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RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 4:07pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:
Stop deluding yourself most brilliant one. It's just one of the 500,000 sexual encounters she will provide in the same marriage, such a person will be fine.
Am sorry, because she has had 500,000 consensual sex means he is entitled to force her to have a non-consensual one?
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 4:02pm On Nov 22, 2017
happney65:
My business is a public entity?ohh la la.I guess you can charge me to court too if I want my office to close by 8..something is definitely wrong with you..

If you don't like what I do go and report..I will see the police that will arrest me.
My Lord!

Ko ni da fun Diezani, GEJ, Abacha, IBB, Dasuki and co. These people have destroyed lives.

We keep on churning out reetarded beings like pure water. This boy is a talking cretin.

Foool, if you tried that in a sane society, you would be paying through your arse.
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 3:58pm On Nov 22, 2017
jaxxy:
I mean d dept of ur sexual chemistry. It cud be an issue. Lol
Whether na issue or na pounded yam o, it is not rape.

If she is not happy, she can break up with him, but it is not rape.
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 3:55pm On Nov 22, 2017
Blackfyre:
You are not married?
I REJECT IN THE NAME OF JESUS!

My enemies shall not be successful.

Father, Lord, hear my prayers.

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RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 3:51pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:
Your deek your choice, didn'tyou see wherei said sex is a commodity and can be bought even off the web?
My dickk is for every fine woman and owned by no woman!

Gba be! (Accept that!)
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 3:47pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:
Stop deceiving yourself. Many of those crying " rape" are giving out freely regularly.Talk is cheap. Stop trusting comments here. more than 80% of the females that shout mistreatments and all of that crap are regularly giving it out freely, when it's not whom they intend to gift it to, they shout rape, I'll pass now
Giving out sex to a thousand and ten men is not a justification you should be raped, mate.

Or what is your point?
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 3:45pm On Nov 22, 2017
happney65:
How?Before i employ her i will tell her the terms and conditions,either she accepts it or she leaves..She is not yet my employee so your analysis of taking me to court does not hold water..The company is mine,and our agreement from the word go is sex included..If she wants,she accepts,if not she can go..You have no case at all..
You are a cretin!

You really think in a sane society run by people with a brain (not GEJ) you can use your business to sexually exploit people?

And your daft arse is even trying to explain the moronic logic?

Businesses are public entities!

Product of a failed education system. Nigeria has spoiled your life.
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 3:42pm On Nov 22, 2017
Blackfyre:
Sagamite been a long time...purposely went in search of your monicker one time....welcome back....grin


Thankfully....someone agrees with me all these conservative,liberalism,centrism ideologies is complete bullshit....feels good to be understood....grin
Hi, Bro!

I am special-guesting today. grin

They are all idiots in my view. The Liberals are now the worst and shit of the Earth today with their self-righteous, moronic dogma.

I look at issues and reason through it, not try to be conservative or liberal or Centre Back. Bloody idiots!
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 3:39pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:
Hehehe You an this cliche " product of a failed educational system "


I have three neighbors they are teachers, when i see their acts after school and during weekends, i laugh my head off. This country needs help
Something I have been saying about these daft Nigerian youths on NL for over 10 years, Nigerian government is just realising today.

Ntor! We go dey watch dem. undecided
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 3:37pm On Nov 22, 2017
jaxxy:
No u didn't! if it was indeed ur gf cos she didn't resist or say no. So its like a continuum. Also it depends on the dept of ur relationship u hv with her bt most times dat shudnt be an issue however i wud say sm gals may not like it bt she wudnt see it as rape either.
It does not depend on any depth of relationship they have.

If they are dating and they just finished blissfully fcking, and then he fcks her while she is asleep again without her saying very firmly and distressingly "stop", nothing fcking wrong with the fcking. Enjoy!
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 3:27pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:
If you see how they were celebrating like they won an olympic medal.
If they caught him red-handed and she was brutalised, they should all even get the Nobel Prize for Peace.

Jupxter:
Sex is now a commodity, i tell young ones, keep sex for marriage, control yourselves, but if you can't marry, if you can't marry and want sex, then go buy it.It's sold cheaply thesedays cheesy
Keep sex to wetin?

Ogbeni, ki lon shey e? (This man, wetin dey do you?)

Thank God I am not young so you can teach me such nonsense.

Baba nla nonsense! Which kin nonsense be this?

Teacher teacher o, no be lecturer be your name.


Mate, I don't follow that medieval BS. I note you stated you be pastor earlier. I don't fly that way.

I like fcking. I am the fuku faka fuku faka sexual machine.

Wait till marriage before I fck? ..................Nigga, gerrout of here. grin

www.nairaland.com/1050781/infidelity-objective-analysis/1#12357044

www.nairaland.com/542902/nl-auctions-ended/32#7156810

www.nairaland.com/1083598/knowing-nairalanders-better-interviews/1#12945175

Ibkayee, abeg, come and tell this nigga o. undecided
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 3:17pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:
Cutting a man's dick? Na wa oh. How about trial and prosecution? Cutting off a dick that can't be replaced isn't a fair mojo bobby !
I agree with trial and prosecution.

