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I was wondering why the emphasis of their ages on the topic until I saw their picture...
Chai.. Naija

Glory!

AkupeMBANO:
That girl earned my respect with that reply.

Same here Sir

AkupeMBANO:
That girl earned my respect with that reply.

Same here
I'm sure he was surprised to get such reply too

nomenclature:
She was a nice person or you were a simp?you overlooked the rudeness

LOL. Not really. Left it @ the friendship level even tho @ some point she directly said she wanted more than friendship. Couldn't place why the initial rudeness. Sadly, she wanted to sweep the rudeness incident (happened more than once) under the carpet like it didn't happen and that posed some serious red flag for me...

Daniiel:
dear is still better to be wonderfully made than fearfully made ... but I found most times pretty gals are usually lonely ... I guess that's a cross for dem to bear.

Fearfully made. Lolz
Una no go kee pesin with laff for this platform.

Rozcol:
You are right, I'm not good at essay writing but good at sciences but atleast you can comprehend my poor writing lol. Correct me anywhere necessary.Thanks

Woah. Nice

Rozcol:
That's how it is most times,it pops up in in the way you react to people few times and you sometimes loose it,you just want to be accepted like every other person. Its crazy though

True. It's to give people the benefit of the doubt, Sometimes they're going through stuff

Rozcol:
Most times its the low self esteem playing its ugly head but been misconstrued as rude,you will never understand except you wear the shoes

I get.
Met someone like that. Initially tot she was rude cos of her response but later discovered she's a really nice person

One good reason why a personal relationship with God and self discovery /development is very important. Some beautiful ladies are very rude cos of everyone making passes at them while others have very low self esteem which makes them fall into wrong hands.
A well balanced individual is bae

NairalandDoctor:
the life balance bro na you no stand well

I bin start learn this forex o. But the thing been get as e be. Like we were the ones the teacher was cashing out on

The boldness of the bandits is surprising

DoubleFingers:
@Salt06,
Of course, I believe in God na!

But, my brother, if it is deep seated peace and conviction like you said, I'm more than convinced with a very very relaxed mind alloyed with peace that she's my wife.

Moreover, I'm not the type of guy that is swayed by "love" or overhype of emotions, thinking it's love... No!

I see reasons to love a woman.

That's good. if your fiancé holds same conviction then you can fast and pray in agreement and undo the plans of the enemy

DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Thanks.

Mods, please help a brother.

Divine validation is important if you are a believer, however it may not always come in a spectular way- like open visions, tranches etc its likely to come as deep seated peace and conviction...

femi4:
he's looking for a boy child. Don't blame him

The people who accused him have apologized but people would quickly believe and hold on to evil than good- a reflection of their hearts.


Apostle Suleman has children- a son and daughters.

Lovely. his mom also reacted to rumors that she is from India, she said- I am a nigerian o... Lol
God bless our parents

As obtained from his Twitter account, he was pictured with his wife and parents at his recently celebrated birthday

Timarodear:
As a guy, can you allow your GUY(male) friend sleep on your chest?‚

Blood of God!
For wetin!!!
E want make Amadioha strike am dead?!

Happy Birthday Sir...
More Grace to bless more lives

Casalindal:
Drop your account number so I can breath

Access Bank: zero 7 two 5789 zero two 4

Thank you

Happy Birthday to you Sir

I admire his composure & loyalty and how he took charge when the president was away- making definite/ decisive decisions. His time is coming to be on the no 1 seat. And that is soon.

sad

Heard this news back then

450k.
07 two 57890 two 4. Access bank. Op send me some pls. Thank you

Lovethaa:
So I have been speaking to this lady online for a while and I must say that she is extremely beautiful., We've done video calls several times because I just couldn't take my eyes of her ..


she would be around anytime soon which made me go to the atm to withdraw this undisclosed amount..

I'm in a great mood today so I'll be giving out 10k to anybody that can guess how much is in the picture. You don't have to be correct just be close ..

450k

maikbanj:
How do you mean??

Ignore him jare. U did your best. Does he expect you to fight with a friend's s wife?
However as the other fellow said, Henceforth-- keep your distance and maintain a formal relationship. Some people don't know a thing about emotional sensitivity and how to value others.
she unlikely to support /bail you if you get arrested for fighting with the task force...
Ignore her and move on.
Knowing you deserve to be treated better and drawing the line when it's otherwise helps your relationship with ladies.
One love bro. Life happens

content208:
Social media validation doesn't deceive God.

Word Sir! So true
Social media validation and social media invalidation does not deceive God.

jesusjnr2020:
Why Did Jesus Ask Simon Peter, "Do You Love Me" Three Times?

John 21:15-17 (KJV)

So when they had dined, Jesus saith to Simon Peter, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me more than these? He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee. He saith unto him, Feed my lambs.
He saith to him again the second time, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me? He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee. He saith unto him,
Feed my sheep.
He saith unto him the third time, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me? Peter was grieved because he said unto him the third time, Lovest thou me? And he said unto him, Lord, thou knowest all things; thou knowest that I love thee. Jesus saith unto him, Feed my sheep.

I'm sure Peter would have wondered what was actually going on when Jesus who knew him very well and that he had forsaking everything to follow Him, would still be asking him, "lovest thou me?" And not just once but three good times, because if anyone should know that Peter loved Him it should be Jesus Himself.

But Jesus very well knew what He was talking about because His sheep meant everything to Him. That's why He would lay down His life for them as a good Shepherd would.

So Jesus already knew that Peter loved Him,
but the question was not if Peter loved Him, but how much Peter loved Him. If Peter loved Him to the extent that he would take His sheep as He took them, and love and care for His sheep the way He did, because He had given His all for His sheep, and was going leave them in Peter's care, so it mattered a whole lot to Him that who He was going to leave His sheep with cared for His sheep as He would.

If Jesus could yet ask Peter who had proven his love for Him beyond any reasonable doubt, if He loved Him three times, I wonder how many times He would ask most of today's church leaders that same question. Because even the love Peter had for Jesus, most of them do not have, so how much more the love Jesus had for His sheep?

Moreover Jesus saying "feed my sheep" to Peter repeatedly on this occasion doesn't mean just giving them food or any kind of food, but the right kind of food, even that which the good Shepherd would feed them with if He were there with them - the kind of food that would lead to eternal life.

May God help us with leaders who would care for the sheep as Jesus did, and do everything they could to ensure that they're not lost to the enemy but preserved til the day the good Shepherd returns for His sheep. Amen!

Apt!
More of God's grace.
The words ". .. more than these" have always made me ponder. Jesus had just gotten them 'bread and fish'. Twas like Jesus saying, would you take the feeding of my sheep (seeking God's kingdom & his righteousness) more seriously than your source of livelihood (they were fishermen) & personal satisfaction- (what to eat, drink and wear)?
May God help us to labor and serve him acceptably

...Men should always pray and never give up...
Luke 18:1
More Grace Sir