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Mariinee:
Oh. Welcome back then. How was the long vacation?

Joyful.

The forum has turned into United Retardom! Now full of morons!

No fun or joy in being on it anymore.

shaybebaby:
I did not dispute men being visual but in addition, I am saying women are the same as well (I love me a nice male butt and it is a turn on).

This might be true, but if it is at the same level as males,then you are an exception. That is not the case for every woman, men are more visual.

Let me put it to you this way:

If I go to Miss World and all the girls there like me and want to fck me, I would gladly book a timetable and rota to fck each and every one of them in the next one month. Omo, na turn by turn I go give it to them.

I don't even fcking need to know their names, their aspirations or whether they are nice human beings. Ama just fck!

If they tell their friends I was good, and the friends want some, ama gi dem some too.

If you go to Mr World and all the men there like you and want to fck you, would you fck all of them?

I doubt. You are different.

shaybebaby:
We are civilised now and a big part of that is controlling our primal urges. Ever had road rage? Where you want to Fvcking smash someone's head in? I bet you have, so do many people. But control is the word here. Will there be provocation? In whatever form, visual, verbal etc? Yup.

But because we are no longer cave dwellers, hunter gatherers driven primarily by instinct to survive (that includes procreation), we have evolved (both male and female) to tame those instincts.

We live in the age of reason now, and reason dictates there is simply no valid excuse not even, "you know men get aroused visually". Yes we know you do, but anyone who can't control themselves, it's on them. Their failure.

True.

But if I no get papers, I go control myself than someone that is a citizen.

That is the same for men and women. Men do not have the limitations of biological clock and menopause. Women do, so they act differently.

That is driving factor of the reasoning that makes them have different behaviours and desires.

Mariinee:
I am inclined to agree with you.

I have never caught your scent on NL but you are obviously an oldie. You don't visit romanceland, do you?

Not for the last 3 years and I have been off for 2 years.

WrathOfHadez:
I meant this in its contextual application not its legal import.

“ if the door isn’t locked, it isn’t theft”. If the pissy isn’t closed and the girl didn’t set a lock , or barricade it against a waiting , erect , forthcoming dick, it isn’t rape.

No force, no braking , no duress.

Hope you ain’t too fast to let a missile go!!!

The dumb op called mynd44 isn’t even aware a lot of ladies say no when they mean yes.

Some of sick ladies want sex to be force on yh subtlety, to be subdued and conquered.

That’s how they enjoy it.

Mate, pusssy is always open. I don't know of any that has padlock mechanism. Maybe you watch to much Star Trek.

The fact pusssy is open is not an excuse to take. The only excuse to take is when she gives consent verbally or physically. Anything else is rape (theft in your terminology).

If she says "No" seriously/firmly AND/OR recoils in fear/disgust/rejection, then it is not consent.

If you subdue or conquer a girl because you think that is what she wants and while she is doing the above, and later she says she was raped, mate, you should be thrown in jail.

You take the risk, you suffer the consequences.

shaybebaby:
But that's not true is it? Because like our male counterparts, we have five senses with which to make sense of our world and sight is part of that. Appreciating a fine male form, a big diick(if that's your thing), well toned muscles, full lips etc all these, we judge and respond to by sight.

I disagree with your assertation that men lose all their wits at the sight of naked women. Not so I'm afraid, and a bit demeaning to ascribe that to the male gender-like they are some sort of primitive being with no control over their baser instincts.

If what you say is true, we wouldn't have nudist beach/colonies where both sexes hang out unclad and without fear of assault from each other.

What is a given in your little corner of the world is not representative of the world at large.

Her argument is very true.

Men are more visual than women when selecting a mate.

And men have more strength. Hence the fact they can physically overcome a woman when visually sexually aroused is why men rape far more than women.

The man has to have principles, values and a conscience to make sure they don't do such. Strong law enforcement is also a complementary deterrent.

