ExcelNG:
Is it me or does all these stories have propaganda smeared all over it?

Who are the unnamed persons that gave this NNPC gmd the MONEY?

Are they ghosts?

HOW DID THE MAN GIVE UP THAT MONEY SO EASILY? How did the EFCC get wind if where the money is?

Of All places to hide that kind of money, it is in that rickety house?

Or are they trying to distract our minds from the epic failure of APC?

Was this man "settled" to frame the past administration?

Because if you are observant, this man is from the North and this people can do anything to hold onto power.

Mind you, am not saying that this money may not have been stolen. But honestly, things are not adding up!

Some mothers do 'ave 'em

What a great man!

WackyJ1:


Yes i was told as much by a close female friend of mine.



I believe number 4 is right. From information revealed to me yesterday by same girl. She has been sleeping with a guy once every time we broke up.. I wasn't the first after her de-flowering rape and there was even another incident after that, that she downplayed.
Her body count is 11 from what she told me.

Samstradam

I tire for u youngns of nowadays!

If she confessed to you she has been sleeping around, then she has been sleeping around! Or if it's you that is putting 2 and 2 together and believes she's sleeping around............... all that ultimately matters is this relationship is clearly irredeemable and you guys should end what you have for both your sakes.

TheSlyone2:

In order not for this discussion to degenerate further, I want to quickly point out to you that there is nothing like consensual rape.

When it involves assault and abuse of fundamental human rights, it rape.

When it consensual, it planned and hence both parties are in agreement to that.

So directly or indirectly, your ex was enjoying consensual sex behind your back. Same goes with the OP.

Oga why are you so fixated about rape victims being devious or laughing at people's back? I never said my ex was raped while she was with me- the said rape encounter was one of her very first experiences and the later consensual sex with the same rapist was way before she met me. She only confided the full story to me after someone tried to assault her again late at night on the street, which brought all the memories flooding back.

I think the OP was looking for people to give him true life advice and not to be telling him he has been decieved.

Apina:

Sleeping with random guys doesn't amount to being raped by random guys or d number of random guys....... Not in defense of the other fellow though, just saying

No what I was trying to debunk is the idea that being raped makes a lady more responsible or even less likely to be raped, which anyone with experience ( except our NL ladies) will tell you is not true and almost certainly the other way round.

In fact if you don't believe me, ask Google "
is a rape victim more likely to be raped again” , this is the first result

https://www.google.com.ng/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=/amp/s/girlsglobe.org/2015/08/04/the-repetition-compulsion-why-rape-victims-are-more-likely-to-be-assaulted-again/amp/&ved=0ahUKEwj47LvRp-_RAhUDIMAKHV9lAdcQFggYMAA&usg=AFQjCNFjtjfwZXvGDjP2rtl9-X-VdkNabA


@TheSlyone2

talking about hypocrisy in women, I love the way Nland victims here are proving the point.

TheSlyone2:

You obviously are not getting the point dude.

Incase you find it difficult to understand what I put t up there, I'll summarize for clarity.

Regarding the statistics, regardless of how promiscuous rape victims could be after the said act, am totally not after her sex life. Rather, am after the intent behind the rape.

Before you call sexual assault a rape, you must first ask whether it was a consented act or not. It possible she wanted the sex and the only way to get it is to put herself in a position where guys will make irresistible attempts at her.

How she responds afterwards will tell much if she's a hypocrite or just a victim.

I hope this helps to broaden your understanding

Bro, you cannot broaden my understanding of the matter; like I said I have been in the shoes of the OP more than once and these include ladies of different races and classes, yet they all exhibited this dangerous streak the OP's girl is showing.

My issue with the stuff you are writing is you keep insuating the girl is lying and in general you keep equating rape with sex when both are actually quite distinct.

Straight to the point the OPs girl reminds me too much of my own experiences- and one in particular that went as far as not only putting herself in dangerous situations repeatedly but actually engaging in consensual sex with her rapist !! (explaining this will involve another thread). Anyway, she and most other girls that were raped early, tend to be quite truthful and do not lie about these matters to the guy they have chosen to unburden themselves to.

So yeah I feel sympathy, but to the OP because I have been where he's been.

Anyway, I do agree with you that a lady who behaves like this does seem hypocritical, but aren't all ladies hypocrites to a certain extent

TheSlyone2:

Gentleman, I passed my judgment based on what he wrote. That's why I made reference to his write up.

Now to the issue. It like you didn't care to finish reading before taking a sweep at my comment. He said this lady claimed to have been raped once and have survived a series of rape incidence in recent times.

