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wunmi590:
Good day Nairalander,

For those who followed this thread and encouraged me.

https://www.nairaland.com/6426484/how-chose-wrong-job

So after alot of advice from the great people here.

I was advised to send mail to the remaining two job offer I rejected, which I did.

Company one replied that I should come for another interview and I did, but the offer was below what I was offered before, as they said they just wanted to help me, since they have employed somebody in my rejected offer.

So I rejected it, because I would have to work on Saturdays and close by 8pm.....

The second mail responded with a call..

Hello wunmi, I recieved your mail, unfortunately, your position has been given to another person, but I intend employing another hand soon, I will get back to you when I'm ready and if you are still available.


So I just forget about both of them, got another offer last month, but I just had to decline, pay was too low, sachet water is now N20.. how much will remain from me... so I declined the offer by mail again.....


Last week the second woman who promised to get back to me just messaged me, hello Wunmi good morning, are you still available to pick up your offer?

I just called her and told her, yes I'm available.

So she said we should meet and discussed.....

We discussed and ended up with salary review compared to what she gave me last, though it was 6digit, but it should be more than...

Told her if she doesn't review, it might tempt me to look elsewhere after 3 month or if I get good offer outside.... She looked at me and said you know I will still have yo review your offer after six month again..... But no worries let me just do it for you so that you won't run away after three month.

With better 6digit..


Thank you to omobola121
Donaldgenes
Lalabodo
Lawisdinho
Legendary

Thank you all for giving me hope and telling me to send mail to the two I rejected..


Lastly thank you lala for pushing this to front page for a wider view

Woah, big big Congratulations!
Glad your attempt at contacting them after the whole saga paid off.
Someone said, I can live with trying and failing but I can't live with not trying.

hayoholla:
Swears bro. The way they package dem programme ehn. It's funny how they successfully affect the psyche of people. Man is always so desperate, and in our desperation we can be easily deceived, if we are not careful.

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222Martins:
After seeing the viral video of a man whose drink was poisoned while he was happily dancing and merrymaking with friends on 31st night, i decided to put down my experience.

"There is nothing that a chameleon requests from the forest that it doesn't get."

"No matter the crooked ways of the river, the calabash will always triumph over it."

I usually laugh at people who doubt the supernatural. They are usually like fishes that get snapped by a net unknowingly. What most people don't know is that whatever happens to you today, has been known and endorsed already in the spirit realm long before the event takes place in your life. Well, let's leave this talk for another day.

First week of November 2020, a Seer sent me a message that "There is a Plot to Kidnap Me on the 29th December 2020 and if the kidnappers succeed; it will cause irreparable damage." That i should be very careful and trust no one." Note that as at when i got this message, my program for December hasn't been drawn but i sure know that December will be very busy. I told no one the message i got, not even my wife; to avoid sending her into panic mode.

On the last week of November 2020, My Political Adviser informed me that his wedding has been scheduled for 29th December 2020 and i said Haaaaaaa!!!! The reason i exclaimed was because attending his wedding is a must, as it is a way to show him and his family that i appreciate all his effort in the development of my political structure.

As his wedding kept drawing closer, people kept asking this my PA if i will attend his wedding and he said "Sure!!! That if i don't attend, who else will." Come 20th December 2020, as i prepared to travel to my hometown; i made sure that my security detail were re-armed to the teeth. Note, this was just standard protocol because of the festive season and series of events i am due to attend. Secondly, as at this 20th December, i have already forgotten the message of the Seer and was just happily looking forward to spend time with my family.

I arrived my country home for Xmas and there were tons of visitors trooping in right from the day i landed till i left home. However, i noticed that one of my kinsman was so interested in knowing if i will attend my PA's wedding. I told him yes and he pleaded that i allow him join my convoy with his car, so we can go to the wedding venue together. I said till that time comes.

Come 28th December 2020, i attended the burial ceremony of a townsman and a brother. As i stepped into the hall where guests were being entertained, there was a cheer from the crowd and i exchanged pleasantries with those i could reach. This my inquisitive kinsman still came, sat close to me and ask again if i was still going for my PA's wedding, which will take place the next day. That i should remember his offer to join my convoy, i said no problem.

Around 4:30pm, i started feeling uneasy. i suddenly became cold, my left hand was shaking and i was feeling so sleepy. Like, i was struggling to stay awake. I signaled to my team, we left the venue of the burial ceremony. I sent some of them to go represent me in other scheduled programs for the day while i headed home with the rest.

Immediately i got to my bedroom, i fell on the bed and that was all i could remember. When my wife took off my clothes, i don't even know. I woke up in the morning 29th December to see my family by my bed side. I told my wife to inform my team to get ready for my PA's wedding while i do the same. Surprisingly, i couldn't get up from the bed. My wife had to help me to the bathroom to shower and back to the bed.

On that bed, i remembered the warning of that Seer and one of the sayings of my mom that "No matter how dire the situation is, a lion's cub can never be used as sacrifice." I started laughing. My family members were surprised and considering moving me to a hospital. I told them not to, that i understand what is happening. As i was still laughing, I dozed off again.

I woke up in the afternoon of 30th December feeling so strong and much better. I requested for my phones, which was taken away from me by my wife. Immediately i opened Facebook and scrolled, the first major news i saw on the wall of a popular journalist in my state: "Multiple Kidnapping On the 29th December" at different locations of the state; with one happening exactly on the same route i was suppose to ply to and fro from the wedding."

As i was still reading, my father walked in to inform me that my inquisitive kinsman has an accident and wrecked his car that same 28th December evening, after i left the venue of the burial ceremony.

