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megacity:
Things fall apart
The Centre cannot hold
Mere anarchy is loosed upon the world



But seriously GanDollars should know he doesn't have authority to order Buhari around. Buhari is the Commander in Chief and can go to any state he likes

a dead man can be ordered around anytime any moment

iamkheedah:
PAINFUL DEATH OF A YOUNGER SISTER .

Early yesterday, Tuesday 24th, I received a shocking phone call from my uncle Mr. Servegod Angolo about a domestic violence report against his daughter by her boyfriend.

Immediately I rushed down to see what's happening at the Federal Medical Centre FMC Yenagoa, but while on my way, she gave up the ghost .

Young Miss Toma Serve-god Angolo , aged 22years who hails from Agorogbene community in Sagbama LGA of Bayelsa State, was beaten to death by her cohabiting boyfriend by name Arepamowei Koru from Ogobiri Community in Sagbama LGA at about 11pm in his room at Ogobiri Community .

As painful and provocative as it is, with the help of the immediate elder sister of the deceased who was able to grab the culprit before alerting the police at Amassoma Division, he was apprehended and moved to State headquarters Bayelsa Command to face the full weight of the law .

My dear cousin sister, this is not how you should have ended your life but God knows why.....

Rest in peace for we will ensure your killer sees no peace until he faces the full weight of the law especially beckoning on the VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN ACTS/KIDNAPPING AND RAPE.

please which one is cousin sister?

ytdivine:
God bless the individual that unveiled the idea of yam-in-sack farming. I put up my first trial, the result is amazing. If you're among the people that post account number here, begging for money, gather here, I have low cost business idea for you. If you're NYSC member looking for how to boost savings during the service year, please come onboard. If you're still searching for job and none on sight, your attention is needed here. For those looking for side business, I have one for you. If you're praying and believing God for financial breakthrough but have nothing doing, enter here, I have something to show you.

Yam-in-sack farming is untapped hidden Gold for Nigerians. This has the potency of turning Nigeria economy around. The market can never be saturated. What about exporting this product? the demand is very high.
Am going to be posting pictures

how did you do it? Tell us how you planted it

fadilaMaikiriki:
Hello all!

I got this outfit for my birthday. I wanted to wear it that day. I just wanted to wear something different that day, so I got this brown leather outfit. Although, I tried the outfit on before I purchased it, but when I went out with it later that night, I was thinking it's too short. I didn't know it was going to be this short. I will go to the outlet where I got it later today or tomorrow. I would want to exchange it with another much longer outfit.


What do you think of the outfit? Isn't it too short to be worn outside? As a lady, can you comfortably wear this outside without feeling awkward in it? I want to know your opinions and what you think. And as a man, what comes to your mind when you see a lady putting this on and she walks pass you. What would you think of such a lady?

Please, I would like to know your opinions on this.

Thanks.



Attached below is a picture of the outfit;

we are not seeing the cloth nah

Osidazz19:
Bola Ahmed Tinubu is the next President of the federal republic of Nigeria.

please lower your voice. You know it your self that you are lying. But just lower your voice and say it just for the sake of your stipends

StrongAlphMale:
Question: How long should a lady wait before asking the man she is in a relationship with for money?

My own Answer is:
She should wait for as long as it takes her to get a job or business, and then she can give her ATM to the man and ask him to help her withdraw her money!

for ever

UDOKABESTLUV:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2023/01/24/armed-robber-kills-gang-member-while-trying-to-rob-victim/

why are they posting the police face? Na the police them kill?

EriMma1:
This may sound weird but it's my situation now.

I have been a single and independent lady for a very long time. Though I really looked forward to settling down in my 20s and thirties but because I was the over careful type, I couldn't as I kept being picky due to men's character and behavior.

Fast-forward to my lat 30s, I began to lose interest and started getting more comfortable as a single. The upheavals in today's marriage also got to me. As in the way marriages are packing up, the cheating aspect, abuse and domestic violence in marriages all further affected me and changed my whole perception of the union called marriage. So I unconsciously resolved to remain single as long as I'm happy, comfortable and financially independent.

Some of the reasons I also made up my mind are.
As a single, Im very much at peace, with no one dictating what and when I should do things or get out of bed. I love my bed.
No one is body shaming me when I add on some pounds due to excessive eating and no one is questioning my eating habits as its sometimes the case with some married women. Also running errands when you don't feel up to it just because hubby wants you to do it. Some men can send their wife on errand like crazy and me I hate running errands.

No one is disturbing me when I need time alone which could last for hours. I love my space and privacy. So the thought of having to give up all that scares the hell out of me.

Now, back to the matter.