See am not after the rape. Rather, am concerned about her consenting to the act "Rape". If you have been raped once, it only normal to take precautionary measures so as to avert a recurrence of such case in the nearest future.

Her own case is exactly the opposite. She was a victim of rape, yet, she keeps paying random visit to all manners of guys... Does that speak well of her?

She may claim she's smart and can handle things. If she could, she wouldn't have fallen prey in the first place.

You know why I think your defense is superficial?

If this girl happens to be the type who learns from her past, your defense would have been justified. Like the saying goes "if you can't take the heat, get the hell out of the kitchen"

Again, you made a bizarre point that everyone love sex. How does this point relate with the recent discussion?

Does her love for sex justifies lying to her boyfriend about her sexual status?
Why can't she go about her search for sexuality with all sense of maturity? . I mean, you want sex, just don't make it seems you were rapped

Everyone love sex, yet we have people who are still virgins
Everyone love sex, yet we have people who after being rapped live a normal life without blaming all incidence of sexuality on their sexual assault.

Research have shown that 90% of rape victims end up sleeping with random guys... That's a fact.
Now, if she so much love sex, that isn't a problem in a any case. Blaming all her incidence of sexual activities on her sexual assault is lame.

It's not by force you must give advice if you are confused and it is not a crime to not give advice.

Even your advice contradicts itself. Imagine saying a girl that was raped will not put herself in harm's way and will behave responsible yet you quote "statistics" that claim 90% of rape victims are promiscuous?

Anyway, in my own experience, those stats you pulled out echoes the truth about how some rape victims try and deal with their trauma and regain the "power" they feel they have lost.

OP, I say to you again, I do not believe she is lying to you but if you cannot live with the dangerous game she is playing, just leave her and move on.

bukiboy:
We always judge people based on our understanding/misunderstanding. if we could stand in other people's shoe and imagine what goes on in their head we will have no choice than to approach people we've judged and apologies to them, care for them and continue to show love to them.

I have met different kind of people, with different mindset about life. Most common rational is for a girl avoid guys after a rape incident, but sometimes that's not the case. we all love sex, we all want people to desire us, we all want to be loved, we always appreciate to hear good comments about us from other people.

My point is we should not be quick to judge others. The girl need a good emotional support.

TrapQueen, TheSlyone2, makydebbie i think we should take about her state of mind rather than thinking she just want sex(we all love sex).

Seems you are the only "grown up" on this thread.

OP, my advice is that with some women, the obvious is not always obvious.

I don't believe she lied to you. I dated and loved 2 ladies with similar stories to this and just like you, I struggled to understand why they were so comfortable with the opposite sex and put themselves in risky situations.

At the end, all that matters is if you are comfortable with her and can live with this part of her character because I can tell you it will not change. Both my relationships ended because of other matters but TBH they would have ended eventually because of that "baggage", or should I say because the young me was bulking under the pressure of carrying the "baggage".

Now I see how envy can truly make people resort to unbridled madness.

months:
The igbo population was more than Yoruba.

No wonder Awolowo devised a means to murder 3 million igbos. We were more populous than them.

Even today, our population is still more than yorubas. Potentially we are the most populous in Nigeria.

Bros wetin keep you, we de wait since

This was written by a man............... who is probably still a virgin.

NetBizguy:
If there are people this economy is dealing with right now I think I'm number one, going that the price of everything has increased 100%, I'm afraid because all I have been living on was the last food stuffs I bought since last year which is about finishing soon, Oil and other ingredients already finished and I was in the market just yesterday only to realize the price of everything has double

I had to buy half the things I needed as that was what the money I had could only afford. Is this happening on the side of everyone else or just my side?

My brother everyone on a fixed salary is feeling the pain, it's like waking up one day and finding out your salary has been halved without your knowledge!

There is little joy at the moment but what keeps me is the belief that hopefully this country is getting on the right track and that after these pains we will see the kind of development serious nations all over the world have been enjoying.

Achuwa1:
There is a big difference between micro finance bank & a commercial bank

Oga keep quiet and stop making noise if you have nothing sensible to add. Comparing running a bank with auditing shows your absence of any financial understanding.

Children of hate that will continue cutting their noses to spite their irredeemably bitter faces......I am sure if he was a full blooded Igbo man from Anambra you would support him with your last breath. I just hope the other tribes you forced into your Biafra are watching you in full 3D.

