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Well you could be bisexual because from your write up, you are clearly going through a long and weird cycle call bi-cycle. So acknowledge your feelings. Don't run away.

Succumbing into having an affair with her is never a solution to your problem. Bro If anything, it's a curse.

So don't give into her manipulations.
Go out and hustle. Don't lose your focus or dignity.

What you need is money to pay your rent.

What should you do?

For starters, celebrate.
You are no longer a cattle rearer.

You deserve better than the cow you call GF for 3 years.

I don't think its a good thing.

No matter how hard the both of you try, your feelings will get in the way simply because you can not have a sexual connection with someone & expect not to get intimate.

She said she is okay with being your baby mama.
The question is, what else is she not telling you?

Good points.
Lemme add my own:

— Men who can't last more than a minute.

A man's libido must be very high. He must be ready at a moment notice as marriage is about sex. If you can't sexually satisfy a woman, you are not husband material.


— Men who don't have a car or any vehicle.

If you don't have a car, you can't run a household. My sister, flee from any man that doesn't have a car. They are financially incompetent. You'll end up suffering.

— Men who cry.

These set of men are sissies. They can't keep their emotions in check and hence will not be able to stand up and make tough decisions when it really matters.

It's not about how others see you.
It's all about how you see yourself.

She could be the reason we didn't crash out earlier.

Deathisfree:
Mom is late

Sorry. But if you don't want to lose your dad, tell him.

It's not about what do, but what duty demands.
As a son, your duty is to protect your dad.

From those who hurt or betray him.
Cheating kills. It's an act of betrayal.

So with or without evidence, let him know.

Jayslicky:
SageMK this lady does not need any good advice, just look up on her profile and see the topic she created 2months back on this same boyfriend that abuses her, I am just surprised she is still in the relationship.

Bro, you are right.
Damn. I wonder if she's mentally sane.

Those who mind their business will live longer.

He locked me up for two days, beat me and had sex with me forcefully throughout.

I don't care if you cheated or not, what is puzzling is why is he free and why are you in communication with him?

Looks like you are even entertaining thoughts of going back to him. Damn — I seriously question your sanity.

You have been violated and you don't even know.

Dissapointed.

I was expecting to read something like, “I slipped on a banana peel, somersaulted 3times & landed on his ....”

Well she has been assimilating a great deal of Ned's DNA since they got married so that's why she looks old.

Her employer or more like a pedophile waiting to prey?

Lol. E pain am but she should deal with it.

I'll be blunt. There's no hope to rekindle lost love.

Sir your wife doesn't initiate sex because she doesn't want it from you. In fact, she's just managing you. The affairs you both had totally destroyed the sexual bond.

Her body language — facing the other side of the bed — means she can't even tolerate your face, breath etc.

Maybe there's a third party in the union.

She's definitely harbouring negative thoughts about you and the marriage. So, can you keep managing her also?

Answer that question yourself.

Why can't they protest against terrorism?

As if feeling entitled to men's money isn't enough, they now want to collect it using diabolical means. Leeches.

Doyou2019:
I can't go there ever again. Well until by some miracle, I am cleared of this mess. I feel like I'm ruined for life.

Good. Cut him off. Your Dad is toxic.

Stop seeking for validation from an abusive man that's incapable of love. Nothing will change him, even old age.

Those who truly matter in your life believe & stand with you so never accept that you are ruined because of him.

Your reputation is safe.

His words hold no water and he doesn't matter.

What to do — please support her decision.


1. She doesn't want to be a mother right now.

2. She's at a great risk of quitting or stopping school.

3. It's her life at danger of pregnancy and abortion.

So unless there's a way you can carry the pregnancy and birth the baby yourself, there's nothing you can do but to respect and support her choice. Do not force her abeg.

That job comes with a psychological price tag.

Bro if you accept it, you will be burdened by a sense of obligation. So the question is will you succumb or not?

Whatever you decide, don't marry out of obligation.
And If you take the job, don't be too comfortable.

Have a plan B.

Take your L

When someone reports your post.

It's your day

Bloggers again

Injustice

Lmao

You know them

Hehe

Dey there

Why evils?

It's a risk