I thank God for overlooking my stubbornness and keeping me out of harm's way. And sometimes, we need to stop fighting setbacks that happen on our very important days; especially when we have made all possible preparation to ensure a hitch free day. You can never tell what God is trying to keep you from.

This is the story i wanted to share. I leave you to pick whatever piece you want from this write-up.

Thank you

Wowed!
Glory be to God for your life sir!
May the lord continue to keep and preserve you

Kobojunkiee:
What you are invariably saying is that Christ lied when He declared that He alone is Teacher to all those who are His followers, something God also stated through His prophets before Jesus Christ?

So in you summation, Jesus Christ made a false statement when He declared, as God did, that He alone is Shepherd/guide/Head over His entire flock?

Chist is the chief shepherd...
Christ is the head of the church and scriptures says he gave gifts unto men for the work of the ministry... I.e delegation of responsibility...
For the perfecting of the saints...
That's why standing in the ministry offices is firstly a calling...
Every believer is called to do the work of the ministry but some are ministry gifts to minister ry to thr body of christ as he has called them...
Just as he called twelve (12) to work with him in scriptures and 70 also to work with him...

It is well.
I became more careful about making criticisms and absolute statements after serving in leadership roles.

seyz91:
Confirm!

I did already


You Valid Bro!

Welcome Sir

charlesucheh:
I am a catholic, But it is only Enenche's preaching amongst other Pentecostal churches I will listen too and get motivated. I think he teaches rather than preach.

And as for the jet, I'd rather suggest he doesn't buy. just keep it simple and concentrate on the progress of your church members and Nigeria at large. God will definitely bless a genuine and truthful mind. it is well.

As you listen more and study the scriptures by the help of the holy spirit, you'd discover that it's the same God at work in every called, sincere and genuine preacher/ teacher of the word.
One lord, one faith, one baptism!

seyz91:
They have been saying that since my great grandparent been born and here we are today

Get a Bible and See 2 Peter 3:3, 4-end

3. Knowing this first, that there shall come in the last days scoffers, walking after their own lusts,
4. And saying, where is the promise of his coming? for since the fathers fell asleep (died), all things continue as they were from the beginning of time...

Read till the end...

That Colon cancer and whatever caused it is cursed!
Strangers shall hear and come out of their hiding places!
it dies and dries up from its roots in Jesus name!
It is well with you, spirit, soul and body in Jesus precious name!

It is well with you in Jesus precious name!

I was wondering why the emphasis of their ages on the topic until I saw their picture...
Chai.. Naija

Glory!

AkupeMBANO:
That girl earned my respect with that reply.

Same here Sir

AkupeMBANO:
That girl earned my respect with that reply.

Same here
I'm sure he was surprised to get such reply too

nomenclature:
She was a nice person or you were a simp?you overlooked the rudeness

LOL. Not really. Left it @ the friendship level even tho @ some point she directly said she wanted more than friendship. Couldn't place why the initial rudeness. Sadly, she wanted to sweep the rudeness incident (happened more than once) under the carpet like it didn't happen and that posed some serious red flag for me...

Daniiel:
dear is still better to be wonderfully made than fearfully made ... but I found most times pretty gals are usually lonely ... I guess that's a cross for dem to bear.

Fearfully made. Lolz
Una no go kee pesin with laff for this platform.

Rozcol:
You are right, I'm not good at essay writing but good at sciences but atleast you can comprehend my poor writing lol. Correct me anywhere necessary.Thanks

Woah. Nice

Rozcol:
That's how it is most times,it pops up in in the way you react to people few times and you sometimes loose it,you just want to be accepted like every other person. Its crazy though

True. It's to give people the benefit of the doubt, Sometimes they're going through stuff

Rozcol:
Most times its the low self esteem playing its ugly head but been misconstrued as rude,you will never understand except you wear the shoes

I get.
Met someone like that. Initially tot she was rude cos of her response but later discovered she's a really nice person

One good reason why a personal relationship with God and self discovery /development is very important. Some beautiful ladies are very rude cos of everyone making passes at them while others have very low self esteem which makes them fall into wrong hands.
A well balanced individual is bae

NairalandDoctor:
the life balance bro na you no stand well

I bin start learn this forex o. But the thing been get as e be. Like we were the ones the teacher was cashing out on

The boldness of the bandits is surprising

DoubleFingers:
@Salt06,
Of course, I believe in God na!

But, my brother, if it is deep seated peace and conviction like you said, I'm more than convinced with a very very relaxed mind alloyed with peace that she's my wife.

Moreover, I'm not the type of guy that is swayed by "love" or overhype of emotions, thinking it's love... No!

I see reasons to love a woman.

That's good. if your fiancé holds same conviction then you can fast and pray in agreement and undo the plans of the enemy

DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Thanks.

Mods, please help a brother.

Divine validation is important if you are a believer, however it may not always come in a spectular way- like open visions, tranches etc its likely to come as deep seated peace and conviction...

femi4:
he's looking for a boy child. Don't blame him

The people who accused him have apologized but people would quickly believe and hold on to evil than good- a reflection of their hearts.


Apostle Suleman has children- a son and daughters.

Lovely. his mom also reacted to rumors that she is from India, she said- I am a nigerian o... Lol
God bless our parents

As obtained from his Twitter account, he was pictured with his wife and parents at his recently celebrated birthday

Timarodear:
As a guy, can you allow your GUY(male) friend sleep on your chest?‚

Blood of God!
For wetin!!!
E want make Amadioha strike am dead?!

Happy Birthday Sir...
More Grace to bless more lives

Casalindal:
Drop your account number so I can breath

Access Bank: zero 7 two 5789 zero two 4

Thank you

Happy Birthday to you Sir