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raumdeuter:
I have been looking for a topic that discusses this because it's a huge topic now all over, everyday one celebrity is getting accused of rape

To me, I agree with you. I won't categorize them together. I'll rank them

1. Sex with minor,

2. Sex using physical force or weapon to subdue

3. Making uninvited sexual actions towards another like grabbing ass breast or any erotic part of her body

4. Exposing yourself sexually when it wasn't requested

5. Use of position to request sexual favors

6. Overtures and sexual negotiation

1 and 2 are the animals and deserve the worst punishment possible especially 1. It should be life jail or death

3 and 4 should be punishable. 3. Should be misdemeanor 4. Psychiatric evaluation and therapy on how to behave in society or get women to like you

5. Take away the position from the abuser of the position

6. No offence

Nihilist diggz ibime afrodoc2 a40 what do you think

raumdeuter:
Wait so how's the girl wants my money scenario different from girl wants my job, wants my movie role.

Wants accommodation and I told her I can accommodate if she gives me sex. Naturally she wouldn't have done any of these but because of her limited options she grudgingly makes the choice

kay29000:
It is a very complicated topic. Let me share my experience. I went to see a girl... It was already set in our minds that we were going to have sex. So, when I got there, we started off immediately. After a few seconds, she asked me to stop and begged me to leave. I was vexed, and I left. She called me on the phone and apologized, saying she was doing something like that for the first time, and felt somehow. But she then said I should have tried to maybe play with her/smooch her a little, maybe she would have gotten in the mood.

So, a few days later, she called again. And I specifically told her I ain't down for bullshiit. Hope you are sure this is what you want this time? She said yes. So, I went to her apartment again. She always turns the light off before I enter. She was already naked when I entered, and I started off with the position she said was her favorite (doggy), and then, after two minutes she asks me to stop again. So I remembered what she told me on the phone, and I slowed down and tried to smooch her boobs, that's how the girl said, "I'll shout rape o! I told you to stop." I jejeli stopped, wore my clothes, left her house and told her via a message I didn't want to have anything to do with her again.

Women are really complicated.

raumdeuter:
I dey o. how's jennykadry
All the babes left me here. Even that amala guzzling ori eja called ifyalways go waka pass and do as if she no sabi me

raumdeuter:
Ok good.

If this was a job in my company or a role in my movie or a favor I can grant

And I decide to ask for sex in return for granting those

Is this coercion and is it punishable

raumdeuter:
You this man. Where have you been

Ok on this, if a girl needs money and the guy told her he would only give after sex, is that coercion and is it punishable?

If a man threatens to breakup with his babe if he doesn't get sex, is that coercion and should it be punishable

raumdeuter:
You this man. Where have you been

Ok on this, if a girl needs money and the guy told her he would only give after sex, is that coercion and is it punishable?

If a man threatens to breakup with his babe if he doesn't get sex, is that coercion and should it be punishable

chic2pimp:
Hahaha Mateeeee longest time man. Where have you been? This forum has sorely missed your intellectual slaughterings of fuc..k.tards, Cretins and Products of Nigeria's failed Education system.

Mynd44:
Yes but is consent drawn by coercion really consent?

chic2pimp:
FCu...k Me .. Saga Saga The Fuku faka Love machine. Is that really you?

DaddyKross:
Blessed be thy brain, sire.

ibkayee:
Is that what you abandoned us for?

Lol jk, nice to see an old face, most of our generation have disappeared, hope you're well

ibkayee:
This must be a ghost

Sagamite man I missed you

Lool! No vex I was editing as I went along, that wasn't even my original list

Still an ashawo, I see nothing has changed

Guys is it cool for ladies to have a snobbish attitude?

According to the dictionary a snob is person who ignores or rebuff other people

Some ladies are fond of ignoring guys to the extent of not responding to greetings

Weighing up conversation among guys, most of them believe snobbish ladies are proud and pretentious

However, in my current discussion with a female friend, she argues that most ladies with snobbish attitude do so to protect themselves.
She went further by saying some ladies use it as weapon to block out fuckboys who assume that most ladies are cheap

So nairalanders let us weigh into the argument, do you think it is right for ladies to have snobbish attitude ?
Cc thepussyhunter
Cc victornezzar
Cc tahrah

mablie:
This issue has been discussed many times on this forum especially by a great monicker called "Sagamite"(you can search for his name and learn more from his posts).My simplest explanation for this phenomenon is Nigerian ladies are less friendly towards men (especially Nigerian men) than women from other parts of the world

Blesso222:
A childhood friend of mine who is now 31 has never been in love, no guy is telling her I love you. She is good looking, educated and well discipline.

And we are just wondering what could be the problem.
Please help.....

Gerrard59:
Take this advise from a Nairalander named Sagamite:

https://www.nairaland.com/2424042/what-sagamite-been-saying-years#35741615

JackBizzle:


Bro, I dey try find sagamite.

Gerrard59:
Forget these tribal bigots. All are cretinuous fvcktards.

Are you sure Ogunlesi is also Sagamite the Nairalander?

rman:
At least 5 are on this thread alone.

