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You've been emotionally and physically abused for a very long time. Your hatred is deep rooted, natural & justified. It doesn't make you a sadist.

Unhating him will require a lot effort from both sides but the all important step is getting your bro to genuinely apologize for the maltreatment.

He needs to know his crimes.
He needs to stop.

Let him give you a reason to stop hating him.

Tra6ix:
What's the problem?

Not only are you manipulative, Its also obvious you're too low for his standards because it's you who don't have a plan for the future. Focus on your boyfriend and leave him alone, ahbeg.

You've a problem.
Stay away. He doesn't need the extra baggage.

It is not okay for you to be mentally screwing some other guy much less keep him close as a friend. Stay away from him.

Sorry but your personality isn't something you can decide to change like a light bulb. Actually your problem lies with you not being social and not because you're introverted. So you just need to improve your ability to make new friends.

Better a private well than a community well.


Just saying.

Forgive her.
I'm sure her infidelity wasn't premeditated.

She deserve another opportunity to backstab you properly where it'll hurt enough for you to start using your God's given common sense.

Don't fall for this ancient gimmick that's meant to stir up feelings of jealousy and lust in you. He wants to have a seat in your head and so far it's clearly working. Control your emotions and just forget about him or you'll wallow in pain.

So some people are having anal sex despite the pain people are going through in this country??

Actually at this stage of your life, your goal is to focus on school and that alone. Your love life is a distraction because you're entertaining people you shouldn't. Who do you love and who do you want to be with?? This is a question that's very straight forwarded. Your answer is your solution.

Oga, it seems you forgot to write about the part she came back begging and chasing after you now that you're a success and super rich.

You're cheating on your wife and you're not even remorseful about it. You're a disgusting person.

I don't what you feel for that whóre.
But one thing I know is it's certainly not love.

If there's any chain you need to break, it's the marital bond between you and your spouse. Set her free & continue chasing waterfalls as a fish.

It's VERY okay to collect your car back but only if the ownership is in your name. If it's otherwise then you should gracefully take your L man.

She visited on April 20th. A week before the wedding. We had unprotected sex and I nutted inside her.

There's a possibility.
But seriously though, FEAR WOMEN.

You don HAMMER. If you know, you know.

This is a hurdle you've to face without a second thought. If you both love eachother and want to be together, then you've to fight for that future.

So do whatever you've to do.
Be defiant and stand by your decision.
Your family will have no choice but to fall in line.

It's your life and yours alone.

Incredible. This is good news.
My people only sabi pot. Heartbreaking really.

If you can talk...
Don't rejoice yet that you've a brain.

Lmao. This is hilarious.
Who's next on your list — their ancestors?

How do you heal? — Quit the useless sex life.

Bros no matter how hard you ejaculate or who you ejaculate into, it'll not help you forget her or ease all the anger and pain. So try and stop it.

And yes, she betrayed you. But it's not the end. What you had with her is now HISTORY. Nothing but one of life's lesson. Time to move.


Focus and Build yourself up with things you love to do. Put one foot in front of the other. Find a job and make platonic friends. Or you'll perish.

Your parents are perfectly okay with you staying with them. I don't see the need to rush out. Man invest that money. Resist the temptation to “be a man” in the guise of spending & living lavishly.

This life is a solo race.
Move out when you're comfortable financially.

This isn't hard to get or anything like it.
C'mon man, it's time to wake up and think.

And why shouldn't they celebrate??

Attention gives validation to women. There can never be too much of it coming from someone they really love. Unless that person is just being needy and clingy which are entirely different.

Sixfeetbelle:


And after your arrival, what do you think?

I like the message. Yes, ladies should embrace their gold digging rights instead of suppressing it. Dating only diamonds in the rough is very OK.

merieam16:
Waitin 4 dem

Well, we are here.

There's nothing like a main purpose.
People get married for different reasons.

It's subjective.

But this is mere speculation. Not facts.
It's human nature to take things for granted.
Doesn't matter if you love them more or less.

Very important to learn when to say No.
Good diets and regular exercise too.

Nice article.

I like her already. I love their story.