be a disaster to keep persecuting and arresting them esp if it lands in the media and becomes a major story. ex. marijuana use is now legal in many parts of the USA. due to the high incarceration rates of weed smokers that cause it to turn into a human rights issue. infact, illegal immigrants are treated in such a way that would be considered very generous in most parts of the world. and that's all because of the respect of human rights. esp if the illegal immigrants came to the USA as children. by logic they shouldn't suffer for their parents' crimes.
In naija, nobody cares, even if they kill 500 gays, they will even pat themselves on the back. what a barbaric country.

keep in mind that the gays were first banned from marrying in the USA in 1971. and it took less than 30 yrs for people to come to the terms that gays weren't going anywhere. they challenged the law and they won.
and believe it or not, polygamy will eventually become legal in the USA [b]if[/b]the polygamists challenge it enough. the difference is that due to the rise in gender equality, you will see more women marrying multiple husbands. there will be more polyandry than polygamy. they will remain a minority though.
compared to a country like Nigeria or Pakistan, American laws are damn logical. laws aren't simply based on whether or not something is "deviant" that would be silly. tattoos are popular now, but at a certain point they were deviant. etc. it just takes a while for the rest of d world to catch up, that's all.

the fact that you made a post thinking it will redeem you from your ignorance and low IQ dumbness is very comical.

mink505: your IQ is too low for simple concepts. in developed countries, government is SECULAR meaning that "morality has no place in law"
govt ain't no church, temple or mosque. keep your fake "morals" to yourself as long as u aren't harming any one. laws are based on logic. and the parliament or govt is there to debate laws to make sure that they make sense.

in Nigeria,u will see all of them corrupt fools claiming moral superiority over the nation.
even this fool sagamite keep rambling about deviant behavior, yet has a fetish for posting p.orn all over nairaland. Rubbish how is this behavior different from pakistan where alcohol is banned n illegal for being immoral yet 90% of the male population is addicted to chewing grass to get high. hahaha hypocrites. The middle east and especially Africa are ironically known for having the grossest human rights violation in d world. talk about morals. obsession with "deviant" behavior is stupid. if you are so obsessed with following the crowd, clearly corruption, violence, r.ape will never end since majority of people engage in it. all these vices keep Nigeria underdeveloped yet we choose to turn blind eye on it and focus on scapegoating those who look or act different from the norm. THe norn in Nigeria is corruption, violence, r.ape, adultery (a man who is faithful to his wife would probably be considered deviant) etc. a politician who is not corrupt in Nigeria will be condemned for being "deviant"
another word for deviant in African lingo is witchcraft. anybody who doesn't fit the norm must a witch. ahahah
#africanmentality #herdmentality #underdeveloped #middleages

western countries are developed for a reason and you sagamite, are typing comfortably from a western country while at the same time wishing Nigeria evil by not wanting it to develop. if you are really serious about your homophobia, there is no reason for you to be sitting in a western country . move back to Africa or the middle east. gbam.
enjoy your gay po,rn while you are at it. hypocrite.

Ogbeche77: I read the story on monday, the way we promote criminals in Nigeria is alarming. The same man that brought shame to Nigeria, caught on camera demanding for bribe.
And one hungry mofo goes on to publish an interview with him. Who asked for his opinion? What is his business with the Super eagles? NFF can do as they like, he's not an authority again.
I grew up knowing both Adamu and Ogunjobi as football administrators in this country, hardly is their any footie activity going on that you won't hear their names, corrupts nuggars.
But immediately they both were disgraced and went solo, we all saw the turn around and what the country has achieved in football

[size=18pt]Adamu cautions Eagles on WC opponents[/size]

Former Director-General of the National Sports Commission (NSC) and Fifa Executive Committee member, Amos Adamu, has warned the Super Eagles not to underrate any of their Group F rivals in next year's World Cup.

While admitting that he would like Nigeria to win next year's World Cup in Brazil, Adamu told the Daily Independent that the Super Eagles will have to consider all the teams in their group as equal threats, as they are no minnows in football anymore.

"One fundamental thing we mustn’t underestimate is that all the teams that qualified for the World Cup are potential winners," Adamu said.

"So we don’t have to start looking down on a country and feel that they are not threats to us, every team emerges from a competition, so no team in Brazil is a cheap party."

The experienced football administrator however added that given the quality of the players currently in the Super Eagles, as well as the consistency of the team's form, they only need a bit of luck to go all the way in the World Cup.

thegoodjoehunt: Wonders shall never end. It is an analogy. People are saying Jonathan was not allowed to speak because Nigeria is corrrupt. I gave an analogy that a highly clean man can thank a criminal and the clean man won't be seen as dirty.

The analogy means that South Africa is not free of corruption and thanking Nigeria won't stain their image.

If I say, " Leave that man, even Pope will not be praised like that". I'm I equating the person in question as a pope?

If you spend more time reading than abusing, maybe you would understand the points.

thegoodjoehunt: As for Madam Okonjo, she stands for corrupt policies. The removal of subsidies in both AGO and PMS were not t lead t development but create room for more money to be looted.

She said the money would be used for infrastructural development and it wasn't used for it.

No mattr how much you abuse, any one upholding corrupt policies is corrupt.

mink505: pedophilia is a fetish. it is a paraphilia similar to zoophilia, sexual sadism and exhibitionism.
Homosexuality (used to be known as homophilia) used to be scientifically listed as a paraphilia but no longer is.


in fact, pedophilia by itself is not illegal. if a pedophile was arrested, he/she would be accused of r.ape. NOT pedophilia. In fact, a pedophile who wants to avoid jail would seek an adult who is underdeveloped physically. ex. late bloomers. the definition of pedophilia is an attraction to per-pubescent or pubescent bodies and there are quite a few adults out there who fit that description and have underdeveloped bodies that would attract pedophilies. this is perfectly legal as long as the object of attraction is not a child because in that case, it would be r.ape since children have no capacity for CONSENT by law. but if an 18yr old has a body of a 12 yr old etc then that's perfectly legal.even though it falls under the category of pedophilia.

