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coogar: neither would i accept the facts from a guy that argued ibori wasnt guilty, a guy that argued taking drugs kill more people than auto-accident or would i take you serious when you said footballers should not be punished for off-the-pitch incidents!



you have that uncanny ability to move goalposts as you please.....from "desires can't be controlled" to "desires can't be changed" .....within a split second!!! you even argued self control is not controlling desires - sagamite, intellectually, you are a leprechaun!



the irony! you have never accepted logic, facts or sound opinion......can you remember your daft comment some moons ago about the irresponsibility of marijuana use? until i pointed out to you the drug is legal in amsterdam, you kept arguing like a blind bat....after you found out marijuana is indeed legal in some european countries, you never came back to the thread!

you are not even in the top echelon of the intellectuals on this forum - what you are good at is writing meaningless epistles that have little or nothing to do with the topic of discussion! why did you run away from the debate on literature section? lmao.....sagamite, accept you are a semi-illiterate and all shall be forgiven - i bear no grudges

MRbrownJAY: woah, Saga, you are still on this thread....i guess your technique is to have the last word, whether you make any sense or not (to your own self).
at least, this thread opened my eye on the subject of divorce settlement, as it seem many people think that your option actually makes any sense.....but then again, that certainly wont change my views ONE BIT on the matter. as for the rest (aka tennis champion and the west), oh well, you can always try again later.

as for being labelled a Layman's champion, i will take that as a compliment and bow out GRACEFULLY out of this thread.........and look forward to another 10+ pages discussion with you (or any of your boys GFs, lol)....... hasta luego!

queensmith: I see the asswipe is once again looking for my attention, let me give the phool some circus hoops to jump through.

here doggy doggy *throws bone*

Your parents and entire generation of the retarded family you have dare not try it, your mother is the mental patient. I'm sure she regrets the trailer trash of a child she has in you.

You may wait another 6 weeks to apply for more bashing- you have used up your September privileges

coogar: this sagamite is intellectually-sterile!
you are so small time - you actually think you are smart? let me laugh in hebrews! the last time i counted, it's coogar 3-0 sagamite! in case your memory fails you, i remember decapitating you on the amy winehouse thread, dr fireman's thread and recently the thread about kids and mobile phone.......

if you keep telling yourself you're smart then maybe you would start believing it....when a debate was set up some weeks back, we all saw how you ran with your tail between your scrawny legs and making excuses up that you had some rare bowel condition! if you ever beat me in a debate - i would kill myself - standard!!!!!

chic2pimp:

Trouble sleep, Yanga go wake am.......You too like trouble sha haba

jennykadry: Some people jealous me because I have saga-mite we are a power couple, he owns a thread and I have owned and still own many threads. people just cannot seem to get enough of me, devil punish their bia bia infested blokos and may I continue to make Them uncomfortable for the rest of their lives.

Cretins

Ishilove: As in ehn... The guy is so full of himself. In all my years on NL, I don't know why I haven't noticed his braggadocio. Na hin kind I dey send go market go buy pant

chaircover: Not always true. Both my primary school and secondary school had a non caning policy. Both schools were in Nigeria and I am no spring chicken so these schools have been around for years and are still one of the best schools in the state. I believe that kids are not born bad and if caught very early on, there are many ways to discipline a kid and to lead them on the right track.

chaircover: Ishilove please dont get saga started. He is Gods gift to women.or so he likes to think

Ishilove: This guy get mouth o ... Fombule. Fombulism .
I for really like humble you

Ishilove: A spoilt little brat that does not have a single regard for anybody.
A spoilt little brat that tells all and sundry "if you touch me, you will lose your job".
A spoilt little brat whose mother came to school to plead with us to help her thoroughly deal with her daughter.
A spoilt little brat who capitalises on the school's "no caning" policy to be a premium, first class biatch.

P.S, she's about 5'8. I am 5'6, but that is besides the point.

dayokanu: Ask her if she directs her anger at SS1-3 boys who are already bigger and stronger than her or the frail girls and boys under 12.

At SS1 age 13 I was already like 6ft1 and definitely no teacher touched me. Even one day when they wanted to beat the whole class, they left me alone an the teacher said I should come to the staff room for my own punishment cos I was the ring leader.

The punishment I am still waiting for till today

Ishilove: You seriously believe you are God's gift to women... Too bad you're so far away. I would have really loved to prove you wrong.

Acidosis: Please feel free to share..
° My mummy says I'm too young
° My Pastor/Iman Babalawo is yet to approve
° Too many suitors.. ..So I'm confused.
° I am a young man/lady for christ sake!