For those who respect the truth, here are links from all sources on the telenovela that is the 2nd Niger Bridge- 16 years of drama on a project estimated by all contracts to take 4 years max..... how some people can be so gullible is unbelievable!


https://www.nairaland.com/55587/second-niger-bridge-awarded-gitto

http://allafrica.com/stories/200705250558.html

http://www.nigerianbestforum.com/blog/2nd-niger-bridge-chukwumerije-accuses-obasanjo-of-stiffling-s’east-development/

http://www.ocnus.net/artman2/publish/Africa_8/The-Dummy-Sold-by-Obasanjo-on-Second-Niger-Bridge_printer.shtml

https://www.nairaland.com/464148/2nd-niger-bridge-fg-orders
http://www.aka-ikenga.com/2014/03/long-road-to-second-niger-bridge.html?m=1

http://thenationonlineng.net/suspended-work-2nd-niger-bridge-minister/

http://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/159540-apc-igbo-group-rage-suspension-second-niger-bridge-contract.html

http://saharareporters.com/2014/12/19/fraudulent-construction-2nd-niger-bridge-–-another-419-igbo-nation-obinna-akukwe

http://www.premiumtimesng.com/regional/ssouth-east/175127-weve-spent-n10bn-2nd-niger-bridge-far-jonathan.html

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/08/why-construction-of-2nd-niger-bridge-may-be-put-on-hold-for-now-icrc/

https://www.nairaland.com/3527449/senate-committee-works-inspects-2nd

Splashme:
Correction #Vanguardngr

Work on the bridge had started since 2013 with the financing arrangement well in place.

One tribal bigot from Daura actually stopped work on it because the
people of that region belong to 5% who did not vote him during the election

These shameless APC liars are trying to spin this project as theirs.
They should be a limit to propaganda.
Shame on vanguard for being a willing tool to Buhari/APC lies

#The picture below with Ben Bruce was taken from the site of 2nd Niger Bridge where Julius Berger had been working

Oga just keep quiet and shamelessly collect the bridge Buhari will build and finish for you.

No matter how much you lie, the truth remains this- OBJ promised you a bridge in 1999 if you and your brethren would vote for him. You did twice and got nothing. At the end of his term in 2007 when he wanted to install his 'stooge', he came again and promised you the same bridge, this time flagging it off and awarding a contract he told you his successors would complete. You foolishly voted a 3rd time again.

2011 approaches, Ebele who was part of the original lie, tells you how his grandfather named him 'Azikwe' and thus he must fulfill his destiny by building the bridge or face going into exile. As expected, you all sob and cry tears of stupidity with him and vote the 4th time. Ebele completes numerous federal projects in the North and continues his life while bearing his real name. With another election approaching in 2015 he hastily flags off the project early 2014 with new contractors and the same derided PPP initiative of OBJ where the FG contributes less than 30% of the total budget costs. 8 years of Ebele being in government and 6 years of him being at the helm and only 1year does the 2nd Niger Bridge appropriation enter the budget. Anyway work actually stops the next month after the project is commissioned under his watch.

Despite all of this, you and your brethren vote a 5th time for the people who continue to ridicule you.

I do not know or care if Buhari promised you the bridge or not. The fact remains you did not vote for him, so it is not his job to complete 16 years of a ludicrous agreement you have with PDP jesters.

But unlike the friends you choose to keep, "President Buhari" as you call him is a man of his word, and you will only get your bridge because other Nigerians knew better to entrust this country to a man of his word.

So keep quiet and eat your shame.

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”The Judiciary and indeed the Federal High Court must continue to take credit for the success of the last election and the peaceful transition to the new government.
”It does not matter whether it is appreciated by other dramatis personae but I am sure that I am clearly understood by all stakeholders in the Nigeria Project.

And as for this threat- we all understand what you mean sir. We understand what you are telling your cult members. Yes, you people are the true kingmakers- you make and remove presidents. Shebi na you people give Amechi an election wey he no even de on ballot sheet for- a first in the world. Shebi na you people give Odili the immunity only the Almighty enjoys.

Please next time- exercise your discretion and forget about justice; cancel an election that reflects the will of the people and put a stooge that will not disturb you in place. At least I can guarantee you that my brethren in the West will show you how we got the name the wild wild west.

I agree with the so called “Honourable” CJ of the FHC that there is nothing to celebrate- but not for the ridiculous reasons he has given. In fact reading his comments has made me so incensed but has clearly allowed me to see we are in serious trouble in this country and it will take Herculean effort to get us to get to where most sane and civilised societies in this world are at present.

Simply put the man’s sole complaint and argument seems to be they should not be harassed and allowed, like the “Lords” they are, to do whatever they want . The masses don’t have the right to peacefully protest their decisions, the executive don’t have the right to enforce our laws on them- they are the “untouchables”, the only arm of government in a civilised society who should not be subjected to any form of checks/balances and this benefits democracy.

