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Lord have mercy. 5minsmadness what are you on about? This thread has been thoroughly overflogged and everyone's conclusion is TO EACH HER OWN

Lilimax:

dry joke.anyway exercise is good for them.they'll shed a little weight with the vibrations they're doing

fellis:
Of course women are supposed to submit to the will of men.
Everyone knows that women are mentally rétarded air heads not capable of thinking for themselves so they have to submit to male instructions instead of deciding what to do by themselves.

Let the show begin

Seen.


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Waiting on the bad belles

Haters of women doing well for themselves
people infected with the incurable disease of jealousy,bile and a loose mouth

Awon enemies of progress una food don ready o

EfemenaXY:
My thoughts?

No. 4 I'll grudgingly do (yeah, no one's perfect) but No. 5? Certainly not! Why should I be the one praying for him to do the right thing? Is he a child? How can he claim to be a "man" + head of the home, but yet let his JT override his sense of reasoning?

@OP: abeg talk another one jare. See, that attitude of fast and pray for him...he's not doing it with his clear eyes.... yardi-yardi-ya is part of the reason many many women are diffident, meek, not to mention un-confident. I mean how does this work? I mean really work? What I'm picturing in my mind's eye is Oga rolling over lazily in bed the morning after, all bleary-eyed and smiling smugly to himself after his hot night out with Mistress A - while madam in her oversized white-garment robes prances around the house in her barefeet, candle in hand, holy water & bible in the other hand, speaks in tongues cursing Mistresses A, B, & C but pleads for the holy ghost to descend on Oga who by the way, is still in bed happily reliving his escapades.

Talk about giving one's self high BP.

Women should learn to be more assertive in relationships be it marriage / dating. Have borders that can't be crossed. Men do. So why can't women? Set standards for yourself, of what is acceptable, what is "manageable" and what is a definite no-no. Until then, many women would continue to suffer in silence.

take 5.you have talk am finish

Sexualization of children. Soon pedophililes will storm here

Blazay:
Actually, I am happy for her. Or should I say them.
Taking 'baby' steps to civilization.
It is common for Hausa peeps to lead themselves across the street.
I used to see a few 'bambi-allahs' or 'gbomo-gbomos' do just that while begging for money or trying to kidnap little children in large loin-clothed suffocating cow-skinned bags from street to street.
If the gesture can be extended to women who can see with all hands and feet INTACT. . . I rejoice. Very romantic.
From chopping off hands and feet for adultery to leading their women with protective hands on their backs and buttocks. . .to the other side of the road WITHOUT KILLING THEM or using the women as donkeys or mules THEMSELVES to transport merchandise across the streets while sitting on them?

[size=20pt]Somebarry please shout J-J for Jehovah Jireh!!! [/size]


The only problem?
I wish she will experience that kind of basic'chivalry' in Hausaland, Nigeria.
Not just in London.
All well and good sha.

Please, rock on. "Awusa" peeps in London. . . you have a lot of catching up to do.

Small-small. . . una go reassssh dia. Amen.

Rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrran-ka-de-de ma!!!

byvan03:
If there is no seller, there won't be buyer either .

hahaha that's true. Ok you win

edwife:
This thread says it all.Why was she blamed then if she isn't at fault?

https://www.nairaland.com/2688718/want-save-relations-him/1#39364364


cc Sambarry?

I rest my case.court dismissed. Oro ti pari

byvan03:
I get you kulyie, assuming the girl is ignorant of his marital status but majority are aware. You see some wives begging these girls not to destroy their homes yet the bangers will scorn the poor woman and continue without empathy. If this woman goes wacko and decide to chop off her husband's head with a Samurai sword, I expect two heads, the Cheat and the Cheatee .

These girls are inexcusable, they are part and parcel of the infidelity and therefore shouldn't be excused with the usual cliché " she made no vow to be faithful to you ". They have to partake in any consequences the scorned wife decides to met out if she so desires.

my dear i want you to understand that if there's no buyer there won't sellers

Develop a goat ears

edwife:
You know who i pity most? The groom.

I bet he has no idea what's in store for him.

he will be awakened by a rude shock when he realizes the can of worms being hidden from him.