And I also think the kind of rape it is matters. There are different kinds of rapes (Yep. I know some moronic Feminists and "Real Men" would go haywire hearing that).

Those are the reasons why I said I was joking earlier.

That said, if he was guilty and it was a violent & brutal rape, cutting his dick off is apt and glorious.

The sanctity of her body, happiness, self-worth and trust in the world can't b replaced too. So it is very very fair in my eyes.
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 3:10pm On Nov 22, 2017
inVinceable:
What would the Police do? Charge her husband for rape and jail him for life? - Sick!!
If it is provable, why not?
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 3:02pm On Nov 22, 2017
peterphd:
Oga, the patriarchy has brought civilization thus far. If it ain't broke don't fix it. Show us matriarchal societies as advanced. I dare say any Society that swaps it's gender roles is doomed. God forbid a household where the her crows and the cock cowers.
I dare say with your level of intellect, it would do you a world of good to partner with a woman that would take your gender role.

We need sensible people to lead families, and that does not always have to be a man.

Advanced societies and institutions are based on giving people responsibilies based merit, not gender.

Ode oshi!
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:58pm On Nov 22, 2017
happney65:
Me if and when I want to have a secretary..I will tell her in simple and plain language before employing her..You go dey fuckkk me for office dey suck my balls..if she agrees she is employed if not make she go find work elsewhere..

I won't tell her that after I have employed her..
I would love to be a judge and have a reeetard like you in my court for such a case.

She would not need to work for the next 5 years with the compensation she would get.
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:56pm On Nov 22, 2017
MhisTahrah:
Wife not sex object.Sex is not a right that comes with marriage.It is not a wife's duty.

...She can't open her legs simply because her husband wants it. She doesn't give up her right to say yes or no the day she gets married.

...Wives do not belong to their husbands.Sex should be based on consent.

...However wives should under no circumstances withold sex from their husbands except there is a genuine reason for this.And even when she does,you have no right to rape her.
Fcking well said!
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:54pm On Nov 22, 2017
Afritop:
Women are the greatest rapist.
A catwalking woman that dresses in a sexually destructive manner in a see through dress and denge pose in front a sexually frustrated mad man and thinks nothing will happen is a rapist
You are a cretinous person and product of a failed education system.

Are you from Kaduna State?
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:49pm On Nov 22, 2017
Daeylar:
You what ??
Did you see my moniker there?? ?? ?? ?? ?? Did you see itttt?? ?? ?? ??

Which one is u women?? ?? ?

Behave..


Furthermore, haven't you seen threads where a woman would be raped and some men say the woman enjoyed it?? ??


With that said.

Rape is bad, we should speak out against rape no matter the gender, that should be the goal.

Not trying to silence anyone who is speaking out against women being raped because men get raped and it seems like it is taken less seriously.

That's wrong, it's not everytime a topic has to become women verses men,

The right thing to do is to speak against rape on both genders and correct any misconceptions about rape the way mynd44 is doing. That's what you should be doing,


Not this women vs men rape case you want to start.
Those are NL heroes and the type of people wanted on NL.

If the place was well-ran, such people would be banned asap because it would be judged they have nothing sensible to contribute.

But NL likes them reeetarded!
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:41pm On Nov 22, 2017
closerange:
Because the world is full of "topic talking about women", while those about men are ignored.
And a lot of men are tired of such nonsense bias!
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:38pm On Nov 22, 2017
Daeylar:
Perfect answer.
I don't know why they do that,
You'll see a topic on how a woman was raped or a woman speaking about rape and instead of everyone to focused on the topic they start whining about how rape is only discussed when it's about a woman but you'll never see them start a topic or discussion of how men are raped.

Nice thread
I can guarantee you their hidden grievances are:

1) It is used to demonise all men.

2) If the tables are turned, majority of women would not see it as a big deal or would refuse to support the man out of self-advantage preservation.

Many women and society at large are too comfortable with misandry but yet think men should be the champions of misogyny.
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:33pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:
Calm down bro. It's not me oh. I aint married, just analyzing an earlier comment. It's easy to say than do bro. I used to easily advise people to walk out on relationships. Maturity has taught me humility, it's not easy just leaving a relationship over trivial issues. It will need a deal breaker and this is a light matter. Sadly, many marriages experience this at some point or the other, so curing the problem would be better than quitting outrightly, what if the woman is financially emasculated by the man and depends on him for everything? In exchange for love, why will just loving a man for a night be so hard? We need to be rational in our calls here
Unhappiness is a deal breaker for me.

When that is there, I find it quite easy to leave.

ONE LIFE! And life is already a challenge, don't waste your one.

I am an Happiness Addict!
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:31pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:
You're cruel grin grin grin


Reminds me of a scene that took place in the north earlier in the year. A man raped a woman, without wasting time, the youths cut off his manhood and took photos of it. Does the punishment equate the crime?
Yes, it does.

He has had his last enjoyment. Those youths need to be rewarded.