In my opinion, I do not want too many Nigerians on Quora...call me selfish.

I cringe when I realise the quality of posts on nairaland comapared to contents 8yrs ago.
I leanrt a lot on nairaland then. Now, I am even reluctant to share a view or knowledge I know is correct because of insults here and there.

Gbawe
Harakiri
Sisikill
Ajanlekoko
Beaf
Sagamite

are a few posters I could remeber that always make intelligent contributions

Now all we have is tribalistic folks and kids that insults.

MiddleDimension:
ubenedictus, joagbaje, donnie, seun, sagamite and fratermathy you all can come in here and let us know what you think

oliidell:
I doubt if they are still within earshot.

Way back:

Ileke-Idi
Kobojunkie
Odunnu
Dayokanu
Sagamite
Jarus
Beaf
190
Sexxkillz
Onila...lol
Ogugua88
Lola.luv/lolaluv1

Recent:

Idowuogbo...always wonder what became of her.

Slimyem
Naptu2
Modath

Yuzedo
Adaobi123
Explorers
Caracta
Smellymouth

KevinDein:
Coogar
Sagamite
Crackhouse
Yuzedo

Top guys...

ibkayee:


Lol oh he did? I suspect a few older members now probably just operate under new monickers

Lol TOH was hilarious

Lool

Yeah I can imagine

Lol she has millions, forgot about Sauron sha, Sagamite too actually

khiaa:
Buncherstabb, Chucky234, Francizy, Sagamite., and Alezy I miss you everyday that you are not here.

Mynd44:
Is there a need to call this "men's corner" or other forms of couch group counselling sessions? Lets just gist and talk.

I mentioned "men's corner" because men are the most likely to rape and more than 90% of rape cases have involved men being the aggressor.

From http://www.dictionary.com/browse/rape,



So basically consent right? But is it all about consent?

Imagine a lady comes to visit you and at 1am, you ask her for sex. She turns you down and you threaten to throw her out knowing well that she has nowhere to go at that time and she is also in danger if she does and because of that, she agrees, is that consent?

Imagine the Manager asking one of the receptionists for sex with the receptionist knowing well that she is at risk of losing her job so she agrees. Is that consent?

Your girl visits you, you make those romantic moves but she was not all for it and says no so you "lockup" two hours later, you take her out, buy her drinks and when you are both home, you have sex with her, she probably even took your shirt off for you but is that consent?

You are a civil servant and someone wants a file submitted but you tell her to come see you in the photocopy room first, she agrees but is that consent?

We as men need to do better. We need to drop the bullshit and rise about it.

A girl is walking down the road and you and your friends turn it into a chance to make unsavory noises cos you think they are compliments…but isnt that harassment?

You have convinced yourself that women say no but mean yes. Bruh, dont play that game……no does not and will not mean yes. Even silence does not mean yes. Because she is wet is not even mean consent. What's the worst that can happen if you dont have sex when turned on?


Can we discuss this more? Lets be better for our women and maybe the world will be a lil bit better

Coldfeets:
Where is sagamite?

I'm missing that nigga with his insightful views so much.

But if the dude is no longer nairalanding, I think I am intellectually capable enough to step into his shoes.

What do you say you cretinous fucktards?

Gerrard59:
Are you saying Mr. Adebayo is Sagamite?

Wow!!!!! He's a boss. Missed his posts.


Fvcktards

solbil:
can't believe people are still argueing this issue when the greatest authorities on the feminism issue, Sagamite and Craziebone as well as Timbuktou hasve given their verdict on the issue.

Can this debate stop already!

Tamee:
Hello baby. suddenly remembered you after a whole year and had to log in Love you much

Stfuareyougod how are you, missed you.

Sagamite, thinking of you.

EfemenaXY:
Where is my sagalicious Sagamite? I miss that dude.

benedictnsi:
You dey surprised



It's called NORTHOCRACY

vanndubi:
Na so. What else can we expect? When he said: "You cannot expect me to treat a constituency that gave me 97% this same way with the constituency that gave me 5%", I knew it was time to brace up for the worst.

God is watching in 4d.

SleekMallam:
Going by Mr President analogy of giving 97% to his northern constituency, the south only deserves just 6 trucks from a total of 200.97%vs 3%. Buhari should be appreciated for backtracking and giving more than the 3% deserves. God richly reward Mr President. Amin Allah.

theshadyexpress:
this is just pathetic,if this is not corruption then what do we call it?

Buhari is just setting the stage for national inter ethnic grand standing that is long overdue, but i hope he knows it will not spare him

Pidggin:
Buhari is 100% tribalistic, what a leader

drss:
not surprised. d dullard has always been a nepotic leader.

Jirate:
The Self Acclaimed Saviour of the North.

Nnemuka:
you expect 5% to have more petrol compared to 97%?
abi because yoruba people gave him mere 500,000 votes makes them part of 97%? you must be joking.

gabazin080:
What do you expect when there brother is the president.

Buhari is a dullard
Buhari is slow
Buhari is a tribalist


Zombies will come out and defend him now

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