One would have expected that the “Honourable” CJ would be more worried about how their reputation has been sullied by his fellow cult members in cloaks. How a supposedly literate Supreme Court Justice can have 4 valid international passports and claim to have signed an evidence form without knowingly understanding the implications of what he was signing. How this same man cannot be seen as a flight risk by his fellow cult member and granted bail. How his Justices have been collecting bulk allowances in cash- with no paper trail. How Abang is being ridiculed by his peers for not allowing the basic condition of ”fair hearing” which even village people are aware of. Or even how the executive feels no need to honour their utterances and orders seeing them as a compromised bunch of nitwits.

Long story cut short, these are the kind of developments I would expect a Public Servant to be more worried about and not that they are facing mere intimidation which every Nigerian faces in every aspect of our life. I put it to the “dishonourable” Chief Judge that no one can force any of them to give judgements that they are not comfortable with. I as a “bloody civilian” have been faced with police, army, lastma intimidation severally and no one has ever forced me to do let alone sign anything I would not agree with. Let the man resign and give us peace if he knows he cannot bear initimidation and is not bold enough to hold the scale and wield the sword without being a respecter of men

Please read

By Ikechukwu Nnochiri ABUJA—
The Chief Judge of the Federal High Court, Justice Ibrahim Auta, has maintained that recent clampdown on Judges made 2016 a gloomy year for the Judiciary.
According to him, ‘’other than thanking God for sparing our lives, there is, indeed, not much to celebrate.”
Justice Auta stated this in a speech he presented at the end of year/ retirement and merit award ceremony the High Court held in Abuja on Monday.
He said unlike previous years, the court resorted to having a low-key ceremony to mark the end of the year, in view of recent developments in the court and the judiciary. The CJ, however, implored Judges across the federation to rise to the occasion and ensure that the independence of the judiciary was not traded for harassment and intimidation.
Insisting that Judges were being unnecessarily harassed, including gathering of rented-crowds to protest against valid court rulings, Justice Auta said he had the hope that someday, “our society and people will realise the extent of destruction that they have done to the system”.
He said: “One happy thing though is that only those who have lost their cases in court are the ones complaining. There is therefore the greater need for the Judiciary all over the country to strengthen its information services so as to help the helpless judicial officers and the courts.
”This is apt because the moment the independence of the judiciary is completely eroded and judges are no longer courageous to dispense justice without fear or favour, then the society is doomed.
”We must ensure that we protect that which the constitution has given us and insist that the business of governance is done in accordance with the law.
”The Judiciary and indeed the Federal High Court must continue to take credit for the success of the last election and the peaceful transition to the new government.
”It does not matter whether it is appreciated by other dramatis personae but I am sure that I am clearly understood by all stakeholders in the Nigeria Project.
”I, therefore, urge you not to be shaken in your resolve to build a strong and dependable judiciary whose pronouncements will be appreciated by all who go through the portals of our justice administration system.”

Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/12/judiciary-2016-theres-nothing-celebrate-justice-auta/

If this Lady is real, she is easily the most beautiful creature I have seen this year.

cindylaw:


Pls I am confused sir, Can you give me more details

We saw in the evening, 6ish on Saturday, you said you would get back to me?

Madam, you have not responded to my offer ?

I don't know why people rate this Reno whatever he calls himself...... this fake pastor is as much a scam as his Messiah with a PHD in Zoology that does not know stealing is corruption!

Anyway, for people who can read, the table does not indicate the worst university in the UK- as it clearly states , it indicates the percentage of graduates from that univerisity who were able to find a professional job ("professional job" being recognised mainstream professions) after a specific amount of time . 1 in 2 is not the end of the world as those of us who are familiar with that part of London know that most students will be into art & music and the foreigners will go back home. Again, just imagine someone putting a Univeristy in Surulere and being surprised that most people who finished become Wizkids, Sidds, Oristefemi's etc.

I pray God continues to expose this charlatan who has nothing better to do than attack a woman who might not even know he exists. Disgusting.

pchukwudi:
[size=18pt]DUMB. Simply mention just ONE PERSON that was sent to prison for political reasons or for criticizing GEJ or you should simply keep mute forever. [/size]

And who is the person sent to prison solely for criticising Buhari?

Or name that person under Yaradua??

When you are tired, try giving us the people who went to jail for criticising OBJ.

As usual their nonentity of a hero beating his chest over non-existent achievements.

Great decision.

This is the way we need to start behaving in this country to get ourselves back on track.

Another good read.