Ishilove: For your mind sha

panafrican: You are already slowly destroying yourselves without knowing it.Can you tell us why since the killings happened nobody in the police department has resigned.
Nigerian government is not shooting miners ,it is figthing Boko Haram, not hungry families.
Besides there is no fake truth and reconciliation commission with misleading panafricanist slogans.

coogar: continue this way and there's a fat chance you would spend a considerable number of years in belmarsh prison!

greatgod2012: why on earth do some women marry somebody who has married before,thereby becoming 2nd,3rd,4th or even 5th wife. I'm not talking about widow marrying widower or divorcee marrying another divorcee, i'm talking about those who know that d man has wife(ves) and still go ahead tio marry d man, only to be complaining about d man or d marriage later, what do you think is actually wrong with this set of women? No insult meant, i'm just somehow curious about it.

pendo89: hillarious.

well my list gosh. i went to a place where they offer 42 dff kinds of game meat and sea dishes,and i vowed to taste them all.
I dont even rem some but i know gazelle,wildebeast,buffalo,rabbits,etc were all part the menu.Herbivoures ie.
Crocodile was very yummy and no snake is like an abomination so it wasn't part.
Would rather eat a hyena than snake.

jennykadry: For some of us with kids that listen to us, please go on your knees and thank God for his mercies. I posted once on this forum about a friend of mine whose son tells her to "shut up", 'Fck you" ,"got to hell mum", "keep quiet mum" etc. This woman does not believe in smacking, she would talk to him, scold him for where?

The very first day he told me to "shuush". I asked his mum a quick question of "permit me" and she said yea go ahead, right there in his mums presence I smacked him in his behind and told him "don't you ever talk to me that way because I am not mum and I will not let you near my kids until you work on your attitude and learn some manners cos they will never speak to me the way you speak to your mum". Since then that boy behaves himself whenever I am around him, once he sees me coming he knows never to misbehave. With some kids talking is not enough whilst others just one look at them and they will behave themselves. Some kids need to be smacked every now and again to get their senses back in order. The issue is some people smack kids like they are beating a goat, some use barb wires, cables e.t.c, no I don't support that.

Ishilove: Na for NL efrebodi dey claim Mr Endowed

drnoel: In this point I agree with ur husband. It looks like most people hid their opinion about her till this issue surfaced and I was surprised to hear what my cousin´s family were saying about her, this was b4 her own family came into the picture and scattered the whole place. Then my family elders in their desperation to control the situation had to change their stand.

ronkebp: My hubby says, apart from the fact that the girl's father is a useless man "raising his hands against his brother's wife", he is sure, the lady is not well-liked by the husband's family, so he/they got an oppotunity to unleash what has been bothering him/them on the lady.....that there is more to that story than what just a mere spanking would cause.

ronkebp: Sometimes using wisdom in a case that involves both families or might involve both families, is better than exercising some rights or power, Many atimes we all have powers but choosing the battle is always the best time to show-off that power. There is nothing wrong in correcting a child, but if it means you will have to beat her to the point that her own father will come and fight on her behalf and would involve the entire family, then it was best she waited for her husband first or reporting the child to her husband first....before unleashing her anger.

Moreso an inlaw...is still another person's child.....

ronkebp: I narrated the whole scenerio to my husband, i wanted to know his opinions in regards to the matter, not that the matter has not been over flogged.

He said;
1. the lady (wife) is at fault, in the sense that, she should have waited for her husband to come back before she started beating up the girl, not that he does not support a child to be disciplined, but the girl in question is an inlaw, to her and moreso, God forbid she hit her out of anger and the girl passes-out, what will she say happened to the girl. She should have waited and reported the girl to her husband and allowed the husband to carry out the disciplinary action, that would have averted all this unnecessary clash in the family.

2. He said, it goes to show how the man's(husband) family is, they preach respect and demand it at all cost, without necessarily knowing how to give it in return. The brother of the husband shouldn't have come over to the house but instead, he should have called his brother and reported the incident to him, let the husband take it up from there.

3. Above all, there is no point allowing your unnecessary family members that have parents, in the case of this little girl, to be allowed to come and live with you, the girl should remain with her parents, if it is money they need, that money should be given to them on a monthly basis to care for their kids (since the man is handicapped, and cannot work) , i laughed at that one.

jennykadry: For your mind Make we hiaa word. It is either you are describing your bedimatic skills as "Champion horse ever known" or you calling yourself "the greatest gift to woman"

ileobatojo: That could be. But the flip side is that many Nigerians believe discipline=beating. Unfortunately, it is abusive or bordering on abuse in many cases. They don't know anything of the myriad of other more effective methods and don't care to know.

I would be fine with this. I did a quick search and saw an article that said the US is the only first world country where corporal punishment in schools is not illegal. Interesting. But I'm sure the fear of lawsuit will not allow the schools to even try it.

I agree. Some kids may only respond to that. But it needs to be focused on instilling discipline and not on dissipating the adult's anger.