Poor boy

byvan03:
Once the girl in question isn't under aged, she should take equal responsibility as the man. She is as guilty as the man, on what basis do you classify right or wrong? Everyone cannot measure with your yardstick.

These girls cannot be excused, if the man will serve any penalty, they should serve same. If you are going to condemn evil, do that on both sides. You can't tell people how to react to spousal infidelity, they will react as they deem fit.

the girl follow them make vow? She has nothing at stake.it's the man that's responsible for the vows and mind you there are some married men that lie that they're single just to get into the honey pot and the wife won't understand that the man lied

edwife:

the elders say respect is reciprocal.you turn the guyman to second fiddle yet you want him to be dishing out money for wedding. It serves all the parties involved right

edwife:
This here was the best part for me!This man deserves an Oscar for this genius speech.


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Lobatan!

gbam.the man has done excellently well

You can get season 3-5 i n any movie store in Alaba.it'll take you a while to get it but you'll definitely get it

Nigerian graduate

naijafella:
Busy ke, abi consolation?

your opinion, her life.

That's what happens when a woman has a healthy self esteem and her marital status doesn't affect her in anyway


N.b quote me for nonsense and end up barren

dammytosh:
She might have been deleting the incriminating ones.

Do you think she will leave texts like

"I am so hor...ny right now " and show her hubby ?

from the look of things it's just innocent or harmless friendship however Op

SHINE YA EYES VERY WELL before you get demoted from husband to friendzoned shawty

yomi007k:
Well poo happens...


The step dad deserved a lot of honour but it was never given.

you're right

dammytosh:
To be specific with this case,

What relationship will a sheep and a tiger be having ?

If the guy is a PLAY BOY, with time, he might talk her into what is not and you will be blamed.

all this "How are u ? , "Are you okay ? " is enough for a lady to feel LOVED and after feeling LOVED, OYO is your case.

Reading between the lines, you are not comfortable with their communication, JUST BE A MAN and STOP it.

ere wolaja bekun shey?

Intresting

Op if you are suffering from insecurity or distrust deal with it personally afterall she has been open enough with you

If she wanted to have a taste of his banana she'll be deleting messages and lying to you

Op let the matter go.pretend like you're not intrested in knowing whatever they discussed. When he's ready he'll tell you but if you keep pushing it that's when he'll not feel obligated to tell you. I do the same too.if I don't want my siblings to hear my phone conversation I tell the caller I'll call her back.it's When my siblings keep pushing me I just get pissed and tell them to drop it. If they leave me I just naturally feel compelled to tell them

Abeg someone should fire me secret lovers by Atlantic stars

Orikinla:
Makeup is to impress the public. Her husband has seen her without makeup before asking her to marry him.

so what?

The make up is too much tho.see as the make up artist cement her face.kiloletoyen.too much of everything flops

jimmayoy:
Birds of the same feather. women and murder since the days of samson and delaila.

back to sender

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California30:
Sorry.
I meant black faces.

Their faces are dark.

that's because they wore something like black masks on their faces na.at least you can see his nose

California30:
Do me a favor.
Zoom the picture & look at their faces.
Now tell me how whites will have white faces.

are whites supposed to have black faces

cococandy:
Okay. But I didn't mean it to be funny sha.
You know nairaland has spoiled us. Nobody knows when you're serious or joking.

When parents treat their kids with such lack of love and say cruel things to them, it affects them when they get older.
Now they will either see all women or men as wicked.

it's true

It'll make and innocent post look like a mischief maker

California30:
Fat lie from hell.

These guys ain't white.
Let them first of all know that Africa is a continent not a country before they know the color of the Nigerian flag.

These guys are Nigerians living in the U.S

Prove me wrong.


Modified.
This is an award winning Photoshop, look at the flag, you can only deceive ignorant Nigerians.

I'll prove you wrong. Zoom the picture and look at their hands.they're white ignorant racist

Tee1branson:
I am trying to understand you.

I have contacted my oga at the top and he said you should go ahead and not let your wife know about it at all.just give her what she wants in her father's bedroom