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Orikinla:
Makeup is to impress the public. Her husband has seen her without makeup before asking her to marry him.

so what?

The make up is too much tho.see as the make up artist cement her face.kiloletoyen.too much of everything flops

jimmayoy:
Birds of the same feather. women and murder since the days of samson and delaila.

back to sender

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California30:
Sorry.
I meant black faces.

Their faces are dark.

that's because they wore something like black masks on their faces na.at least you can see his nose

California30:
Do me a favor.
Zoom the picture & look at their faces.
Now tell me how whites will have white faces.

are whites supposed to have black faces

cococandy:
Okay. But I didn't mean it to be funny sha.
You know nairaland has spoiled us. Nobody knows when you're serious or joking.

When parents treat their kids with such lack of love and say cruel things to them, it affects them when they get older.
Now they will either see all women or men as wicked.

it's true

It'll make and innocent post look like a mischief maker

California30:
Fat lie from hell.

These guys ain't white.
Let them first of all know that Africa is a continent not a country before they know the color of the Nigerian flag.

These guys are Nigerians living in the U.S

Prove me wrong.


Modified.
This is an award winning Photoshop, look at the flag, you can only deceive ignorant Nigerians.

I'll prove you wrong. Zoom the picture and look at their hands.they're white ignorant racist

Tee1branson:
I am trying to understand you.

I have contacted my oga at the top and he said you should go ahead and not let your wife know about it at all.just give her what she wants in her father's bedroom

You need nairalanders permission for your landords daughter to HAVE A PIECE OF YOU?

I hope when you swell up her belle and katakata burst you will not enter nl to write stories that touch of how your landlord is forcing his daughter on you as second wife

Let me help you take permission from cococandy

Ahen nne cococandy bia o.this man and his friends wants to give his landlord daughter some sugar.should he go ahead?

I've told him also not to Inform his wife too

cococandy:
Ha an
What's funny now?
Iya wura.

your mummy issue quote was what I found funny

cococandy:
It's sad but just move on.
I can bet you your mom isn't having it rosy wherever she is.
And it sounds like her love for you guys has died.
Kpele.


You're bound to have mommy issues now looking at that bit of your post.
but don't let them cloud your sense of reasoning in making something out of your life. It tough to be rejected by a parent.
But You'll meet a great woman who will erase the bad experiences from your mind.

cococandy:
Yea. Like I said before the issue is that there are different men.

But even if it was only one man, I'm sure folks would still complain.
In fact even if it was 5yrs after they would still complain. One boy was complaining here a few days ago how the mom is dating again after the died (he's been dead for yrs according to the post)

It's in our blood to police women right into the grave. After she's been buried, her spirit still has to live by some 'societal rules' made by society. AKA misogynist men and women too weak to say 'this is not fair'.



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Singing #

Black Black black sheep have you any wool? Yes sir yes sir 3black Wools.one for the master, one for the clay and one for the little boy that lives down the lane

Black Black Black sheep








Truckload of BALDERDASH


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Nawaya o.no more ghana booties for you.rip

SmooshCHN:
To all those who keep saying "marriage is not for everybody. Remember you came into this world through one. It's nobody's fault you're selfish and cannot sacrifice your ego or exercise patience and understanding or even can't afford yourself some dignity and self respect.. It takes two understanding mind to tangle in marriage. Marriage is essential for every thinking human you can say "Some people are too selfish to give their all". Wish the couple happiness though.

yinmu.story story.

Anyway congratulations to the couple. Happy married life to them and I sincerely hope they won't join the igando customary court rascals who divorce over amusing things.by the way this makeup is too much on the bride

AikayDaWrapper:
let the dead not disrupt the life of the living.

The man has died and 6 months is more than enough. I even think it's too much.

gbam and op if you're still not happy with the men she's bringing home you can start by doing what those men are doing to your mom in the barroom then the men won't come again

cococandy:
It all depends my brother.
I know that personally for someone I loved, a few years won't be enough to mourn them.
I even say that as young as I am now, if something were to happen to my DH, I won't marry again. Doesn't mean I won't move on eventually. But I won't judge people based on my own standards.