Mariinee:

I agree with you on this but for NO to bring back a man, it has to be that the man has some level of self-control. Some men can't control their lust, you know? Glad to know you are one of the few who can.

I am always fair and objective, so I have self control.

I don't want to go to jail or harm anybody while I have fun. And it is not fun when the other person is not a willing participant or even a participant.

I will catch my fun somewhere else on another day.

Mariinee:
Haha...I like your profile. Very suave and smart.

I was born with a super brain, darling.

WrathOfHadez:
the question is unraveling a shameless attempt at ridiculing men without calling women who seek to exploit the sexual vulnerability of men.

• before a woman finds herself visiting a man at odd hours, she should be open to the possibility of...

• a woman yielding to the sexual overtures of her boss has put her pay above her pussy. Both are to share in the blame.

• A woman who accepts being taken out on dates and receiving gifts from a man without thinking sexual demands would be made must be from Saturn.

Always remember if the door isn’t locked , it isn’t theft.

No! If the door is not locked and you enter and take what is not yours IT IS THEFT!

Abi what village are you from who have such counter moronic laws.

As for females exploiting the sexual vulnerability of men, that is true. You have a point there. That is the main food of feminists and I hate them with a passion.

You just have to ignore them, don't bow to them, stand up to them and never apologise for liking sex with women and many of them.

DON'T BE THE slowpoke CALLED A "REAL MAN"!

Be you and look out for your self-interest, not a woman. Don't follow that stupid real man mantra of coming to the world to please or serve a woman.

Read my old posts on these issues.

Mariinee:
Actually, as a sane female, if you think it is okay to be unclad in the presence of the opposite sex without anything happening, you are misguided.
If you already know how a male would react when he sees a female body unclad, why get naked in his presence?
Unless you have an unattractive and wobbly body or maybe the male has a very high degree of self control, my dear, you will be raped and nothing shall happen.

If a woman is naked in front of him, he is perfectly free to try his luck (otherwise he is a slowpoke and needs to come to my Masterclasses) but once she firmly says "No" repeatedly, he needs to stop and leave her alone.

God knows I have been called at 2am in the middle of the night to come over by a girl with her knowing me and what I want. She lives alone, we are lying there stark naked after pre-intimacy and she still said "No" except I commit. SHE CALLED ME O! (Witch!)

I had to leave it. Even found out later from our conversation that she is a NL girl, but I didn't catch her username and she does not know mine.

Pataricatering:
Coercion is rape ! If the consent was obtained by blackmail , violence etc then that means there was no consent , therefore it’s rape .

Nonsense!

Jupxter:
Eastern European ladies love us bro. In fact, word reaches me that they hunt specifically for us. Men, we need to embrace our masculinity oh.


Lol @ Arabain girls are clean, if you see how my mentees were describing the bodies of these chicks ehn, the guy was all shaky when describing how neat they bodies were, i felt, he had to return to Egypt to get more even after he returned.


Naija chicks been rude, what do we do nah? We're stuck with this trait oh, it's what i've observed oh. Your deek must be really proud of you, all this dee-touring, oh my world. Such a happy preek !

Yep. Eastern European girls love their Naija men, not even just black. Naija!

Arab girls, if you are into up the arse, then they are there because they have to be virgins at marriage. The only other option is target the ones that are divorced.

Naija chics, I don't take their BS. If I find one beginning to get rude, I rapidly put her in her place and sideline her. I am known for that on NL. I can even see on this thread earlier names of some that have faced such. I don't take prisoners.

And I have a deep hate for feminists!

Mariinee:
My nigga.

I no dey waste time.

https://www.nairaland.com/1083598/knowing-nairalanders-better-interviews/1#12945175

happney65:
Ode,I guess my secretary is a patient and needed treatment from me?You have no point at all..I guess doctors that required payment before treatment should also be charged to court..

You are a complete odesin

You are a cretinous person!

Is the hospital not your hospital? Are the drugs not yours? Is the skill and the service not yours?

