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It's planet Earth for Christ's sakes !!! Anything is possible . . . . .

I really don't think so. If it were such a necessity, hit and run cases would've been a rarity. Response to the question: I don't know. I guess it depends on your personality and psyche make-up. It takes all sorts afterall. Remember this rhyme?

Beans porridge hot
Beans porridge cold
Beans porridge in the pot three days old

Some like it hot
Some like it cold
Some like it in the pot three days old

Being a meek guy, I tend to date only those I'm friends with. The rare instance where the girl takes the initiative, she often times still siddles up to me first. I'll admit I've taken a leap into the dark once or twice before . . . . .

You should have a fair idea of what the guy's like now. Afterall, 3 years would open your eyes to the guy's world. You now have a way to communicate (you've spoken to him at least once, I infer). Choose what you want. Careful, what people say may sway you in the wrong direction - my words here inclusive.

Take time off. Use insight. If you believe in God, ask him for guidance; divine help isn't t be overlooked or taken for granted.

God be with you.

I'll answer Laglon and Harvey with this same response/reply. I feel you guys. I really do. It's not about the love - cos it's obviously there (at least from your individual sides of the fence). What the girls feel is another thing. Children will always love a consistent, loving and true father-figure, which you've both evolved to become. Harvey, if your assessment of the relationship is good, bite the bullet and move on with your plans. Very few of us have clean slates, believe me. My slates aren't too bright either. But I'm man enough to admit it. For the house and to the house: ever dated someone who as an individual is so right but regarding circumstances pervading the person's existence, becomes so wrong? You get torn between choosing the love of your life (and a lifetime commitment to bear and forebear what at times seems unbearable) or choosing an alternate path for which you may have recriminations for as long as you live.

Been there, thus I'm talking from the soul.

Laglon; I'm only human. No oracle speaking here but you may be treading murky waters. I don't know your reasons for wanting to get married but people like me don't take the high road (divorce) as an alternative. Look before you leap has always been true to the game. You're looking but are you seeing? Don't rush into something which may scar or marr you. For your lifetime. I'm thirtyish too. Happily unmarried. Many at times long to wake up with her beside me but I know I can't be too careful so I'm laying contigencies down. It's true that no matter how much foresight you have and the planning you do, things can still go awry overnight. The fact is people change. For the better. For the worse.

Summary? Pray. You guys both profess to being excellent christians. Pre-marital sex even scares and taints one of you. Cool. Wish I were back to those days. Anyway, pray. Your faith in God and the fact that I believe MY God sleeps not, should guide you through. Wishing you luck as good as any person can get. Divine favour. More importantly, divine wisdom, guidance and intellect. By strength shall no man prevail ,

Awusubillahi !!! Who thought up this kinda shit. Practices zealously pursued pass into habits. I beg, constructive thinking. Positive thinking. When you get to kind of bridge that requires this kinda discussion, we'll be supportive of whatever action you take in crossing it. Until then, let evil thoughts drift by ,

Ufobabe ! Aussie ! Get a grip on yourselves! Why bother mudslinging on these pages. Surely you've both got e-mail addresses - and possibly chat on Yahoo! or other instant messaging service. Airing your beef out here just ain't good. Especially Ufobabe. I read your post replies quite often and find them amusing. This isn't the time to make me lose the respect for you which you invariably hard-earned without knowing it. And Aussie, while I don't know much about you, maintain the masculine status quo. Ergo, behave. Tolerance and restraint should come naturally. Should you feel aggrieved, find a way to smoothen things out. You want to be appeased? Request for it. Not throwing the trash can around the house.

Who knows, you guys may hook up some day. Or had you guys in the past , ?

Whoaa!!! Lips ahoy! If you're not a good kisser, you probably can't have me for any length of time. When you feel the come on, do you always have to take a roll in the satck to get intimate? Lips and the orifice beyond are a conenient way out, especially when privacy, time or other constraints are on - like when the "moment" just isn't right. Cheers!

Awusubillahi !!! Who thought up this kinda shit. Practices zealously pursued pass into habits. I beg, constructive thinking. Positive thinking. When you get to kind of bridge that requires this kinda discussion, we'll be supportive of whatever action you take in crossing it. Until then, let evil thoughts drift by ,

Dilemma I'm in at the moment! I love one ( and get that right, one!) girl at the moment. Gradually, another is creeping in; I let my guard down for a while. Now I'm having sleepless nights cos I don't keep secrets from my girl. Should she ask me, I'd have to spill the beans. I feel you man. It's a hellish world

Blues - I get to lose interest in any number of things any number of times. Relationships inclusive (as I've had so few).
Why not? Anything can get monotonous and boring. Why not romance too? Show me love ,

I'm enjoying this beat! More contributions! Please , ?

Ocho, Ashbaby and Scorpio. Hmm. Menage a trois. Do what you like. See who you want. But banter on these pages of that sort, c'mon ,

None of my biz, I admit.

Have a nice day y'all !

Relationships as are good, committed, blissful and whatever term you'd like to attach to it, as are the people involved. If it's perfect, then it's because the people involved view it as perfect. If otherwise, then it's up to them. Such terms are subjective as far as humans are concerned. Else how would you qualify and quantify "pefect"?

Have a nice day house!

What are we resorting to on these pages? Someone tell me how to earn a million bucks in a month without shedding every drop of blood, sweat in my body nor losing the last ounce in my reserves. Anyone?

So do a zillion other earthlings - perhaps you have them too. Who cares ?!

The question bothers me a lot too , an end-trap?

I don't. But I'm forced to make them at times. More commonly, I get to recieve them (which doesn't happen by force bt out of choice). If you don't like midnight calls, don't belly-ache all over these pages. That's just you and you don't have to like what some derive absolute pleasure in. I don't like the calls (at times), nonetheless, i get to indulge as necessary. Get the point?

Search for the number of things "humane" which have the word "perfect" as a befitting adjective. List them out here on the thread.

A task for all and sundry!

Do it!

Conversely, why do men love to philander ?!