OP said they didn't have a good marriage. Who knows if they are even his real parents abi the story is copy and paste. We dey here dey tear our dross.

Anyway a Bad marriage could mean a whole lot of things. Cheating, beatings, etc etc. In light of that, I think 6 months is a befitting respect period. If I was in a bad marriage and Couldn't leave because of reasons best known to me, the man dies, I would mourn like two weeks and moved on to the next bobo. (make dem sue me)

Talking about tradition, I've seen men marry 6 months after their wives died. When did they court the lady? Yet people come to their weddings and rejoice, wish them well and pray for them.
Now mommy is dating and the heavens want to fall. Somehow she must have killed the man according to majority of posters here. I wonder why I never hear that when a man's wife dies and he decides to move on so soon.

That's one skewed tradition. As are most anyway.

no mind them

Awon oni yeye

CORRECTMAN78:
Nawao! I bow for your kind of advice. "She should face her front and mind her business"? What else could be her business aside her mum's welbeing which of course affects her's and that of her siblings? You would want her to leave her mum unchecked in the face of this terrible twist, so that if her mum dies 2moro she and her siblings will become orphans? No nah.

I rather sugest she advice her to remarry asap.

because his mother's a kid who doesn't know what she's doing or what she wants.me sef I juru for you. nawaya

AheadMarket:
Don't you read the part of the bible that says 'untill death do us part'? If I'm ur mum and u disturb me, ill disown you. Nonsense!!!

seconded

Captainswag225:
he is dead we all know that but if she really loved him,,, am sure she would have waited longer than 6 months

lol.Lord have mercy

Is it the duration of the months or years that she used in mourning that Will show or prove how much she loved her husband?

Captainswag225:
its morally wrong. Unless she lost affection for her man before his death.....coz no one will easily move on like that after the death of a person he or she loves dearly.

don't you understand the meaning of death? He's dead physically hence all ties with him too are dead.wasting emotions on a dead man e.g visiting tombs of dead husband like we see in nollythrash is like pouring water Inside basket. He cannot hear feel see think understand love eat.everything human about him is DEAD

sukkot:
Well thats how you have to live your life all across the board. dont pick and choose what aspect you want to be ' we are born free to do whatever we want '. if your daughter decides she wants to be a porn star you just have to go with it cuz its her life. well thats your cross that you have to carry bro. its a heavy cross to carry and i hope you have a strong back cuz complete freedom and hedonism has been the downfall of many.

I have no problem with that

coogar:
so adultery is morally correct?



just because you are an adult does not always mean you would make the right decisions every time . stop assuming that all adults have a functional brain.

adultery?? When the husband is a dead man already rotting? The only thing that gives a woman legal right to sleep with whatever man she deems fit is death.she's under no obligation legally or religiously to be faithful to him because he's a dead man.the dead and the living have nothing in common again

kaeforum:
Let her enjoy her life ni, has she scolded you for all the men uv been sleeping with.?

I taya o

fortune1968:
so the mum wayward behaviour is not part of his issues ?

no it's not .his problem is getting a house and getting a life of his mom

sukkot:
since its a free world and its your daughters life you will not mind if she tells you she wants to be a paid prostitute for profession ? i mean it is her life right ? dont be a hypocrite now. its her life. she is free to do whatever she wants. its her toto. the feelings of her papa and mama who raised her is inconsequential. she is born free.