In fact, there have been moves to redefine pedophila. to restrict it to per-pubescence only. so that men who are attracted to pubertal children will no longer be considered pedophiles. ie children above age 13. At the end of the day, none of it matters legally. It is just the scientific body that is debating it. they are the ones who set all these definitions. legally, it is r.ape that is a crime.

when there is consent between two adults, then it is legal. infact, there r some people who love to suck their own or their partners blood. all sorts of fetish exist out there. nothing illegal about it. If someone was sucking a child's blood though, then that will be a problem.
this is ironic because children's rights do not exist in Africa. violence towards children, beatings etc is perfectly acceptable behavior in most African countries. developed countries take this seriously. laws are there to protect people from harm. whether adult or child and chidren especially since they are not capable of protecting themselves. child marriages in Nigeria is so rampant. 15 yr old girls married to old men. no biggie. yet they claim "moral" stance against homosexuals. wtf

just because something is unusual doesn't mean it is illegal. examples of parahilias include Acrotomophilia (attraction to amputated people), Gerontophilia (attraction to elderly people) etc. might be disgusting but hey, laws are (and should be) based on logic not morals. If I am attracted to people with crossed eyes or attracted to dwarfs, what is your own bloody business? should we start arresting any normal sized person who shows romantic interest in aki and pawpaw because it is "strange" or "disgusting"?

It is just a third world country mentality to look for scapegoats (esp. a minority or disliked group that can't easily defend itself is usually targeted). Just a lot of violent tendencies in people due to frustration in life. and just a general predisposition to "fit in" if you are too different from others around you, you will become a target of persecution (usually witchcraft).
ex. people who love to sleep with their legs placed on the wall being accused of witchcraft and beaten to death etc. ridiculous. I place my legs on the wall sometimes. who cares. somehow all these "witches" are women, children and elderly. coincidentally people who have little power in society to defend themselves from the majority mob ie people looking for scapegoats to blame their problems in life on others.

trust me, if you are wretched in life, it is not the gays, "witches" or minorities that are causing your wretchedness. hard to believe ain't it?
#africanmentality
https://www.nairaland.com/1506229/enugu-gov-family-disowns-first

mink505: pedophilia is a fetish. it is a paraphilia similar to zoophilia, sexual sadism and exhibitionism.
Homosexuality (used to be known as homophilia) used to be scientifically listed as a paraphilia but no longer is.


in fact, pedophilia by itself is not illegal. if a pedophile was arrested, he/she would be accused of r.ape. NOT pedophilia. In fact, a pedophile who wants to avoid jail would seek an adult who is underdeveloped physically. ex. late bloomers. the definition of pedophilia is an attraction to per-pubescent or pubescent bodies and there are quite a few adults out there who fit that description and have underdeveloped bodies that would attract pedophilies. this is perfectly legal as long as the object of attraction is not a child because in that case, it would be r.ape since children have no capacity for CONSENT by law. but if an 18yr old has a body of a 12 yr old etc then that's perfectly legal.even though it falls under the category of pedophilia.

In fact, there have been moves to redefine pedophila. to restrict it to per-pubescence only. so that men who are attracted to pubertal children will no longer be considered pedophiles. ie children above age 13. At the end of the day, none of it matters legally. It is just the scientific body that is debating it. they are the ones who set all these definitions. legally, it is r.ape that is a crime.

when there is consent between two adults, then it is legal. infact, there r some people who love to suck their own or their partners blood. all sorts of fetish exist out there. nothing illegal about it. If someone was sucking a child's blood though, then that will be a problem.
this is ironic because children's rights do not exist in Africa. violence towards children, beatings etc is perfectly acceptable behavior in most African countries. developed countries take this seriously. laws are there to protect people from harm. whether adult or child and chidren especially since they are not capable of protecting themselves. child marriages in Nigeria is so rampant. 15 yr old girls married to old men. no biggie. yet they claim "moral" stance against homosexuals. wtf

just because something is unusual doesn't mean it is illegal. examples of parahilias include Acrotomophilia (attraction to amputated people), Gerontophilia (attraction to elderly people) etc. might be disgusting but hey, laws are (and should be) based on logic not morals. If I am attracted to people with crossed eyes or attracted to dwarfs, what is your own bloody business? should we start arresting any normal sized person who shows romantic interest in aki and pawpaw because it is "strange" or "disgusting"?

It is just a third world country mentality to look for scapegoats (esp. a minority or disliked group that can't easily defend itself is usually targeted). Just a lot of violent tendencies in people due to frustration in life. and just a general predisposition to "fit in" if you are too different from others around you, you will become a target of persecution (usually witchcraft).
ex. people who love to sleep with their legs placed on the wall being accused of witchcraft and beaten to death etc. ridiculous. I place my legs on the wall sometimes. who cares. somehow all these "witches" are women, children and elderly. coincidentally people who have little power in society to defend themselves from the majority mob ie people looking for scapegoats to blame their problems in life on others.

trust me, if you are wretched in life, it is not the gays, "witches" or minorities that are causing your wretchedness. hard to believe ain't it?
#africanmentality
https://www.nairaland.com/1506229/enugu-gov-family-disowns-first

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