If it is your business, why can't you refuse service until the patient gives you a Mouth Action? Is she free not to leave and go somewhere else if she does not want to, according to your moronic logic?

Foool, how stupid your logic is is finally sinking in?

AlfaSeltzer:
Did you really type the bolded?

So once initial consent is given, you can do as you want in perpetuity?

Damn right, I did!

Once initial consent is given, it exist there until it is explicitly removed or you both path from the meet-up.

What is so hard not to understand about that?

WrathOfHadez:
No one is justifying rape here except you want to weave it here.

Maybe not. But what were the questions for?

Jupxter:


@ Chukwu Abiama, i thought you was Awori, i heard Russian chicks are so bae and dig Nigerian guys.I hear Ukrainian chicks are cream too. So, compared to our kinds, you say they serve it with sauce better? Chai, you just messed us up blo. First it was the intellect, now it's about performance, you don finish my sisters.


So hint me based on nationalities, which do you enjoy the most? I want to start making a list

or is that any P just works for you?

My hommies are into Arabian chicks, you need to see how this guy gets shivery when he describes his experiences with Arabian chicks

Sometimes when I get emotional, I speak in tongues in Ibo.

I have said it several times: https://www.nairaland.com/2238908/nigerian-men-what-find-captivating/26#35079705

My favourites are: Eastern Europe, Southern Africa and Cushtic (Somali/Ethiopia and Eritrea).

They have both looks, good personalities and are home-ly.

I refuse to do stinking attitude. It is not my portion in life.

HAPPINESS ALWAYS! I don't compromise on this shiit.

Many Naija girls can be rude and think they are smart when trying to be exploitative: https://www.nairaland.com/3927258/snobbish-attitude-some-ladies/2#62611433

Arabian chics are very hard and can lead to death.

Mariinee:
You, dear. Care to tell me what it is all about?

It is about what is rape and sexual assault.

And, as usual back in the day of glorious NL, I have used my superior brain to resolve it and make it clear.

https://www.nairaland.com/4191144/lets-talk-what-constitutes-sexual/3#62609867

Mariinee:
Verbal consent.

No, verbal ko, mobile ni.

Babe wey fit have her mouth full with yoghurt fit dey verbalise anything?

Abeg, comot for here. She has verbalise her consent after the first action, until she verbalise dis-consent, action continua.

WrathOfHadez:
• What sort of girl will visit a man at 1 am at night?

A girl that has a freedom and right to do as she pleases, and is open to sex that night.

WrathOfHadez:
• What sort of girl have a boyfriend and goes out to eat and accept gift without thinking what she has to give in return?

A girl that has found a mugu.

WrathOfHadez:
• A girl sleeping with her manger is simply valuing her job over her dignity.

A girl under duress or one that has ambition but limited capabilities.

WrathOfHadez:
Stop disgracing yourself. Your femal patronizing is agonizingly foolish and desperate.

Have so sense of shame and tact.

All those are not an excuse or justification for rape/sexual assault.

Is that clear?

Jupxter:
Ah, those were my early days o.

Iperu, Ilishan, Ode remo, Odogbolu, Oh my good, these bring memories. Solarin, oh my Godm Bless my youth, such a rough but intelliegnt youth has grown to become a man.

R u into a white chick blo ?

E mi?

I don't discriminate against pusssy o.

She fine, she gets banged.

"She can get it up, she can have it" is the mantra. Smack that shiit up. Hit it like a rock star!

I am just more restrictive with some black girls because of stinking attitudes. I don't do ghetto mind and personalities. Mba! I reject those in the name of Chukwu Abiama!

Mariinee:
I can't be reading through the pages.

Who you dey tell?

AlfaSeltzer:
But where is the consent for that second round?

What consent?

He needs a fcking MoU signed by lawyers and specifically approved by the UNHCR?

