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Anyiiii:
We are in the month of November. I'm still not married. A close female friend of mine will be getting married in December. Two of my close friends got married this year too. I'm feeling depressed right now. Nothing interests me. My decoder is subscribed and I can't watch TV. I have food but I'm not hungry. I have money but I'm not happy. Who says money is happiness? Some men are coming my way but they are not my spec. I'm very beautiful and look so younger than my age. So stop imagining the looks of an old Lady. Why can't I find the man of my dreams? Please you people should pray for me. Is there any good luck herb that you can recommend for me to get my husband? Thanks

yinkaadesegha:
Be careful with the doctrine/advice you receive from people/religious groups/churches.... Because it may lead to lack of peace in your marriage or even divorce. But if you are not married, be careful of what you believe not to affect your marriage when u later got married in future. Make sure you believe in the bible, whatsoever is not found in the bible and you are taught, please ignore it.
Exo 23.2..You shall not follow a crowd to do evil; nor shall you testify in a dispute so as to turn aside after many to pervert justice. Think.

God bless u...

Righteousness89:
Very Simply!

Accept you are a Sinner in need of a Saviour
Confess all your Sins to JESUS and ask for Mercy.
Believe with all your Heart on the Lord JESUS.

That's all! You are Saved!

All you need do now is to Ensure you live according to what the Word of God Says.

If anyman be in Christ, He is a New Creature! Old things are past way! Behold all things have become new.
Life in Jesus Christ is a Life of Purity, Holiness, and Righteousness. Every Evil, Dirty and Sinful lifestyles and Habits are thrown away..

senatorshegsy5:
It happened close to my house. Just imagine two neighour in the same keke both died.

hemartins:
Dating a strict Christian sister too.
It becomes boring with regimented lifestyle
Everything is predictable
What I just need is flexibility

Guest911:
There has never been a time it didn’t end in premium tears

ursullalinda:
Seems these pastor's are not gentle......can't believe how they have been reacting........not Christ like at all

smile11s:
I think my father is a mad dog

blackpanthar:
Ha, kai, see what this country is doing to great industrious citizens.

Anyway , I feel your pain brother BUT I also would love to humbly suggest that you consider going into business.

See, working for someone does not pay o.
Importation business was booming last decade but now things have changed, there are other simple businesses you could do for yourself and at least you would make as little as 300-400k monthly.

GOD NO GO SHAME US

Another thing is pls BE INFORMED... you didn't need to suffer this long if you had proper information.

This year COVID-19 RELIEF FUND was disbursed and am a witness that MANY people cashed out as little as 100-450k and the registration info was posted here on nairaland since MARCH.... but many did not know and some took it to be scam. I know someone who did it with multiple accounts using different people and he cashed out in Millions.... see all am saying is RELEVANT INFORMATION EASES TENSION... you didn't need to suffer this long. You can get relevant information by making good business minded friends on NL whom you can get info from every time you log in, for me I have missimelda01 .

As at yesterday, BUHARI announced another opportunity like the earlier one I mentioned... its the 75 billion naira NYIF loan for YOUTHS... pls GOOGLE it and apply.

Also sir pls be very very veryyy prayerful... so that situations like this would not look like a curse.

Then INVEST... there is nothing as wise as investment now o.
I invest in these three areas and I suggest you do the same...

REAL ESTATE
TRANSPORTATION
CRYPTOCURRENCY
AGRICULTURE.

If you get a LOAN, use it to INVEST or START A SURE BUSINESS and payback in due time....

another thing is... pls RELOCATE, go to a better part of Nigeria like Lekki Lagos or Abuja or Calabar and start life afresh.... join a very good church and mingle so you can MARRY a GOOD LADY who will not be depending on you for money BUT will have her own businesses or job(with side hustle).

This is the little I can say in this open forum for now... Lastly pls get a MENTOR(you can not afford to do trial and error like a teenager anymore), you need someone who will point you in the right direction and guide you through the steps... Mentors do not give money o, but they train and equip you not to fail in the direction which they are guiding you.

I wish you all the best.

Yoighaman:
@OP:
This your matter na real case study, couldn’t help but smile whilst reading other people’s comments but it is a serious matter that should not be swept under the carpet; at least that is why you have spoken up, so I’d try to give my little cent briefly.

Guy 1- Dubem: Let go of the relationship, the incompatibility in your genotypes will always rear its ugly head; why go through unnecessary stress?...and like you rightly mentioned, he could wake up one day and make a big deal out of it, citing his family as an excuse.

Guy 2- Nedu: To me, this seems to be the right guy for you and I’d like you to give him a chance. You see, a man that does not have money today can have tomorrow as long as he is ambitious and not lazy, forget about the hallucinations of other ladies, saying that they cannot date/marry a poor guy, blah, blah, blah. You can make money at any time; you can also have money today and lose it tomorrow but you see, those other qualities he has, my sister, they are very hard to come by.

Guy 3- Victor: This guy is arrogant; you will have issues with him later in future should you become more successful than he is. I can see you have great academic ambitions; this man will be intimidated and might make your life miserable. The misery would quadruple if you dare make/have more money than him.

Guy 4- Denver: I don’t have an issue with him having just an HND or not being in the corporate world, he is a businessman and can ‘blow’ tomorrow but my concern with him is that he is putting you under pressure; please take a walk, never marry anyone out of pity or pressure, you will regret it.

Guy 5:- Bright: Leave bright out of the picture, he is an unserious serial cheat, more of a playboy roaming around probably looking for whom to devour, such people can be on a revenge mission for rejecting their previous advances.

These are just my opinions, please pray to God if you believe in him, I do anyway; he (God) knows your future, I don’t, he is therefore in the best position to guide you.

Wish you all the best.