Recently, some close spiritual leaders in my denomination have been trying to match make me with a single pastor and that one too is shining teeth that he has seen a jimjim sister. When they now openly mentioned it yesterday with the said man around and he too was nodding and agreeing to the proposal, it dawned on me that these people are not joking. When I got home, i sank into my comfy space and began to fret. I mean... The thought of giving up all that freedom is just so scary. I suddenly discovered that marriage no longer excites me and my inner self was fighting it.
Also, the thought of carrying pregnancy for nine months with all the stress of looking after babies, tending toddlers ( poo poo) and that motherhood life made me sick instantly. The thought of joggling my job with family life gave me the chills. I see how my married mates struggle with this. Huh. Men...

I don't know. I don't feel cool about this cos it makes me feel like I'm about to be put in a cage and everything about me is going to change.

Now, before you talk about me not loving the man, I think I fancy him and can love him cos he looks so much like my ex of years ago. So that is out of the question. He is a happening lovable man but....... I no longer feel excited about marriage. at least, from what played out yesterday.

Do I need any form of therapy cos my family won't hear of it but this is my situation now ooo... Hmmm

it's not by force to marry o after all Paul in the bible did not marry. But make sure that you also abstain from sex because that also involve a man that will send you for an errand of removing your clothes for sex, sending you to come on top and so on

onumadu:
This is not always true. At all.
In fact I've seen quite a few cases where this happened and the men involved where EXCELLENT fathers and husbands.
The problem is natural.
Monogamy has a reductionist demand on men that is impossible to meet. A women for example would want to avenge the fact that her husband looked at another woman 30 yrs ago! It is not that the man looked at another woman. It is that she is looking for a pretext to abandon him in old age!
A man gets married and at first controls 90% love and admiration. But as he ages, and he keeps investing in his wife and kids, he gradually drains himself of that love and admiration because he empowers them while he dis-empowers himself.
Over time, he would be lucky if he controlled 10% love and admiration.
How does love and admiration come about? Through MATERIAL THINGS: money, properties, etc.
Once he depletes all that and the kids grow up, the wife becomes "free" of the kids, and since he is sexually emptied as well for his wife, he loses everything and gets abandoned.
Life is NOT sentimental.
That is why a smart man must plan ahead and keep his materials very close to himself until his old age.
With those materials firmly under his control, he would retain love and admiration whether his wife and kids like him or not, or else ...

how did you know they were excellent fathers? Were they your father? Did you live with them? See, some parents waste away their lives enjoying their monies outside while the wife and children are suffering at home

ChybuzzDD:
Unreasonable response.

reasonable response

adenigga:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2023-We-will-eliminate-corruption-if-elected-Tinubu

when you are the author of corruption how would you eliminate it?

Ofunaofu:
…says ordinary Nigerians will be my employers




https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/01/my-fiscal-discipline-mistaken-for-stinginess-peter-obi/

I can actually agree with you on this... I am beginning to like you

another1:
So much work and cry for governor wike.
Amaechi, pdp national are all fighting back .

you don't get it... This case was wrongly judged in akwa ibom and wike was not happy about it, he then as APC candidate to make the appeal in rivers state that he will look into it.... Same thing happen with the ypp candidate in akwa ibom that was jailed for 42years... He asked that the appeal should be brought to rivers state and the candidate was freed... He is spiting akwa ibom governor and we are all happy about it

Jestin:
If you could pay money and wait till 2am to watch Kizz Daniel and wait till 4am to watch Burna Boy but you can’t wait to collect your PVC and you can’t wait to vote Obi in 2023 and get your vote counted, then you must be very mad. FTC

he who say someone is mad yet he himself is mad is mad. Why are obi supporters so violent? Please let's take this things easy without insult... Obi was not my candidate until someone pacify me.... You can be peaceful while pacifying others to see reasons with you. While you are seeing 9, others might be seeing 6... We all can never be the same.... What you feel is good for you might not be good for me. The food you enjoy I might not enjoy it. Please be guided because what you say might proof to us how silly you are and it might proof to us the kind of people supporting obi

secnelly:
The problem of Nigeria has remained the same in the past 4 decades so expectedly the solutions will be similar.


However, what stands Peter Obi out is sincerity of purpose and political will for diligent implementation of the solutions.

I am here to remind you, about our drive

I quite understand your point, but you see so many people buhari disappointed died of heart attack, some die as victim of circumstance based on poor governance, poverty, insecurity, but if someone is not too attached you will be able to move on easily when disappointment sets in

superlanny:
If the 30k Urchin allowance is enough to feed your family, then continue to enjoy it. But I will continue to state it as it is, Nigeria is drowning and a failed country, those who we put in charge are those I will hold responsible. You can't be intelligent and continue to make the same mistakes. If my words hurt you then I can understand. Or better still I know what you represent. Enough said, cheers.

I'm very sure you got my point, except you have problems reading and understanding

secnelly:
Peter Obi on January 1, visited 3 states in Nigeria: Anambra, Lagos and Abuja.

As a concerned citizen, where was your preferred candidate on January 1?
Was he in Nigeria?