She is fcking next to him naked after taking one nice hit with her legs in the air and moaning "fck me, baby. Cum in my mouth". What other consent does he need?

peterphd:
Oga satanist, don't mind all these cry cry liberal men trying to please women by denying their masculinity. They think scoring own goals counts on the board for the golden boot or is it puuusy prize.

Masculinity is idiocy to this person!

AlfaSeltzer:
But there was no consent.

According to Swedish govt., it is rape. This why they want to try Julian Assange.

Are you sure that is the law in Sweden if the woman did not express her objection to the second set?

raumdeuter:
If you walk naked, or if you wear boxers and no shirt or if you wear a body hugging top and tight jeans

Does that give a gay man or anyone the right to grab you and rape you?

Exactly. They should Pump a Fiction in his arse!

uzor2:
The definition means that a man cannot be raped by a woman. Not fair.

Yep! That is the nonsense the liberal idiots want us to believe.

I have mentioned such on NL before:

https://www.nairaland.com/1884918/yes-means-yes-new-sex/20#26461554

Jupxter:
So Shagamite what's up? I spent my youth days around Sagamu and Ikenne axis...Any experience along these lines?

I know all those areas.

My dad used to get my Ayamase from one old woman living in a mud hut in Iperu.

Your immune system has to be strong like mine to try food from such sources though.

You take a white girlfriend to eat in such places, she would leave Nigeria in a coffin.

Kai! The good ol' days.

Blackfyre:
Nigeria is contending with the population at the moment....they don't want you to populate Sagamu beyond Lagos....

Seriously tho....a lot of peeps contested for that thing...but it was nice it went peacefully....

True!

1000 Oloris procreating might add to the population and would be too expensive for the State government.

peterphd:
Ah, the crying liberal has arrived. Go tell your father to cower to your mum. I think the best part of you got ejected down your mum's thighs and ended up as the crusty brown stain on her sheets.

You are cretinous person!

I am highlighting your stupidity, you are saying I am liberal.

What makes me a liberal, cretin?

happney65:
Ahahahahahahahahahahhahaa. .weere I guess if I wanted to have sex everyday you will still have to call the police..My company,my employment terms and conditions..You agree you are in,you don't you leave..Nobody is harassing anybody..Maybe you should go and rant at Donald Trump or Roy moore a known sexual predator and not me..oponu ode

Look at another of the cretinous products of a failed education system!

person has no clue about the laws of the land and is laughing at his own dumb life thinking he is making sense.

These are the cretins that have fill NL thanks to the mantra of the people managing it.

So if you are a doctor with a private practice, I bet your dumbarse feels you can demand a Mouth Action, otherwise no treatment?

Your primary school teachers would not even get 10% in a Primary 2 test paper.

Blackfyre:
Funny shiit!! I knew it!!! Anytime I come across your moniker, I always ask myself, this dude couldn't have possibly named himself after Sagamu....


Judging from your posts....you are an Ijebu boy to the core....


Btw....you guys just got a new Akarigbo recently....congrats...

Dem 'sheet' me!

I was here thinking I would be anounced as the next Akarigbo, but they gave it to someone else.

KAI!

happney65:
Ode..Keep on blaming people that are not bothered about you..A so called sane society with a known sexual abuser became the most powerful person in the whole wide world..Me I am not abusing anybody,just telling you what I want in my place of work before you are employed..it is left for you to accept or not,you come here and start shouting on me..O ni ku ree..

Cretin, don't worry, by the grace of God Armed Robber or Fulani herds men would help us waste this waste.

Worthless piece of shit to Nigeria and the Human race.

Blackfyre:
Oh shiit....where is coogar? Please if you reading this abeg come back too....i miss all this crazy fellas.....

One last question, are you in any way an Ijebu boy? I know for sure you Yoruba....

Nigga, what do you think Sagamite stands for?

See 3rd, 7th and 8th section: https://www.nairaland.com/1083598/knowing-nairalanders-better-interviews/1#12945175