StOla:


Bukola Saraki claims his grandfather was an immigrant from Mali who settled in Ilorin as an Islamic scholar. If we are to tag along with that story line, then the only thing that makes Bukola a Nigerian is his Yoruba blood.

That same Malian immigrant married a Yoruba woman that bore his father Olusola Saraki, who also married Yoruba women that bore Bukola and Gbemisola and their other half siblings. Bukola too married Tosin Ojora the daughter of Lagos royalty Adekunle Ojora.

The Sarakis ensure to always marry Yorubas but claim they are Malian Fulani settled in Ilorin. Going by the narrative of the Sarakis, Bukola Saraki is 7/8 Yoruba Nigerian and 1/8 Fulani Malian.

However, not a few doubt the Fulani Malian immigrant story.

Like I said, the elder Saraki has a lot to answer for:

www.nairaland.com/564090/saraki-egba-man

but a more complete story can be found from this link from sahara copying the original The News article:

www.saharareporters.com/2010/12/09/saraki-not-kwara-alhaji-abdulganiyu-folorunsho-abdulrazak

Honestly their tale is just another typical story of GREED and AMBITION..... like I said "bastards" ( for lack of a more suitable word) are a phenomenon of all humankind- we have just been smart enough not to glorify one.

tomakint:
Check it Op, you are not a right-thinking Yoruba man.....are you trying to be a funny man or what? Imgine you creating this type of thread like Saraki gives a damn about you....Saraki doesn't even see himself as a Yoruba man and besides we are talking of corruption in the magnitude of billions of dollars all to one arrogant man that can die anytime. Firefire must see this.....total crap. Saraki must kiss the canvas I trust Danladi Umar.

PLEASE- let's make it clear Bukola Saraki has no other NIgerian blood in his veins but YORUBA blood. His Grand father was 100% from Ogun state, his father is from Ogun state and was not born in Kwara- and though we may not 100% accurately be able to confirm who is mum is, there is no credible theory that she was Hausa/Fulani. His wife is YORUBA, his children are YORUBA.

The only thing we can say for certain is that he clearly did not grow up with the VALUES we YORUBA are known for, as he as always been fraudulent despite being born with a silver (or should I say Golden ) spoon and more importantly masks his heritage..... which is abhorrent and unthinkable to any true son of Oduduwa. TBF his father was the one who started the madness and the result is the Bukola we have in front of us.

Anyway as the English say "some mothers do have them" and our ethnic group is no different.

NOTE :TO FELLOW NIGERIANS and neighbouring biafrans

If you are dumbfounded by the unanimous response of the YORUBAMEN above me, always remember that the epitome off being YORUBA is reflecting our VALUES...... that's why the term OMOLUABI means more to us than a 1000 variations off Ezego titles !

These guys above made my day- may all Nigerians always find the truth in their culture.

Tosadel:
Well I don't see anything wrong in asking out whoever you have feelings for, employee or whoever. It is the lady that has issues. It's a very simple thing. Say yes or no and continue with your work and act as if nothing happened. It happened to me thrice and my answers were all no. But that never changed anything. In fact, my Yes Sir! Increased such that they never felt bad about my rejection, it only made them like me more.

Sacking her for now is very immature and unprofessional. Pretend like nothing personal happened between you both. Deal with her professionally. Give her warning letter and/or query(ies). If she loves herself she should change. IF not, FIRE her sharp sharp.

This is a smart girl and is exactly what the lady should have done if she cherished her job. Things cannot remain the same so she ought to have put in more effort into her job and pretend to double her respect for you, not less. In my cases, everytime I said no to them they became sulky and rude afterwards..... young Nigerian girls take rejection like personal humiliation. I pitied them and bore it for a while but it soon started affecting other employees and I just had to let them go.

My last case, where I gave in was even worse personally for me....but that is a long story.

The post above should make you feel that the whole sad case is not your fault alone.

It's funny but I 100% understand you.

I ran a few hospitality businesses and dealt with this scenario over and over again ie. attractions between me and the female workers I had. In most of my situations, the grils were the ones who made moves on me and most of the time I had to let them down gently...but it was never the same and it affected their work. In one particular situation, actually the last sistuation I faced before I left the job, I made the move and I was successful....but again it affected her work.

The truth is when the cat is let out of the bag... things can never be the same...and young Nigerian girls don't take it well.

You have to sack her and unfortunately you are and have to be the bad guy in the story.... I learnt it the hard way in all my situations, even when I didn't give in and tried to let them down gently. Your guilt just means you are human and is the price you have to pay for being a boss who allowed temptation to flourish.

At the end of the day you will find out it is the best decison for you and more importantly, her too.