Kind of joking but not joking too. grin
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:28pm On Nov 22, 2017
Khayge:
The thread is a good one.
If you want to verify consent, ask your girlfriend when she's in her right senses of she'd like to have sex with you. She'd probably say NO. When she's Hot, ask her the same question.
We as guys of this generation should try as much as possible to put our urges under leash.
For those that have partners, try to understand your partners... Someone said sex is a 2 way thing.. True, most importantly, the lady's satisfaction should be your utmost desire. You can satisfy her even without sex.

The bottom line is, when she's warmed up, Hot and all in the mood, don't trust her judgement. That's where she needs you as the guy to make the right decision to protect her in spite of how high your adrenaline or testosterone is leading.
It should not be that complicated.

I have work, don't need my relationship to be work as well.

Dump her and move to a girl that is not work.
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:26pm On Nov 22, 2017
AlfaSeltzer:
So I spent the night with my gf and we made sweet love. Then in the middle of the night I woke up and saw her sexy body by my side and the urge came and I penetrated her while she was still sleeping naked by my side. She woke up while I was inside her. Did I rape her?
HELL FCKING NO!
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:25pm On Nov 22, 2017
raumdeuter:
Aren't you a liberal or would you call yourself and your general views as conservative?
None of the above.

I am a Sensible!
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:24pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:
Nice comment, where then do we place dressing? Some men have continually blamed rape on terrible dressing by females.


You've also heard about the liberalists, feminists and what-nots. Welcome to the new world my dear grin grin grin grin
Those men need their heads smashed with a hammer.

Useless brains are not useful.
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:23pm On Nov 22, 2017
Jupxter:
Stop trying to please women on the forum as you have become famous for. The reality stands, it is wrong to force a wife into sex, it is also bad for a woman to withold sex from her husband ( in some context ), if they both appear before a hearing and the man lies and claims she was punishing him, or refuses to talk and says it's a family issue, will the court kill them? Cases are not prosecuted without clear evidences and since it's a case of one person's word against the other, it's not an easy case to settle.

Moreso, no wife will like to take her husband to court for such flimsy reasons, people don't go to such extent to fight their interests and come back as friends.


As a minister of God, one of the two things God has trained me through my growing years to avoid is judging " marital cases ". I don't believe in rape in marriage, and i don't believe in interfering in marriages. WHY? Two people met themselves and agreed to be together, discussed the terms of engagement, only both of them can fix issues between them. Before a woman will withhold sex from a man, they is strain in the relationship that wasn't addressed, they didn't just get there in a day.

If people want healthy marriages, they should cultivate it.Rape is an after effect of an unhealthy marriage. So rather than dealing with after effects, why not fix the main issue?
They should both ffucking leave the marriage.

Your husband rapes you: Gaddam leave the marriage.

Your wife is denying you sex: Gaddam leave the marriage. Bitch is lucky if she is the only avenue for you in the first place for that to be a problem.
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:19pm On Nov 22, 2017
obowunmi:
If you lie to a woman to have sex with her, you are a RAPIST.
You are reetarded!

They lie to you to date them. I am sure you don't call that "rape".
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:17pm On Nov 22, 2017
Mynd44:
Can we say it is wrong to call all men potential rapists when we men question what women wear based on assault? We say a woman wears a skimpy top hence she asks for it or tempts the man.

We say why are women outside after a certain hour cos we know it is not safe.......isn't that implying that no woman is safe?
A woman should be free to wear whatever she wants and go out at whatever time she likes without being raped or sexually assaulted. Anyone that does those, should be beaten and jailed (also raped in prison by other men).

That said, any woman that dresses skimpily however she wants and then complains about men ogling her, approaching her and then calling them "pervs" etc. is a pure reetard!

Don't display what you don't want seen and admired.
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:13pm On Nov 22, 2017
ouigy99:
@OP, based on what you have stated.... Girls are the ones most guilty of the act. You woo a girl, after some weeks of dating and it's time to have sex, that's when she remembers she hasn't paid her school fees, he needs to make her hair, her mother is sick, the following week is her birthday, her phone got spoilt the previous night; as guy man her Don stand and all him brain Don focus on "drilling the well" in front of him, he has no other option than to promise to take care of those things for her, else she will say "I am not in the mood again", leaving the guy blue balled
How does this explain or justify rape/sexual assualt?
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:11pm On Nov 22, 2017
closerange:
We should be talking about sexual harrasment and rape in general, not, about a particular gender... One Popular Feminist I know told me it was impossible for a man to get raped because he got an erection.... To her, an erection, equals consent....
Imagine....
She is reetarded! ..............like most feminists.
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 2:09pm On Nov 22, 2017
uk10:
Bravo another topic to show that men are rapists as usual,no one talks about the women that molest small children or the female bosses that will demand sex from male workers,but all we talk about is how men rape women
closerange:
Its funny how every topic about rape or sexual harassment is usually tilted to one side.......
Men are getting sexually assaulted everyday, when I talk about it, they say "woman dey give you free groove, you dey dull"..
Its different standards for both genders...
That is the classic sexism and misandry of the retarded fooools calling themselves liberals, feminists and progressives.

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