I can only advice and inform her of the repercussions of her actions. The ball is now in her court. Her private part is her private part not mine so I can't dictate to her what she decides to do with it however whether she chooses to listen to me or not is definitely up to her

coogar:
even if they were living in a bunker, the whole city would soon know that the mom is a neighbourhood whöre. if she doesn't talk, the men taking turns on her would talk about it. it's unfair on her kids!



they would be concerned!
a whöre has now opened a shop in the neighbourhood & trust me......some of the men she's sleeping with would be other women's husbands.



so what makes you think the kids in that house aren't little & impressionable? a widow of 6 months is already bringing different men into her bedroom for cheap sēx & you don't find anything wrong with it?

sambarry, your moral compass needs spiritual deliverance.

and what's her buisness with what people say and don't say? Is she committing any crime that the court will prosecute her for. This men WILLINGLY walked into her home. She didn't invade their houses to FORCEFULLY DRAG THEM TO HER HOUSE TO SLEEP WITH HER.theyrr adults with a functional brain who know what they're doing

sukkot:
thats the problem with people like you. you actually think you are born free. you think you are born to do whatever you feel like doing just because you exist. you dont know you have a spiritual mandate as to why you are alive. then you start wondering why people die at the age of 40, 50 and 60. its cuz you are not fulfilling your spiritual mandate. you are not here to do whatever you want. you have responsibilities in life and you have people who are attached to you or who depend on you so your actions have consequences that reverberate in the lives of many. you need to change your attitude or you will not end very well

this world is a free world its human beings that use religion and culture to cage their brain.i have a daughter and i can't imagine her telling me what to do or what not to do in the house i use my money to rent.it is her that will leave the house for me.

Bob Marley said free yourself from mental slavery.if you have done your responsibility to your kids as a mother and they're now adults old enough to fend for themselves but are still living with you for what ever reason it's either they mind their buisness or get their own place elsewhere

klax:
You don't need to be sad the revelation if your dad's death us shown to you. Your mum and her lover need to explain what killed your dad. And I guess you are a guy or lady because can't check your profile but u were you that new lover us about to loose one of his arm or leg definately becayse nobody under the heaven will beg me not to injure him to damage point that is it because I will surely belief he killed my dad to have his way but for your mum i reserve my judgement till later.

the question is is he the one paying his mother's house rent?if not he has no right under heaven and earth to determine or dictate who comes to the house and who doesn't and what she does in her own bedroom. If he's not comfortable with that he can leave and go and rent his own house elsewhere

Yes single parents need to be discreet about their sex life around their kids but for crying out loud that's her house so she can do anything she feels like. It's the grownup children that should dust their shoes and leave the house to get busy if they don't want to see irikuri

sukkot:
brother, you are a product of a lost generation. there is such a thing as dignity and respectability. your kids should never ever see you yanshing their mother talk less of strangers. your kids have to look up to you as some hero who is infallible. seeing your animalistic nature is out of the question. if you want to yansh strangers, go and do it in their homes and not a home where your kids are. thats just someone who has no regards for his children or does not care how he or she is viewed by their children. thats a person with no dignity. their lusts is more important to them than their dignity. you are as strong as your weakest link so you have to ensure you have no weak links.

coogar:
so you actually agree there's an issue?
a woman bringing multiple men into her bedroom 6 months after losing her hubby is an irresponsible woman.

yeah, i said it....



nah - the mom's business is the kids' business. how many kids would be happy knowing their mom is a neighbourhood whöre?

men of all shapes & sizes strolling into the house to take turns on their mom? do you guys actually realise gossips & whispers would go round & one day someone would use the mom's promiscuity against the kids?

still it's none of their buisness. Its not like theyrr getting married to their mom abi are they living in face me i slap you that news of a woman's sexcapades will be a topic of gossip.

Person wey leave house 6.30am to work reach house after 7pm tired after going through hold up go get time to be concerned about who the woman's sleeping with and who she's not sleeping with. Same with her kids

The only time I'll have and issue with that is when the kids are still little and impressionable.if they're adults she doesn't owe them explanation on what she does with her sex life

sukkot:
hell yeah. i cant respect that nigga anymore after that. he no longer my dad after that. he just a horn-y ol nigga giving me instructions

the people you're referring to are adults who have achieved something at their own level and age.They are not babies so what's the point? When is not that you'll die in your father's house. As a matter of fact if you're serious about your life you'll be less bothered about whether she has sex or who she's having sex with