If he's not, it's time to look inwards, fellow citizens. Pitch your tent with Peter Obi and remain #Obidient.

you guys said this same thing during the time of buhari in 2015... I might support peter obi o but I'm saying don't be too attached should he fall your hands later in the years to come

Abfinest007:
dumb reasoning u said .well I think u are more stupid than I thought because for u to argue with stupid man ,make u stupid as well.what do u think?
Sorry I forgot u have no brain to think

my brother always take corrections rather then being proud. If you are married then I pity your wife at home, if you are yet to marry then I pity your future wife but I pray you meet your kind because in the end a wife is always the bearer of this kind of dead attitude

superlanny:
This is one of the reason why I know we have many roaming mad people in Nigeria, I will never be one to support evil or enjoy suffering. This country has been taken back to the stone ages and fit for only Urchins and mentally deranged supporters of these evil politicians.

Imagine after all the efforts of #endsars we still have the same old thing and nothing has changed, yet some supposedly intelligent people will confidently support Tinubu or Atiku, whatever reason they have I cannot stand chronic stupidity.

We will all be here together to watch and see how much we have grown as a supposedly democratic country, our mumu is very significant.

it is people like you who makes others to hate peter obi. So you mean that if someone vote tinubu or atiku he is not intelligent? Let me put you to light small, everyone cannot vote for your candidate, others also have very good reasons for voting their candidate, others who are more intelligent than you(that is if you are intelligent at all) have the right to vote who they think is best for them. Is this not how you people said it during Jonathan and buhari? Is buhari a better president than Jonathan? So you mean that atiku's children are not intelligent because they want to vote their father? Same as tinubu? How about their cousins, grand children and family members? Please no dey use ynash comment... Be wise

Abfinest007:
So because they're police they should not drink again .

like seriously? It seems you are drunk while commenting on this post or maybe your eye dey pain you or it could be your brain dey pain you... Drinking on duty they said, they can have their drinks once they are done with their work for the day.... Just like drinking heavily when you know you are driving... You might be owing dead if you do that

ecolime:
Atiku is an agent of destabilisation. Nigerians will be severely polarized and divided under his leadership. He's worse than Buhari.

Baba Bulaba is a unifier but his health, old age, shadiness, looting, drugs, dementia etc. isn't what we can overlook especially for a nation in crises.

The only option we have is Peter Obi.

stop this nonsense at once... Who is worst than buhari? There is no man on planet earth that is worst than buhari... Leave sentiments and sell your candidate in peace... Honestly I would have knocked you if you were standing close to me saying this nonsense. Just so you know, nobody in Nigeria is worst as buhari

patwilly:
buygala I dey disappointed in your comment. Me and you don tey for this forum and I respect you a lot. I no expect this kind comment from you at all.

ain't see his comment as a bad one... There is no insult on that his comment

BigShishi:
Man brags about sleeping with his best friend's gf

smiles... It is very funny how you will feel you are doing somebody but you are actually doing your self.... You are the greatest idiot here, because it is your shameless face we see and not that of the girl. You are the culprit here useless man. The girl can deny that she was not the one but can you do same? Well let's just say this is a prank because I'm not sure you will be stupid enough to do this

ebukajay184:
IGBERETV report

14 Nigerian Celebrity Marriages That Crashed in 2022 (Photos)



https://igberetvnews.com/1434676/14-nigerian-celebrity-marriages-crashed-2022-still-counting-photos/

you did not include yul Edochie

Give400:
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks

call the police for her sighting threat to life.... Let her sign an undertaking that if anything ever happen to you she will be held liable

Fearyourcreator:
Na politicians dey still company money or sell street transformers and some others too

you can't even take note of what you wrote.... You talked about corruption in civil service and public service. So wetin come concern transformer here? If the politicians are not still involve in stealing of transformers why haven't they arrested the culprit? Oga park well o

Fearyourcreator:
Most Nigerians are ungrateful... If you see the damage most condemning him has done as a civil servant or working in a private organisations... Politicians go look like saint to you...

why have they not been prosecuted if the politicians are not the ones looting it through them

Moh247:
He didn't and you can't impersonate his lawyers

did buhari hire you? Wow no wonder you want to defend the undefendable

Moh247:
Do you honestly think Obi would get Benue people's vote as you have decided to mock them while mourning to get back at Buhari that everyone knows you hate for no reason

we all hate buhari for a reason. You also hate buhari for a reason too... Forget about the cheap bankrolling you are getting

SLAP44:
Let buharri reply for himself, or are you his spokesman?

I love this... God bless you sir... This people will not be able to defend nonsense

Moh247:
And who says Buhari isn't milking his cattle through his staffs?!

Fulani don't joke with fresh milk

and why is it still costly?

Moh247:
You are prolly young and all your life you knew just Buhari and Jonathan as President

If you had better knowledge you won't say this

you are the young one here, because if you are old enough you wouldn't say this... This same man was head of state and it was just as bad as this. Don't wash your dirty linen outside please