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maybe, but thier never ending taste 4 more money is the main reason y they r played

mosiate r u telling me u dont know, i thought everybody did. u dont find much girls that would say a poor ugly guy played them. women alwayz want money and thatz y they alwayz fall 4 the playerz

Seun ur own stats show that 0ver 90% of ladies r sexually active b/4 25. Most of the guyz, il say 90% of those who r still virgins dont see willing partners.

the chicks want the money and the guyz the sex, simply put no father christmas. The guyz called players arenormally guyz with cash and around women who want guyz with cash. There r very few poor playerz

i aint seen a player without money so why do women complain.

I have seen guyz that insist on marrying a virgin cos they feel that they cannot satisfy a woman who has tasted the real thing properly, but that is only brewing trouble cos once disvirgined, she Would still want to see what other guyz r like if she feels u r not delivering.
Seun what assurance do u have that ur "virgin" would not have sucked another guy or will not do so even after u r married thanks to thier guyz inexperience. I dont think sexuall history matters anyway.

sorry Seun but no disrespect but a girl with sexuall experience is definately more fun than one without any esp if u asa guy aint got much experience. it spices up any relationship, u know even a girl that could suck ur ****. its a mind splitting experince

i wonder why some people would saythings like if a girl is taken advantage of then it is stupidity. Like any other thing in life people are attimes taken advantage of

Simply 4 the ladies out there if u have a guy living abroad, he will swear to u that he has never touched a woman but 4 SURE he has. The women over here in the west are not sexually inhibited like african women and go after a guy if they like the guy just to experience what he is like esp if he is handsome. Not that u would blame the guy cos i dont see any guy suffering in the midst of plenty. Sorry seun no offense meant but even u would join the band waggon. I mean its more than a question of principle, reality is involved

Most corporate offices don't usually encourage dating among staff but to me it is purely a personal decision as to whom you share your feelings with.

like i said b/4 we r not in secondary school so let us stop placing emphasis on something that is not important. U see if u r a guy and u insist on a virgin, in like 4 yrs after ur marriage (if it takes that long) beign a virgin would no longer be her priority but believe it or not Good sex would now be her problem, and too bad 4 u if u r a guy without much experience (ie a one rythme guy) and she might not be too patient to with u. What i am saying is that a girl can only be a virgin one night and after that other things will now be her priority (one of them certainly not spending the rest of her life with a guy not good in bed, a quick trigger guy, and having to endure bad sex) . By then other problems associated with marriage would have set in and coupled with the problem in the bedroom it is going to be a K.O  knockout. Marriage is long term and should not be decided on simply if a person is a virgin or not.

if it comes to sex a girl with sex experience is better. If a girl lacks experience she can be taught but if it is a guy, good heavens how does he start. I would love to watch that kind of a scenerio, too bad 4 the guy he will have to wait 4 the girl to tell him "anchor me towardz this angle" rather than flipping her over and giving her the goods. Cant imagine myself in that scenerio male or female

Guyz sometimes in life u gotta say no, so my suggestion- when a girl canvasses a recharge card from u know u cannot afford it or u dont want to- just say NO. nothing to be timid about

I am kind of dazzled about all this talk about virgins and non virgins. What i am saying is that marriage is a broadbased issue and not simply a matter of if i marry a virgin girl then the marriage would be more succesful. The success rate of a marriage does not increase significantly based on the virginity status of any spouse. A virgin girl can still turn to other men after marriage if the husband is not sexually experienced enough. At times virgin girls once married still turn to other men. Princess Diana - i heard she was a virgin when married, how did that help their marriage. A person beign a virgin is good (for the person) but personally i am not really intrested in the virginity status of my future partner, cos it is simply not the only measuring stick for the success of marriage. And a little footnote- if i were a girl i would not marry a guy not sexually experienced coz il hate to be telling him " No its not there, a little up, stick it in here and stuffs like that, its really messed up.

Bell- that stat is not mine. I was just refering to what eresi said though.

if it involes one of the partners outside the country then it might work if it is the female that is outside. if it is a guy, going back to what Eresi said that is the most likely scenerio. One other thing that i would like to add is that whatEresi called flimsy excuses are not flimsy excuses but are trully real and basic facts facts.


Well, it depends on how distant relationships are handled.  out of 10, 8 survives.  Communication, sure is important but danger is spotted when communication lessens or stops with flimsy excuses:  "You know, over here, we hardly have time", "It's very expensive making calls from here", "I hardly get through to your line, I don't know why" and all those stuffs.

My advice is this:  whenever one's partner travels out of the country, the person should closely monitor to know when his/her attitude on him/her changes, for whatever reason and take precaution. That one is not double dating, it's just to prevent 'had I known" so that you would not be embarassed by the white women the men would always come back with under the pretence that she helped them acquire citizenship paper.

Just beware!

Most girls would readilly do anything and more for money. When a girl presses a guy so much for money, it's a turn off for most guys.

I think women were created with a high level of materialistic tendencies: I saw much of that in Unizik's Omata girls. (sorry if you are offended but the truth has got to be spoken)

dont know who to really blame. Both parties share the blame, but men take more of it.

a lady making here feelings known to a guy that she has studied does not make her cheaper or any of sortt. I appreciate women that can go 4 what they want

its wrong but people will always do it

We are just hypocrites, or rather we pay lip service to one thing and do another. Westerners will stand by what they do but the typical African will say tufiakwa in public and still do the same in private. If you feel it's not so then visit our campuses and see. Is somebody out there trying to tell me that those girls don't know that the men are married?

sup guyz; just checking in. A player 4 me means a guy with money, u cant play soccer without a pitch and a ball; so the game too. Seun  u wont be too rigid if u had a girl. Find one and ul see.  We all need it at times